Defensive Living Manifesto
Defensive Living Manifesto
Defensive Living Manifesto
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Table of Contents
1 Introduction
1.1 Evil and Violence on the Increase
1.2 Importance of the Right Mindset
1.3 Ask The Hard Questions!
1.4 Face The Truth!
1.5 One Step at a Time
1. Introduction:
A short time ago, in a small southern town, an elderly couple was
enjoying a quiet evening watching TV. Someone banging on the back
door startled them, and the husband got up to see who it was. A man
was at the back door shouting, banging on the door, demanding to
come in.
The husband told the intruder to go
away assuming he was a drunk at
the wrong house. After the man
began to break the door in, the wife
called 911 while the husband tried
to persuade the man to just leave.
The police were on their way, but it
would be a few minutes.
After the intruder had broken
through the outer door, he began to
break through the screen door. The
husband went to his room and
returned with a loaded shotgun. He
again warned and even pleaded
with the intruder not to come in. As
the man was about to come
through the screen, the husband
shot twice, point blank range into
the intruder’s chest. He died
instantly.
In an inner city neighborhood, a teenager, his sister and mother heard
a window break in the kitchen. Upon entering the kitchen they saw a
large man trying to climb through the window. After calling 911, the
teenage boy retrieved the family gun, warned the intruder to go back
out, and when it was obvious that his warnings went unheeded, shot
twice killing the man.
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with their lives. Our fascination is like pouring water on parched and
dry land only to witness the growth of weeds: The more water the
more weeds.
In bad economic times particularly, it's understandable for people to
worry more about the security of their homes and families. With police
departments across the country forced to cut their budgets,
homeowners should feel anxious about the safety of their
communities.
If your interest in this paper is due
to a need to find better ways to
protect yourself and your family,
then I strongly recommend you
read on. There are many positive
steps you can take.
Unfortunately, whatever security
level most people believe they have
is nothing but an illusion or wishful
thinking.
You can’t think in terms of what would prevent you from getting into a
residence as the standard for keeping someone else out. Why?
Because if you arrive home, find the front door locked, it is normal to
assume that the door and lock are pretty much intruder proof. I mean if
you can’t even get into your own house, how is someone less familiar
with it going to get in, right?
Consider the security surrounding the President of the United States.
The monetary cost for the security of President Obama’s Inauguration
was the most expensive in the history of the United States.
Sadly, this heightened security was due to President’s skin color or a
perceived threat from some terrorist group.
Yet, the more fundamental justification is the haunting reality that evil
and violence are on the increase in the religious, political, and social
arenas of life.
Think about it. If someone is willing to kill over race, as a gang
initiation, for money, or for the mere “fun” of watching someone
suffer, then what options do you have against such bigotry and random
acts of violence?
This paper and my blog, Defensive Living, are a result of the conviction
that all people have the inherent right to live safe and secure. If certain
principles and procedures are implemented secure living can be
achieved.
1.2 The Importance of the Right Mindset
Let’s talk about mindset. Without a defensive way of thinking you
remain vulnerable to the threats of evil people. You must make some
important decisions or violent people will make the decisions for you.
Let me use the example of the President again as I raise this question;
Why do you think the President is the most secure and safe person in
the world?
Because of the sophisticated security systems and the highly trained
security personnel that surround the President?
Partly, it is always good to have the bigger gun. The primary reason is
the defensive mindset and resolve of the people overseeing and
operating the sophisticated weapons and security systems. These
people have the deep conviction that no one has a right to kill the
President. No one is going to kill the President. And heaven help
anyone who tries.
Because of a personal friend who worked as an assistant to the
President, I was able to visit the White House a few years ago.
Okay, I realize I wasn’t enough of a threat for the secret service to even
break much of a sweat, or more truthfully, to break a sweat at all, but
for that one small fraction of a split second, I had their undivided
attention. C’mon, we all need to feel the spot light at least once in our
lives, even if for only a very fleeting moment.
1.3. Ask The Hard Questions!
Okay, no more kidding around. Let’s get back to you, the Reader. I
want you to seriously consider this question. Who is paying for your
personal security and safety? Is there anyone who cares enough to do
something?
“Well, don’t we pay taxes for police and fire protection?” Let me
rephrase the question. Who makes sure no one is in your house when
you get home or is there to protect you if someone does get in?
Misplaced pride will always limit your potential, so you have to be
honest and ask yourself these hard questions; what plan have you
enacted for your security and safety; a rusty dead bolt, flimsy window
locks, and generally unused peep hole in the front door?
To be honest with you, most people don’t put up much of a fight, and if
they do they are terribly ill-equipped; about like trying to stop a
speeding train with a golf club or a grizzly bear with a BB gun.
I hear this all the time; “All I can do is lock the doors and windows at
night, but you know if someone really wants to get in I guess there’s
not a whole lot you can do.”
Well, guess what? You can bet your life savings that there is someone
out there who really wants to get in.
He just needs to find people who have “thrown up their hands,” given
up, and believe that the bad guy will always have a greater
determination than they do and always able to outsmart those trying
to keep them out.
I know that there are people in my community that really want to break
into my home, so my response is that I really do not want them to
break-in. My “really” will just need to be stronger.
You need to envision yourself
capable of attaining more resolve
to protect yourself than an intruder
has to harm you. That vision is the
foundation for a defensive way of
thinking.
More hard questions: What about
smoke, fire, and carbon monoxide
detectors—do you even have any,
and if you do, are they the right
kind, properly placed and powered;
will they really work?
And who have you appointed
responsible to insure that your
children are always safe from predators and what they play on is secure
and safe?
Are your parents or other elderly family
members secure? Why not? Whose
responsibility is that? Who really cares?
Perhaps you genuinely care, but don’t
know how to implement a plan.
“Well, we just have to trust that my
parents are safe and that no one will try to
break in.” Let me be blunt, if I may; if that
is your attitude, then trust me, your
parents are not safe. If someone tries to
break in, they will. And if your parents
don’t have what the intruders want, you’ll
probably be attending their funeral.
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You might say, “Well, we’re not at risk because we’re not high profile
people,” or; “I don’t really have anything that anybody would want.”
You might as well put a bull’s-eye on your chest. That kind of thinking
just makes you an easy target.
I can’t help you unless you are willing to help yourself. If you consider
your destiny to be that of a victim, then you can either change your
perspective or continue to view yourself as someone’s doormat.
I’m quite sure that you are not on a top ten hit list of some terrorist
group, but that does not mean you are of no interest to anybody else.
It matters little if any, what your profile level in society is or how many
valuables you actually have; you represent something that somebody
else does not, and you have something that somebody else does not,
whether its money, your body, or your children. Murderers seek what
they don’t have. And you have a lot of things they don’t have.
Do you realize that there are people out
there kidnapping others and selling their
body parts for cash on the black market?
Even if you have no money, your body is
worth a great deal.
Besides, an intruder has no idea what you
possess before he breaks in.
Often times, violence occurs because of
the intruder’s frustration over not finding
the valuables or cash that he needs.
All serial killers, thieves, drug addicts,
child abductors, and rapists have evil,
twisted, and dangerous desires, and are seriously preoccupied with
their fulfillment.
They are deceitful, manipulative, cunning, determined, and violent.
Remember, they are predators and predators must eat.
Have you ever watched the news and heard that reaction before? I hear
it all the time. And so have the people who end up saying it.
So why do they themselves repeat it?
Many think they live in some type of “Wonder Land” for only the
chosen, comfortable, well-to-do, and well-adjusted.
The swirling, glimmering winds of goodness somehow just gather
these kinds of people into their “Pleasantville” villages of joy. “Family
Neighborhoods,” they call them. All of that wonderful goodness is like
one of those sonar pest-repellent devices. Just turn it on and all those
unwanted critters will just slither away.
The fact is, the more “Wonder Land” you look, the more “Wonder” you
create. Criminal eyes “Wonder” at the possibilities that you, your
home, and family
affords; like a three-
year-old eyes the candy
at the candy counter.
Remember, evil hates
good, because good
always has what evil
lacks. Evil is envious and
resentful of good and all
that good possesses.
Rapists and predators
are enticed by the innocent sweet “little ones” in your neighborhood.
To the drug addict, burglar, or murderer, where there is community,
friendly neighbors, good wholesome people, there is also a lot of blind
cluelessness, naiveté, stupidity, and of course the real prize, money—
lots and lots of money.
Shocked people always have lots of money. “Why not keep it at home,
because we’re so safe here in “Wonder Land.”
Keep in mind; rapists want the women they could never have without
raping. It’s all about the conquest and the perverted sexual fulfillment
associated with it. “Wonder Lands” have the kind of exciting potential
that predators live to experience.
And then finally this response; Nothing like this ever happens in this
town.
Well, it just did. Nothing like this ever happens at the White House
either, and you know why? Trained and prepared personnel are never
shocked and surprised by potential threats, like naive people who
never seem to face reality.
Forgive my bluntness, but isn’t
being surprised by the obvious
somewhat indicative of mental
incompetence, or perhaps more
accurately, intellectual disconnect?
Am I being a bit harsh?
Regarding a toddler surprised by
the splash of water, yes, but not on an adult who is bewildered at the
pain when putting his hand in boiling water.
You really have to wonder about someone who would do that.
When a person is
shocked after ample
warning, clear evidence,
and the obvious, it is
followed usually with a
defensive response such
as; Well, I would have
never thought . . .
The annoying problem
with stupid is when
stupid defends its
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The fears and insecurities grew into a constant need to defend myself
as a child and teenager. The “demons” behind the Forbidden Door in
my room, took the form of school bullies.
As a result of almost daily intimidating experiences, I developed well as
a street fighter, but turned into a bully like so many before me—the
greatest terror of my childhood.
2.2. Ranch Life
Consequently, at the beginning of my 17th year, I left home and moved
to a small rural town in southeastern Oklahoma to get some distance
from the trouble I had caused.
The family I lived with was personal friends of my parents and had
agreed to take me in. Their influence turned my life completely around.
Once again, I was the “new kid” living three miles outside of a small
town, and I mean small (800 people), where everyone knew everything
about everybody. Yet, this time I entered this new world a lot more
prepared.
sense of fairness in combat, you know, “C’mon, get up, you want some
more?” The type of perspective which allows an opponent to get up.
My question is; get up and do what, have another chance at breaking
your jaw, knee, or rupturing your kidneys? Kicking somebody while he
is down has a much better chance of keeping him down.
Country people, for the most part, are much friendlier and more
neighborly than city folk. The cowboys that I hung around were always
fun to be around, pretty even tempered, loyal, and it took a lot for
them to get angry.
When they finally did, they would
charge in like a bull and swing
wildly telegraphing their punches
like a siren on a fire truck, which
were easily blocked and
countered.
If the fight went to the ground,
however, you could be in big
trouble in a hurry. Those guys
were just flat-out strong. They
grew up working and throwing 100
lb hay bales and feed sacks around
like they were feather pillows.
It was a great opportunity to hone my self-defense techniques by
learning to out-maneuver much stronger opponents. Besides, in the
process I became much stronger myself, and made some great friends.
There was this guy in town with some boxing experience who had
heard of me. At that time, I was 6’2”, 230 lbs with a 32 inch waist,
unlike my present gravity ridden body. (No worry please, forty years
later I’m still the same height, 10 lbs lighter, with a 35 inch waist, but
unfortunately, my body shape has matured, so to speak.)
Every Saturday night after a few beers this bozo would blow his
bullhorn mouth around town calling me out. Townspeople would say,”
I think Roger is looking for you again.” It was very embarrassing, to say
the least. What was there to say? “Oh thank you, I’ll be sure to look him
up.”
A drunken boxer always forgets how vulnerable he is on the streets
where there are no referees, rounds, rules, or weight classes. He is just
like any other fighter. You just have to watch his hands, usually they
will be fast. But he won’t be able to hit with much accuracy because of
the alcohol.
Drunks talk too much so
their intentions are always
well telegraphed. And when
someone knows what you
intend to do, you put
yourself at a dangerous
disadvantage.
The more he yelled, the
more I prepared. He wasn’t
thinking preparation, just
drinking and yelling and showing off. Even a black widow couldn’t ask
for a more willing victim.
And when he yelled he would always look straight ahead with a
drunken wobbly stare and stupid grin, which showed a lot of fear
numbed by the excessive alcohol, and assume that I would approach
him face to face.
There is no more dangerous assumption.
Consider the above picture. Now, if you were being threatened by this
guy, where would be the best place to hit him to avoid being hurt and
to inflict the most immobilizing harm; the midsection perhaps, or
between his legs? How about breaking his nose or stumping on the
instep of his foot?
When I believe someone is threatening my well-being or even life, I go
into survival mode with no intentions of meeting anyone face to face
on the street at high noon for a quick draw. In fact, I plan not to face
him at all. It’s safer and more effective to hit him while he is not
looking.
Why not hit him at the back
of the neck at the base of the
skull which is wide open if you
hit him from behind?
Remember, survival has
nothing to do with looking
good or letting your ego lure
you into a dangerous scenario
to impress someone.
While some might call one
with such tactics a coward,
others call them Ninjas, Navy Seals, Snipers, Marines, and every other
group trained in self-defense that you would like at your house if
someone should attempt a break-in.
Do you think that broadcasting battle plans to the enemy is part of
Navy Seals training? They just kind of let the enemy coax them to
meeting on the enemy’s terms?
The more of a surprise you are, and the faster and harder you attack
the weaknesses of your opponent, the better your chances of victory,
but more practically, survival.
The only real code of fairness in survival is to be sure to survive,
whatever it takes; not looking pretty or giving an attacker a fair chance
at killing you.
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The facts of physics teach us, on the whole, that women cannot match
the physical strength of men.
Yet, every woman possesses the same intellectual capacities and even
has unique intellectual and physical capabilities that give her a serious
edge over a man.
Remember, effective self-defense is dependent on strength of mind,
not strength of body. Strength of body is useful but not necessary.
David was less than half the size and physical strength of Goliath, but
had a hundred times his courage, intelligence, and strength of
conviction.
More discussion on this very important point will follow. For right now
begin to contemplate your inner power and the potential of your
personal conviction.
Allow me to help you to become indignant about the evil around you,
and to make a decision to begin the process of better securing your
life.
4.1.1 You Are Your Primary Defense
As important as calling 911 is, it should never
be considered your first or primary line of
defense. You are the first line of your
defense, not a rescue team of firemen and
police.
Obviously, they are a very important part of
any overall security plan and should be
notified immediately, but in the few minutes
it takes for the police to arrive, someone can
rape, murder, steal, and be gone, long-gone.
The question for you is; what are you going to do until help arrives?
This is the central question this paper will help you address.
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ways in which he works, but I say the chances are slim to none and I
lean strongly in the direction of none.
Are you willing to take such an improbable chance and risk your life?
Listen. All of us should feel bad if we have to shoot someone in self-
defense. But we should never feel so bad that we fail to protect
ourselves. If you come upon two or three big mean-looking uninvited
men in your living room, the question is; how long are you going to let
your “bad feelings” keep you from implementing the appropriate
defensive action?
For me, they will have one chance not to move or all three go down. I
would rather feel bad about having to kill someone than to feel bad
about letting someone kill a member of my family. What feelings
would you rather have?
We all need to show compassion when possible, no question. And it
very well might be that compassion rules the day in a particular
situation. What I am saying is this: whether the action you will take is
effective in a crisis situation depends on what you decide now, not
then.
Every scenario is different. If your convictions are strong and you are
prepared, you have a much higher chance of properly defending
yourself.
Be sure to check your state or country laws regarding intrusion and
your rights as a renter or home owner. This will give you added
confidence if the moment ever comes. Assume that it will and you’ll be
ready.
Are you still thinking?
“I just can’t imagine myself shooting someone?”
“Is that the only option I have to defend myself?”
and conviction.
A no-nonsense bunch of guys, highly trained to do one thing, defend
and protect the President of the United States. Their attainment of
their world-renown security capabilities begins with the deep
conviction of the need to protect the President.
Perhaps some questions can bring some clarity to the point. What
determines most the effectiveness of a particular diet, the diet
regiment or the dieter’s personal conviction of the need to be on a
diet?
Obviously, the personal conviction of the dieter determines the success
of any diet. Why? None of us deprives ourselves, particularly of food,
unless we have a strong conviction of the need to control our eating.
Some people jump from diet to diet and blame the diet for the lack of
results. If these people had personal conviction about their need for a
diet, one diet is all they would need.
So, what does personal conviction look like? The answer is quite simple
really;
It’s what you look like when you are convinced and determined.
Even in the presence of the most difficult and intimidating
circumstances it is an individual’s convictions that rule their behavior
and behavior is what does the defending.
4.2. Educated Preparation
Conviction without the proper training will render only a false illusion
of readiness. You can get the same feeling after drinking a few beers.
The following principles need to be the foundation for any security plan
you devise.
Yard
Yard
Inner Perimeter
If you hear an intruder, why not take your cell phone, pistol, pepper
spray, or whatever weapon you choose, into the bathroom, lock the
door, call the police, and wait for the intruder to come to you?
If he opens the door, you got him. In other words, you tried to avoid
the encounter the best way you knew, but if it is unavoidable then you
are ready to strike.
Obviously, if you have others in the house to protect then your
defensive strategy embraces some offensive maneuvers because you
must move towards the intruder. However, you must first defend
yourself if you plan to be alive to defend your family.
4.2.3 Study the Rattlesnake.
I cannot think of a more
intimidating creature.
I have walked up on a
rattlesnake before and the
sound of its rattle will strike a
paralyzing fear in you from
head to toe.
Rattlesnakes have rattles
and mean looks for one
reason—to tell you to stay
away. A rattlesnake will
never hunt you like other
predators.
If its purpose was to hunt
you, its rattle would be counter productive. It has no interest in you at
all and wants to stay as far away as possible. It will try every means
possible to escape before curling up to strike. If it rattles, you have
either surprised it or mistakenly cut off its escape route.
That’s why you see many signs on front lawns with “Brinks Security” or
some other security company’s logo, yet the homeowners have no
security system at all, only a sign.
For some rookie criminals a “rattle” is all you need. For the seasoned
intruder, however, a rattle alone with no ability to strike is
meaningless. And trust me, they can tell the difference.
If you are placing the security and safety of your family in a sign, you
have been terribly misinformed.