Attitude Is Everything

Attitude is Everything
The Night That Changed My Life

The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by
altering their attitudes of mind.
-- William James
In 1980, I graduated from law school and thought Id be a lawyer for the rest of my
life. After all, thats what Id wanted to do since my early teenage years.
At first, everything went according to plan. After lots of studying that summer, I
passed the Bar Examination and was admitted to practice law in New York. My
personal life was also on the upswing. In early 1981, I married Dolores, a law school
classmate. I was on my way to much success and happiness.
Or so I thought.
But, after
practicing law for
a few years, I
realized I wasnt
happy at all.
Why am I telling you all this about my career transition?

Its not to impress you with what Ive done. Believe me,
Ive made plenty of blunders and mistakes along the way.
Im sharing my story because I want you to know how
drastically my life changed -- and how much better it got
-- when I made a change in my attitude.
Sure, there were some

things I liked about being a lawyer. I enjoyed helping people resolve their disputes,
especially when I could save them the agony of lengthy court proceedings.
Yet, there were so many things about being an attorney that I disliked -- and that just
seemed to drain the life out of me. Mounds and mounds of tedious paperwork and
motions to be filed. Constant delays and postponements. It was not uncommon for a
trial to be postponed 10 times.
I Dreaded Going To Work!
I continued to grind out the work but grew more and more dissatisfied as an attorney. I
was frustrated and very depressed. To put it bluntly, I didnt like my life, and saw no
way that things were going to improve.
Have you ever had a job where you dreaded going to work most days -- where you felt
the weight of the world on your shoulders each day?
Well, thats how I felt. I was literally hunched over... and in pain, both physically and
emotionally. I looked much older than my years. I began to get headaches all the time,
and my stomach was constantly churning. Fearing that I had some serious health
problem, I saw some doctors and they ordered a battery of tests. Every test came back
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with the same result -- they couldnt find anything physically wrong with me. One of
the doctors suggested that I take Maalox to calm my upset stomach.
Spiritually, I was dead. Nothing in my life had much meaning. This day-to-day
drudgery was also affecting my appearance. Although I was in my late 20s, I looked
like I was 40!
In the early part of 1985, shortly after I had turned 30 years old, I was burned out.
And, one particular evening, while sitting alone in my den, I knew that something had
to change. Not knowing what to do, I simply said out loud,
Theres got to be more to my life than this. Theres got to be more than this misery
and unhappiness.
Help Comes From An Unlikely Source
Later that night, I was watching TV in the den. It was around 1:00 am, and my wife,
Dolores, had already gone to bed. But I was feeling so down I couldnt sleep. I
channel surfed looking for something to occupy my time. I tuned in to, of all things,
an infomercial.
Normally, I would have changed that channel in a fraction of a second, but for some
reason, I listened.
The product being peddled was called The Mental Bank and was endorsed by actress
Florence Henderson of Brady Bunch fame. The Mental Bank was a home-study
course that explained how everything we achieve in life is based upon our
subconscious beliefs.
I felt so desperate at that point that I decided to go for it. I pulled out my credit card
and ordered the program.
That night in my den was the turning point of my life.
By the way, when I sheepishly told Dolores what I had done a day or two later, she
was shocked.
You did what? she asked in amazement. Its not that she objected to the purchase -it was just so out of character for me to buy something like that on impulse... and
worse yet, from a TV infomercial!
Several days later, The Mental Bank program arrived at my doorstep. And I was
fascinated and excited to begin learning how our thoughts determine the quality of our
lives. Prior to that time, I had never heard these ideas. Unfortunately, they dont teach
you this stuff in school!
The Mental Bank program spurred me to seek out other motivational resources. I
began to read books by Napoleon Hill, Og Mandino, Norman Vincent Peale and
Robert Schuller. I started reading the Bible on a regular basis. And I eagerly listened
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to inspiring audio cassette programs by Zig Ziglar, Earl Nightingale and many others.
I felt like a person who had wandered for days in the desert with a parched throat...
and then suddenly found a stream of water!
Now, I cant tell you that everything in my life changed overnight, because it didnt
happen that way. But, from the moment I began to change from a negative attitude to a
positive attitude, I started to get significant results.
I felt better. I had more energy. And I started to achieve goals that I would never have
accomplished before... all because of a change in my attitude! Im also happy to report
that when people now ask how old I am... and I say 44, they invariably reply, You
look so much younger!
Its all in the attitude.

From Lawyer To Motivational Speaker
I continued my self-study program in my spare time, while I worked full time as a
lawyer. The positive thinking was helping my attitude at work, but I felt a passion for
my hobby that I never felt for my work, and I dreamed about the day I could walk
away from my job.
In 1989, after four years of intensive research about attitude and motivational
concepts, I agreed to present some adult education seminars in the evenings at a local
high school. I was to be paid $30 for each two-hour class. Not the kind of money that
lets you quit your day job!
As I stood in front of the class to start my first seminar, I was petrified. My heart was
pounding and I was sweating. But somehow I managed to muster the courage to just
do it. The students loved the class, and I got a real adrenaline rush from presenting the
material that had revolutionized my own life... and that had the power to do the same
for others!
I was on my way.
Eventually, the speaking fees grew a little larger, and in 1990, I decided to phase out
my law career over the next few years. This wasnt a simple decision. I had gone to
four years of college and three years of law school to obtain my law degree. On top of
that, I had spent 10 years of my life as a practicing lawyer. When you have that much
invested in a career, its not so easy to walk away.
Then, of course, there was the money issue. As a lawyer, I was on track to earn
$100,000 in a few years, and Id be earning that much -- and more -- for the rest of my
professional career.
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Taking A Stand
Although I was earning a little more income from my new hobby, I realized that Id
have start-up expenses in launching my new enterprise. Fortunately, Dolores and I had
saved some money over the years. To supplement my income, I began to sell a line of
merchandise with my unique Attitude is Everything logo. But there was no way to
avoid it -- Id have to take a huge financial step backward to start my new business...
at least in the beginning.
And yet, it was time to move on. I felt as if I was being pulled out of the legal
profession and into my new career. Whenever I spoke to an audience or wrote a
motivational essay, I was so invigorated and full of life. I knew thats where I
belonged.
So, I made a gradual transition -- working four days a week as a lawyer, then three
days a week... and then two days a week... until, in 1992, I began working full time as
a motivational speaker and writer.
Trust me, my mother wasnt thrilled when I told her that I was giving up the practice
of law to speak about attitude. After all, it doesnt carry the prestige of saying My son
is a lawyer!
But these are issues you have to deal with when you take a stand in life. You have to
face the fact that some people will disapprove of your decision. I also learned that you
often have to let go of some things in your life and take a few steps backward before
you can move forward in a new direction. Part of the price I had to pay was giving up
the money, prestige and security of my legal career.
By the way, as it turned out, my mother became very supportive of my new career,
especially when she saw that I was making progress -- and that I really enjoyed my
work.
Why am I telling you all this about my career transition? Its

not to impress you with what Ive done. Believe me, Ive made
plenty of blunders and mistakes along the way.
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Im sharing my story because I want you to know how
drastically my life changed -- and how much better it got -when I made a change in my attitude.
Proof positive that, indeed, attitude is everything!
If youre negative, dont despair. You can use these concepts to develop and
maintain a positive attitude... and to achieve incredible breakthroughs in your life.
If youre already a positive person, you can use these principles to soar to even greater
heights of success and fulfillment.
Ive spent more than 14 years researching why it is that some people succeed while
others achieve disappointing results. During that time, Ive read a few hundred books
and thousands of magazine articles on attitude and success. Ive listened to more than
2,000 hours of audio cassette programs. In addition, Ive interviewed countless high
achievers to learn their success secrets.
More importantly, I have personally applied each and every success strategy that is
described in this book. So, I know from firsthand experience that these ideas work -and that they have the power to literally transform your life!
Please dont misunderstand me. I dont claim to be a know-it-all on these
subjects. Far from it. I consider myself a work in progress and I continue to learn
every day.
However, I know what its like to have a negative attitude, because thats the kind
of attitude I had for the first 30 years of my life. I know what its like to doubt
yourself and your abilities, because thats what I did for 30 years. All of the
positive changes that Ive made in my life are the result of practicing principles
that are important to me.
Think... Speak... Act

Part 1, Success Begins in the Mind, well be focusing on the power of attitude and
belief to shape your destiny. Youll learn how your success initially depends on the
way that you THINK.
Part 2, Watch Your Words, well concentrate on the way that you SPEAK... how
your attitude is reflected in your words... and how positive language can help to propel
you toward your goals.
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Part 3, Heaven Helps Those Who Take Action well cover the final leg of our
journey. Even if you think positively... .and speak positively... you wont achieve your
dreams until you ACT. You cant sit back and just expect success to pay you a visit.
Youll learn that action will turn your dreams into reality.
When you THINK, SPEAK and ACT in ways that support your success, youre firing
on all cylinders... and on the way to achieving phenomenal results in your life.
Youre about to embark on a journey that will bring you success and happiness
beyond your wildest dreams, so lets get started.........
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The Night That Changed My Life

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