About this ebook
Ralph Pitman
Kip Shaw is an artist, designer, photographer, entrepreneur, and musician. He and the author are lifelong friends and creative collaborators. At one time they sang together in a folk duo known as Pitman and Shaw. Kip designed the layout of Dream You as well as the cover art. In fact he even suggested the title which is based on a pivotal poem in the book. He can be reached at sunnywebshops@gmail.com.
Related to A Family Scrapbook
Related ebooks
Golden Hours Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsLogical Family: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Red Clay and Roses Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The One Who Loves You: A Memoir of Growing Up Biracial in a Black and White World Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Beauty of What Remains: Family Lost, Family Found Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Random Life? Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Soulful Child: Twelve Years in the Wilderness Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsUntethered Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWhat We Pass On: Collected Poems: 1980-2009 Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSharp as a Serpent's Tooth: Eva and other stories Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsAmerican Happiness: New Poems Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Hungry Heart: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Poems of Petals, Poodles and Prayers: Poems by Ivy Berry - Compiled and Illustrated by Chris J Berry Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHomesick: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Yin-Yang Life of a Baby Boomer Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMemories of Summer Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsTo Dance with God Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThis Family of Mine: What It Was Like Growing Up Gotti Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Meet Mrs. Smith: My Adventures with Six Kids, One Rockstar Husband, and a Heart to Fight Poverty Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Drop Me Around the Corner Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBlood Relations Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Shape of Truth: A completely gripping crime suspense Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Kitchen Privileges: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5My Heart Dances Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsParade Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsWelcome to Larry's World Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDaughter of the Queen of Sheba: A Memoir Rating: 2 out of 5 stars2/5My Walkabout - The Way It Was Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsOnce More, With Feeling Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsI Once Drowned Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Relationships For You
The Year of Magical Thinking Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Notes on Grief Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Stolen Focus: Why You Can't Pay Attention Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Indistractable: How to Control Your Attention and Choose Your Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Staring at the Sun: Overcoming the Terror of Death Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Crying in H Mart: The Number One New York Times Bestseller Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Tiny Beautiful Things: A Reese Witherspoon Book Club Pick soon to be a major series on Disney+ Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Roxane Gay & Everand Originals: You Are a Teen Mom: Instructions Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Opposite of Spoiled: Raising Kids Who Are Grounded, Generous, and Smart About Money Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A Matter of Death and Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Big Book of 30-Day Challenges: 60 Habit-Forming Programs to Live an Infinitely Better Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Strange Planet Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Everything I Know About Love: A Memoir Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Mr Good Enough: The case for choosing a Real Man over holding out for Mr Perfect Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Princess Bride: S. Morgenstern's Classic Tale of True Love and High Adventure Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5It Starts with Us: the highly anticipated sequel to IT ENDS WITH US Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Art of Communicating Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5High Conflict: Why We Get Trapped and How We Get Out Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-monogamy Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Meursault Investigation Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You: 85 Proven Techniques for Success Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5You're Cute When You're Mad: Simple Steps for Confronting Sexism Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Blue Nights Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Why Marriages Succeed or Fail Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Vacuum in the Dark: FROM THE AUTHOR OF BIG SWISS Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5
Reviews for A Family Scrapbook
0 ratings0 reviews
Book preview
A Family Scrapbook - Ralph Pitman
Margaret
WE DON’T LOVE YOU
We don’t love you because you are smart
Because you can throw a ball
Because you can run very fast
Or because you can count to ten.
We don’t love you because you can sing
Because you are pretty or handsome
Because you make us laugh
Or for any way you make us feel.
We love you because
Just because
You are you.
DIVINITY
When I was young, my father would place chunks of coal in the fireplace of our living room at 1828 Delancey Place in Center City, Philadelphia. The coal burned slowly with no flame and very little smoke. It seemed to be stubborn with a will to endure, unlike the dry firewood that offered itself so willingly to the flame. I would sit and watch it for hours, carefully placing another coal on the fire when it was needed.
Through much of my life God has been like one of those burning coals, burning deep within the events of my life. I believe in free will, and I have certainly exercised more than my share, but I have never been able to resist God’s enduring presence. And nowhere has God been more present than in my family.
Lately, Janie and I have been digitizing our snapshots. They go back to childhood and beyond; parents, and parents of parents. We struggle to remember exactly who that was in the faded picture, or when that event happened, or which birthday that cake celebrated. With each picture we tell each other stories; many we have told before, and a few are new. The work is tedious, but the effect is, simply, gratitude.
These poems are not a substitute for the 5,000 pictures we (mostly Janie) have scanned. They are not an autobiography, although they are autobiographical. They are certainly not all inclusive. Rather, these poems are my memories. I think of them as prayers: family prayers, prayers of thanksgiving, prayers of repentance, prayers of intercession. Janie and I pray that our loved ones who live after us may one day gather and treasure their own memories, and, from time to time, catch a glimpse of the divinity that burns deep within them all.
THEIR WEDDING DAY
Mom and Pop were private people.
They told few stories
about their lives before us.
But today,
in her Houston home,
our daughter, the family archivist,
opened an envelope
she had received in the mail.
It contained an accordion wallet
of black and white snapshots
of my parents’ wedding day.
On the back of each