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Faerie Sage

@soft-faerie-sage

18+ ONLY!!! | Call me Fae or Sage | 21 | any pronouns | queer

Hello! ๐Ÿ’•

Name: call me Fae or Sage! Age: 21 Pronouns: she/they/he (any pronouns are fine, and my preferences change a lot, so don't stress it)
I'm in a relationship, but I'm happy to make friends in the community! I am not looking for another partner.
I sometimes take a while to respond to DMs -- sorry! Should be better now that I have the app, but I get busy with college and go weeks where I'm not on Tumblr much.
MINORS DNI with this blog. I OFTEN REBLOG/POST KINK STUFF. Blank blogs will be blocked, as well. If I cannot easily tell you are over 18 you will be blocked. If you do not want to be blocked, put your age in your bio or a pinned post. Thank you.
I don't really bother with other DNI bc... I have yet to meet someone who both identifies as a bigot and would respect such a DNI. I also don't expect everyone who likes or reblogs my posts to check my profile first. This means that it's my job to block people who make me uncomfortable, or if I feel like I fit their DNI criteria (eg I'm in a fandom they don't like, it happens, it's fine, I block and move on).
Please feel free to block me if you're uncomfortable with me interacting with you. Curate your online experience, my dudes! ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿ˜Ž
Hopefully I make my values clear through the more serious things I reblog like mutual aid, fat positivity/liberation reblogs, anti-racist posts/reblogs, queer and disabled stuff bc I'm queer and disabled, etc. Please let me know if I reblog something from a blog with stolen content. I am not okay with using people for kink that have not consented to it. I am literally so chill with any kink, but irl consent (ie., idc what you do in fantasy or fiction) must be present. So, like, force-feeding/kidnap fantasies? Not really my thing, but good for you! Reposting videos of people without their consent? Bad, don't do that, that's rude and not okay.
I also post about shows I like (mostly Doctor Who). Sorry to everyone who follows me for Doctor Who for all the kink appearing on your dash. Sorry to everyone who follows me for kink for all the Doctor Who appearing on your dash.
My hope is to post some of my OCs and writing eventually. I would love to RP with OCs or characters from my fandoms (I'm in a lot), feedism or otherwise. DM me if interested!

hey everyone. me and @applepiewindowsill have decided to make a gofundme to get support moving out of Texas/US. We are disabled and trans and the anti-trans bills being pushed right now have us scared.

anything you can give is appreciated. i can provide art or pics if you dm me that you donated to the fundraiser.

please boost and share as much as you can! It would be really amazing if we could make our goal by the end of the year.

Ashildr and Clara had gay gay sex in the diner tardis after leaving nevada at the end of Hell Bent btw if you even care

[Image description: There are 7 images that are screen caps of tiktok user @/chris.irish.rd's video

Image 1: Reminders from a slightly angry dietitian

Image 2: Consuming soy is not going to lower your testosterone, but consistently underfueling will

Image 3: Just because the body CAN function with minimal carbohydrates doesn't mean it is "healthy" or preferred

Image 4: Your brain needs carbohydrates to understand Severance

Image 5: If you're hungry an hour after eating, there is a reason. You're allowed to eat again

Image 6: Food is personal and it can serve many purposes. You don't have to justify your eating

Image 7: You aren't supposed to weight the same as you did in high school or college /end ID]

An enormous portion of fat people are poor, which means worse healthcare.

Rates of fat people are high in certain racial minorities like black people and Indigenous people. These people face racism, which means racism-induced poverty, lack of opportunities, lower socioeconomic status, worse quality of healthcare, lack of access to healthcare, among a plethora of other things.

Fat people face fatphobia, a form of oppression. This oppression causes fat people to face a wage gap, lower socioeconomic status, medical negligence, just to name a few things. There are studies that show that fat people receive worse healthcare, that doctors don't even do the same amount of tests on us because they don't want to touch our "disgusting" fat bodies. We avoid going to doctors until the very last minute so that we won't be subjected to fatphobia in medical treatment, which means our conditions are worse when we do finally see a doctor. We are always prescribed with weight loss instead of actually being examined. There are plenty of accounts of fat people dying with tumors because when they went to see a doctor about pain, the doctor told them it's their fault for being fat and didn't check for anything else.

When a group faces oppression, common ways to cope are things like smoking and drinking. Does the study take that into account?

On top of that, weight gain is often a symptom of a condition, not the cause of it.

And these are just the tip of the iceberg of things to consider when we hear about higher weights being correlated with certain health conditions. There are so many other factors too.

If we can understand how AIDS was mislabeled a "gay disease" when in reality being gay does not cause someone to have AIDS, then we can understand how fat people's oppression and the willful ignorance about causation vs. correlation has medicalized fatness too, another normal aspect of human diversity just like sexuality.

When someone invents a helmet and people who wear that helmet suddenly have an increase in rates of brain damage, correlation tells us that the helmets cause brain damage. When you actually look at the whole situation, you realize that the increase in brain damage is because the people who would have died in accidents have been saved by the helmets, so the increase is from people's lives being saved by the helmets and facing non-fatal injuries rather than death. But if we stop at "helmet = more brain damage," then we never actually understand the real causation and how the helmets are effective and saving lives.

Societies that begin to allow divorce suddenly see evidence of domestic violence and unhappy relationships, so the allowance of divorce must cause unhappy marriages, right? In reality, that domestic violence and those unhappy marriages have existed the whole time. Divorce has just given people the freedom to finally leave those situations, so now we're actually getting to hear about them.

Do we see how correlation does not equal causation and that believing it does only serves to medicalize oppressed communities and actually worsen health?

The original post here is from the woman who introduced me to size acceptance and started me down this path. I am grateful to her for sharing information, research, and tips for navigating fatphobia, including in the doctor's office.

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Reblog or like this if you are a nsfw blog run by a nonbinary and/or queer person who is comfortable with a queer nonbinary person engaging with your posts.

Things I will never ask for (asking for them ruins it) but that you can now do while pretending you never saw my post:

  1. Text me when you eat too much in a non-kink setting. Text me details. Who side-eyed you, who asked if you really wanted dessert, how much are you regretting it now that I'm not there to take care of you?
  2. Text me when you have to stop an everyday activity to catch your breath. Stairs getting harder? I want to know. Tying your shoes suddenly a challenge? Please, please, please share.
  3. Text me when you have a craving you're not used to. When you're suddenly desperate for fast food, or something sweet, or when you realize you hate coffee unless it has heavy cream and real sugar, now. I want to hear that I've ruined you for a healthy diet.
  4. This should go without saying, but text me pictures when something doesn't fit anymore.
  5. Text me when you're hungry outside of mealtimes, so I don't forget that you're slowly getting addicted to the feeling of being full for me.
  6. Text me when you used my pictures to help you keep eating. Text me and ask for pictures to help you keep eating.
  7. Most importantly, text me when you're uncertain. Sometimes gaining isn't fun, and sometimes reality creeps in in ways you can't enjoy in the moment. Text me when you need someone to tell you you'll be ok. Let me do all of my job as your feeder, because you're not supposed to have to do this alone.

hey y'all we're really struggling out here

disabled nonbinary couple with no income in desperate need of some money to pay our bills

cat pic for attention

Any shares would be appreciated

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