“I’m having my son in 2 months and I’m jealous of how cute baby girl clothes are” you can put your newborn son in a little strawberry print romper, I swear. he won’t mind. he won’t develop a complex over it, I promise.
It’s so interesting how heavily gendered baby clothes are an extremely modern phenomenon like even in the midcentury period baby clothes were often the same cut and color for baby boys and baby girls but now you can’t put your son in a pink romper and you have to use baby glue to affix a flower to your daughter’s head so everyone knows she’s a little girl.
Return to androgynous baby. Nobody needs to know what that thing has going on except you.
Let the baby decide when they’re good and ready. Tbh.
Did you know there is a biographer of Laurence Olivier who said he had a ten-year-long affair with Danny Kaye (not otherwise attested to be bisexual) and then other scholars looked into it and as far as they can tell he simply made it up because, I guess, he liked the idea of it? If you’re bold enough your RPF can get Publishers Weekly to say that your “critical acumen matches [your] psychological insight”
