I’m Linky! I’m in my late 20s, and I like a lot of stuff. They/Them. Sometimes there’s 18+ text posts/shitposts here, so no minors please.
I draw, and reblog/blog a lot about Kamen Rider and Tokusatsu all around here. Old anime too! (Especially 70s stuff.) If there is one thing you must know about me: Those two things are my lifesblood. I have also been dubbed “Gotchard’s Strongest Solider” by more than one person.
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Even for stones! Like idk I don't strongly identify as stone since objectively I enjoy many positions, configurations, and roles, but like there have been times where i am exclusively interested in giving pleasure by receiving it, and even then, even if I am absolute 100% pillow princess, it is an active sexual role.
Doing it well requires communication--verbal and nonverbal--and a level of mindfulness and presence in the moment. Am I still enjoying this? Is the physical sensation good? If there is pain or discomfort, what do I need to communicate to the top to alleviate it? Am I in the here and now? Does the top seem to be enjoying this as much as I am?
Like you're not supposed to be asking these questions to yourself like it's a worksheet, y'know, when someone's wearing my asshole like a glove I don't need to stop and like poke and prod at these things, but I just need to be willing to ask myself these questions and take action when the answer seems like it could be "no"
At a party a few months ago, I was playing with this doll and had a lovely time--got hit, got fucked, and then got fisted. Eventually she and I wrapped up, but there was another doll I wanted to play with. So I communicated the desire, she was down, and we went at it. But like 5 or so minutes in, I realized I was in a bit of pain and that my hole had kinda taken everything it could for the day, even though i wanted to want to keep going. And all it took was saying "hey, I'm enjoying myself with you but I think shops closed for the night," so we ended up stopping and like doing some lower intensity play and still had a nice time.
If I hadn't said anything, I probably wouldn't be looking back at that encounter with a warm glow, y'know? Like if I let the people pleasing win, I wouldve actually felt kinda shitty and like probably made the top feel like she was doing a bad job when she was doing great! So idk, all that to say, if you can't communicate your needs and check in with yourself about them, you probably need to work on that to be a successful bottom
it's kinda crazy what a common experience it is for like your parents to do something insanely traumatizing to you and then just not remember they did it at all while you remember forever
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