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This blog is mainly about fat liberation.

Important tags to filter are "tw eating disorders," "It's okay to eat food," and "fatphobe logic" if you are triggered by any talk of disordered eating, pictures of food, or want to see less of my responses to fatphobes.

If you want to donate to this blog and help support my master's degree in policy that I hope to someday use to improve legislation for fat people, you can donate to my Ko-fi here.

Please note that I have very bad executive dysfunction that makes it severely difficult to answer asks and messages (I have over 200 messages piled up from the past year as I write this). Not receiving a response immediately is solely due to my energy levels and how easy your ask/message is to reply to.

I block a ton of people due to my mental disorders that are easily triggered by many people's urls, blog bios, and profile pictures. If you follow or interact with me, there is a not low likelihood that I might block you, but I do not mean any ill will. If I blocked you, you're welcome to send me a message from a different blog to ask to be unblocked and I might do so.

People with eating disorders who are in recovery, have already recovered, or do not support the glorification of eating disorders are allowed to follow this blog. If you are a thinspo blog or look at thinspo, you will be blocked and reported. My blog is not your starvation hate porn.

People who aren't fat are allowed to follow and interact with this blog as long as you are not doing so for malicious purposes.

DNIs don't usually help much, but please leave me alone if you are a disability exclusionist, transandrophobe (we support transmascs here), any other flavor of exclusionist, fat fetishist, porn blog, thinspo blog, TERF, radical feminist, or support oppression/social hierarchies in any form. If you put one part of a marginalized group on top of everyone else, please leave me alone and respect my boundaries.

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Holy fuck. You people really are just radical feminists with a mask on, huh? And you're somehow proud of this too. Fucking incredible. Blocked. Have a bad day! 💕

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I see so many trans women who are radical feminists on this website. They don't even seem to realize they're radical feminists either, yet they act the exact same way radical feminists do. I've had to see so many trans women radical feminists at this point that I don't trust any post about trans women anymore. Nine times out of ten, whoever wrote it is a trans woman who believes in excluding other trans people from the community, being a bigot to trans men, supporting oppression hierarchies, and putting themself on top of said oppression hierarchies.

If your entire world view revolves around you being the most oppressed group in the world, which you take as allowance to be bigoted as fuck to other people, you're no different than a radical feminist. You're just a bigot who thinks playing the victim card means you can get away with your bigoted beliefs. Please care about other people for once.

You messaged me from a "disk horse" side blog titled "fite-club" where you have a "bad take hall of fame" that's literally just a list of popular trans masc users, and you very clearly found this post by combing through the transandrophobia tag because your entire life is arguing with people on a dying website. I think I'm good, bud ✌️

I see so many trans women who are radical feminists on this website. They don't even seem to realize they're radical feminists either, yet they act the exact same way radical feminists do. I've had to see so many trans women radical feminists at this point that I don't trust any post about trans women anymore. Nine times out of ten, whoever wrote it is a trans woman who believes in excluding other trans people from the community, being a bigot to trans men, supporting oppression hierarchies, and putting themself on top of said oppression hierarchies.

If your entire world view revolves around you being the most oppressed group in the world, which you take as allowance to be bigoted as fuck to other people, you're no different than a radical feminist. You're just a bigot who thinks playing the victim card means you can get away with your bigoted beliefs. Please care about other people for once.

"Trans men aren't targeted by anti trans rhetoric and law."

Trumps executive order to ban gender affirming care mainly fearmongers about trans boys not being able to give birth or breast feed and calls transitional surgery "female genital mutilation".

When we say we are invisible, it's not that we are invisible to the people who hate us. It's that our struggles are invisible to the people who should be advocating for us.

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So glad I get to experience homosexual desire. One life and thank god I'm not straight

I'm a queer person myself. I still think this post is nothing but biased garbage that gets off on flipping the script and furthering divides, especially shitting on fellow queer people who are straight. One life and thank fuck I'm not somebody who thinks it's okay to believe they're superior based on their sexuality as long as I do so as the Correct Group.

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The mention of weight is so fucking unnecessary.

Fat cis people exist.

Fat trans people exist.

Fat intersex people exist.

Fat people of all genders and sexes exist.

Stop encouraging the bullshit, bigoted view that thinness equals gender. You don't have to be thin to be a woman, a man, nonbinary, anything.

Fatphobia, diet culture, and eating disorders are already rampant. Stop fueling them.

Look, this is what moral OCD is like for me:

I walk past a piece of paper. I don’t pick it up because I had a long day at work and it’s very cold outside. This then becomes my internal monologue:

I didn’t pick up that piece of paper, I should have. Don’t I care about the environment? It’s not my trash, I shouldn’t have to pick it up. But also that’s how these things happen right? We place the blame on others as our environment degrades. It was just a piece of paper, it’s not like it can do that much damage. But also how do I know: I’m not an environmental expert. Maybe stray paper scraps are killing the frogs. You’re literally killing the frogs. You should look up how many frogs die a year so you know how shitty you are-No stop it.

I care about the environment, and I recycle and I joined green activism movements but is that enough? I could be doing more. I should be doing more. I should donate my entire check to charity. But isn’t it self serving to think that my one check could help that much? Do I really think I’m that important, how self entitled and-no stop it, reset! You are obsessing and if you fall for it, you will not eat dinner. Let it go.

Okay it’s just a piece of paper. It’s okay you skipped it this once: it could have had something dangerous on it. Yeah that makes sense. But also, that means I’m putting my own safety over trying to help the environment, which is very selfish of me. I’m just one shitty person: god how could I be so self absorbed. I should have picked up the piece of paper. I’m so selfish, and shitty and-no, no, stop it! This is not helpful. It’s fine.

It’s been a long day and I’m cold, that’s not a crime- no that’s being selfish again, you’re making excuses. You’re just a lazy piece of shit who doesn’t care about others, and selfish and God the fact you’re thinking this much about one piece of paper shows how selfish you are, you care more about if you’re a good person than anything else, you’re a piece of shit, you’re a piece of shit, YOU’RE A PIECE OF SHIT.

I get home and open up Tumblr. The first post I see says “if you don’t reblog this post about the environment you’re as complicit as an oil billionaire.” I close my computer and resign myself to looking up the state frog populations until I go to bed.

I don’t eat dinner.

The amount of frogs that die a year is somewhere from 200 million to over 1 billion.

Thank you for mentioning how shitty Tumblr is for people with morality OCD (and most people I've talked to about this don't even care because I guess people with OCD aren't worth caring about. Thanks Tumblr!)

Social justice Tumblr has made me believe that I need to literally kill myself for having even an ounce of privilege and apparently my very existence harming XYZ minority groups. There have been so many times while using this shitty website that my OCD has told me I need to die to stop harming [insert group here]. Thank fuck I'm able to go against that specific compulsion. Let's hope I'm able to keep that up! :)

Tumblr needs to stop encouraging and fueling mental disorders. Morality OCD isn't even the only one Tumblr loves to give people

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These are two incredible search results. I can’t choose what is the worst part: watching and ridiculing fat people bathing like fat people are animals on display, people resulting to ingesting other people’s shit to lose weight because we hate fat people that badly, or someone thinking that it’s possible for a single person to eat 30,000 calories in a day in order to make their strawman argument for why fat people are disgusting, inhuman freaks. 

I fucking hate how incredibly often when I search for fat representation, I'll instead be shown art of thin people either because the asshole artist tagged the thin person as "plus size" or because the artist wrote "fat" in their tags at some point. It is so fucking frustrating since finding fat art is already futile. But this I really just can't:

Their drawing showed for me when I searched "fat mermay" because they wrote "fat ass" in their tags. I'm not going to show the full drawing so that no one can claim I'm "stealing" this drawing, but this is what they called a "fat ass":

MA'AM, THAT ASS IS BONES AND A SHARK FIN. WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!

"I gave him a fat ass"

If you're going to fucking waste my goddamn time, at least do so for a reason. I hate this artist now and I don't even know anything else about them. Though I guarantee you this is also the closest they have ever been to drawing a "fat" person.

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