People sure like to use the phrase “forcing a view” a lot, but often, I’ve seen this misused.
Someone isn’t forcing anything on you by stating what they believe to be true, with their own evidence, thorough research and reasoning, on their own post, on their own blog. How self-centered to think this. To make it all about you. This is like believing truth, or anything logically pushing towards it, is JUST some scary thing that is “forcing” you to think differently, binding you and “taking” away your ability to think, to compromise, to REFUTE it, or to accept it on your own terms. That….is something for you and another person to figure out. That’s a deeper rooted issue that isn’t my responsibility to get into.
Anyone can say something is true, whether it is or not, without having to coddle you and remind you of the fact that, yes, you can indeed think differently about it because you’re an autonomous human being. That the existence of different thought doesn’t simply cease to exist. It’s not my responsibility to remind you of your capability of thought when you’re insecure about what someone is saying or for what information exists that you don’t agree with—ESPECIALLY when in no way is it being said that someone can’t believe something different. Of course you can. This is always going to be true, whether the merit or value of what the belief is. Someone can be an asshole about it, or say something is true nonsensically, but if you can’t even tell them WHY and HOW, you’re not any better.
There are truths. They exist. There is reasoning and logic, good or bad, rational or irrational. There are things that may not be explicitly truths, but can be supported by evidence and closer reading—this can even open a pathway for understanding of different conclusions if applicable. There are also things that are false, that are not supported, that are intentionally misleading. There are just, straight up personal feelings and thoughts that you don’t CARE if it’s true or not.
Figuring out what is what—that is what discussion and debate yearns to do. Having this goal or having an argument and evidence for anything—this isn’t inherently also a campaign for forcing people to believe something.
Now, if someone was say, invading one or multiple people’s blogs, fanart, appreciation posts, etc.—can’t even get by with talking about something without another coming in and just essentially pining for attention like a child: “Oh yeah? Well it isn’t canon, so."—that’s closer to what "forcing” would look like.
And even then, that wouldn’t be effective or productive for anyone. “Believe what I’m saying on Tumblr or ELSE!”
Or else what? You’re going to go into someone’s brain an alter their thoughts and memories?
Yeah, “forcing”, and not at all closely resembling anything I’ve ever said.
If you believe someone is incorrect about something, but your way of “discussing” this is anything akin to “Yeah? Well well….you’re stupid! You wrote too much for me to read! And you’re wrong!”, and that’s ALL you have to say? That this is something you wrote out seriously thinking “yeah, this’ll show them”? That you somehow believe in your own importance so much that this passes as an intelligent response?
No.
Not how it works.
If you want to tell someone they’re wrong, then you address what they’re wrong about with what is then otherwise the supposed correct thing—even if you want to talk about how rude or irrational they were being. You need to still address what was actually said. “You’re wrong, trust me bro” isn’t going to cut it, nor will just attacking them with nonsensical, insulting comments. You don’t show you know what you’re talking about or that you CAN even refute what they say if you do this.
“Oh I COULD tell you why you’re wrong as I hold ALL the answers, but I won’t share because you’re stupid!"—You just look desperate, confused, and just like the person described above who would be attempting to force their nonsense onto other people.
And you’re just looking to be blocked and stew in your own idiotic bubble.