I messages

I messages are basic skills for assertive communication. They help with problem solving conflict in interpersonal relationships. Beyond the "I feel" statement, it can be difficult for some to find the best words to describe the needs they have and the behaviors they need changed from the person they are in conflict with. To assist with conflict resolution, this resource includes a scripted "I message" template along with handouts to help aide the anxious person with language prompts that…

If they don't get the hint after this, we can't help you.

A few years ago, our 3rd and 4th graders were just plain old mean to each other. Half the time, it was coming from them feeling wronged by the other person

Of all of the conflict resolution strategies (or Kelso’s Choices), “Talk it Out” or “I-Messages” or “I-Statements” are my absolute favorite. It is such an incredible tool in promoting a positive classroom climate, encouraging independent problem solving, and developing healthy social skills. These are also an excellent part of a classroom using restorative practices because […]

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