EP 32 - Guilt Trip: Moms Ride for Free
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Hey Flex Fam!
Welcome back to another episode of Flex and the City! In today’s episode, we’re diving into something that hits home for a lot of us – Mom Guilt. From feeling like you’re never doing enough for your kids to questioning your every move, mom guilt can be a total mindf*ck.
We get real and raw about our own experiences with mom guilt, the pressures of trying to be the “perfect mom” (spoiler alert: she doesn’t exist), and how societal expectations just make it worse. We also talk about how the system was never built for moms to succeed – and why it’s time we stop trying to fit into a broken mold.
If you’ve ever felt guilty for taking time for yourself, doubted your worth as a mom, or just felt overwhelmed by it all…you are NOT alone. 💯
Listen in as we unpack where mom guilt comes from, how we can start letting go of these impossible standards, and why it’s so important to remember that you were a whole person before you became a mom.
Oh, and don’t miss our announcement at the end – we’ve got an exciting guest lined up for the next episode! 👀🔥
✨ Key Topics:
- What is Mom Guilt and Why It Happens
- Personal Stories of Guilt, Burnout, and Trying to Be Perfect
- Societal Pressure & Unrealistic Expectations of Motherhood
- Why Self-Care Isn’t Selfish
- How to Rediscover Yourself Outside of Being a Mom
🚨 Have you struggled with mom guilt? How do you deal with it? Drop your thoughts in the comments below – we want to hear from you!
👀 Next Episode Teaser: We’re bringing on our first guest – Ben Neil, a fitness and lifestyle coach, to talk about health, growth, and building a better life.
Don’t miss it!
#momguilt #motherhoodjourney #flexandthecity #selfcareformoms #mindsetcoach #rediscoveryourself #podcast#mentalhealthmatters #parenting #motherhoodunfiltered
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Disclaimer: We’re two coaches—Ghada, a mindset coach, and Lisa, a fitness coach—here to share our thoughts and experiences. But remember, we’re not licensed therapists, doctors, or medical professionals, and this podcast isn’t a substitute for professional advice from a physician, therapist, or other qualified expert. Sound good? Great. Let’s dive into the episode!
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Capitole
1. Introduction & Banter (00:00:00)
2. What is Mom Guilt and Why It’s So Common (00:02:47)
3. Lisa's First Encounter with Mom Guilt (00:03:19)
4. Preemptive Guilt: Fear of Doing Things for Yourself (00:06:09)
5. Happy Mom, Happy Family – The Importance of Self-Care (00:07:08)
6. Ghada's First Encounter with Mom Guilt During Pregnancy (00:08:39)
7. Pressure to Be a “Natural” Mother (00:10:18)
8. Society’s Unrealistic Expectations of Motherhood (00:12:54)
9. The System Wasn’t Built for Moms to Succeed (00:14:10)
10. External Judgment from Other Women (00:16:19)
11. Lack of Proper Maternity Leave & Support Systems (00:17:21)
12. The Pressure to Be Perfect & Productive (00:19:22)
13. Society’s Shift Away from “It Takes a Village” (00:20:10)
14. Losing Identity and Rediscovering Yourself (00:26:02)
15. Perfectionism Kills the Joy of Motherhood (00:30:14)
16. Building Your Own Community & Support Network (00:34:30)
17. Breaking the Myth of the Perfect Parent (00:38:00)
18. Learning to Ask for Help & Accept It (00:45:10)
19. Understanding You Are More Than Just a Mom (00:48:00)
20. Embracing Your Evolving Identity (00:51:00)
21. Giving Yourself Grace & Letting Go of Perfection (00:55:00)
22. Outro & Announcement of Next Episode (Teasing Ben Neill’s Interview) (00:59:00)
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