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The 35 Best Sex Toys for Men—Whether You're With a Partner or Riding Solo

More pleasure for you and any partner you choose, guaranteed.

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Listen, we're in the business of sex positivity. Let us, Esquire dot com, get on the record as saying: You—the world at large—should be having more sex. There are studies every week that show that Americans are having less sex, and that might be where a lot of our problems are stemming from. Okay, societal decline might not be the consequence of a sexually repressed population, but the way we've thought about sex, and sex toys, has long been heinously fucked up. The focus has always been on masturbators and sex dolls that promote a sad, solo idea of sex. That's not what we're about. Jerk off all you want, but sex toys should encourage real-life sex.

Thankfully, the world is catching on! The boutique sex-toy market is booming. You can now buy sex toys that aren't embarrassing to own, and we can finally get past the horny-goat-weed stuff they sell at truck stops.

Sex toys for men—sorry, Google wants me to say men, I mean anyone with a penis—are in a wonderful place right now. Less egregious masturbation sleeves, high-tech prostate massagers, and silicone toys that belong on the bedside table—we're in a sex-toy renaissance. The following 35 sex toys for men can help turn your sex life on its head—and while they can all be used solo, we encourage you to get out there, get romantic, and use them with a partner. And as always, use lube, even a condom, if necessary. (Read on for more helpful information about buying and using sex toys.) And hey, don't forget, sex is fun. Have fun.

The Best Sex Toy for Men

Lelo HUGO 2

HUGO 2
Pros
  • Easy to use, great for first-time prostate-massager users
  • App control makes it perfect for partner play
Cons
  • Pricey

Straight men, trust us here. It's 2024, so we have no qualms telling you that the most pleasurable sex toys for men are actually prostate massagers made to go up your ass. And the best prostate massager on the market is the new Lelo HUGO 2.

With 2.83 inches of insertable length, it's manageable for the most timid of beginners. But with two powerful motors, 16 settings, and an amazing app to control it all, it'll be up to par for more-experienced users. It's great for solo sex, but it's even better for partner play. If you buy one thing off this list, go for this.

MaterialBody-safe silicone, ABS plastic
Insertable Length2.83 Inches
Best Sex Toy for Partners

maude burn no. 1

burn no. 1
Pros
  • Perfect for couples
  • Jojoba- and soybean-oil-based formula melts at a pleasant temperature
Cons
  • Not for solo use

Less a toy, and not really something you'd use solo. But for two or more parties, lighting a candle and using the wax for a massage is irresistibly sexy.

Candle MaterialJojoba- and soybean-oil-based
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Best Hands-Free Penis Sex Toy

Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo

Pulse Solo
Pros
  • Literally takes the work off your hands
  • A nice suite of movement and vibration
Cons
  • Can feel oddly non-intimate if this is your only toy

This sleeve pulses and oscillates to upgrade penis masturbation without your having to put in a whole lot of manual labor. In fact, it's been dubbed the "world's first guybrator."

MaterialSilicone
Best Couples Cock Ring

Lelo TOR 2

TOR 2
Pros
  • One of the best silicones we've felt
  • Good vibrational variety for receiving partner
Cons
  • Flexible but can be tight on larger penises

For penis + vagina couples, a vibrating cock ring can really take things to new heights. Lelo's smooth, matte silicone makes it incredibly comfortable on both of you. And the vibrations send everything to the next level. Takes care of everybody.

MaterialSilicone
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Best Budget Prostate Massager

Phanxy Prostate Massager

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Pros
  • Great entry into prostate massagers
Cons
  • More-expensive models have better vibration options

If you (or you and your partner) are interested in motorized prostate and perineum stimulation, Phanxy makes a simple, affordable massager with nine speeds. And its shaft will press back and forth like a finger to give you that "come hither" arousal.

MaterialSilicone
Best Looking Sex Toy for Men

Maude cone, medium

cone, medium
Pros
  • Tasteful shape and coloring make it all the more inviting
  • Great shape and good battery life
Cons
  • Three-speed vibration might be too simple for some

They've done the high-design treatment with vibrators for a long time; now they're making their way to male sex toys. That beautiful green, the soft-touch silicone, the tasteful shape. So good-looking you might want to leave it on display. Don't! Or do, actually.... Let that freak flag fly.

MaterialPhthalate- and latex-free silicone
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Best Sex Supplement for Men

Joymode Sexual Performance Booster

Sexual Performance Booster
Pros
  • A holistic way to improve male performance
  • Can be taken every day, like a cardiovascular supplement
Cons
  • Not a sex toy, sorry folks

Another one that's not a sex toy so much as it is a sex accessory. Erectile dysfunction is a real diagnosed issue, and the little blue pill is the solution. That said, a lot of men are taking generic options available online when they don't really need something that clinical. Instead, consider a holistic solution.

Joymode's Sex Performance Booster is technically just a supplement—like a vitamin or pre-workout—that relaxes your blood vessels and promotes stronger blood flow. Sexually speaking, that means stronger erections, more stamina, and more pleasure. But the big bonus is that it's all from your own body, and you won't have any side effects or dependencies without it.

Active IngredientsL-Citrulline, Arginine Nitrate, Ginseng, and Vitamin C
Best Budget Sex Toy for Men

Doc Johnson Goodhead Helping Head Blowjob Helper

Goodhead Helping Head Blowjob Helper
Pros
  • Simple and great for partner play
Cons
  • Only marginally cheaper than nicer models with better materials

This device is for the orally inclined. It's designed to feel like an actual mouth, and you can use it on yourself. It's also great for couples in which one of you loves receiving but the other is not particularly keen on giving.

MaterialTPE (plastic and rubber copolymer)
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Best Budget Sex Toy Upgrade

Fleshlight Quickshot Compact Masturbator

Quickshot Compact Masturbator
Pros
  • Classic, simple masturbator and blowjob enhancer
  • Great for couples or solo
Cons
  • Cleaning is a bit tedious but easy once you get the hang of it

If a $10 masturbator weirds you out, Fleshlight, one of the most respected names in sex toys, makes a great budget masturbator. It's simple—and great quality for $35.

MaterialPlastic
Best Male Masturbator

Fleshlight Turbo Blue Ice Blowjob Simulator

Best Seller
Fleshlight Turbo Blue Ice Blowjob Simulator
Pros
  • Simple, easy-to-use, a classic
Cons
  • Not made for partner play; a solo toy

Fleshlight is probably the most infamous of any male-focused sex-toy brand, specifically for male masturbators. At this point, you can even custom-design a Fleshlight to a very specific liking. But this nonanatomical, ice-blue Fleshlight, which tightens and loosens to your preference, more than gets the job done.

MaterialRubber
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Best-Selling Sex Toy for Men

Doc Johnson GoodHead Helping Head Pro

Best Seller
GoodHead Helping Head Pro
Pros
  • Simple and affordable
  • Great for solo or partner play
Cons
  • A tad slippery; takes a few uses to get the hang of it

The inside of this silicone penis sleeve is textured, simple as that. But if you wanna spice things up, there is also a vibrating version where a mini vibrating bullet can slip into the head to send sensation through, well, the head, whether you're masturbating or foreplaying.

MaterialTPE
Best Blowjob Machine

Lelo F1S V2

F1S V2
Pros
  • Amazingly advanced, a sci-fi sex toy
  • Best customization out there
Cons
  • A bit more techy than some need or want

Lelo has one of the most high-tech masturbation machines on the market. The F1S sends sonic waves through your penis for an elevated experience, with multiple settings accessed through an app to cater to your whims. It'll even give you stats about your speed and stamina, which, you know, could be informative. It also doesn't look like a sex toy, which is great.

External MaterialAluminum alloy
Internal MaterialSilicone
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Best-Looking Prostate Massager

Nexus Revo

Revo
Pros
  • Looks and feels nice and sleek
  • Great for speed and rotation customization
Cons
  • Pricey

Okay, yeah, it's obviously a prostate massager, but it's sleek enough to be deemed the best-looking sex toy on this list. It's not a requirement, but the fact that this thing looks sleek and sexy is enticing. Either way, with 34 different speed and rotation combos, this is one of your best buys if you're looking for P-spot stimulation.

MaterialSilicone
Circumference 4 Inches
Insertable Length3.5 Inches
A Sex Toy for the Experienced

Nexus Revo Extreme

Revo Extreme
Pros
  • Perfect for those who need or want more volume
  • Same 34 movement combos
Cons
  • Not for the inexperienced

For those who want a little (a lot) more girth, the Revo Extreme is the exact same product as the Revo, but the shaft is 6.25 inches around. It's by far one of the best products out there for an experienced user.

MaterialSilicone
Circumference 6.25 Inches
Insertable Length5 Inches
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Best Beginner Anal Beads

Ralix Anal Beads

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Pros
  • Simple, affordable, and so effective
  • Great for solo and partner play
Cons
  • Some may prefer more cone-shaped beads

Getting started in the world of anal beads? Or just want a simple, old-fashioned option? This is it. Body-safe silicone, increasing bead size, and a well-sized pull ring—this is as simple as it gets.

MaterialSilicone
More Great Anal Beads

Lovehoney Ignite Anal Beads

Ignite Anal Beads
Pros
  • Easier in, still great coming out
Cons
  • Tapered big to small, not the reverse, if you want to start slow

For those who prefer something more conical, Lovehoney makes good anal beads as well. A bit easier going in, with the same incredible release. They do taper in the opposite direction (big to small), though the size is manageable even for a beginner.

MaterialSilicone
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Best Anal Sex Toy Kit

Lovehoney Anal Sex Toy Kit (6 Piece)

Anal Sex Toy Kit (6 Piece)
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Pros
  • Great price for everything you get
  • Douche is a necessary buy for those new to anal
Cons
  • As with any kit, none of the individual pieces is incredible

For full-service anal toys, Lovehoney makes a great kit. The set comes with a douche, anal beads, two plugs, and a prostate massager. Plus, there's an insertable vibe that works with any of the toys.

MaterialSilicone
Best Affordable Cock Ring

Satisfyer Rocket Ring

Rocket Ring
Pros
  • Perfect for couples
Cons
  • Tight on thicker penises

Slip this over a penis and it'll slow down but intensify the experience, as well as spread the good vibes to your partner's clitoris.

MaterialSilicone
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Most Popular Sex Toy for Men

Tenga Easy Beat Egg 6-Pack

Easy Beat Egg 6-Pack
Pros
  • Small and easy to store
Cons
  • Disposable, not ideal from a value standpoint

Sometimes good things come in small packages. The Tenga masturbation egg has an elastic inside that fits over any size and comes pre-lubricated. This pack includes various textures for an added level of pleasure, from a silky lining to a wavy one. And if you wanna go easy at first, starting with just one disposable Easy Beat Egg doesn't sound like a bad idea.

Dimensions2" x 2" x 2.5"
Best Ball Stretcher

Oxballs CockSling 2.0

CockSling 2.0
Pros
  • Improves stamina and heightens orgasms
Cons
  • A strange proposition at first, takes getting used to

If you've never used one, it's not as intense as it sounds. Similar to a cock ring, a ball-stretcher cuts off a bit of blood flow to help you last longer and orgasm harder. The "stretching" that happens is incredibly gentle and comfortable for anyone.

This option is as simple and effective as they come.

MaterialSilicone
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