PDF Teori Rasional Emotif
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Abstract
This article explores conceptual and methodological similarities between Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy (REBT) and
Tibetan Buddhism (TB). The authors examine some of the values and concepts they share. They compare the two systems on a number of issues: philosophical underpinnings, concepts of what causes human psychopathology, techniques Philosophical Underpinnings
to bring about change, outcome expectancies and goals. The purpose of this exploration is to increase awareness of the Both REBT and TB encourage human beings to
need for Western psychotherapists to develop a comprehensive science of the mind to help humans overcome difficulties pursue happiness and eliminate suffering, when
possible.. They have an existential humanistic oriand to live more fulfilling lives.
Keywords
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy, REBT, Tibetan Buddhism (TB), comparison, similarities
Method of Study
Both REBT and TB encourage people to think critically and to pursue truth. The scientific method is
encouraged, andthought to be necessary. According to REBT people might strive to learn to train
themselves through rigorous thinking about and
working against some of their strongest inborn and
environmental tendencies (Ellis 2005, p 64.). People can acquire skills allowing them to debate their
irrational thoughts and acquire a realistic view of
the world. According to TB, the Dharma can only
gain in strength and universality by open-minded,
Causes of Pathology
What causes pathology? Cognition is a central concept in both TB and REBT. Thoughts are a main
contributor to happiness and unhappiness in both
systems.
In REBT, crooked cognitions cause pathology and
take the form of self criticism or non self-acceptance.
Human beings tend to make unreasonable demands
on themselves, on others, and on the world. When
an individual fails to fulfill these demands in the
past, present or future, she becomes agitated and
damns herself She labels herself as bad, and gives
herself (and others) a negative global rating. This
lack of self acceptance interferes with achieving her
basic goals. A second cognition that can result in
pathologyoccurs when a person does not get what
he wants. The individual makes a demand on self,
on others and on the world that is characterized by
an all-permeating attitude and dogmatic insistence
that life must be comfortable. When these demands
are not met in the past, present or future, the person has negative feelings. Displeasure and dissatisfaction arise and the person is disturbed (Ellis &
the human condition, natural biological tendencies. Both believe it is natural state of human beings to possess thoughts and emotions that are wild
and unruly. No matter how competent, intelligent,
religious, moral, or well educated and trained, human beings have irrational thoughts and behaviors
and seem to fall back into self defeating patterns
in both personal and professional lives. They fail to
transcend irrationality.
REBT does not elaborate on the reasons why people think crooked but rather emphasizes how to
stop thinking crooked! The mind has irrational beliefs, absolutist, illusory evaluations of self others
and the universe. Specific evaluations are couched
in terms of must, should, ought, have to, got to.
Core irrational conclusions include awfulizing, I
cant stand it, damnation. The emphasis is on the
present, past and future lives are not mentioned.
TB claims that the relationships among thoughts,
actions and their results lies at the basis of pathology. Every act has consequences. Past actions from
this life and previous lives are important. The mind
fabricates and creates an ego that has preconceived
notions and illusions about the self. Beliefs are
marked by rigid absolutism. One clings to expectations, attachments, objects, hopes, dreams, and
other tangible and intangible entities. Wrong views,
attitudes, and discernments cause disturbance and
misery. Ignorance and attachment lie at the basis
of disturbance. Not applying skillful effort or not
following the right path to become enlightened is
at the basis of pathology(Wallace, 1993).
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REBT
TB
Goals
Method of study
Critical thinking
Scientific, logical methods of inquiry
Critical thinking
Scientific, logical, methods of inquiry
Philosophical
underpinning
Roots/pathology
Methods to achieve
good mental health/
nirvana
Major Differences
We have discussed the similarities between REBT
and TB. There are, of course, many differences between them. Table 1 summarizes and highlights
some of the major similarities and differences. It
would take volumes to identify and describe them
entirely. REBT is a psychotherapy developed by one
founder, Albert Ellis, in this century, and is more
circumscribed and limited in scope than TB. TB
has existed since the 7th century and is based upon
a number of Eastern philosophies, upon monastic discipline, and led by a succession of spiritual
leaders. TB is now better known in the West since
the 14th Dalai Lama fled from Communist China
to take refuge in Dharmsala, India and spread the
teachings. Thus, REBTs scope is limited to psychotherapy in contrast to TB which prescribes the way
to achieve happiness, a continuous life journey. Another major difference worth noting is that REBT
stresses a more materialistic. less spiritual view of
life than TB. REBT clearly advocates individualism
and self-interest tempered with interest in the other. Helping others is a pragmatic goal which serves
the best interests of the individual. It is preferable
to have good relationships with others than to live
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