The Contradictions of
Home Life in Capitalism
Marnie Holborow describes how homes are left to provide everything that capitalist society
won’t – care, day to day survival, all kinds of support – and, as a result, home life as we know it, is full
of tensions and contradictions. This article is an adaptation from a chapter of Marnie’s new book
Homes in Crisis Capitalism: Gender work and revolution, which is also reviewed in this issue.
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Marx observed that the capitalist state proclaims individualism as its guiding force, which
draws a veil over all existing social divisions and demands that members of civil society ‘face
one another as individuals’.1 Home is a key construct in this capitalist ideology of the
individual. Home is where personal fulfilment is meant to be found, the ultimate sanctuary for
the personal self. In the Global North especially, where neoliberal individualism rules, it is
where an impossibly vast array of needs and goals are meant to be realised, where personal and
family relationships, intimacy, sexuality, lifestyles and emotional support expect to find
fulfilment. The consumption of goods lies at the heart of this individual dream, now
increasingly accessed online without even needing to set foot outside the home. But there are
millions of people across the world who have no hope of ever owning their own home. People
who live in an increasingly commodified world of high house prices and soaring rents; people
who become rejected as ‘outcasts’ in this home-centred society. The home can also be a place
of violence and control particularly for women and their children. Homes can be a sanctuary,
but they can also be places of deep distress, coercion and control. They are also strangely
hidden places, configured as somehow apart from society, from the economy and from public
life. They are private spaces that play a deeply social role in capitalism and therein lies many of
the tensions, mental health issues and unseen violence that happens behind the closed doors of
homes in our society.
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Homes, work and women
Traditionally, home has been counterposed to
paid employment, despite the extensive
amount of work - both paid and unpaid - that
takes place within it. Achieving the right
‘work-life balance’ – a concept which turns
on a dualism between home and work – has
long been the mantra in business and
industrial relations. The recent introduction
of widespread working from home has
helped to break down this distinction, but
homes are still overwhelmingly viewed as
places where we go to fulfil our needs once
our paid employment has been done. This is
a deeply individualistic understanding of the
home which glosses over its essential care
and social functions. Homes provide goods
and services - cleaning, cooking, childcare
etc- that are essential for the reproduction of
its members, and they also provide, to
varying degrees, for people’s psychological,
emotional and sexual needs. This work is
disproportionately done by women who are
often expected to do what some economists
term the ‘double day’. But these tasks are
also highly inefficient as they take places in
millions of individual units, repeated
millions of times over, across any one
society. This individual multiplication and
mass repetition of domestic tasks has untold
effects in planetary depletion, but it also
results in hardship and poverty as most of the
work needed to care for people falls back on
individual households.
Shelter and keeping warm may be basic
human needs but in neoliberal society they
are also offloaded almost entirely onto
separate homes, meaning there are many
going without heating on cold days or unable
to make a meal. Many older people live on
their own and eat, watch tv, and sleep in one
room because they cannot afford to heat the
others. Society works on the basis that
everyone individually will pay for their
access to electricity, gas, and everything else.
Some sections of the population may be
looked after in publicly provided
institutional settings, others in schools and
other places for some part of the day. But in
general, capitalist society takes for granted
that the responsibility for basic care falls on
the individual household, financed by what
those individuals earn in the market. This
means that many inevitably fall through the
cracks. The growth of charity provided food
banks across many countries of the global
north, and more generally, the huge growth
in the NGO, not-for-profit sector, reflects the
dire shortfall of this individual provision.
Furthermore, the neoliberal retrenchment of
the welfare sector, the marketisation of many
social services, has extended further the
relegation of care to the private domain.
Individual homes are at the hub of what has
been termed the ‘economisation of the
social’, a development whose result is
greater poverty levels and a greater gap
between rich and poor.2
Homes are also places where children are
raised. Children can help to fulfil our most
intimate relationships, but childbearing is
simultaneously of benefit to the ruling class
for it must occur if the labour-force is to be
replenished and reproduced. Women’s
assigned role in this work means that they
often participate in paid employment with
one hand tied behind their backs. They are
still expected to do the majority of work in
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the home even as more and more of them are
also working for wages. Women are being
drawn into labour without society assuming
responsibility for the home care tasks that
they do, and capital doubly benefits from
this: it continues to get care on the cheap and
women are forced to the bottom of the labour
market and can be super-exploited. But
equally, the more women enter paid labour,
the more women’s vital role in social
reproduction is pitted against their
availability for exploitation. Therefore, at
different times in history, capital has
alternated between its dependence on
women’s reproductive role and its need for
more women in the labour force. For capital,
this is a balancing act: for women, it
represents the nub of their oppression. To
understand this, it is useful to turn to the
work of Karl Marx and Fredrich Engels.
Homes in the totality of social relations
Marx’s premise was that all social relations
must be understood in terms of the mode of
production, including gender relations. Marx
and Engels, contrary to common belief,
provided a rather detailed account of the
impact of large-scale industry on gender
relations within the household, and of the
relations between the family and society.
Their framework still provides a powerful
analysis of social reproduction which links
gender oppression to the role of the family in
capitalism. Any limitations in their accounts
spring from their not having lived to see later
scientific, technical and medical advances,
which have made significant changes to both
domestic production and the production of
life itself. Also, they did not foresee the
degree to which capital would later come to
reinforce ideologically the family to ensure
the smooth and more reliable reproduction of
the working class. These limitations
notwithstanding, their basic understanding of
the articulation of social reproduction with
production, and the special capitalist features
of this, provide a comprehensive historical
and material explanation for the nature of
gender relations.
It is worth pointing out here that identifying
the oppression which results from
shouldering the bulk of labour carried out in
family homes does not have to involve
constructing the entire analysis from
empirical observation. This would be to go
against a fundamental principle of Marx’s
critique of political economy, which, as Paul
Cammack highlights, requires grasping the
‘particular’ as part of a rich totality of many
determinations and relations.3 Marx attached
great importance to the concept of ‘totality’
for understanding the nature and significance
of different social phenomena. As he put it,
‘the capitalist process of production is seen
as ‘a total connected process, i.e., a process
of reproduction, produces not only
commodities, not only surplus-value, but it
also produces and reproduces the capitalrelation itself: on the one hand the capitalist,
on the other the wage labourer’.4Marx aimed
to grasp the reality of forms of oppressionwhether that be of women, Irish workers in
Britain, or black slaves in America - as part
of the complex totality of capitalism.
Oppression is not an epiphenomena of class
relations but a specifically capitalist form
with specific manifestations, from exclusion
to enslavement, from misogyny to racism. It
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also follows that struggles against oppression
also come up against capitalism itself.
Understanding capitalist society in its totality
also involves the recognition that those
structures and systems within it, including
systems of social reproduction, are also
subject to the changes wrought by the system
itself. While domestic labour is not subject to
the degree of transformation of industrial
production, because it remains relatively
simple, small scale and repetitive, its
activities do undergo changes due to
capitalist developments and how this affects
patterns of consumption in individual homes.
These affect classes differently. Households
can take advantage to a lesser or greater
degree, depending on their income, of
advances in industrial production to make
some kinds of work in the home easier and
less time-consuming. The extent and
availability of state services can also affect
the burden of household labour across
different economies. Better off women can
afford to employ others to perform care and
domestic work.
But there are also specific developments in
capitalism which have altered the nature of
home life: intensified competition for work,
the increase of precarious contracts, the
absolute and relative increase of female
participation in the labour market, wider
choices regarding childbearing, the
development of reproductive technologies,
the expanding labour market on a global
scale, the impact of digital and internetbased technologies, the expansion of goods
and services – particularly care services and
ready-made food – which have all impacted
on domestic labour and activities. More
extensive working from home, itself only
possible due to developments in information
technology and almost universal access to
the internet, has also altered the dynamics of
home life. This too, despite appearing to be a
choice for the individual, has been
introduced on the system’s terms and we
have yet to see what the social effects of it
will be.
Homes seem like a relatively stable social
unit but, from many points of view, they are
in a constant state of change. The fact that
the work-home relationship in capitalism
l e a v e s w o m e n m a i n l y, t h o u g h n o t
exclusively, bearing the brunt of domestic
labour and also, alongside migrant workers,
often at the bottom of the labour market,
does not require us to theoretically describe
domestic work in its own terms but rather to
grasp it in the specific and changing
functions that it plays for the system as a
whole. From this point of view, identifying
women’s work as uniquely ‘caring’ or
‘affective’ is misleading and underestimates
the changing contexts in which this work is
performed. Administering care, for example
in a situation where the person receives a
wage, takes away its simple resemblance to
‘affective’ labour. Even paid healthcare work
consists of many different tasks professional and administrative – which are
sufficiently varied and part of an overall
division of labour to make ‘care work’ only
an approximative description. Social
reproduction operates, therefore, not on its
own terms, but within the broader context of
capital relations, which vary in character and
composition over time. It is how social
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reproduction processes articulate with the
capitalist system overall, how efficiently and
with what outcomes, that affects how capital
and gender relations are constructed.
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Homes and the needs of capital
Marx places the wage at the centre of social
reproduction for it is through the wage - the
workers ‘means of subsistence’ – that
workers can live, that they can refresh and
replenish themselves, as well as raising a
new generation of workers and caring for
those who are no longer working. The
relationship between production and social
reproduction is that they share the same
social foundation. As Marx puts it, ‘the
conditions of production are at the same time
the conditions of reproduction’.5 But this
does not make reproduction and production
equivalent, either in terms of the
accumulation of surplus value or in terms of
labour processes. ‘People making’ is not the
same as commodity production as it does not
extract surplus value as such, nor does it
involve the same direct exploitation
dimension. Social reproduction is not a given
like capitalist social relations, nor is it the
origin of ‘free labour’ in the way that class
relations are. Rather social reproduction
depends on already existing social relations
and varies according to the changing needs
of capital accumulation. Tithi Bhattacharya
describes capital’s relationship to social
reproduction as one of ‘reluctant reliance’
noting that capital resists greater investment
in the social provision of care services.6
However it is important to note that capital
refuses this, not in an absolute sense, but
because of its own crisis-prone nature. In
certain circumstances, and in particular
regimes, capitalist production has delivered
greater state involvement in the provision of
care services: for example, during the
Second World War in the UK, or in the
former state capitalist regimes of Eastern
Europe, or under Social Democratic
governments in Scandinavian countries.
Capital sometimes has an interest in
socialising certain aspects of domestic labour
and care or investing more public money in
these services. This may be because it needs
to free up more women for exploitation in
the labour market or because higher poverty
rates and lower human capital skills among
its potential labour force may be
undermining its competitive position vis-àvis other capitalist states. Capitalism is not
per se against state support for care; rather it
is a strategic question, influenced by
conditions of capitalist production. Increased
state spending under certain conditions, can
occur. For example, Joe Biden’s 2022 $1.8
trillion Family Recovery Plan may have been
motivated by US capitalism’s need to
rehabilitate its public investment after
decades of neoliberalism. However, what is
generally true in capitalism’s current many
faceted crisis, is that significant public
investment in services in the foreseeable
future seems unlikely, which means that
individual homes continue to pick up the
shortfall and this changes the character of
homes at different times.
Currently, changing household composition
is a point in question. In the U.S, two-parent
families now account for a just a third of all
households. 7 Nearly a tenth of children
world-wide live in single-parent households
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but this is much higher in countries of the
Global North. The U.S. has a quarter of its
children living in single-parent households.
In Ireland, one in four families with children
is a one parent family. Add to this that over a
quarter of older adults in the U.S. live alone,
and across the EU single-person households
have increased. Rainbow families -same-sex
couples, with or without children – and
families with a child or children, who have at
least one parent who identifies as lesbian,
gay, bisexual, trans, intersex or queer have
increased, although there is still little
information available on their numbers. In
other words, a significant shift in household
composition across many countries has
resulted, particularly in countries of the
Global North, in a gradual displacement of
the male-headed nuclear family. Many of
these changes have coincided with the
growth of women of all ages in paid work. In
the OECD countries, the percentage of
women in the labour force now hovers
between 50 and 60 percent, up from 40
percent fifty years earlier, driven mainly by
many more married women in paid work.8 In
Ireland, we have seen the numbers of women
in the workforce jump upwards by more than
a fifth in the last thirty years; in 2023 figures
from the World Bank showed Irish labour
force participation rates among females at 60
percent, just 10 percent behind that of men.9
And, despite this, women still bear a
disproportionate burden of unpaid domestic
work. In general, they carry out at least two
and a half times more unpaid household and
care work than men.
Abolish the family?
The pressures of individualised care and
domestic work have led some to simply
argue that the family should be abolished.
This expresses a level of frustration with the
deep systemic nature of oppressive gender
relations in capitalism; it is part of a current
revival of radical utopianism which has
emerged in response to the many social
crises of our times. US feminist, Sophie
Lewis, calls for the abolition of the family
through ‘a womb revolution’, part of which
is to legalise and make socially acceptable
surrogacy, so that women can avoid
pregnancies altogether and still be mothers.
The track record of the ‘natural family’ is
such that, for Lewis, a ‘counter social
reproduction’ is needed in which the
techniques of dependency and renewal are
‘radically and relentlessly overturned’, the
kinship surrounding the family broken, and a
new social order created beyond capitalism
and patriarchy.10
Radical feminist, Silvia Frederici, too, calls
for us to ‘extricate ourselves from the
family’, return to ‘more extended types of
families, built not on blood ties but on
friendship relations’, and refuse to be
suffocated by the family by ‘denuclearising’
it’.11 Anti-work feminist, Kathi Weeks, also
calls for abolition of the family so that sexual
relations can be revolutionised through
challenging the heterosexual monopoly on
marriage and the traditional couple form
through disrupted, non-monogamous,
polysex relationships. She admits that these
alternative relationships can often become
distorted in the prevailing individualism of
our neoliberal societies, but she argues that
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deconstructing the social norms of sexual
relationships must remain part of the
abolitionist political project. 12
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But radical utopianism has its limits. Marx
and Engels, it is true, referred to the abolition
of the family both in The Communist
Manifesto and in The German Ideology,
where they wrote of the need to destroy the
family ‘in theory and in practice’.13 But they
also believed that this could not be an
abstract ‘theoretical’ denunciation and that
more progressive alternatives actually had to
be built. The institution of the family had to
be grasped in its social entirety, and changes
in it required a change in social relations. In
The Communist Manifesto, Marx and Engels
situate the family, first, in relation to the
bourgeois, property-based family. The
‘hallowed co-relation of parents and child’
they deem blatantly hypocritical as the
bourgeoisie applies the sanctity of the family
only to their own class. Tearing working
class children away from their families and
using them as the ‘simple articles of
commerce and instruments of labour’ did not
come into it.14 Neither did they have any
objection to treating women in their own
class as mere instruments to produce
children. Marx and Engels’ analysis of the
family started from its specific historical and
social forms, particularly the role it
performed for capitalist society and while
they dwelt on its ideological and oppressive
effects, they believed that both the bourgeois
and working class family had specific
material roots which determined its form and
functions.
The value of historical materialism over
utopianism in discussions of the family is the
understanding that envisioning different
ways of living must be steeped in the
concrete reality of the people in whose name
the change is being offered. Criticism of
existing society is not enough in itself; there
is a material context which must be taken
account of as well. The future can only be
built on the present not on the realisation of
an idea. Homes and families are not just
ideological creations: changes to their
composition and the relationships within
them have come about through
developments in capitalism - more women in
paid work, new advances in technology and
consumption patterns - but also as a result of
political mobilisation against the old gender
tropes. Without taking the rounded social
basis of the family into account, abolition of
the family remains an abstract call which
fails to relate to the material reality on which
families are built.
The Irish family
The material and social contexts of families
are particularly important when it comes to
the Irish family. British colonialism and
occupation left the island at the mercy of a
laissez-faire policy which resulted in mass
starvation, death and widespread emigration.
Families were torn apart by these upheavals
and family links and networks became a vital
means of emigrants making their way in
foreign cities like New York, Chicago and
London. Keeping families together, in this
context, as has been noted for former slave
families in the US, is almost a form of
resistance.15
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On the other hand, institutions like the
Catholic Church put the family on a pedestal,
made it a means of social control, and forced
women to conform to the patriarchal
authority the Church invested in it. Women
were seen as primarily mothers and the Irish
state backed up this view, particularly when,
in periods of mass unemployment such as
the 1930’s, it suited it to restrict women’s
employment. Maintaining harsh restrictions
on abortion was also a way of bolstering the
family which served the Irish state and was
part of a range of conservative measures
intended to help keep the lid on social unrest
in a country in which radicalism lay close to
the surface.
how it saw the family’s function, recognising
it as ‘the natural primary and fundamental
unit group of society’ and guaranteeing to
protect it as the necessary basis of social
order, including the denial of Irish women’s
reproductive rights. Church teachings were
drawn on to give this conservatism greater
force, to bring stability to a state born of
revolution and to write in stone that care
provided by the family was socially
necessary. As we have seen in recent
referenda, liberals today may be prepared to
drop the Catholic conservatism but not the
individual provision of care that families
provide, because they oppose more state
spending.
The particularly repressive and anti-woman
aspects of the Irish family can be partly
explained by the Catholic Church’s
monopoly on social values and its rigid
enforcement of gender roles. The extent of
predatory abuse and physical violence
administered by priests and the protection
and cover up of this by the state has
justifiably fed a deep resentment against the
power of the Catholic Church and its
hypocritical and authoritarian defence of the
family. Some writers on the Irish family
argue that the strength and hold of the family
in Ireland stems from a specific post-colonial
nationalism in the Irish southern state and a
strong Catholic patriarchal culture.16 The
reality is more complicated. The family
cannot be separated from a total network of
social relations and material lived pressures
as well as those imposed from the social
order. The pressures from above were
certainly forceful and explicit. The Irish state
in its 1937 Constitution was very frank about
But the Irish family as a lived experience
also constituted a uniquely strong social
bond, forged in reaction to the cruel
depredations of colonisation, famine and
emigration. It became a vital social support
network, in the emigrant communities across
the world, and in Ireland it provided a
‘familist social order’ for a society which
suffered economic deprivation and had a
very patchy social welfare system.17The
family, in other words, plays the role of
protective agent in a poor and predatory
society.
The official version of the Irish family was
undoubtedly misogynistic, subservient to the
Catholic Church and allowed cruelty and
violence to go unchecked. But sexual and
moral repression was only one part of the
picture – one which, as Antonio Gramsci
described, in connection to the ruling ideas
in society, was imposed as ‘common sense’
from the ruling orders. In people’s daily lives
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was forged a different kind of consciousness,
a spontaneous ‘good sense’ shaped by their
needs and their class. The same is true for
the family. There is an imposed, top-down
‘common sense’ version and one made from
below corresponding to ‘the good sense’ of
living human beings. The Irish family,
alongside the prescribed patriarchal authority
and potential for abuse, also provided
practical protection, a ready-made network
of people to provide all sorts of material and
emotional support. It was the means of
passing on and sustaining a collective
consciousness and solidarity. Traditions of
trade unionism and militancy were often
passed on through families and this
continues to this day. Even values which go
against traditional notions of the family, like
those which support abortion, can filter
upwards from children to parents within
families and challenge the old ideas.
Gramsci’s insights into the contradictory
nature of consciousness are particularly apt
for the family in capitalism. A kind of dual
consciousness is present: those ideas which
have been inherited from the past and
uncritically absorbed; alongside a collection
of ideas which are implicit in the everyday
experience of working-class life, and which
have the potential to challenge those same
ruling ideas.18
Homes and Alienation
There is another dimension which explains
the mixed view that people have of families.
Estrangement or alienation is the Marxist
notion which captures the negative effects of
capitalism on human beings, on their
physical and mental states and on the social
processes of which they are part. Alienation
is centred on the acting individual and
provides a lens through which to view the
relationship between people and their
conditions and to comprehend their
interactions.
Marx observes that workers are alienated
from the object of their labour in so far as
they have no control over the conditions of
production, and from the fact that their own
labour is also a marketable commodity.
Capitalism converts everything into a
product for sale and commodities thus
acquire a significance over and above their
specific use and purpose and appear to have
a life of their own. Things that humans create
appear to be autonomous, outside the control
of humans themselves and enter into
relations both with each other and with
people.19 This is what Marx called
commodity fetishism which in capitalism,
like religious idolatry of old, demands
human to surrender to it.
In one of the few accounts in Marxist
feminist writings to deal with alienation and
social reproduction, Martha Gimenez draws
on Marx’s theory of alienation to examine
the changing nature of domestic labour
today. She argues that while domestic labour
is not strictly alienated labour in Marxist
terms, it can have alienating effects. One of
the physical and psychological effects of
alienation is that workers live a divided
existence ‘feeling really alive when not
working and not really living while at work’
which, Gimenez notes, captures something
of the profound division between work and
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life that is the lot of working people in
capitalism.20 Domestic labour performed by
household members is unpaid, produces use
values and does not have the production-forexchange property identified with alienated
labour in capitalist production. For domestic
and care work performed by paid workers,
however, their work contains the alienating
features of any other place of work. The
specific contextualisation of different kinds
of domestic labour – whether it is paid or
unpaid - counters the belief that all gender
oppression lies in male control over women’s
labour power or that the main function of
domestic labour, as Silvia Frederici claims,
is to ‘service the male worker, physically,
emotionally and sexually’. 21
The fact that women continue to do more
work in the house generally than men,
creates frustration and irritation which feeds
into the alienation which arises from the
gendered division of labour. But even this is
not a clearcut question of patriarchal
dominance, particularly as many households
are without male adults, and even those that
contain them, the amount of care and work
done by men varies according to the type of
paid work that the man does, generational,
and other factors. The experience of home
life fits awkwardly into an overarching malecontrolling narrative mainly because people
of different classes and in different living
arrangements, experience the effects of
domestic labour very differently.
Domestic labour fits into an overarching
need, not for men, but for capitalist society.
These variations make it difficult to
characterise domestic work in a uniform
way. Amongst the homeless, the extremely
poor, the marginalised, those in migrant
centres, there is very little resembling
domestic labour. Those who do work for a
salary or wage differ in terms of income,
education and occupation which affects the
nature of the domestic work carried out in
the home. For those dependent on welfare, it
is state payments not a wage as such, which
determine access to the means to provide for
themselves. Dual-earning households on low
wages are likely to have a different range of
activities which make up domestic labour
than duel-earning households on higher
incomes. Domestic labour amongst the upper
and middle classes, and for well-paid dual
earner households, may be carried out by
someone else. It may be eased or lessened by
paid services and all sorts of elaborate
household appliances. For most working
people, despite greater availability of takeaway food, pre-prepared food, and cheaper
household appliances, labour and care in the
home can be a source of stress, even of
conflict between household members.
Domestic labour, Gimenez writes, can be
described as a unity of opposites.22 It
remains objectively oppressive, because
women are still in the main expected to do it
and because this leads to female
discrimination in the labour market and in
society. But it can also be sometimes
subjectively fulfilling in that it may be
experienced as a relief from paid work.
Some household activities may contain a
degree of agency and self-realisation. Unpaid
domestic labour, that women mainly,
although not exclusively do, can be
oppressive and alienating as it may take
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place within unequal gender relations, but it
can also be experienced as something apart
from ‘work’, something over which you
have more control.
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Ideological pressures on home life can also
be alienating. Dan Swain highlights that
labour, under capitalism, undergoes a
process of abstraction, a crucial component
of which is time as value, which comes to
dominate other aspects of social life besides
work.23 Estrangement, commodification, the
fixation on time as value and the
encroachment on lived time by market time,
all these have come to apply to home life
under capitalism. Leisure time, sports and
exercise, socialisation and family life are
when people are meant to decide themselves
what they do and pursue meaningful
activities. But these do not come cheap, and
the problem is that home life takes place
after work when people are already
exhausted. Homes seldom turn out to be the
desired retreat from the world. More often
they become places of isolation whose
dynamics can be bad for people’s mental
health. Home, as Johnathan Martineau notes,
is thus a place of thwarted aspirations, at the
very least, and at worst, a place where work
continues. 24
Violence in the home
Perhaps nowhere are the pressures and
alienation of home life expressed more
disturbingly than in the ever-wider
prevalence of domestic violence. Most of the
violence against women is intimate partner
violence and takes place in the home. In
Ireland, one in four women who have been
in a relationship have been abused by a
current or former partner. Incredibly, 41
percent of Irish women know someone in
their circle of family or friends who have
experienced intimate partner violence.25
Higher levels of violence against women,
trans people and non-binary people are
taking place amid ever more objectification,
marketisation and commodification of
people’s bodies. The rule of the market and
possession of commodities, so beloved by
neoliberalism, extends to people as well as
things. In our increasingly atomised world,
sex and relationships have spilled over to
become a vast online industry which
promises hope and fulfilment in return for a
payment. Sexual ‘freedom’ in capitalism
translates into a multi-billion-dollar sex and
porn industry, a for-sale experience which
feeds a sense of entitlement to sex which, in
a sexist society, means that women are the
losers. Society is saturated with
pornographic images, now consumed
routinely in people’s homes on phones and
devices.
The state’s reliance on homes to provide
basic care means that the state is also
complicit in the continuation of gender
violence in the home. Society requires
homes to deliver shelter, rest, respite from
work, and a host of other human needs, and
homes are left to deal with all of the pent-up
problems and attitudes of society. The state’s
refusal to adequately fund refuges often
leaves women no choice but to stay in the
house of their abuser. Over half the domestic
violence refuges across Ireland are full,
meaning that many women and children
must return to an unsafe home or due to the
lack of affordable housing, go homeless.26
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Delivering real protection for women who
are suffering domestic abuse requires a
recognition that homes cannot be left to run
as isolated individual units, based on what
society considers a natural state of affairs.
People should have real choices about how
and with whom they live. The public
provision of varied and different forms of
living, including places where women with
children can go to get away from abusive
and violent situations, should be something
that any truly people-centred society should
provide.
Fundamental social change
The one-size-fits-all home is an ideological
invention. It tends to be gender stereotyped,
ignores who bears the burden of care work in
the home, and is premised on having a high
enough income to provide for its members.
The still sexist and ultra-individualist haze
through which homes are constructed in
capitalism seldom corresponds to people’s
conflicted experience of home life. It might
have seemed, in the past, that progress could
be made on easing the burden of oppression
which emanates from society’s reliance on
individual homes, that the goal of women’s
equality might have secured some structural
changes to ensure that care, replenishment
and support for people, could be socially
provided.
But neoliberalism has entrenched an even
deeper reliance on private households, with
calamitous social effects – increased poverty,
a fall in standards of living, greater provision
of care at home due to the crisis in health and
care services, and for many, the denial of
access to a home at all.
A fundamental social transformation is
needed to address the contradictions and
strains of home life in late capitalism.
Greater flexibility in working hours and
better pay could alleviate some of the
pressures. But only publicly funded care and
service provision, on a social and
community-decided basis, can begin to
undermine the current excessive reliance on
homes and the gender stereotyping,
oppression and social problems that this
entails. Because funding and social support
for this care provision runs deeply against
the grain of for-profit crisis capitalism, even
these simple demands require fundamental
social change to become enacted. The many
battles in the here and now– for childcare,
for afterschool care, for elder care, for access
to free health care – point the way to a
socially much richer and freer alternative to
the rigid and failed care model of
individualised homes that we have at
present.
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1Karl
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Marx. 1843. Critique of Hegel's Philosophy of Right @ https://www.marxists.org/archive/marx/works/
1843/critique-hpr/ch06.htm.
2Francesco Laruffa. 2022. ‘Neoliberalization, Economization, and the Paradox of the New Welfare State’,
European Journal of Sociology, 63:1, 2022, pp. 131-163.
3 Paul Cammack. 2020. ‘Marx on Social Reproduction’, Historical Materialism 25 pp.4-7.
4 Karl Marx 1976 Capital Vol 1. London. Penguin. p. 724.
5 Ibid, p. 711.
6 Tithi Bhattacharya. 2020. ‘Liberating Women from “Political Economy”: Margaret Benston's Marxism and a
Social-Reproduction Approach to Gender Oppression’ Monthly Review 71 (8).
7Pew Research Centre, https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/03/31/with-billions-confined-to-their-homesworldwide-which-living-arrangements-are-most-common/.
8Our world in Data, https://ourworldindata.org/female-labor-supply#female-participation-in-labor-markets-grewremarkably-in-the-20th-century.
9See these World Bank Details @ https://genderdata.worldbank.org/en/economies/
ireland#:~:text=In%20Ireland%2C%20the%20labor%20force,labor%20force%20participation%20has%20increas
ed.
10 Sophie Lewis. 2019. Full Surrogacy Now: Feminism against the family. London. Verso.
11 ‘Preoccupying Silvia Frederici’ 2014, The Occupied Times https://theoccupiedtimes.org/?p=13482.
12 Kathi Weeks, 2023 ‘Abolition of the family’. The most infamous feminist proposal. Feminist theory Vol 23
Issue 3 p.17.
13Marx and Engels, The German Ideology, p. 122.
14Karl Marx and Frederick Engels. 1977. ‘Manifesto of the Communist Party’ in Selected Works, Vol 1, (Moscow:
Progress Publishers p.124.
15 Angela Davis. 1981. Women Race and Class. London. Penguin Modern Classics.
16 Linda Connolly. 2014, The Irish Family, London, Routledge p.33.
17Michelle Norris. 2016. Property Family and the Irish Welfare State. London. Macmillan.
18 Antonio Gramsci. 1972. Selections from Prison notebooks. London. Lawrence and Wishart p.33.
19 Karl Marx. 1976. Capital Vol 1. London. Penguin p.165.
20Martha Gimenez. 2019. Marx, Women and Capitalist Social Reproduction: Marxist Feminist Essays. Chicago.
Haymarket Books, see Chapter 11,’Loving Alienation: the Contradictions of Domestic Work’, pp. 257-273.
21 This is the formulation used by Silvia Frederici. 1975. Wages Against Housework, (New York Power of Women
Collective and Falling Wall Press @ https://caringlabor.wordpress.com/2010/09/15/silvia-federici-wages-againsthousework/.
22 Ibid p.258
23Dan Swain. 2019. ‘Alienation, or why capitalism is bad for us’ in Matt Vidal, Tony Smith, Tomás Rotta and Paul
Pew, The Oxford Handbook of Karl Marx, (Oxford: Oxford University Press, 2019), p.363.
24Jonathan Martineau. 2017. ‘Culture in the Age of Acceleration, Hypermodernity, and Globalized Temporalities’
Journal of Arts management Law and Society 47 (4) pp.218-229.
25See Women aid @ https://www.womensaid.ie/get-informed/facts/
#:~:text=14%25%20of%20women%20in%20Ireland,former%20partner%20since%20age%2015
26Over half of domestic Violence centres across the country are full @ https://www.thejournal.ie/domesticviolence-refuges-6298145-Feb2024/ for more details.
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