DEATH AND DYING

Preparing For Our Own Death

This workbook is designed to be a simple tool for organizing our personal data and personal
wishes regarding end of life decisions and disposal of our remains. The purpose is to ease the
difficulty for our loved ones by having all pertinent information and our last wishes in one easy
to find location. It is free to use, copy, distribute, and edit as needed.
Working with this notebook on a continuing basis can be a profound and enriching experience.
Embracing and accepting that the life we know is temporary is a powerful statement about how
we choose to live. Actively working on how we face its end helps to ease the burden on those we
leave behind. Knowing that we have our affairs in order and have left behind our goodbyes frees
us to live each day more fully and without worry.
This notebook was created and compiled by Kat A. Schorr, Shannon R. Rooney and Kevin E.
Emmons. We sincerely hope you find it of value.
Personal Data
Full name: ____________________________________________________________________
First
Middle
Last
Birth date: _____________________________________________________________________
Month
Day
Year
City and State/Province of Birth:___________________________________________________
Fathers legal name: _____________________________________________________________
Mothers maiden name: __________________________________________________________
Citizenship: ___________________________________________________________________
Name of spouse or partner: _______________________________________________________
Children
Name 1: _____________________________ Name 5: _________________________________
Name 2: _____________________________ Name 6: _________________________________
Name 3: _____________________________ Name 7: _________________________________
Name 4: _____________________________ Name 8: _________________________________

Current Residence
______________________________________________________________________________
Street
Apt. #
______________________________________________________________________________
City/Town
State
Zip

Mailing address (if different from previous):

______________________________________________________________________________
Street or PO Box
Apt. #
______________________________________________________________________________
City/Town
State
Zip
Name and Address of "ex": _______________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
Pets

________________________________________________________________________
Name
Type of Animal
________________________________________________________________________
Name
Type of Animal

Place of Employment: __________________________________ Phone: ___________________

Social Security Number: _________________________________________________________
Military Service
Position: ______________________________________________________________________
Dates: _________/_______/_________ to _________/_______/__________________________
Military Serial Number: __________________________________________________________
Military Discharge Papers: _______________________________________________________
National Guard/Reserves Contact: __________________________________________________
Religious Affiliation: ____________________________________________________________

Education
High school: _________________________________________ Graduated: ________________
College: ____________________________________________ Graduated: ________________
College: ____________________________________________ Graduated: ________________
Degree(s): _____________________________________________________________________
Organization Memberships: _______________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
Hobbies and Interests: ___________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
Some of my favorite things in life are:_______________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________

FINANCIAL DATA
I.

Bank Accounts

Checking Account: __________________________ __________________________________

Account Number
Institution
Savings Account: ___________________________ __________________________________
Account Number
Institution
Retirement Account (401K): __________________
Account Number

__________________________________
Institution

Other Accounts: ____________________________

Account Number

__________________________________
Institution

Safety Deposit Box: _____________________________________________________________

II.

Stocks and Bonds

Contact information for Stock Broker or Investment Firm: ______________________________

_____________________________________________________________________________

III.

Loans

Home Mortgage: ___________________________

Account Number

__________________________________
Institution

Second Mortgage: __________________________

Account Number

__________________________________
Institution

Automobile Loan: __________________________ __________________________________

Account Number
Institution
Second Auto: ______________________________
Account Number

__________________________________
Institution

Recreational Vehicle: ________________________

Account Number

__________________________________
Institution

Student Loan: ______________________________

Account Number

__________________________________
Institution

IV.

Titles and Deeds

Titles (List all vehicles for which you possess the title): _________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
Deeds (List all property for which you possess the deed):________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________

V.

Insurance Policies

Insurance Companies (List each company and policy number and the corresponding home,
automobile, or other property:
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________

VI.

Burial Plot

Cemetery (list address):__________________________________________________________

________________________________________ Plot Number: __________________________

YOUR PERSONAL PROPERTY

I.

General Information About Wills

Before writing a will, there are seven elements that must be present:
You must be of legal age to make a will, which in Maine is 18.
You must be of sound mind.
You must state your intent that this will is your final word regarding your
property.
You must be able to sign the will voluntarily and in a valid way.
You should have the will written and witnessed.
Your will should follow state standards for formal wills.
Your will should have a statement at the end that says that this is your will, with
your signature, the date, and the witness signature.
II.

Types of Wills

There are several types of wills. You need to identify which will best suits your situation:
Typed, witnessed wills (highly suggested, discussed further in this Guide);
Holographic (oral) wills: not recognized in all states;
Handwritten, non-witnessed wills: not recognized in Maine;
Soldiers and seamens wills: available in Maine;
Statutory wills: available in Maine.
III.

Types of Legal Services

There are several types of legal services to help you prepare your will. You need to identify
which best suits you:
Group legal service: plans available to members of certain organizations (like
AARP, the military, or a union);
Legal clinics: a low-cost alternative that is primarily done through legal assistants
under a lawyers guidance;
Private lawyer: suggested if you own your own business, your estate exceeds $1
million, or if you anticipate any problems.
IV.

The Makeup of a Will

A will is made up of several clauses. These clauses are described below:

Funeral expenses and payments of debts: Remember, your debts dont die with
you! This is where you place pertinent information regarding how your funeral
expenses and other debts will be paid through your estate. This is also where you
can forgive any debts someone owes you.
Gifts of personal property: This is where you state how you would like your
material possessions divided. It is easiest to leave your property to people in

V.

broad but specific categories like furniture. However, if you want to leave
specific items such a Persian rug or an antique diamond ring, then this is where
you would clearly state who should receive it.
Gifts of real estate: This is where you state your division of real estate.
Residuary clause: This is a crucial part of your will, which will cover all assets
not specifically disposed of by the will. This clause distributes assets that you
might not have anticipated owning.
Testamentary trusts: This clause directs funds from your estate into a trust you
had previously established. (See Section V for more information on trusts)
Naming a Guardian (or Conservator): If a guardian is needed for any child of
mine (under 18 years of age), then this is where you would nominate the person to
serve as Guardian of that child.
Naming an Executor (or Personal Representative): This is where you would name
a person to be your Executor, who will take charge of my personal property after
you die.

Testamentary Trusts

A trust is for anyone who wants to make sure his or her assets are protected and managed
according to his or her specific wishes.
A trust is basically a legal relationship in which one person (trustee) holds property for the
benefit of another person (beneficiary). The property can be real estate, stocks, bonds,
personal possessions, automobiles, etc.
A testamentary trust is a trust set up to take affect at your death. Now, the property doesnt
physically change hands, but legally, upon your death, the property becomes controlled by the
trustee.
Trusts can be revocable or not, depending on how they are established. They can be simple or
complex, depending on the wishes of the person who established the trust (grantor). There are
different restrictions the grantor can place on the trust to ensure that the assets are spent
according to the wishes of the grantor. There are many different avenues to set up trusts.
Trusts can be used for many different purposes, but the most common being trusts set-up for
children of the deceased for educational purposes. There are many philosophies regarding the
necessity of trusts, so this is something that you will have to decide on yourself.

Reasons for establishing a trust:

Trusts are generally more difficult to contest than wills.
Trust payments can be flexible, which is good in hard economic times.
Trusts can be used to impose discipline on the beneficiary to ensure wise spending.
Trusts can be very helpful in making major charitable gifts.

YOUR HEALTH
I.

Primary Care Physician

I name the following physician or health care provider to provide my medical care, in
consultation with my Agent (named in Part II).
Name of doctor or health care provider:______________________________________________
Address:______________________________________________________________________
Phone: (
II.

)____________________________ Fax: (

)__________________________

Naming an Agent

I have assigned the following person as my agent to make health care decisions for me, in the
event that I can no longer make decisions for myself.
Name:________________________________________________________________________
Title or Relationship:____________________________________________________________
Address:______________________________________________________________________
Home Phone: (

)__________________ Work Phone: (

)_______________________

If my first choice is not available, my second choice is listed below:

Name:________________________________________________________________________
Title or Relationship:____________________________________________________________
Address:______________________________________________________________________
Home Phone: (

)___________________ Work Phone: (

)______________________

My agent can begin making decisions for me: (Choose one)

When my primary doctor or judge decides that I am not able to make my own
health care decisions.
Right away, but this does not mean I have given up my right to make up my own
decisions if I am still aware.

III.

Decisions on Living or Dying

I have made the following choices about my wishes regarding being kept alive: (Choose one)

I choose NOT to be kept alive if my doctor decides any of the following:

I have an illness that will not get better, cannot be cured, and will result in
my death quite soon; or
I am no longer aware (unconscious) and it is very likely that I will never
be conscious again; or
My doctor, after talking with others involved in my healthcare, decides
that the likely risks and burdens of treatment would be more than the
expected benefits.
I choose to be kept alive as long as possible within the limits of generally
accepted health care standards.

Additional choices: (Choose one)

I do NOT want treatment to keep me alive if my doctor decides that I can no

longer recognize most people or communicate and understand due to serious
disease or damage to my brain and treatment to keep me alive is not expected to
cure or improve my mental condition.
I want treatment to keep me alive that is generally given for my medical condition
even if I no longer recognize most people or communicate and understand due to
serious disease or damage to my brain, and the treatment will not cure or improve
my mental condition.

I have checked below my choice about the tube feeding or having water and nutrition fed into
my body through an IV or tube: (Choose one)

Artificial nutrition and hydration must be given, not given, or stopped based on
the choice I made about keeping me alive.
Artificial nutrition and hydration must be given regardless of my condition and
regardless of the choice I made above about keeping me alive.

I have made the following choices about pain relief: (Choose one)

I want treatment for relief of pain or discomfort to be given at all times, even if it
shortens the time until my death or makes me drowsy, unconscious, or unable to
do other things.
I do NOT want pain relief medications if it shortens the time until my death or
makes me drowsy, unconscious, or unable to do other things.

IV.

After Death Options

I have made the following decision regarding autopsy for diagnostic and research purposes:
(Choose one)

I do NOT agree to the performance of an autopsy.

I agree to the performance of an autopsy.

I have made the following decision about organ donation: (Choose one)

I do NOT wish to donate my organs.

I have filled out an organ donor card and:

I wish to donate my organs, tissues, or parts for transplant or therapy for another
person, to be chosen based on generally accepted health care standards
I give any needed organs, tissues, or parts, OR
I give the following organs, tissues, or parts only:
________________________________________

I wish to donate all my organs, tissues, or parts for research and education.
I give any needed organs, tissues, or parts, OR
I give the following organs, tissues, or parts only:
________________________________________
My preference for organ donation is to give my organs to the following
hospital, medical school, or doctor:
Name_______________________________________________________
Address_____________________________________________________

POSTMORTEM
I.

People to Notify

Personal Physician:______________________________________________________________
Funeral Director:________________________________________________________________
Medical Examiner:______________________________________________________________
Family and Friends:_____________________________________________________________

________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
Address book is located:__________________________________________________________
Call 911 if death was expected: Yes

No

Person(s) responsible for ensuring postmortem wishes are carried out:______________________

______________________________________________________________________________
Person or group to care for my body and its disposition:

Funeral home_____________________________
Family member___________________________
Friend___________________________________
Funeral Committee_________________________

Phone: (
Phone: (
Phone: (
Phone: (

)___________
)___________
)___________
)___________

II.

Burial Options
Burial

I prefer:
Embalming
Viewing
Visitation

Cremation

Yes No
Yes No
Yes No

Burial at sea

Memorial service
Graveside service
Funeral service

Preferred body burial container:

Pine casket

Willow casket

Metal casket

Other casket

Yes No
Yes No
Yes No

Cardboard casket
Papier Mache casket
Fiberglass casket
Shroud

Burial location: ________________________________________________________________

Purchased plot:

Yes No

Prearrangements:

Yes No

Cremate body at: _______________________________________________________________

Advance cremation authorization:

Yes No

Disposition of cremains:

Scatter (where)_____________________________________________________

Burial (where)______________________________________________________

Urn preference:

I own one, located:__________________________________________________

Buy one of:
Wood Metal Glass
Ceramic
Fancy
Simple
Make one of:
Wood Metal Glass
Ceramic
Fancy
Simple
Yes No

Eligible for veterans marker:

I have a marker at:_______________________________________________________________

Inscription should read:___________________________________________________________
Other marker preference:
Tree

Plant

Statue

Bench

Birdbath

My family knows and approves of these wishes:

Natural stone
Yes No

Other

MEMORIAL SERVICES
Here is some basic information about the most common types of memorial services.
Viewing This is an opportunity for family and friends to view your body or to sit with you
after you've died. A viewing is commonly held in a small room of a funeral home or
mortuary, but you are free to choose another place -- for example, your home, a
community hall, or a church.
Wake Traditionally, a wake is a gathering to celebrate and remember the life of the person
who has died. Often characterized by both sadness and gaiety, this gathering can be an
important part of the grieving process, allowing family and friends the opportunity to
come together and comfort each other. A wake is often held at a family home or a
mortuary that offers wake services.
Funeral A funeral is a traditional memorial ceremony, usually held in a funeral home or a
church. The body is often present, in either an open or closed casket. Beyond that, there
are no absolutes or requirements about what constitutes a funeral. If the deceased person
was religious, the funeral often includes a brief mass, blessing, or prayer service.
Veterans may choose a military funeral, and members of many organizations (such as
fraternal or 12-step groups) can choose a service that reflects the values of the
organization.
Memorial ceremony A memorial ceremony is a less formal ceremony held to remember
the life of someone who has died. It often takes place some time after the burial or
cremation, so the body is not usually present. Memorial ceremonies may be held
anywhere -- for example, a mortuary, religious building, home, outdoors, or even a
favorite restaurant.
Memorial ceremonies are more often the choice of those who wish to have an economic,
simple after-death commemoration. While funeral directors, grief counselors, or clergy
members may be involved in memorial ceremonies, they are not necessarily the people to
consult for objective advice. Many will advocate that traditional funerals -- often more
costly and less-personalized -- are most effective in helping survivors through the
mourning process. The truth is that most survivors take the greatest comfort from a
ceremony that reflects the wishes and personality of the deceased person.

MEMORIAL SERVICES WORKSHEET

I want the following type(s) of memorial service(s): Circle one: Public Private
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
My preference for the location of the service is: _________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
I would like the following people invited: ______________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________

I would like this person(s) to facilitate the service: _______________________________

________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
I would like this person(s) to speak at the service: _______________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
I would like the following items to be read at the service: _________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________

I would like the following items to be available at the service (food/decorations/etc.):

________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
I would like my body to be present at the service.

Yes

No

If YES, I would like it displayed in: __________________________________________

If NO, I would like this to be in its place: ______________________________________

If my body is displayed in its original form, I would like to be wearing: ______________

________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
Choose one:

I would like gifts sent to my family in the form of:

Choose one: Flowers Donations
Other________________________

I would like gifts sent to: ___________________________________________________

________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________

In lieu of gifts to my family, I would like donations sent to this organization:

________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________

I would like NO gifts of any kind.

OBITUARY WORKSHEET
Full Name_____________________________________________________________________
Announcement
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
Biographical Information
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
Schedule Ceremonies and/or Gathering of Remembrance
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________

Survivor Information
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
Listing of Newspapers for Placement
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________________________

FINAL FAREWELL
When we experience loss we often regret not having expressed something to our loved ones.
This concluding section is simply an encouragement for you to write letters to your loved ones
that can be shared after you have passed on. This is our final gift to all those in our life that have
made it what it is. We strongly encourage you to review this notebook each year, adding letters
to it or replacing ones that no longer accurately express what you wish to say.
This section needn't be limited to just letter writing. Feel free to be creative, placing photos,
newspaper clips, poems, cartoons; whatever you wish to share as a final statement and/or
goodbye. This notebook can be a strong piece of history that is passed on for generations. Let it
be infused with your personality, a statement of your life and all that you wish for people to
remember. Let it be a gift to your progeny. Fill it with your memories.
This section is also an opportunity to express things other than gratitude. It may be a place
where, for the first time in your life, you are able to say what you have always wanted to say
without filters. You have done a lot of work in life and in preparation for your own passing. This
is the place to complete that work with strength and conviction.

DEATH AND DYING GLOSSARY

Advance Directive (also known as Living Will or Medical Directive): Allows you to spell out
the medical treatment you want under specific circumstances. This is the document allows you to
formally appoint an agent
Agent: The person you have appointed, through an advance directive, to make all your health
care decisions beginning either right away or when you have become too ill to decide
Asset: The property of a deceased person subject by law to the payment of his or her debts and
legacies
Autopsy: An examination of a body after death to determine the cause of death or the character
and extent of changes produced by disease
Beneficiary: The person designated to receive the income of a trust or estate
Bioethics: A discipline dealing with the ethical implications of biological research and
applications especially in medicine
Comfort Care (see Palliative Care)
Conservator (see Guardian)
CPR: stands for Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation
DNR Order: stands for Do Not Resuscitate
Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care (see Advance Directive)
Estate: The total of any property and assets you own minus any liabilities, such as loans or
debts, at the time of your death.
Executor (also known as Personal Representative): A person or an institution, such as a law
firm, named in a will as being responsible for managing the deceaseds estate.
Guardian (also known as Conservator): A personal named in a will whose role is to protect the
interests of the deceaseds minor children.
Health Care Proxy: Authorizes someone to make medical decisions for you if you are unable to
do so.
Heir: One who inherits or is entitled to inherit property.

Hospice: A facility or program designed to provide a caring environment for supplying the
physical and emotional needs of the terminally ill.
Irrevocable Trust: A trust that cannot be altered after it has been executed.
Living Trust: A trust established while you are still alive and can be dissolved or changed
before you die.
Living Will (see Advance Directive)
Medical Directive (see Advance Directive)
Mental Health Directive: This document allows you to choose what treatment you want if you
become very mentally ill and are unable to make health care decisions.
Notary Public: A public officer who attests or certifies writings to make them.
Organ Donation: The act of donating a deceased persons organs to an institution for medical
research or transplantation.
Palliative Care (also known as Comfort Care): A type of care program to moderate the intensity
of pain and suffering of a terminally ill person.
Personal Representative (see Executor)
Power of Attorney: A document that lets an individual appoint another person to act on his or
her behalf regarding the control of money and property.
Probate: The legal process of settling an estate, which includes verifying the authenticity of the
will, creating an inventory of the deceaseds assets and liabilities, paying off debts and taxes,
identifying heirs, and distributing property.
Trust: A legal arrangement that allows you to transfer property to a trustee for the benefit of
your beneficiaries, without court involvement.
Testamentary Trust: Created by a will, this trust becomes effective only upon the death of the
person named.
Trustee: The person, persons, or institution responsible for managing the assets placed into a
trust and/or transferring property to beneficiaries or heirs.
Will: The cornerstone of any estate plan, a will specifies how you want your assets distributed
when you die and names an executor for your estate as well as a guardian for your minor
children.

DEATH AND DYING RESOURCES

ECO-FRIENDLY BURIAL CONTAINERS

Build Your Own Coffin Plans with Plans for Pet Coffins, too
http://www.rockler.com/
Burial Shrouds
http://kinkaraco.com/
Cardboard Coffins
http://www.cardboardcasket.com/
EcoPod Papier Mache caskets and Acorn urn
http://www.ecopod.co.uk/
Pine Caskets
http://www.eco-coffins.com/
Woven Caskets
http://naturalfunerals.com/
ETHICAL AND GREEN BURIAL
Organization furthering development of green burial grounds in U.S.A and Canada
http://www.forestofmemories.org/
Neo Pagan burial information
http://immarama.faithweb.com/
Ideas about ethical burials
http://www.ethicalburial.org/
North American Woodland Burial Society
http://woodlandburial.htmlplanet.com/
Natural Death Centre with links to U.S.A. and Canadian sites
http://www.naturaldeath.org.uk/
HEALTHCARE
Dunn, Hank. Hard Choices for Loving People: CPR, Artificial Feeding, Comfort Care and the
Patient with a Life-Threatening Illness.
Lynn, Joanne. Handbook for Mortals: Guidance for People Facing Serious Illness.

Meyer, Charles. A Good Death: Challenges, Choices and Care Options.

Pearlman, Robert. Your Life, Your Choices-Planning for Future Medical Decisions: How to
Prepare a Personalized Living Will.
Taking Charge of Your Health Care
(link to ADF form)
http://www.maine.gov/dhhs/beas/resource/rit2chew.htm
Office of Elder Services
http://www.maine.gov/dhhs/beas/
Aging: Taking Care of Business
http://www.maine.gov/dhhs/beas/resource/atcb5_01.htm
Maine Hospice Council
Links
http://www.mainehospicecouncil.org/links/links.htm\
Americans for the Better Care of the Dying
http://www.abcd-caring.org/
LEGAL ASPECTS
Legal Services for the Elderly
Common Questions About Wills
http://www.mainelse.org/kyr/wills.htm
FUNERAL INFORMATION
Carlson, Lisa. Caring for the Dead: Your Final Act of Love
Funeral Consumers Alliance
Legislative concerns, caring for your own dead, many useful links
http://www.funerals.org/
Laws Regarding Funeral Directors and Embalmers
http://janus.state.me.us/legis/statutes/32/title32ch21sec0.html
Maine State Board of Funeral Service
(scroll about half-way down the page)
http://www.maine.gov/sos/cec/rules/02/chaps02.htm

GRIEF SUPPORT
The Growth House
http://www.growthhouse.org/
Griefnet.Org
http://www.griefnet.org/
Good Endings.Net
http://www.goodendings.net/
Dying Well
http://www.dyingwell.org/
Beyond Indigo
http://www.beyondindigo.com/
Compassionate Friends
http://www.compassionatefriends.org/
Becker, Marilyn R. Last Touch: Preparing for a Parents Death
ORGAN DONATIONS
New England Organ Bank
http://www.neob.org/
Wednesday, September 7, 2005
American Bar Associations Commission on Law and Aging
Consumers Tool Kit for Health Care Advance Planning
http://www.abanet.org/aging/toolkit/home.html
University of New England Body Donor Program
http://www.une.edu/com/bodydonor.asp
MEDIA PROGRAMS/SPECIALS
NPR Program
The End of Life
http://www.npr.org/programs/death/
PBS Series
End of Life Tools
http://www.thirteen.org/onourownterms/tools/

PBS
Before I Die
http://www.thirteen.org/bid/
JOURNALS/MAGAZINES
Bereavement Magazine
http://www.bereavementmag.com/
RITES OF PASSING
Fortune, Dion. Book of the Dead. (Formerly printed as: Through the Gates of Death.)
OGaea, Ashleen. In The Service of Life: A Wiccan Perspective on Death.
Starhawk. The Pagan Book of Living and Dying.
Druid rites of passing, issues surrounding death
http://www.druidnetwork.org/rites/passage/passing/index.html