you could've picked me

sorry man i can’t hang out i’m busy thinking about how icarus fell in love with the sun but didn’t survive it. yeah man it’s gonna be all day.

This whole thread is cool and wholesome.

something they have control over!!! yes!!!!!!!

My number one tip for straight men (I mean, it could conceivably work for other genders and sexualities, but you’d have to adjust it quite a bit) is: inagine they’re a man.

Imagine that you just randomly told some bloke in a pub that he has beautiful eyes.

That you walked up behind your coworker Jim and started caressing his neck and shoulders while talking to him about the budget.

That you just sent a large and unexplained bouquet of flowers to Darren in Accounting.

That instead of complimenting a coworker on her breasts, you complimented him on his dick.

Does the action now seem weird? Uncomfortable? Do you no longer want to do it now that it isn’t directed at somebody you are sexually attracted to?

That strongly suggests that your action has a sexual aspect to it and therefore probably counts as sexual harassment!

I have a large, colorful tattoo on one arm. I’ve had multiple strange men cross a room to tell me how awesome it is, frequently while I’m at work, and it has never made me uncomfortable.

A couple of weeks ago, someone yelled out a car at me ‘I FUCKING LOVE YOUR BOOTS’, which was awesome.

It’s just… it’s really not hard to compliment people in a way that isn’t creepy, if your goal is actually to compliment them and not to slide a ‘btw I’m thinking about fucking you’ under the radar.

Good advice! Applicable in many ways…..

This is actually pretty good! 

Last week a drunk middle aged man at the bus station looked me in the eye and said “great hair colour there” and kept walking without even waiting to see if I’d heard.

I’m so used to drunk men and middle aged men making comments and had been on edge when I noticed he’d spotted me, yet this guy genuinely made me smile because he picked something I’ve chosen about my appearance, he said it in a way that wasn’t creepy, and he just kept walking and didn’t expect anything from me, he just wanted me to know. It was ideal!

my unpopular opinion is that i hate tiktok because now people just publicly watch loud ass videos in public spaces with no regard for anyone else. 100% it was not this bad with youtube, it’s such a different thing with tiktok. put on headphones. you are grown.

Girl……

This is it! This is what social media/smart tech have done! They’ve rotted away any distinction between private and public.

Yes, we do have the right to make demands on public behavior. Of course we do. Have you never heard of laws and etiquette? I’m not allowed to grocery shop naked. You can’t rummage through my purse. I can’t have a work meeting in the middle of a movie theatre.

I remember when it was taboo simply to answer your cell phone in public. The person answering would apologize and try to go to a more private area. Then public calls were normalized. Then putting people on speaker. Then listening to music without headphones. Do you know how many times I have hiked up a mountain or driven to the beach, only to be met with someone blaring shitty top 40 music from their portable speaker, because Heaven forbid you go one hour without noise?

Old woman yells at cloud and all that, but I can’t believe someone is not only admitting this behavior, but saying it’s a good thing! No one likes you! You’re a menace!

BEING INCONSIDERATE OF OTHERS IS STILL BAD.

It was obnoxious when it was youtube.

It was obnoxious when it was music.

It was obnoxious when it was the radio. 

It was obnoxious when it was dudes wanting to talk to you instead of letting you just read your freaking book.

Do you want to be this guy? Because being obnoxious in shared spaces is how you become this guy. 

Wear your damn headphones like an adult participant in the social contract.

Best art history lesson ever, thank you

being chalant is killing me I feel nauseous

@el-fandom-birb

people are always like "Oh a vampire wouldn't get horny while drinking someone's blood, that's like getting horny while eating a sandwich" and like man have you never had a really good fucking sandwich?

The sandwich i had for lunch didnt moan and scream and squirm against my body and then become limp and pliable when i was done now did it

(Via @morganpdf )

we’ll we’ll we’ll if it isn’t autocorrect

@stcreators event 08: women that will kick your ass ↳ + favorite dynamics

get him nancy

Nancy Wheeler; a webweave [requested by anon]

go my 3/4 view bust up fanart

moritz stiefel should have been at the club. ilse neumann desperately needed to spend less time at the club. wendla maybe could have enjoyed the club but she would have needed some kind of clubber's informational manual first. melchior spent all his time thinking "ugh I should be at the club" but Really Really Should Not Have Been At The Club.

some of you guys havent written to your best friend’s mother telling her that if she doesnt provide a certain amount of money for you to flee to america then you will take your own life and it really shows

I will continue to make fanart for musicals with ZERO demand for fanart

anyways does anyone like spring awakening still

— F. Scott Fitzgerald

been reposting my tumblr posts on bluesky. don't tell those chumps i'm feeding them my leftovers lmao

I AM READING I AM WATCHING FILMS I AM CREATING ART IN 2025