10 Ways To Be An Upstander: - Adapted From Bullybust
10 Ways To Be An Upstander: - Adapted From Bullybust
10 Ways To Be An Upstander: - Adapted From Bullybust
2. Stop untrue or harmful messages from spreading. If someone tells you a rumor
that you know is untrue or sends you a message that is hurtful to someone else, stand up and let the person know this is wrong. Think about how you would feel if someone spread an untrue rumor about you. Dont laugh, send the message on to friends, or add to the story. Make it clear that you do not think that kind of behavior is cool or funny.
3.Get friends involved. Let people know that you are an upstander and
encourage them to be one too. Sign the Stand Up Pledge, and make it an everyday commitment for you and your friends.
4. Make friends outside of your circle. Eat lunch with someone who is alone. Show
support for a person who is upset at school, by asking them what is wrong or bringing them to an adult who can help.
5. Be aware of the bullying policy at your school and keep it in mind when you
witness bullying. If there isnt a policy, get involved or ask teachers or front office staff to speak about how you can reduce bullying.
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introduce them around and help them feel comfortable. Imagine how you would feel leaving your friends and coming to a new school.
laughing along with the bully, tell them that they are contributing to the problem. Let them know that by laughing they are also bullying the victim.
differences. Its cool for people to be different thats what makes all of us unique. Join a diversity club at school to help promote tolerance in your school.
principals support that will help reduce bullying in school. Bring together a team of students, parents and teachers to meet and talk about bullying on a regular basis and share stories and support. Discuss the hot spots where bullying most likely occurs (ex. the bus, bathroom, an unmonitored hallway) and what can be done on a school level to make sure students and teachers are safe and supported. Learn more about how to start an Upstander Alliance at www.bullybust.org/upstander and access free support to sustain your team.
example: Why do kids bully? Where does bullying take place most often in your school? What are the effects of bullying? Why are people afraid to get involved? Understanding this information will help you if you are bullied and will help you to stand up to bullies if a
Reprinted with permission from BullyBust: Creating a Community of Upstanders(TM), the nationwide bully prevention/pro-upstander campaign from the National School Climate Center (NSCC). For more information and free educator, student, and parent supports, visit: www.BullyBust.org. All materials are adapted from NSCCs Breaking the Bully-Victim-Bystander Cycle Tool Kit, Eyman, W. & Cohen, J. (2009).