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    Stretch Your Mind: Cognitive Development, #7
    Stretch Your Mind: Cognitive Development, #7
    Stretch Your Mind: Cognitive Development, #7
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    Stretch Your Mind: Cognitive Development, #7

    By Zoe McKey

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    Are you terrified of making bad decisions and missing great opportunities? Do you question your judgment and doubt your intuition?



    Your brain is like any other muscle; it needs training to improve. Nobody is born with flawless critical thinking skills. These skills require systematic practice, but you can shortcut the learning curve by mastering some cognitive tools that the best thinkers, psychologists, and high achievers also use.

    Stretch Your Mind will show you how to think smarter and find better answers to questions, enhancing your self-trust. This book takes a closer look at our everyday habits and points out how we can question our actions effectively in order to become more efficient and productive. 

    Zoe McKey has studied human cognition for over a decade. This book collects her personal experiences and some of the best studies in cognitive improvement and social psychology to guide you in scaling up your critical thinking, decision-making, judging, and time management skills.
     

    Leave analysis paralysis for yesterday.


    •Overcome your mental blocks and improve your life.
    •Discover your "personal excellence."
    •Think like a professional and not an amateur.
    •Bring your most creative side to the surface.
    •Improve your intuition.
     

    Discover and utilize the uncharted parts of your brain.


    •Learn to use the method of the Six Thinking Hats™ to make the best multilateral decisions.
    •Master your time management with Philip Zimbardo's Time Paradox theory.
    •Learn to set goals like a champion with Arnold Schwarzenegger.

    Learn to have a self-directed, self-monitored, self-disciplined, and self-corrective way of thinking. Know how to analyze situations from different angles so you won't jump to hasty, premature conclusions but well-founded, objective ones. 

    Make better predictions and eliminate regrets that follow a bad decision and become more intentional about your life in general.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherZoe McKey
    Release dateJun 7, 2020
    ISBN9781393893042
    Stretch Your Mind: Cognitive Development, #7

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      Stretch Your Mind - Zoe McKey

      Introduction

      IN 2019 I READ 85 BOOKS.

      I’m not telling you this to brag or make you feel bad about how many books you read last year. I think before then—not including the Harry Potter series—I hadn’t read 85 books myself, in all my life.

      But in 2019 I was in a hard place, and I desperately needed wisdom. People say, find someone in your environment who lives the way you’d like to live and just do what they do. But what if there’s no such person around you? What if you’re constantly on the road and you can’t establish deep relationships? What if your geography, job, or financial means limit you and prevent you from being around such people?

      Not all of us are blessed with a flesh-and-bone mentor walking beside us, holding our hands. What can we do? Give up? Accept that life didn’t deal us those cards and numb our pain with something? Most people certainly do that. They decide their life problems can’t be fixed, so they start avoiding the pain of this notion with a substance, an activity—or inactivity.

      Are you one of those people? I asked myself when life kicked me to my emotional and physical rock bottom.

      I wish I could tell you that I heroically screamed NO! and rose from the ground on an energy-filled, stormy cloud, and went the distance unwaveringly while lightning and thunder powered the hefty beat of my heart and stallions ran beside me as I completed my mission and fulfilled my destiny.

      Nope. My answer to this question was something much more serene and insecure. I didn’t know how to answer this question. I didn’t know if I was a quitter, someone who was predestined to be how she was, who could never leave her mental limitations and blocks behind. There were no clouds and stallions, just my silent sobbing echoing in an empty room in Taipei, Taiwan, in the house of someone who loved and hated me at the same time. I felt so alone. I knew no one in that town whom I wanted to resemble. I had no friends or family nearby.

      All I had was one book that I bought a few weeks ago at a second-hand shop, and I only got it because, frankly, it was the only one whose title I could decipher. (I don’t speak or read Mandarin.) It was Brene Brown’s Rising Strong.

      I don’t believe in supernatural powers. And whenever I am cocky enough to state this, life throws something in front of me amusedly saying, Oh, really? Randomly stumbling onto a book called Rising Strong when you feel you are weak and have hit rock bottom... Let’s just say the Universe has a weird sense of humor.

      I still remember picking up that book and starting to flip through its pages... Do you know that scene in Harry Potter when Harry finds the Pensieve in Dumbledore’s room and falls into it and sees the memories of the headmaster? That’s how I felt reading Brown’s book. Getting to know her a little bit more through her work. Being able to detach from my story, and immerse myself in someone else’s. Learning about pain and joy; failures and successes; words of wisdom learned the hard way.

      Suddenly it occurred to me. I don’t need anyone around me to change myself for the better, to learn, and to gain the wisdom I was so thirsty for. I have literally everything I need at my fingertips. Books.

      I could have Ray Dalio as a mentor. Or Abraham Lincoln. Or Jane Austen. Heck, I could even have Amy Poehler!

      And I had them all. As I told you, I read 85 books in 2019. Because I needed them. Because I wanted to learn, to know more, to grow better. Because when we recycle the information in our head over and over, we won’t get ahead. We’ll just get whiplash from spinning so much.

      No one needs to be that person, it turns out, who has no other choice but to resign to life’s unchangeable nature. Books hold all the knowledge anyone needs to thrive. And books are available—from Goodwill to libraries, from Amazon to Barnes and Noble, you can find them. Or as you can see in my case, they can find you.

      This book isn’t about my thoughts, but the thoughts others inspired me to think. This book doesn’t summarize my best practices, but the practices the best use that made me become better. The aim of Stretch Your Mind is to give you a glimpse into the unlimited collective mind of humanity in which you can tap into any time you want. This book is a compilation of my favorite reads, the lessons I learned from them, and tips on how to use these lessons to your own benefit.

      Chapter 1: On Resistance

      MORE GOLD HAS BEEN mined from the thoughts of men than has been taken from the earth. So dust off the cobwebs and use all those great ideas you have!

      — Unknown Author

      Did you ever daydream of the person you might become? Do you have an idea of who you are meant to be? Are you passionate about something that you would like to accomplish?

      But at the same time, do you also tell yourself that your vision is impossible to turn into reality? Are you an entrepreneur in your dreams, but have never started a business? Are you an artist—a painter, let’s say—who’s never touched a canvas with a brush?

      If you identified with this description, you’re not alone. I dare say, all of us face this problem in our life quite often. We have a vision but something intangible stops us from taking action.

      In one of my mentor’s, Steven Pressfield’s, words, we live in resistance.

      Pressfield, the author of The War of Art, highlights that as rational and rationalizing beings, in the first round we identify resistance coming from outside of us. It’s not us, but our partner, our parents, environment, bad education, lousy job, the boss, late public transportation. They are responsible for our delayed dreams—not us. We always find a reason why not to do what we wish.[i]

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