Mind Control Her
Mind Control Her
Mind Control Her
You'll learn the exact dialogue you can use to walk up to any
woman, transition immediately into your routine, and leave
with her phone number - or better yet... Leave with her!
Once a woman realizes that you have special mental powers
or an amazing ability to read her - rock stars, rich guys and
Brad Pitt look-alikes will have nothing on you.
The Effect
You walk up to a female and say, “If I can guess you’re
phone number – can I call you and take you out?” Chances
are she’ll agree because she’ll think there is no way in hell
you could figure it out.
The Details
Now before you start salivating and think you’re going to
actually be able to go around figuring out her phone number
by reading her mind… remember – this is a trick.
Now that she’s agreed to your little “bet”, you ask her to
borrow a pen or pencil. If she doesn’t have one, just take
out your own. Tell her to look you directly in the eyes. Tell
her that through body language and visual cues you’ll be
able to figure out her phone number. You can say that you
are psychic if you want but she’ll probably think it’s
nonsense and then figure out that you must have used some
kind of trick. People tend to actually believe you if you throw
in stuff about body language or visual cues.
Now you ask her for her phone number. She says, “555-
6428”. You tell her, “There’s no way I could have known
that, right?” Wait for her answer and continue, “Do you think
I got it right?” She’ll probably say no way. You turn the
paper over and sure enough you have 555-6428 written on
it.
TELEPHONE TELEPATHY
The Effect
Walk up to a woman and tell her to pick any card and tell it
to you. You then pick up a cell phone, call a friend and your
friend is able to tell her exactly which card she picked.
The Details
Walk up to a girl or group of girls at a bar or club and tell
them that you can telepathically project thoughts through
radio waves via a cell phone. Tell her it’s taken you years,
but through lots of meditation it’s possible to get brain
waves in sync with the frequency of radio waves.
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Tell her to pick any card that exists in a standard deck of
cards (ie. The 6 of Hearts). What makes this trick great is
that you don’t need to actually have a deck of cards with
you. Have her tell you which card she picked. Now tell her
that you will call a friend and through telepathy you’ll tell the
friend which card they chose.
If done smoothly and quickly the girl will have no idea how
you did it. The great thing is, you can hang up and do it over
and over again. She’ll never know how you’re doing it! Okay
– now here comes the best part of the trick. After you do it
once, tell the girl that you can project even more complex
things through the phone as well. Tell her to give you her
phone number and you’ll mentally project it through the
phone and you guarantee your friend will be able to pick it
up. If possible, have a pen ready so she can write it down
for you. As soon as she gives you the number, pretend
you’re calling your friend (you can be putting her number in
your phone at this time). Then just say, “Oh – he didn’t
answer… but thanks for your number. I’ll give you a call
tomorrow”. Now start to walk away and give her a little
smirk. Don’t say goodbye. Just disappear from her sight for
a little while and come back in about 5 minutes. I guarantee
that she’ll be all over you when you get back!
The Effect
You approach a woman and tell her to think of 3 different
memories and write them down on 3 separate pieces of
paper. The first should be a memory of an old friend. The
second should be a favorite song of theirs. The third should
be a memory of a time that they were in physical pain (like
an injury).
You then tell them to throw away two of the pieces of paper
without showing you which ones they threw away (or tell her
to put the discarded ones in her pocket). Tell them to focus
on the memory that remains. You mysteriously tell them
which memory they are holding in their hand.
The Details
NLP has shown that people will look in specific directions
when accessing different kinds of memories.
The Effect
You ask a girl or group of girls to think of a vegetable and
they say, “carrot”. They are amazed that you predicted it
beforehand.
Before the trick starts, you have the word “carrot” written on
a piece of paper. You start by telling the girls you’re going to
give them a brief math quiz to prepare them for an
experiment in mind reading. Tell them it’ll only take a
minute, so they know that they won’t be getting involved in
some 3 hour experiment. If you’re at a party, you can have
a bunch of pieces of paper ready and pens to hand them. If
you’re at a bar or club you can just tell them to think of the
answers in their head.
Now you can tell the girls that you’ve proven your point. You
can even pull your friend over and act as if you’ve won the
argument with him. Tell the girls that this is a Freudian
experiment. Tell them that they all thought of carrot
because it’s a phallic symbol. Tell them that 90% of women
think of carrot and that when the experiment is done with
men – the answers are totally varied. Tell them that Freud
used this to show how sexual women are and how much of
their subconscious is consumed with thoughts of “penis”.
They’ll get a kick out of this and probably believe you.
Another way you can sell this trick is to say that master of
subliminal suggestion and that somewhere in there; you
subliminally suggested that they choose carrot. This will get
them thinking that you’re amazing and most importantly –
YOU’RE NOT BORING. Women would rather be dead than
bored.
The Effect
Approach a set of two or more women at a party. If there
are more than two of them, pick two that seem to be talking
to each other most. Say this to them, “You two seem like
you have a really strong connection – have you been friends
long?” If they say yes, you’re all set. If they say they just
met recently you say, “Wow, it seems like you’ve known
each other for a while… I bet you’re going to be friends for a
long time”. Pause for a moment and wait for reaction. Then
continue, “Do you guys believe that friends can often sense
when another friend is in danger or that friends can develop
some kind of telepathic bond?” They’ll usually agree that this
is possible and may even mention some example of how this
happened in their life. If they do, great – this will make the
job of selling this trick even easier. If they don’t, you can tell
them you’ll prove to them that it’s true.
How it Works
You are actually touching the person with their eyes closed –
just not at the time everyone is expecting. Each friend
thinks the touch is happening at different times. You have
“Friend A” close her eyes and secretly touch her while
nobody is looking. Seconds later you touch “Friend B”.
Everyone will think this is the touch that “Friend A” felt while
it was really the secret touch from seconds before that they
felt.
The Details
Now you tell “friend B”, “Okay, check this out!” As you do
this, take your left hand and point your finger in her face
while staring her in the eye. Get right in her face and move
your body partially in between her and her friend, distracting
The Effect
After asking someone a series of questions, you figure out a
specific animal that they are thinking of.
Tell her to just keep this stuff in her head and not to say it
out loud. As she is done, cleverly say, “There are no orange
Kangaroos in Denmark”. Almost everyone will come up with
this as the response but they’ll be surprised that you said
that because it seems like it was nearly impossible for you to
force this answer. A few people will think Koala but then
HUMAN CALENDAR
Want to make people think you’re a genius? After seeing you
perform this trick, they’ll think you’re the smartest person
they’ve ever met. You’ve heard stories about how savants,
autistic people and the select few with photographic
memories can recall the most intricate details that most of
us could never remember. Now you can learn this skill in
minutes!
The Effect
The Details
You will actually need to use your memory to perform this
but not nearly in the capacity it would take to memorize
every date in history or in the future. You just have to
memorize this simple equation for finding the day of the
week that any date falls on (from the year 2000-2099) that
has been kept secret for years by mentalists and those
claiming to have photographic memory:
1. Look at the last two digits of the year and add ¼ of that
number to itself. [when finding a ¼ of the number, if the
answer ends in a decimal, just get rid of the number after
the decimal. Ie. 1.5 becomes simply 1] (06 + 1 = 7)- So we
end up with 7
Month Codes
Jan: 6
Feb: 2
Mar: 2
Apr: 5
May: 0
Jun: 3
Notes
In the rare case the date you’re looking for is in a leap year
and it falls in January or February then you have to subtract
1 from the total you get in step 4.
1700s: add 5
1800s: add 3
1900s: add 1
2100s: subtract
2200s: subtract 4
The Details
The way this is done is almost too easy. It’s so easy that
people won’t know how the hell you’re doing it. You get a
friend, AKA “a stooge” who’s in on the trick with you.
Magicians and so called mentalists use this all the time in
their stage performances, but most people don’t think they
are actually doing it. Why do people rarely suspect “a
stooge” is used? Well, first of all, it’s such a simple answer
that people are usually searching for some complex solution.
The simplest tricks are usually the best. Also, people tend to
believe the magician, when he/she says with conviction, “No
stooges will be used during this performance”. It’s almost as
if they forget that the magician is trying to trick them. They
forget that the whole performance is a “lie” - why would the
performer hesitate to lie about not using stooges? Although
– in this case, make sure not to say, “I’m not using a
stooge”. This will probably tip them off to it.
First of all, you can use any object for this trick. I choose a
bottle because it shouldn’t be hard to find a beer bottle at a
party. Have this set up before hand with a friend (stooge).
Your stooge simply signals you which person touched it by
using a number system going from left to right. If there are
six people in the group, the person furthest to your left
would be #1 and the person furthest to the right would be
#6. If they are sitting in a circle, just use a clockwise
system. Don’t forget to have your stooge give himself a
number too and to have him touch the bottle once in a while
as well.
The Effect
You walk up to a group of women at a bar or club and say,
“You guys are a predictable bunch - I noticed from across
the bar that you guys display so many of the classic body
language “tells” that most women exhibit in social settings.”
Calling them “guys” let’s them know that you are casual and
not intimidating at first. Then you follow with, “You’re body
language gives away so much about you”. They’ll be sure to
get slightly offended but you’ll definitely have their
attention. They may say something like, “Oh yeah? What
can you tell about us genius?” The person that says that (or
something like it) is likely to be the leader of the group
because she stepped up first. Either way, it doesn’t really
matter what you say here. You should point to the one who
spoke up first and say, “I can tell you’re the leader of the
group”. It’s a natural tendency for everyone to want to be
the leader of the group so she’ll probably agree with you or
The girl puts her hands behind her back and then out in
front of her holding the coin in one hand. You look at her
and act as if you are assessing her body language to figure
out which hand it’s in. Say things like, “Oh man, you’re too
easy…. You’re giving it away”. You proceed to guess
accurately all 5 times. Each time you can act like there’s
something she’s doing to give it away. Once you get to the
4th and 5th time you can really start clowning on the whole
group here by saying things like, “It’s amazing how much
you guys were giving away with your body language while
you guys were talking before I came over. I’ve been
studying the psychology of body language for a while and I
could even tell that one of you in particular really found me
attractive when I first walked over”. Now that you’ve really
proven that you are a body language expert, they’ll really
believe that one of them found you attractive and they’ll all
wonder if it was them that was giving you the nonverbal
cues. Once you finish you should ask the girl you liked to
make good on the bet and get you a drink. Now that you’ve
You can either give them the magnetic coin to use for the
trick or you can ask them for a coin and secretly swap it with
yours by pretending to pass it from your left hand to your
right hand, while you really just had the magnetic coin in
your right hand the whole time and didn’t swap anything.
When the compass goes near the hand with the coin, the
compass arms will move. You can just stand very close to
The Method
Have her put her arms out in front of her and tell her that
you’re going to guess which hand each coin is in. Go into a
spiel about how you’ve studied body language extensively
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and that people do certain things with their body to give
away which hand the coin is in. Tell her that body language
relies on the right side of the brain so you’ll need to occupy
the left side of the brain which governs reason to try and
allow her natural body language show itself. Explain to her
that when doing this, people sometimes try to hide their
natural body language so by occupying the left side of her
brain with the math, her body language will respond without
her being aware of it.
There are all kinds of ways to give fake psychic readings but
believe it or not, the proven best way to do it that has the
highest “believability rate” is to use a script that has proven
to fit all women. That’s right – one script tends to fit all (well
– almost all). You may have seen Derren Brown do this on
his TV show. He gave a group of women a psychic reading
that he said was tailored to each of them. Each one of them
believed that Derren had given them their own personalized
reading based on his psychic ability. The women were all
shocked at how much he knew about them. They were
amazed and convinced that he definitely had read them.
When they found out that he used a prewritten script and
that each of them were given the exact same reading, they
were shocked. Ya see – the truth is… women are pretty
much all the same (human beings in general are pretty
much all the same). On a deep level - they all have the
same wants and needs. They all have the same insecurities
and the same beliefs about themselves.
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Here are the principles behind this. Most of psychic reading
relies on stating obvious things that have happened or
pertain to everyone. People will tend to try to find a
correlation to what’s presented in the reading and their
personal life or personality. They will almost always find a
connection. There is a prewritten script that has been tested
by psychologists on thousands of women. After using it on a
woman, she will definitely will believe that you picked up
things from her aura. 90% of women will believe that you
actually just read their mind or soul because they won’t
believe you could have otherwise known such intimate
details about them. I’ve used this reading on countless
women and it has worked every time. Here’s a canned
script that has been used throughout history which has had
the highest believability rate of all universal readings:
This script has been tested and proven over and over again
in countless psychological studies. You don’t have to use it
word for word, but should stick as close to the script as
possible. You can tailor it slightly to each woman based on
other cues you pick up about her. You’d be amazed at how
easy that can be too. A woman can be sitting there slouched
CONCLUSION
So you now have an arsenal of tricks to use out their in the
field. I strongly suggest reading this several times until the
material becomes second nature. Remember – repetition is
the mother of success. Keep a look out for my advanced CD
and DVD series where I will delve into extremely advanced
techniques. Also – don’t forget to check out my original
course; The Art Of War For Dating at DatingWar.com. Make
sure to join my mailing list because I’ll soon be releasing
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part 2 of this book which will have lots more tricks, opening
lines and closers that you can use to get the girl. As soon as
part 2 is released I’ll be offering it first to the people who
bought this one to show my appreciation.
I’d like to sincerely thank you for reading this and I look
further to coaching you even further in the future!
- Spencer Michaels