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@thearomaofsoup

Let's take a moment to rest from our chaotic lives^^

Hi, it's Soup! 🍲🥄

This sideblog features:

Minor interests and hobbies

Random thoughts and rambles

Gratitude posts and stuff that makes me happy ^^

Maybe some drabbles, oneshots, and poems

photography sometimes!

I plan to keep this blog mostly positive, but occasionally, I might rant about things.

Just a blog where I can post more personal, mundane stuff that doesn't really fit my main blog

Other information: All photos are mine unless I say otherwise!
feel free to send me asks about practically anything :-)
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★ my pronouns are she/her
★ I speak English and some Spanish

My tags:

#thearomaofsoup — miscellaneous posts

#thearomaofsoup talks — my rambles

#thearomaofsoup smiles — positive stuff^^

#thearomaofsoup rants — ranting about stuff

I'll likely add more things here in the future

shipping characters who are just friends in canon is more than okay but what’s annoying is when people take screenshots of them touching and say “friends don’t do that!”. i hate to break it to you but friends do hug and hold hands and cuddle. saying ‘friends don’t do that’ is reenforcing the idea that physical touch is reserved for lovers

This made me have a visceral response to all the times when I used to hug or hold hands with one of my old friends, and people used to legitimately think we were dating. 🥲

Guys, holding hands with someone, even if they're the opposite gender does NOT always equal a romantic relationship. Also, idk if this is just my experiences, but holding hands with people when you're really young used to be so chill. Now that I'm older, it's treated as a sign of my relationship with that person.

characters going “we were lovers once”: eh, it’s okay i guess. it’s nice enough

characters going “we were friends once”: absolutely devastating. one hit knockout i’m gone

my insomnia as a kid was so fucking funny i’d wake up my dad at like 3am going “dad i’m scared one day ill stop liking my little pony because i have all these toys and clothes and i love them so much what if one day i wake up and it’s over” and he’d be like “i think something is wrong with you”

This take is honestly so real though because it makes me think of a few years ago where I was absolutely obsessed with modular origami (only modular btw. I'm not going to go too into it, but think of it as making a ton of puzzle pieces and then putting the pieces together) and I bought a ton of paper for it and now I have a box with a ton of paper laying around because at the time I didn't think it was enough paper but uh. It was too much lmao.

So anyway, I get kinda hesitant nowadays to get too fixated on stuff because sometimes I'll get obsessed with something for a month and then it's just over like that.

Where did the sudden disinterest come from 😶

Do you ever write out a multi-paragraph rebuttal to something and then think "actually I do not want to get involved in this" and close it

this is so healthy tho. you get to put your thoughts to words and then you light them on metaphorical fire. cleansing.

Literally did this the other day and then stopped myself because I didn't want to get involved with it

It was a critique about a person's take on philosophy btw

I was thinking, and I think that the biggest reason why I want to express myself through my appearance more is because I desire to not only give others a stronger sense of who I am as a person, but most importantly, I want to be more authentic for myself.

To give some context of how I express myself irl, I have always really enjoyed fashion, but I only have a few items that I feel fit my desired wardrobe. I think what's preventing myself from finding my style is that it's a lengthy process to understand what type of clothing I truly like vs. what I like on other people. I often find myself seeing clothing that I really like online, but once I try them out irl I realize that I don't really like them on myself and that they don't fit my taste as much as I thought they would.

Also, I noticed that a lot of people like to fit into one style, and that's totally okay, but I realized that doing that just isn't for me. I think I could have a primary style or basics that I could wear, but I also want to have pieces that are more unique or lean towards a certain fashion style.

It's also important for me to recognize that as a person, I am constantly changing, even if I don't realize it. I might really be into a certain style, but my feelings could change within a span of a year. What I'm saying is that I want to have versatile articles of clothing that can fit multiple styles, and with that in mind, I have to really consider the basics I have in my wardrobe.

For example, I have a pair of black jeans and I really like the cut of them, but I noticed that they're not something I often wear and I find myself leaning towards wearing blue jeans more, which means that having a couple of pairs of blue jeans would be good basics for me while I'm better off only having 2-3 pairs of black jeans since I only wear them occasionally.

But anyway, to reiterate the point of this post, I think learning that I don't have to force myself into one style is really important because we as people aren't defined by one thing and that I need to be more aware of the constant changes happening to myself and style.

Ughhhh guys I need to bring my sketch book with me more when I'm out.

The only downside is I'm worried I'll get distracted drawing for too long and forget that I needed to prioritize the work I need to get done, which is why I stopped bringing my sketchbook with me.

This morning, I saw a girl wearing a glittery pastel green dress with a green headband and I think a white cardian, and she has long ginger curly hair. Her fit was so cute and expressive, like what??

She was a personal reminder that not only should I at least bring plain paper so I can jot down ideas of sketches, but I should really start dressing how I'd like to more and just to express myself more.

Screaming rn because I want to talk/rant about 1990-2000 romance movies because of how problematic and toxic they are 😔

Literally can't think of one that wasn't toxic except The Holiday which has its many flaws as well.

Don't get me wrong, love how the younger girls story was less focused on romance and more about gaining self confidence but her romance was flawed and the second GIRL AHDKSL why did she fall in love with that man immediately and then make out with him right on the spot 😨 I would have rather had seen her embarrassingly ask him for his number or something because she is clearly into him. It's still an eh plot choice, but it would at least leave room for more development.

Anyway, when I have the time, I'll make a longer analysis/commentary post about it.

As a society, I think we forgot the incredibile feeling of watching a good movie integrally.

We are so used to watching 15 seconds videos on the little screens of our phones that we’ve gotten completely unaccustomed to sitting down and watching a feature film from start to finish.

The care and detail in a hour long movie is just something that could never be put inside a seconds long video. This is what makes each and every film unique and capable of igniting a certain feeling. The location, the actors, the dialogue, the soundtrack, the costumes,each individual shot, the acting itself, they’re all meticulously curated to create a certain effect, convey a certain feeling.

And each of these details put together are able to communicate a concept that everybody perceives and absorbs in a different way. Such complex emotions can never be put or eradicated from a 15 seconds long video.

Aristotle believed that through the vision of a theatrical play (especially tragedies), the viewer could be purified from their inner darkness. This phenomen was called “katharsis” and I believe it’s still tightly connected to our current society and the way we perceive media, specifically the way a well-made movie can make us feel.

Films are incredible ways of grounding ourselves to Earth, of experiencing each of our feelings, of developing our inner selves and of admiring art and craftsmanship.

I love film so much, especially those types or movies that have a more "indie" vibe with their cinematography and how the different shots really elevate the experience.

As someone who is taking a psych course, (and have researched psychology topics for some of my other classes) Aritsoles theory of "katharsis" or cartharsis has been disproven in some types of cinema like violent films, which instead causes the viewer to become more accustomed to viewing violent acts (though doesn't necessarily cause them to become violent though thats still debated) and of course has been shown to elevate feelings of anxiety such as sweating or rapid heart beat.

Despite this, catharsism is experienced when the viewer is watching more emotionally driven storylines. This is especially true when the viewer resonates with the experiences that the protagonist or what other characters are going through. It essentially allows them to express their emotions through connection, even though the character isn't real. (This is a reason why parasocial relationships can develop, but that's a post for another day. Having cathartic feelings while engaging in this kind of media is completely normal and, for the most part, healthy.)

I think that unlike other forms of artistic expression, cinema's popularity is no question. It is able to combine film, music, and artistic elements to portray authetic storytelling, and with the rise of generative Ai, the films in the upcoming future are definitely going to be impacted.

Knowing this, it honestly hurts. I feel like so many people disregard art in their lives and believe that by replacing it, the only flaw is people losing jobs (which isn't really a concern for those enforcing generative ai since now they don't have to pay those people) when people fail to realize how crucial the writers, costume design, actors, and music are to the film.

Art is human connection. We connect with others through making and viewing art. Taking away that connection defeats so much of its purpose. Art isn't just for consumption. It's a way for us to express ourselves with and without using words.

Art is so so important. It doesn't matter if you're "good" or "bad" at it, because its monetary value is not its only purpose.

Btw, Op what did you watch?

(I watched A man named Otto recently, which is why I felt the need to ramble too, lol)

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