(Scott McGehee and David Siegel, USA, 2024, 120 minutes)
The Friend is a film about a writer, a city, and the loves of her life, both human and animal.
In the prologue, Iris (Naomi Watts, who next appears in Audrey Diwan's Emmanuelle) dines with friends, including Walter (Bill Murray, who first costarred with Watts in 2014's St. Vincent). He's considerably older than everyone else, but they're all literary types of a kind. Walter and Iris are writers and instructors who have collaborated on each other's work. She's also friendly with his daughter, Val (a very good Sarah Pidgeon), product of a long-ago dalliance, with whom she plans to organize Walter's correspondence for publication.
After he passes, co-directors Scott McGehee and David Siegel shift the focus to Iris. Walter remains a presence through Val, his ex-wives Barbara (Noma Dumezweni) and Elaine (Carla Gugino), his widow Tuesday (Constance Wu), and his dog. Watts and Gugino are so good together as women both loved and let down by Walter that I wouldn't mind another film with these two.
Writer's block compounded by the sudden loss of a best friend and mentor can do that. I won't say how Walter dies, but the manner only makes matters worse.
From the start, Watts proves ideal for Iris, because she makes her easy to care about rather than to find her a self-pitying bore. She's also believable as a professor, and her voiceover includes literary references which might come across as pretentious if delivered by an actress with a colder affect.
In Scott Coffey's 2005 micro-budget feature Ellie Parker, Watts played an actress who can cry on demand, which she demonstrates in that film--and this one, too. She really is adept at making ordinary women compelling with the strength of her talents.
The filmmakers understand this implicitly, because Iris even calls out a male student (Owen Teague from Montana Story) for critiquing a female colleague (Annie Fox) for focusing on an ordinary woman--as if that sort of thing was dull by its very nature.
After attempting to make a go of it on her own, Barbara, who isn't a dog person, reaches out to Iris about Walter's dog, Apollo (Bing), who has been so depressed since he died that she's been boarding him at a kennel, except Iris prefers cats--though she doesn't have one--and her building prohibits dogs, but Walter instructed Barbara to contact her about him if necessary. Whether out of a sense of love or duty, Iris accepts the assignment.
The Friend isn't a comedy, but Apollo's conspicuousness generates some of the humor.
He isn't a tiny pup Iris can tuck into a handbag like Demi Moore's ever-present, micro chihuahua Pilaf. Nope, he's a 150-pound, Marmaduke-sized Harlequin Great Dane; white with black spots and heterochromia eyes (one brown and one light blue). Quiet and mostly well behaved, but huge.
Dilemma established, Iris attempts to make things work. Aside from the fact that she isn't supposed to have a dog, her rent-controlled apartment is realistically small. It's amazing how rarely filmmakers feature the kind of units non-wealthy Manhattanites actually occupy--Sofia Coppola's On the Rocks, also with Murray, was a case in point--but Iris has a lived-in, book-filled one-bedroom, which makes sense for a non-superstar academic.
Beyond the practicalities, The Friend concerns the way both humans and animals mourn. Now it isn't just Iris feeling sad, but a dog sharing the same space and feeling similar emotions. Since she isn't a dog person either, she talks to Apollo as if he were a person. Then again, it's how I talk to my cat. I've never understood the baby talk some humans use with their pets.
Iris's efforts don't work at first. Dogs are gonna dog, and then, just as Apollo has made peace with his new environment, an eviction notice arrives before Iris has found someone to take him in. Leaving the apartment she inherited from her father would nullify a once-in-a-lifetime arrangement. It would also mean leaving behind family friends like concerned neighbor Marjorie (played by the always-welcome Ann Dowd).
Throughout the film, McGehee and Siegel chart her course, but never stop to wonder why this attractive 50-something woman is single and childless. Those things aren't problems to be solved, which is refreshing, and she doesn't meet a handsome stranger at the dog park. The problem is Iris's unresolved feelings about Walter as represented by his inconvenient dog.
Towards the end, the film swerves into her fiction. It's a risky gambit, especially since the film has a similar trajectory, though set in a different milieu, as Kelly Reichardt's Wendy and Lucy, in which Michelle Williams' drifter has to figure out what to do with the dog (played by Reichardt's own yellow lab) she loves dearly and can't afford to keep. It also recalls Azazel Jacobs' recent, Manhattan-set His Three Daughters, which culminates in an imagined conversation with someone no longer able to communicate.
It's a reminder of the way fiction provides writers with a way to impose order on the messiness of real life.
I'm not sure the film needs this sequence, but it does allow Murray to return, and he gives a nicely understated performance, though he isn't as prominent in the film as the marketing might suggest--and I won't deny that I lost some enthusiasm for the actor after claims of misconduct came to light in 2022. Walter was also accused of misconduct, which may have contributed to his retirement. As a womanizer, it's possible he overstepped the line, but the question goes unanswered.
Mostly, the film belongs to Naomi Watts, a consistently excellent actress who has done particularly strong work for David Cronenberg, Rodrigo García, Gus Van Sant, and, especially, David Lynch with Mulholland Drive, but it's only so often that she's provided the fulcrum upon which everything revolves.
McGehee and Siegel, who debuted in 1994 with the John Frankenheimer-inspired thriller Suture, adapted The Friend from the semi-autobiographical 2018 novel by Ingrid Nunez, who also wrote the book that became Pedro Almodóvar's The Room Next Door, which concentrates more on an impending death, and her thoughts about our four-legged companions, as voiced by Watts, hit home. Like the regret that I never knew my cat as a kitten. She wasn't as old as Apollo when I adopted her--he enters Iris's life as a senior--and cats of all breeds live longer than Great Danes, but I understand the desire to spend as much time with them as we can, like Iris's wish that Apollo lives as long as she does. No one wants to lose a friend.
It's tempting to say they don't make thoughtful, intelligent motion pictures like this anymore, except they do; they're just less commonplace and don't always turn out as well, but Siegel and McGehee have a lot of experience in this area, and I was also impressed by their modern-day adaptation of Henry James's 1897 novel What Maisie Knew with Alexander Skarsgård as a compassionate stepfather.
The film's third character, in a manner of speaking, is New York, and the cinematography by Giles Nuttgens, who did particularly fine work for McGehee and Siegel in 2001 noir The Deep End, showcases the city to its best advantage. It looks appealing, but not unrealistically so, and most of the people in Iris's life are kind and caring, even superintendent Hektor (Ozark's Felix Solis), who would prefer not to enforce the no-dog rule, but doesn't want to lose his job anymore than Iris wants to lose her apartment.
In a deviation from the novel, the directors introduce a psychotherapist (Tom McCarthy, who directed Watts's husband Billy Crudup in Spotlight), who plays a key, third-act role, which also reminded me of His Three Daughters in which Jay O. Sanders makes a brief appearance that ties things together, while also confirming the under-sung talents of these actors. That film, however, was denied a proper theatrical release. This one wasn't.
In the end, Iris finds a solution. I cried, and you might, too. This is a film that could easily get lost in the marketplace, but I hope it doesn't. For what it's worth, it didn't turn me into a dog lover--though I have fond memories of my dad's huskies--but movies about humans and dogs have always been close to my heart, and of the many films I've seen that explore these relationships, from Vittorio di Sica's neorealist masterpiece Umberto D to recent Chinese award-winner Black Dog, The Friend is one of the very best.
The Friend opens in Seattle theaters on Thurs, April 3. Images from Bleecker Street by way of FirstShowing.net (Naomi Watts and Bing), FilmBook (Watts and Carla Gugino), Rolling Stone (Watts and Bing / photo: Matt Infante), Matt Reviews Movies (Watts and Bing), The Film Stage (Watts and Bill Murray), and Film at Lincoln Center (Watts, Bing, and Tom McCarthy).