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Women Talking by Miriam Toews
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"In 2011, eight men belonging to the Manitoba Mennonite Colony were convicted of a series of sexual assaults committed from 2005 to 2009. Prior to the discovery, the rapes had been attributed to a ghost or demon. The victims were reported to be between the ages of 3 and 65. The offenders used a type of gas used by veterinarians to sedate animals during medical procedures. Despite long custodial sentences for the convicted men, an investigation in 2013 reported continuing cases of similar assaults."-Wikipedia

Women Talking is based on the above-mentioned rapes. The women in this book are contemplating their choices on how to deal with assaults:

1. Do Nothing
2. Stay and Fight
3. Leave

The Women secretly gather to discuss their choices and how to proceed. As none of them can read or write they ask a man, August, to take notes for them. As they share their feelings, thoughts, emotions, he writes them while also sharing bits of information himself to them. Naturally the women are angry, some are now pregnant as a result of the rapes, and some have daughters who have been attacked as well. Not only are they talking about what happened to them, they are talking about their religion, their faith, and the men in their community who are going to bail these men out. This is a very relevant book and it is frightening to think that this book is written about what really happened to a group of Mennonite Women. Attacks that happened in the night while the women were drugged. They wake up bruised, bleeding, sore, missing clothing, etc.

There is a short book which mainly takes places as the women sit and talk. As I mentioned, they talk about their faith, the role of forgiveness, what to do with anger, etc. I appreciated how they talked together and voiced their thoughts on their choices. Although they may disagree at times and even feel anger, they work things out and keep discussing their choices as they have a small window of time in which to decide.

So why three stars? Which, by the way, means I thought the book was good and I enjoyed it (in case you were wondering) At times, I felt the book dragged a little and I wanted to skim. Perhaps in the way this story was told, hindered my enjoyment a little. I think this book could have been told without the August's character. I think he was added to share some info and to show how Ona was showing him kindness by asking him to help. But for me personally, parts of his backstory got in the way. I wanted the entire book to be about the women and what happened to them. I encourage anyone interested in this book to pick it up and decide for yourself. Do you need to know some information about Mennonites to enjoy this book? I don't think so but it may help give some readers a general understanding on their history, their close knit communities and their faith.

Overall, a good book that addresses horrific assaults and how women of faith came together to talk and make a decision together.

I received a copy of this book from Bloomsbury Publishing and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. The thoughts and opinions in this review are my own.
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Reading Progress

November 4, 2018 – Shelved as: to-read
November 4, 2018 – Shelved
December 7, 2018 – Started Reading
December 7, 2018 – Shelved as: netgalley
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December 7, 2018 –
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December 8, 2018 –
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December 8, 2018 –
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December 9, 2018 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by KAS (new)

KAS Really enjoyed reading your fantastic review, Debra ;) I live in the heart of the Amish and Mennonite communities of Lancaster, PA. Glad you enjoyed!! ❤️💚❤️


message 2: by Julie (new)

Julie Terrific review, Debra!! 😊


Debra KAS wrote: "Really enjoyed reading your fantastic review, Debra ;) I live in the heart of the Amish and Mennonite communities of Lancaster, PA. Glad you enjoyed!! ❤️💚❤️"

Thank you, KAS! I am a PA native myself and Mennonites lived in my hometown.


Debra Julie wrote: "Terrific review, Debra!! 😊"

Thank you, Julie!


message 5: by Jaline (new) - added it

Jaline Lovely review, Debra!


message 6: by Kaceey (new)

Kaceey Excellent review Debra!


Debra Jaline wrote: "Lovely review, Debra!"

Thank you, Jaline!


Debra Kaceey - Traveling Sister wrote: "Excellent review Debra!"

Thank you, Kaceey!


Angela M In spite of your reservations, Debra, you have made me interested in reading this. Waiting a response on NetGalley.


message 10: by Tammy (new)

Tammy Wonderful review, Debra! I’m still debating about this


Debra Angela M wrote: "In spite of your reservations, Debra, you have made me interested in reading this. Waiting a response on NetGalley."

I hope you enjoy it Angela! The writing format was a challenge for me. I look forward to your thoughts.


Debra Tammy wrote: "Wonderful review, Debra! I’m still debating about this"

Thank you, Tammy! Lots of mixed reviews on this. It did get slow in the middle where I wanted to skim. It is a slow moving book. I think people need to be aware of that going in.


Jennifer ~ TarHeelReader Terrific review, Debra! It’s good to know about it being slow.


Debra Jennifer ~ TarHeelReader wrote: "Terrific review, Debra! It’s good to know about it being slow."

Thank you, Jennifer!


message 15: by Heidi (new)

Heidi Just watched the powerful film adaptation of this book— excellent acting. This one book I probably will not read but I appreciated your review. Wonder how the movie compares to the book?


Debra Heidi wrote: "Just watched the powerful film adaptation of this book— excellent acting. This one book I probably will not read but I appreciated your review. Wonder how the movie compares to the book?"

I wonder. I have not seen the movie but do want to see it.


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