DISCOVERING YOUR

SHAPE FOR MINISTRY

A Study Guide for Community

The Small Groups Ministry of

Fellowship Bible Church

Name

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 TABLE OF CONTENTS
Title Page........................................................................................................................................................................... 1

Table of Contents........................................................................................................................................................... 2

Community Group Calendar...................................................................................................................................... 3

Group Covenant ............................................................................................................................................................ 4

Preface . ............................................................................................................................................................................. 6

Introduction..................................................................................................................................................................... 7

Session One: Who, Me? A Minister?..................................................................................................... 8

Session Two: Who, Me? Gods SHAPED Me For Ministry?...........................................................13
Session Three: Who, Me? Gifted For Ministry?..................................................................................19
Session Four: Who, Me? What Gifts?...................................................................................................24
Session Five: Who, Me? A Lover?........................................................................................................32
Session Six: Who, Me? A Heart For Ministry?................................................................................36
Session Seven: Who, Me? Created With Abilities? And A Unique Personality?......................42
Session Eight: Who, Me? Experienced In Ministry?.........................................................................51
Session Nine: Who, Me? Yes, Me!

I Have A SHAPE For Ministry.....................................................................................................................................54

Communion................................................................................................................................................................57

My S.H.A.P.E. Profile......................................................................................................................................................60

Prayer Concerns.........................................................................................................................................................62

My Community Group................................................................................................................................................64

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 COMMUNITY GROUP CALENDAR

Session Date & Place Topic

1 Social/Introduction

2 Me? A Minister?

3 Gods SHAPED Me For Ministry?

4 Gifted For Ministry?

5 What Gifts?

6 Motivated By Love?

7 A Heart For Ministry?

8 Created With Abilities and A Unique Personality

9 Experienced In Ministry?

10 I Have a S.H.A.P.E. for Ministry!

Communion

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 WHAT IS COMMUNITY?

WHO? ... a small group of people committed to one another who

meet together regularly,
WHY? ... for the purpose of stimulating one another to the personal
development of a distinctive, Christ-centered lifestyle ... thus
discovering and growing in the possibilities of the abundant
life in Christ.
HOW? ... we believe this lifestyle demands commitment to
consistent, personal application of Biblical truths, intimate
spiritual relationships and mutual accountability.

The PURPOSE of Community Groups

is to produce growing Christians.

GROUP COVENANT

We will agree to the following ground rules for our Community Group:

Priority: While we are in this Community Group, we will give

the group meeting priority.

Preparation: Meaningful preparation leads to enthusiastic

participation. Your preparation is a ministry to the
entire group.

Participation: Everyone is given the right to their own opinion and

dumb questions are respected. Dominating the
discussion is discouraged.

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 Confidentiality: Anything that is said in the meeting is never repeated
outside the meeting.

Support: Permission is given to call upon each other in time of

need - even in the middle of the night.

Empty Chair: The group stays open to new people. When the group
grows beyond the 12-16 range, it prayerfully and sensi-
tively prepares to birth another group and/or spin-off a
leadership team. This is absolutely necessary for the
growth of individuals and the group.

Ministry Project: We will try to choose, plan and complete a ministry

project to assist one another, our church or our
community.

The unique purpose of our Community Group is ...

Our goals will be ...

My personal goal for life-change this session is ...

And I give you permission to ...

(1) ask
(2) encourage
(3) hold me accountable.

Community is more than a meeting ...

its a MINISTRY!
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 Preface

I would like to say, it was a joy to write this material for you, the people of
Fellowship Bible. However, much fine work has already been done on the concept
of S.H.A.P.E
by Rick Warren of Saddleback Valley Community Church. It is, there-
fore, far more accurate for me to simply say, it was a joy to adapt these concepts
for small group study. But, WOW! What a joy it was. Just thinking about what you,
the people of Fellowship, were going to do with these life changing, life empower-
ing principles gave me chill bumps all over.
Fellowship, you have already demonstrated what Christ can do when people
are empowered and released for ministry. Still, we have only begun to discover all
that God has for us. This study on S.H.A.P.E will take you (Fellowship) to the next
level of kingdom focused self-discovery and the resulting joy of experiencing God.
Im pumped about getting into S.H.A.P.E with you!!

Gary
January, 1998

Now to him who is able to do exceeding abundantly beyond all that we

ask or think, according to the power that works within us, to Him
be the glory in the church and in Christ Jesus to all
generations forever and ever. Amen.

Acknowledgements: Many thanks to the great many who made this project possible. Our
regional pastors, Jim Hall, John Marquette, Dick Nelson, Lamar Steiger, Labron Tatum, who
conceived of its great value for Fellowship. Russ Doran who was invaluable in his techni-
cal biblical support, editing and rewriting. Heidi Pope for skill and flexibility in typing the
manuscript; Jan Stockdale for administrative support; Wanda Scoggins for creatively design-
ing the cover and layout; and to all the others who proofed and evaluated the manuscript.
You guys are the greatest!

Note: Most references, unless otherwise noted, are taken from the New American Standard
or the New International Version of the Bible. This study will be most helpful if done in
either of those two translations.

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 Introduction
We all know what it is like to be out of shape. Too often we find ourselves out of
breath with the least bit of exertion. Typically we resolve to get back into shape. Such
resolutions are good, and we make them so we can get more out of life, so we can
enjoy playing the game, so we can compete more effectively in the race of life.
Even more important than our physical shape, however, is our spiritual shape,
because . . .

What God made me to BE (my shape)

determines
what God intends me to DO (my ministry).

Stated another way . . .

My ministry is determined by my makeup!!

As noted in the preface, the purpose of this study is to help you discover your
S.H.A.P.E. But what is that? A beginning explanation will help launch us for this
study.
S.H.A.P.E. is a Biblically based concept that will enable you to discover for yourself
how God has fashioned you to be an intergal part of His eternal kingdom purposes.
The five core dimensions of your SHAPE are . . .

S - Spiritual Gifts
H - Heart
A - Abilities
P - Personality
E - Experiences

This study will lead you to discover and reflect upon each area of S.H.A.P.E. as it
applies to you personally. Prayerfully, at its conclusion, you will have a greater sense
of Gods purpose for your life and your integral part in the shared ministry of Fellow-
ship Bible. As you continue to abide in the Lord your gifts will be strengthened, your
ministry will grow and so will you.

However, before exploring the details of your SHAPE lets see what the Bible
says about MINISTRY and YOU!

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 Session One
Who Me ... ? A Minister?
Want to know what a priest looks like? Take a look in the mirror. Are you
surprised? It may not be what you expected, but God did not stutter when he
called YOU to be His priest.
Yes, YOU! His priest! Dont believe me? Just check it out!

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STUDY

1. Read the following verses and answer the question, to whom do

we minister?

a. And while they were ministering to the Lord and fasting, the Holy
Spirit said, set apart for Me Barnabas and Saul for the work to
which I have called them.

To the ________________ (Acts 13:2).

b. God is not unjust; He will not forget your work and the love you have
shown Him as you have helped His people and continue to help
them.

To _________________ (Hebrews 6:10).

c. You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden.
Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they
put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house.
In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see
your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.

To the _________________ (Matthew 5:14-16)

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 2. In what areas of need do we minister?

a. To peoples ___________________ needs. Matt. 10:42; 25:35, 36, 40
b. To peoples ___________________ needs. Ro. 12:15; 1 Thess 5:14
c. To peoples ___________________ needs. Colossians 1:28, 29

3. Ministry and Me
You may be thinking, The above observations on ministry are
interesting, but what do they have to do with me? Read the following
verses and answer that very important question for yourself.
a. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good
works which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them
Ephesians 2:10.
IVE BEEN _____________________ FOR MINISTRY!!

b. All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and
gave us the ministry of reconciliation. 2 Corinthians 5:18
IVE BEEN _____________________ FOR MINISTRY!!

c. But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a

people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him
who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. 1 Peter 2:9
IVE BEEN _____________________ FOR MINISTRY!!

d. Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others,
faithfully administering Gods grace in its various forms. 1 Peter 4:10
IVE BEEN _____________________ FOR MINISTRY!!

e. Again Jesus said, Peace be with you! As the Father has sent me,
I am sending you. John 20:21
IVE BEEN _____________________ FOR MINISTRY!!

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 f. Your attitude MUST be like my own, for I, the Messiah, did not come
to be served, but to serve Matthew 20:28 (LB)
I AM _____________________ TO MINISTER!!
g. So then, each of us will give an account of himself to God. Ro. 14:12
I AM _____________________ FOR MY MINISTRY!!
h. Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the
Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance
from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.
Colossians 3:23, 24
I WILL BE _____________________ FOR MY MINISTRY!!

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PERSONAL APPLICATION

1. Based on the verses above I have been saved to (check one)

q a. Sit it out

q b. Soak it up

q c. Serve

2. Take a moment to reflect and record a few notes about this study.

a. What are your initial FEELINGS about yourself and ministry?

(Positive / Negative)? Why?

b. What is your history of service?

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 c. What kind of experiences have you had? (Positive / Negative)?
Explain.

Ministry is obviously a big part of Gods game plan for the Christian.

H T
The very thought may take your breath away. But what if you were
I G

IN S
uniquely designed to play a special and important part ... would you
be open to discover your SHAPE for ministry? Leading you to make
that discovery is the purpose of this study.

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GROUP DISCUSSION
1. Share with the group some of the people that through the years have
made a significant contribution in helping you grow as a Christian.

2. If we dont fulfill the ministry that God has given us, how does this effect
the rest of the Christian family (the church)?

3. What are the barriers to ministry that people often face?

4. In your opinion, are these barriers more real or imagined?

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 5. How would you respond to the following statements?

The church doesnt exist for you, you exist for the church!

The church doesnt exist for you, the church exists for the world.
(John 13:34-35)

6. If you had absolute confidence you could get in SHAPE to contribute

to winning the game for Christ would you be excited about moving
forward? Explain how this might change you.

For if the ministry of condemnation has glory,

much more does the ministry of righteousness
abound in glory ... therefore, since we have
this ministry, as we received mercy,
we do not lose heart, ...
2 Corinthians 3:9; 4:1

Why didnt anyone tell me

I was supposed to do ministry?
Ron Martindale
Bank of Bentonville

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 Session Two
Who Me? Gods Shaped Me for Ministry?
You and I are certainly Gods creation. Inside and out we have Gods fin-
gerprints all over us. God has been molding and shaping you and me for min-
istry since we were born. In fact, God started uniquely shaping us even before
we were born. No one ever had a more knowledgeable personal trainer to get
them in S.H.A.P.E.!
This lesson will give us an overview of the entire S.H.A.P.E. concept.

1. Read Psalm 139:1-16. What observations would you make about God
and yourself in light of the assertions of this passage.

Verses 1-4:


Verses 5-6:

Verses 7-10:

Verses 11-12:

Verses 13-14:

Verses 15-16:

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As (God) begins to share life with us, we really are astonished to discover how

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well He already knows all about us. He, and only He, is totally familiar with

I G H
all the intimate intricacies of my genetic makeup. He understands all the unique

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characteristics which have been inherited from my parents and grandparents.
He knows my distinctive and special personality. Because of such incredible
insight He understands my behavior far better than any human being.

W. Phillip Keller

2. Read the apostle Pauls comments in Ephesians 2:10 and answer

the questions that follow
For we are Gods workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good
works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

a. Who is Gods workmanship? (Hint: First person, singular)

b. Why were YOU created?

c. What works were you created to do?

d. How do you know what works God has prepared for you?

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 3. Re-read Psalm 139:13-16. In light of these verses respond to the
statement:
What God made me to BE ... determines
what God intends me to DO.

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It is obvious that the unique manner in which God has SHAPED you will

I G H
determine your fulfillment and fruitfulness in His ministry purposes for you.

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Your make-up determines your ministry. Unfortunately we have often tried
to put square pegs in round holes. The SHAPES didnt match.

4. It is time to give some Biblical support for this S.H.A.P.E we have been
talking about. Read the following verses and fill in the acrostic.

a. Each man has his own (spiritual) gift from God; one has this gift,
another has that. 1 Corinthians 7:7b

S ____________________

b. The kings heart is in the hand of the Lord; He directs it like a

watercourse wherever He pleases.. Proverbs 21:1
For it is God who works in you, inspiring both the will (heart) and
the deed, for his own chosen purpose! Phil. 2:13 (NEB)

H _______________________

PEOPLE SUCCEED WHEN THEY ARE HAVING FUN.

c. There are different abilities to perform service I Cor. 12:6

I (God) have given (them) skill, ability, and knowledge in
all kinds of crafts Exodus 31:3
God has given each of us the ability to do certain things well.
Rom.12:6 (LB)

A _______________________

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 d. No one can really know what anyone else is thinking or what he is
really like, except that person himself. I Corinthians 2:11 (LB)

P _______________________

e. At a time when you should be teaching others, you need teachers

yourselves to repeat to you the ABCs of Gods revelation to men . . .
. Solid food is only for the adult, that is, for the man who has
developed by experience his power to discriminate between
what is good and what is evil. Hebrews 5:12, 14 (Phillips)

E ______________________

Your ministry will be most effective and fulfilling when you are
using your GIFTS and ABILITIES in the area of your HEARTS
DESIRE and in a way that best expresses your PERSONALITY
and EXPERIENCE! - Rick Warren, Pastor

SUCCESS IS DOING WHAT GOD CREATED ME TO DO!

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PERSONAL APPLICATION
You have studied the S.H.A.P.E. concept . . . and now . . . how about
you? In the weeks to come we will look at each aspect of your S.H.A.P.E., but
why not begin to prime the pump. Jot down a few observations about
yourself. . . keeping Pauls encouragement in mind. For by the grace given
me I say to every one of you: do not think of yourself more highly than you
ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the
measure of faith God has given you. Just as each of us has one body with
many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in
Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the
others. - Romans 12:3-5

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 s Ministry SHaPe
(Your name)

Spiritual gifts (What am I gifted to do?):

Heart (What do I love to do?):

Abilities (What talents and skills do I have?):

Personality (What is my unique style?):

Experiences (How have lifes experiences shaped me?):

It is just a beginning. Remember, youre a SHAPELY saint in Gods

eyes!! Why not pause and quietly re-read the cover of this study
guide ... give thanks!

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 v GROUP DISCUSSION

1. In architecture, form follows function. What does this mean?

Would this also be true in ministry as it relates to our study of
S.H.A.P.E.? Give examples.

2. Team up with the person in your group that you know least about and
share your initial observations about your S.H.A.P.E.

3. Team up with the person you know best (other than your spouse) and
get some feedback about your preliminary S.H.A.P.E. observations.

Now the word of the Lord came to me saying,

Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before
you were born I consecrated you; I have appointed
you a prophet to the nations.
Jeremiah 1:5

Shirley Jacobsons flare for making

delicious cookies has been a big hit each Sunday morning
as she shares her goodies with the Ministry Teams serving in
the Childrens Theater.

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 SESSION THREE
Who Me? Gifted for Ministry?
Now about spiritual gifts, brothers, I do not want you to
be ignorant. 1 Corinthians 12:1

Everyone loves to receive gifts. Who could imagine going to Grandmas and
Grandpas house for Christmas and then not unwrapping the gifts we received
just letting them collect dust in the attic year after year. Im sure it would be a
disappointment to our grandparents and a greater loss for ourselves.
Unfortunately, thats exactly what most (yes, most) Christians do with their
God-given spiritual gifts, and the whole body of Christ suffers loss with them.
Fellowship, in the next three sessions (3,4,5) we will have the exciting ex-
perience of unwrapping our spiritual gifts. In this session we will discover the
Who, What, When, Where and Why of spiritual gifts . . . their PURPOSE and
FUNCTION.

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STUDY
In preparation, read 1 Corinthians 12:1-31.

1. Why did Paul feel the need to make the Corinthians more
knowledgeable about spiritual gifts? (12:1,4-6)

The Giver: (Read 12:1-11)

2. In discovering your own S.H.A.P.E., what principles might be drawn from

(v. 4)




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(v. 6)



3. The Spirit obviously brings great diversity to the body, but who gets the
gifts and for what purpose (12:7)? To reinforce your understanding of
the purpose of spiritual gifts, read the verses and record your answers
below.

a. Each one (of you), as a good manager of Gods different gifts, must
use for the good of others, the spiritual gift he has received from
God. 1Peter 4:10 (GN)

The Holy Spirit displays Gods power through each of us as a

means of helping the entire church. 1 Cor. 12:7 (LB)

Spiritual gifts are not for my benefit, but _______________.

b. He gave gifts to men . . . to prepare Gods people for works of

service . . . until we all reach unity in the faith . . . and become
mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.
Eph. 4:8,12-13

Spiritual gifts produce _______________ and _______________

in our church family.

4. Turn back to 1 Cor. 12. Who decides who will receive what gifts (v .11)?

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The Gifted: (Read 12:12-31)

5. What do all Christians share in common regardless of their gifts,

social status, or S.H.A.P.E.? (vv. 12-13)

6. Why do you think some Christians feel inferior in the body of

Christ? (vv. 14-20)

7. Who put the body together, and what criteria was used? (v. 18)

8. What does verse 18 suggest to us about comparison, competition,

judging, etc.?

a. How does verse 18 encourage you?

b. Do you think God loves someone more or less based on the specific
gifts that He gives to that person? Explain.

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 9. How does Paul seek to stop the development of an attitude of
superiority within the church? (vv. 21-25)



a. Can you give an example of how your church seeks to undermine a
spirit of superiority in the body?

10. What is Pauls purpose in this discussion? (vv. 25-27)

In the biblical language of the New Testament the word translated gift in

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verse four is CHARISMA. It means to show favor; an undeserved benefit.

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In the NT it is used only of gifts and graces imparted from God. Therefore, we dont
earn them or have a part in determining what gifts we receive. The gifts we
have is a sovereign choice of God for us. This should help us feel special,
responsible and sober about what we have. . . and remove any sense of
competition between believers.

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PERSONAL APPLICATION
1. As you discover your spiritual gifts, and later your S.H.A.P.E., what
attitudes should you avoid?
Toward yourself?


Toward others?


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GROUP DISCUSSION
1. In light of this study, what meaning would you give to the following terms:
a. Gift elevation-
b. Gift rejection-
c. Gift projection-
d. Gift manipulation-
e. Gift counterfeit-

2. Why is it important to remember that we dont all manifest the same

gifts? (vv. 29, 30)

3. What kind of dynamic is created when we realize no one person has all
the gifts needed for the building up of the body?

4. Give an example of how the principles studied could positively effect the
ministry and relationships in your small group.

5. What new perspective do you have on your place in the body of Christ?

6. Case study: Sarah and Beth have both just graduated from a lifestyle
evangelism training class. Beth is spiritually gifted as an evangelist,
Sarah is not. A year later Beth has led several people to Christ while
Sarah, though faithful in her witnessing, has not. When asked why she
was such an effective evangelist, Beth replies, I just love the Lord with
all my heart.

a. Discuss the rationale, reality, and consequences of Beths statement.

b. What other observations would you make?

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 Session Four
Who, me . . .? What Gifts?
Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given
for the common good. 1 Corinthians 12:7

You have been introduced to the purpose and use of spiritual gifts. Now
its time to look at the gifts themselves. Before we begin unwrapping the gifts,
however, lets take a review quiz.

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REVIEW: The Bible and Spiritual Gifts
A Spiritual Gift: A special ability, given by the Holy Spirit to every believer
at their conversion, to be used to minister to others, and therefore extend
and deepen the ministry of the Lord Jesus Christ on earth.

PRINCIPLES TO PONDER
1. Only _____________ have spiritual gifts. 1 Cor. 2:14

2. Every Christian has at least _______________ gift. 1 Cor. 7:7

3. The ________________ decides what gifts I get. 1 Cor. 12:11

4. No one receives __________________ the gifts. 1 Cor. 12:27-30

5. No single gift is given to __________________. 1 Cor. 12:29-30

6. You cant _________________ a spiritual gift. Eph. 4:7

7. The gifts Im given are __________________. Rom. 11:29

8. I am to __________________ the gifts God gives me. 1 Tim. 4:14

(they are given in seed form; they are like muscles)

9. Its a sin ___________________ the gift God gave me. 1 Cor. 4:1-2 &
Matt. 25:14-30

10. Using my gifts ___________ God. John 15:8

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STUDY
Identifying The Spiritual Gifts: On the chart below list the gifts
you find mentioned in each passage. A few gifts are mentioned twice;
you only need to write them the first time mentioned.

Directions:
As you read each Scripture passage, identify the gift mentioned and
write that spiritual gift in the space provided.

I Corinthians 12:8-10 Gifts Mentioned:

For to one is given the word of wisdom through 1.
the Spirit, and to another the word of knowledge 2.
according to the same Spirit; to another faith by the 3.
same Spirit, to another gifts of healing by the one 4.
Spirit, and to another the effecting of miracles, and 5.
to another prophecy, and to another the distinguishing 6.
of spirits, to another various kinds of tongues, and to 7.
another the interpretation of tongues. NASB 8.
9.

I Corinthians 12:28
And God has appointed in the church, first apostles, 10.
second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, the 11.
gifts of healings, helps, administrations, various 12.
kinds of tongues. NASB 13.

Romans 12:6-8
And since we have gifts that differ according to 14.
the grace given to us, let each exercise them 15.
accordingly: if prophecy, according to the 16.
proportion of his faith; if service, in his serving; 17.
or he who teaches, in his teaching; or he who
exhorts, in his exhortations; he who gives, with
liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he
who shows mercy, with cheerfulness. NASB
Ephesians 4:11
And He gave some as apostles, and some as
18.
prophets, and some as evangelists, and some
as pastors and teachers. NASB 19.

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 I Peter 4:9-10
20.
Be hospitable to one another without complaint.
As each one has received a special gift, employ
it in serving one another, as good stewards of
the manifold grace of God. NASB
Exodus 31:3
And I have filled him with the Spirit of God in 21.
wisdom, in understanding, in knowledge, and
in all kinds of craftsmanship. NASB

I Timothy 2:1-2
I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, 22.
intercession and thanksgiving be made for
everyonefor kings and all those in authority,
that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all
godliness and holiness. NASB

Psalm 150:3-5
Praise Him with trumpet sound; Praise Him
with harp and lyre. Praise Him with timbrel
and dancing; Praise Him with stringed instru-
ments and pipe. Praise Him with loud cymbals;
Praise Him with resounding cymbals. NASB

1 Corinthians 14:26 23.

What is the outcome then, brethren? When you
assemble, each one has a psalm, ...Let all things be
done for edification. NASB

2. Is it possible that there can be other gifts that are not mentioned in Scripture?



3. Can you think of other gifts that seem to be implied in Scripture?



4. Could there be gifts that are no longer active?


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The answers to questions 2-4 above are ultimately found in Gods mysterious

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will. However, the fact that every list of spiritual gifts is different at least

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suggests the Holy Spirit had no desire to give us an exhaustive listing. It is
likely that these lists are illustrative, not exhaustive.

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PERSONAL APPLICATION
Now lets begin unwrapping your gifts. Weve divided this list of gifts into five
categories: Serving gifts, Speaking gifts, Sign gifts, Support gifts and Other
Possible gifts. As you begin reading through the descriptions below simply check
off your initial impressions concerning yourself. Remember, you have at least one
and perhaps several spiritual gifts.

SERVING GIFTS
ADMINISTRATION (Organization) FAITH (1 Corinthians 12:9; 13:2)
1 Corinthians 14:40 The supernatural ability to trust God for what cannot
The supernatural ability to organize and manage be seen and to act on Gods promises, regardless of what
people, resources, and time for effective ministry. The abil- the circumstances indicate. The willingness to risk failure
ity to coordinate many details in a purposeful and strategic in pursuit of a God-given vision, expecting God to handle
manner, thus executing the plans of leadership. the obstacles.
m Im pretty sure I have this gift. m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
m I may have this gift. m I may have this gift.
m I dont think I have this one. m I dont think I have this one.

DISCERNMENT (1 Corinthians 12:10) GIVING (Romans 12:8)

The supernatural ability to distinguish right from The supernatural ability to generously and cheerfully
wrong, truth from error, and to give an immediate evalu- contribute material resources and/or money so that the
ation based on Gods truth. The ability to discern whether Body may grow and be strengthened. The supernatural
the source of a persons motives (or an experience) is from ability to earn and manage money so it may be given to
Satan, self, or Gods Spirit. support the ministry of others.
m Im pretty sure I have this gift. m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
m I may have this gift. m I may have this gift.
m I dont think I have this one. m I dont think I have this one.

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HELPS (Service) 1 Corinthians 12:28 supernatural ability to provide compassionate and cheerful
The supernatural ability to recognize unmet needs in support to those experiencing distress, crisis, or pain.
the church family, and take the initiative to provide m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
practical assistance quickly, cheerfully, and without a need m I may have this gift.
for recognition. The propensity to invest your own talents, m I dont think I have this one.
time and energy in helping someone else accomplish
the purposes of Christ, thus helping others increase the SPEAKING GIFTS
effectiveness of their own ministry and S.H.A.P.E.
m Im pretty sure I have this gift. EXHORTATION (Encouragement) (Ro. 12:8)
m I may have this gift. The supernatural ability to motivate Gods people to
m I dont think I have this one. apply and act on biblical principles, especially when they
are discouraged or wavering in their faith. The supernatu-
HOSPITALITY (1 Peter 4:9-10) ral ability to bring out the best in others (by encourage-
The supernatural ability to make others feel warmly ment or rebuke) and challenge them to develop their
welcomed, accepted, and comfortable. The supernatural potential.
ability to coordinate social factors that promote fellowship. m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
m Im pretty sure I have this gift. m I may have this gift.
m I may have this gift. m I dont think I have this one.
m I dont think I have this one.
KNOWLEDGE (1 Corinthians 12:8)
The supernatural ability to discover, collect, analyze,
LEADERSHIP (Romans 12:8)
organize and communicate information that is vital to
The supernatural ability to clarify and communicate
individual believers or the entire church family. The ability
the purpose and direction (vision) of a ministry in a way
to comprehend a large amount of information and provide
that attracts others to get involved. The supernatural abil-
it when needed for effective decision-making.
ity to recognize the S.H.A.P.E. of others and involve them
m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
in effective accomplishment of ministry. The supernatural
m I may have this gift.
ability to motivate others by example to work together in
m I dont think I have this one.
accomplishing a ministry goal.
m Im pretty sure I have this gift. PROPHECY (Preaching) (1 Cor. 14:3, 24, 25)
m I may have this gift. The supernatural ability to publicly communicate
m I dont think I have this one. Gods Word in an inspired way that convinces unbelievers
and both challenges and comforts believers. The ability to
MERCY (Romans 12:8) persuasively declare Gods will.
The supernatural ability to detect physical, mental m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
and emotional pain and empathize with those who are m I may have this gift.
suffering, whether in or outside of the church family. The m I dont think I have this one.

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TEACHING (1 Corinthians 14:26) m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
The supernatural ability to educate Gods people by m I may have this gift.
clearly explaining and applying the Bible in a way that m I dont think I have this one.
brings understanding and enlightenment. The ability to
equip and train other believers for ministry. KINDS OF TONGUES (Acts 2:4-21;10:46)
m Im pretty sure I have this gift. The supernatural ability to speak in a language
m I may have this gift. unknown to the speaker that declares the mighty deeds
m I dont think I have this one. of God, gives thanks to and blesses God, but which may be
discernable to a person familiar with that language. (1 Cor.
WISDOM (1 Corinthians 2:6-16;12:8) 12:10, 28,30; 14:14-17, 22)
The supernatural ability to understand how Gods Word m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
relates to lifes experiences and to communicate Gods per- m I may have this gift.
spective on specific life situations in a simple and understand- m I dont think I have this one.
able way.
m Im pretty sure I have this gift. Why We Do Not Practice This Gift in Our Services:
m I may have this gift. This gift caused such a problem in the Corinthian
m I dont think I have this one. church, Paul had to write an entire chapter (1 Cor. 14) of
guidelines.
SIGN GIFTS 1. It is for personal edification, not for the whole church.
He who speaks in tongue edifies himself, but he who
HEALING (Acts 5:14-16) preaches edifies the church. 1 Cor. 14:4
The supernatural ability, at the prompting and through
the power of the Holy Spirit, to bring about in specific 2. We are to focus on building up others, not ourselves.
instances physical, emotional or spiritual healing. In the Unless you speak intelligible words you will just
biblical pattern, healings were attendant to ministry and be speaking into the air try to excel in the gifts
were a validation of the person, their ministry and the truth that build up the church. 1 Cor. 14:9 & 12
proclaimed.
3. It confuses unbelievers in the service. if some
m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
unbelievers come in, will they not say you are out of
m I may have this gift.
you mind? 1 Cor. 14:23
m I dont think I have this one.
4. Ideally, it is not meant to be used in the worship
INTERPRETATIONS OF TONGUES (1 Cor. 12:10, 30) service. In the church I would rather speak five
The supernatural ability to interpret or fully explain in intelligible words to instruct others than ten thousand
the common language of those present what was spoken words in a tongue. Brothers, stop thinking like
by another exercising their spiritual gift of tongues. children! 1 Cor. 14:19-20

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 The gift of speaking Gods message should be under term is in Ephesians. It literally means one who preaches
the speakers control, because God has not called us to be the good news, which was also an important task of
disorderly, but peaceful. 1 Cor. 14:32-33 (TEV) apostles as they went out to preach the gospel and
establish churches. It appears that as a specific term, it
MIRACLES (Acts 5:12-14; Acts 14:3) developed late in the recorded New Testament period.)
The supernatural ability, at the prompting and in the (Acts 21:8; 2 Timothy 4:5)
power of the Holy Spirit, to effect acts, events or conditions m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
outside the realm of natural causes and effects, yet which m I may have this gift.
are readily discernible through the natural senses. Ac- m I dont think I have this one.
cording to the biblical patterns, miracles are attendant to
PASTOR/TEACHER (Eph. 4:11; Acts 20:17-32)
ministry and are a validation of the person, their ministry
(Note: The grammar in Ephesians indicates that
and the truth proclaimed.
these two terms focus on ministry aspects of one person.)
m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
This is that person in a local church who ministry is to
m I may have this gift.
shepherd the flock, or show great care and concern for
m I dont think I have this one.
the overall well being of the members, and to teach,
or to clearly explain with relevant application the truths
SUPPORT GIFTS (Gifted Ministers) of Scripture. The overall goal of the pastor/teacher is to
APOSTLE (Missionary) (Eph. 4:11; 2 Tim. 1:11) equip the saints for ministry. This requires multiple gifts,
One who has been called out and set apart by the but different ones will have different combinations of
Holy Spirit and through the church sent out to preach the gifts, so the effectiveness of their ministry in the several
gospel, proclaim the word of God, teaching, exhorting areas will not be the same.
and strengthening the souls of those who respond to their m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
message. It is a multi-gifted person whose ministry is to m I may have this gift.
exercise the gifts given in establishing new churches. (Acts m I dont think I have this one.
13:2-5, 14:3, 21-23; Romans 15:20)
PROPHET (Prophetess)
m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
(1 Cor. 12:28, 14:3, 29-33; Acts 21:9; Eph. 4:11)
m I may have this gift.
One whose ministry focus is to edify, exhort and
m I dont think I have this one.
console primarily believers from the word of God. (Note:
EVANGELIST (Ephesians 4:11; Acts 8:26-40) Prophets are also to pass judgment on what has been
A gifted person equipped for a special ministry preached by other prophets, yet each remains humble and
primarily to unbelievers to communicate the Good News submissive to the other prophets.)
of Jesus in a positive, non-threatening way. (Note: Philip, m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
who was one of the seven original deacons, is the only m I may have this gift.
named evangelist (Acts 21:8) although Paul told Timothy m I dont think I have this one.
to do the work of an evangelist. The only other use of the
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OTHER POSSIBLE GIFTS

CRAFTSMANSHIP/ CREATIVE COMMUNICATION

(Exodus 31:3-5)
The supernatural ability to build, maintain, or
beautify the place of workship for Gods glory. The ability
to express workship through a variety of art forms.
m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
m I may have this gift.
m I dont think I have this one.

INTERCESSION (Colossians 1:9-12)

The supernatural ability to pray for the needs of
others in the church family over extended periods of time
on a regular basis. The ability to persist in prayer and not
be discouraged until the answer arrives.
m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
m I may have this gift.
m I dont think I have this one.

MUSIC (1 Corinthians 14:26; Eph. 5:18-19)

The supernatural ability to celebrate Gods pres-
ence through music, either vocal or instrumental, and to
participate in leading the church family in worship.
m Im pretty sure I have this gift.
m I may have this gift.
m I dont think I have this one.

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GROUP DISCUSSION

1. Take time sharing as a group your initial observations about your spiritual
gifting. Get some feedback and give a little also. Consider breaking up
into smaller buzz groups of two or three so everyone can have an
opportunity to share.

2. Clarify any questions you have about specific spiritual gifts.

3. Discuss your thoughts and experience of the following Insight.

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ITS EASIER TO DISCOVER YOUR GIFTS

INS THROUGH MINISTRY INVOLVEMENT

THAN TO DISCOVER YOUR MINISTRY
THROUGH GIFTS INVESTIGATION.

Turn to the back (p. 60) and on MY SHAPE PROFILE, list the spiritual
gifts you believe you have been given. As you go through the rest of these
lessons, record your discoveries so your SHAPE will become more clear.

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 SESSION 5
WHO ME ...? A LOVER ...?
Have you ever had someone question your motives? Motive is important in what-
ever we do. Whenever our motives are wrong we can quickly be led astray . . . lose
our focus and our effectiveness.
Hopefully you are excited about your new-found spiritual gifts; hopefully growing
in your expectancy of great things to come. But be careful that your motive and focus
doesnt settle on the gift itself . . . and how good it makes you feel because you have
received something so valuable from the Holy Spirit.
Some of the Corinthians had become boastful and proud of their self-perceived
status in exercising their gifts. Others felt left out or put down because they didnt re-
ceive the attention that some did. The result was jealousy and division (1 Corinthians
12:22-25). Pauls exhortation is not so much to make them aware of all the gifts, but
how to use the gifts.
What is the secret to keeping the proper focus and pure motives? What is the gov-
erning force for effective use of your gifts? Lets find the answers.

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In preparation read 1 Corinthians 12 and 13.
1. Read 1 Corinthians 12:31. How does this verse serve as a transition
between the two chapters?



2. In 13:1-3, what essential ingredient gives effectiveness to the gifts?



3. How does this ingredient in the exercise of any and all gifts relate to the
purpose of the gifts? (Refer to 1 Corinthians 12:7, 11 and Ephesians
4:14-16).

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simply being nouns. Why? Who is the object of all these activities?

5. In verse 13, it reads that of faith, hope and love, the greatest is love.
What makes love the greatest? (consider verses 8-10)

6. Read Galatians 5:22-23. List the qualities named there.

But the fruit of the Spirit is

a. In your opinion what is the connection between Galatians 5:22-23

and 1 Corinthians 13?

b. (Hint) 1 Corinthians 13:2 says, Without love I am nothing. Where

does such love come from?

7. Read John 15:1-8. What light do these verses shed on the issue of
bearing fruit?

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Walking by the Spirit (Galatians 5:16) and being filled with the Spirit

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try to work into our busy schedules. John 15 tells us what Jesus Himself had
to say about our lifestyle and the power to live it. Over and over He uses the
term abide. That word means to remain or stay. Literally, it is often
used in the sense to live, dwell or lodge somewhere. And so, figuratively as
here in John 15, it is used of someone who does not leave the realm or sphere
in which he finds himself and that sphere is the very life of Christ.

8. In your own words how would you explain the relationship between
1) Abiding in Christ, (2)Manifesting the fruit of the Spirit and
(3) Exercising the gifts of the Spirit.



a. What healthy examples of this inter-dependence have you seen?
Explain.

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Abiding in Jesus results in the fruit of the Spirit being formed in our life

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(love being supreme). These fruit, often called the Graces of the Spirit
then become the context out of which we exercise our spiritual gifts.
Therefore, the development of the graces should govern the exercise of
the gifts (graces before gifts). In this way the body is unified and built
up in love.

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PERSONAL APPLICATION
1. If any gift is not exercised in love, as a fruit of the Spirit and as a
manifestation of the Spirit, then it cannot have as great an impact on
building up the church since it is a work of the flesh. What caution do
you need to take to insure you are in the Spirit and not in the flesh?
What part might prayer play in this? (John 15:7)
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2. What do you struggle with the most as you seek to abide in Christ and
His love? Is this a part of a battle we all are fighting (Galatians 5:13-17)?
Which of the characteristics of love from 1 Corinthians 13 do you
struggle with the most . . . would most like to see developed in your life?

3. How does your gift, exercised in love for building up the body and for
unity, become a witness to the world? (John 13:35 and 17:21)

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GROUP DISCUSSION
1. Share with the group an instance when someone in using their special
gift built you up, comforted you, exhorted you, came to your aid, etc.
How did you feel? How did that affect your relationship with that person?
2. In Galatians 5:22-23, the word fruit of the Spirit is singular, not plural. It
is not fruits of the Spirit. How does that affect your understanding of
the list that follows? Why do you think Paul listed self-control last? What
do you think of the statement, All the fruit of the Spirit flows out of love?
3. Do you think there might be some relationship between bearing much
fruit in John 15 and fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5? Is it possible to
have one without the other?

By this is My Father glorified, that you bear much fruit,

and so prove to be my disciples. John 15:8

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Who Me . . . ? A Heart for Ministry?
The second step in discovering your S.H.A.P.E. for ministry is to have a
Heart check-up. The Bible says your heart expresses the very core of your
being. No doubt! People are passionate. However, the direction and intensity
of our passion depends on that to which we have given our heart. The Christian
who has given his heart to Christ can trust on the Lord to birth in him a unique
passion . . . a longing or desire to make a difference. This passion is God-
given (planted in you before birth) and is in harmony with your natural likes and
dislikes. He has uniquely designed us to serve in ways that we find motivat-
ing, fulfilling and fruitful. Lets see if we can discover that vein of gold that runs
through your heart.

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In preparation read Psalm 139:1-16

1. Perhaps a good place to start evaluating our heart is tO first consider the
Maker of our heart. Lets review passages we studied in session two
and answer these questions.

a. Read Psalms 139:13-16. Was God personally involved in your

creation? To what extent and during what period of time?

b. Read Ephesians 2:10. Was there a plan in Gods mind for your
S.H.A.P.E. When did He put us in His plan? (see Eph.1:4; Jer. 1:5;
Gal. 1:15,16)

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In Psalms 139:14 David gives thanks to God for he realizes he is fearfully

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and wonderfully made, wonderful are Thy works. The word wonderful
relates to Gods works. His wonders are the very acts He Himself has
done. Consider the two passages above and how they relate to Gods
creating us as individuals. Now contrast Psalm 78:11, And they forgot His
deeds, and His miracles [or wonderful works] that He had shown them.
Throughout the Old Testament the wonders, the wonderful works of God,
are acts that are miraculous and outside the realm of natural occurrences,
and are performed by Him to demonstrate His power and love for His people
... and so He did when He created you.

2. Read each of the following passages and write at least one truth
concerning the heart from each one.

1 Chron. 28:9



1 Sam. 16:7



Psalm 139:23



Prov. 4:23



Matthew 12:34

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3. Does the heart have a natural inclination of its own? What is it for the
pre-Christian? (Jer. 17:9) For the Christian? (Rom. 6:17)

4. Carefully read these passages that deal with God and His relationship to
His people. What parallels do you see between the passages? What
promises are there? What conditions are associated with the promises?

a. Proverbs 3:5-6:



b. Psalms 37:3-5:

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There is a mysterious faculty in every persons innermost being which

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Scripture often calls the heart. The pre-christian is frequently deceived
by the condition and desire of the heart (even though God knows its
true condition). However, when God established a personal relationship
with an individual, the heart becomes responsive to Gods desires, and finds
itself growing in harmony with Gods plan for involvement in good works.

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PERSONAL APPLICATION
1. Lets do a HEART ASSESSMENT there are no right or wrong
answers. Just relax and have fun with it.
a. If you could wave a magic wand and know that you couldnt fail,
what would you do?

b. The people I like to help most are:

Age?
Type?
Condition?

c. The issues I care about most are: (complete).

d. At the end of my life I would like to look back and know that I made
a difference by (complete).

2. Stay on the treadmill. We are about to get a reading on your heart.

a. Describe briefly four or five positive experiences you have had in the
course of growing up. These are things you did well and enjoyed
doing.

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As a teenager:

Early adulthood (20s):

Thirty something to the present:

b. What common themes do you see?

3. One five-thousand dollar a day consultant suggests that you can get an
insightful reading on your innermost desires (heart) if you can recall
your most fulfilling activities during your fifth grade year (before life got
hormonally complicated).

a. Think back to when you were in the fifth grade. (Long way for some
of us, huh?). Visualize yourself out on the playground.

b. What are you doing that you really enjoy? Give some details! Who?
What? When? Where? Why?

4. Based on my observations and reflections, I sense I have a heart for:

(complete)

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GROUP DISCUSSION

1. Psalms 18:19 says that God rescued me, because He delighted in me.
How does knowing that God, who was personally responsible for your
very being and who personally delights in you, affects your self-worth?
If He delights in you, do you delight in yourself? Whats the condition of
your heart?

2. Regardless of what gift(s) He may have given you, how does knowing
that God has a specific purpose for you affect your hearts desire to
serve? (scare? excite? paralyze? motivate? other?)

3. What vision or expectation do you have to develop your gift(s) and

minister in the building up of the church? (Will you have a local impact?
Regional impact? International impact? - See Rom. 12:3)

4. What might you do to help someone find their niche in ministry?

Only fear the LORD and serve Him in truth

with all your heart, for consider what
great things He has done for you.
1 Samuel 12:24

Turn to the back (p. 60) and on My SHAPE Profile make a concise
statement concerning what you want your heart to be, even though you
may not quite be there yet.

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 SESSION SEVEN
Who Me. . . ? Created with Abilities. . . ?
. . . and a Unique Personality?
Thats right abilities! . . . and personality! . . . and now youre discovering
the S.H.A.P.E. God created you to be. You have an idea about your spiritual
gifts (sessions 3-5); your heart checked out (session 6). Now in this session
we are going to pick up the pace, exploring two more elements of S.H.A.P.E.:
ABILITIES AND PERSONALITY. Lets get moving

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Abilities: Throughout Scripture, Gods people have manifested various
abilities. Read the verses below and record the abilities and/or vocations sug-
gested.
Genesis 13:2 (Abram)-



Exodus 17:9,13 (Joshua)-



Judges 4:4 (Deborah)-



Ruth 4:13 (Ruth)-



1 Samuel 16:11-12 (David)-



Nehemiah 1:11 (Nehemiah)-


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 Amos 7:14 (Amos)



Luke 5:27 (Matthew)



Colossians 4:14 (Luke)



Acts 16:14 (Lydia)



Mark 1:16-20 (Peter, Andrew, James, John)

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used the abilities of many to carry on His work, and the vocations of many
located them at the right place at the right time to be used.

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1. What is your current vocation?

2. What other jobs or skills have you experienced with satisfaction?

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with satisfaction.

Artistic: to conceptualize, picture, draw, paint, photograph, or

make rendering
Classifying: to systematize and file books, data, records and materials
so they can be retrieved easily
Composing: to write music or lyrics
Counseling: to listen, encourage and guide with sensitivity
Counting: to work with numbers, data or money
Decorating: to beautify a setting for a special event
Editing: to proofread or rewrite
Entertaining: to perform, act, dance, speak, magic
Evaluating: to analyze data and draw conclusions
Feeding: to create meals for large or small groups
Graphics: to lay out, design, create visual displays or banners
Interviewing: to discover what others are really like
Landscaping: to do gardening and work with plants
Managing: to supervise people to accomplish a task or event and
coordinate the details involved
Mechanical operating: to operate equipment, tools or machinery
Planning: to strategize, design and organize programs and events
Promoting: to advertise or promote events and activities
Public Relations: to handle complaints and unhappy customers with
care and courtesy
Recall: to remember or recall names and faces
Recording and Reproducing: to type, copy, file, etc.
Recruiting: to enlist and motivate people to get involved
Repairing: to fix, restore, maintain

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Resourceful: to search out and find inexpensive materials
or resources needed
Serving: ability to assist and help others
Teaching: to explain, train, demonstrate, tutor
Welcome: to convey warmth, develop rapport, making others
feel comfortable
Writing: to write articles, letters, books
Others:
Athletic Missions
Biblical knowledge Musician
Caregiver Organization
Communication Photography
Director Team Player

4. I feel my most valuable personal asset is

5. How has God used your abilities and skills to help others?

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the ministry God has prepared for you is important to discovering your

INoverall S.H.A.P.E. . . . now lets get a reading on what style your
ministry will take.

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Personality: In preparation read 1 Cor. 12:14-26 (Review Ps. 139:1-16)

1. Proverbs 22:6 says, Train a child in the way he should go, and when
he is old he will not turn from it.

What does it suggest about each person having a unique personality?

(If you are not sure, consider the Insight below).




G H T
The verse doesnt mean train up a child as you see him. Rather, if you
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want your training to be meaningful and wise, be observant and discover your
childs way, and adapt your training accordingly. Strengthening this idea is the
word way. This Hebrew term literally means road or path. Metaphorically,
it is a characteristic. Therefore, the thought is, according to his characteristic,
his manner. In Proverbs 22:6, the word way is used in the same sense:
Train up a child in keeping with his characteristics. And his characteristics
are distinct and set. There is a bent already established within every child
God places in our care. Each is not, in fact, a pliable lump of clay but has
been bent, prescribed according to a predetermined pattern ...
Whatever the case, theyre all individuals. They werent created on the
assembly line. They were handcrafted, individually, by God
- Charles Swindoll

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1. To see how your personality is related to your fulfillment and fruitfulness
in ministry, follow the steps of the exercise below.

a. In the space below, write your name:

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 b. Now write your name with your opposite hand:

c. What happened !? When you tried to do something that was not

natural to you, did you . . .

* feel uncomfortable?
* take extra time and effort?
* still do a lousy job at it!?

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Seeing the person God created you to be is essential to your effectiveness

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and fulfillment in service. Like a sculpture, God has fashioned you to

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show forth His glory in the most natural way. Lets explore further what
His way with you is.

2. There are many helpful (and complex) personality inventories. A simple

assessment, however, will help in revealing your S.H.A.P.E. for ministry.

Directions For Personality Survey:

In each box below, circle every word or phrase that describes a
consistent character trait of yours. Total the number circled in each box..
(Note: This test is only meant to stimulate initial thinking about YOU as a
unique personality. For futher information on personality types and tests,
see The Two Sides of Love by Gary Smally and John Trent, page 176).

P Takes Charge Bold Self-reliant

Determined Purposeful Assertive
Decision maker Firm Leader
Enterprising Goal driven Competitive
Enjoys challenges Adventurous

Lets do it now!
Total: ________

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T Deliberate Discerning Controlled
Detailed Reserved Analytical
Predictable Inquisitive Practical
Precise Orderly Persistent
Factual Scheduled
How was it done in the past?
Total: ________

S Takes risks Fun-loving Visionary

Likes variety Motivator Enjoys change
Energetic Creative Very verbal
Group oriented Promoter Mixes easily
Avoids details Optimistic
Trust me! Itll work out!
Total: ________

J Loyal Adaptable Non-demanding

Sympathetic Even keel Thoughtful
Avoids conflict Nurturing Enjoys routine
Patient Dislikes change Tolerant
Deep relationships Good listener

Lets keep things the way they are.

Total: ________

3. What does all this mean? Well, the four letters at the top of each
section stand for four basic personality types (represented by four of
Jesuss disciples: Paul, Thomas, Simon Peter, John). In fact, everyone
is a combination of all four types, but most of us have a set of traits that
are more dominant. What was your most dominant trait? Compare
with the summary below.

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P Paul, as a dogmatic, domineering, driving, demanding doer, is a good example
of the P personality. Before he was controlled by the Spirit he was persecuting
Christians (Acts 22:4, 20) and afterwards was being persecuted (1 Corinthians
1:8,9). Without the control of the: Spirit, he was out to destroy people and churches.
Under the control of the Spirit, he was able to help people, start new churches, and
write most of the New Testament. It was the same type personality that helped
him move onward and upward in both causes.

T Thomas is the T personality who wants to get all the facts and analyze them be-
fore making any decisions. These people are very detailed and are seldom wrong
because they are so careful. Unless I see in His hands the imprint of the nails,
and put my finger into the place of the nail, and put my hand into His side, I will
not believe. There can never be too many supporting facts; one is not enough.
But the Lord did not put Thomas down, He have him the opportunity to analyze
the data and then make his decision (John 20:24-28).

J John is a good example of the quiet, unassuming, supportive personality of the J.

He refers to himself as the other disciple in his gospel and focuses all the glory,
honor, and praise on Jesus and the other disciples. He was the only disciple not
to die a martyrs death. Maybe he was so nice, quiet and unassuming that he
was banished to Patmos instead of being put to death. But he wasnt perfect, for
a careful reading of the gospels reveals that while Peter denied the Master openly
three times, John stood by in silence.

S Simon Peter is the typical S type personality impetuous, quick to speak and act
then realizing he had erred. Think of his boast about being willing to die for the
Lord then denying Him three times (Matthew 26:74, 75). But when the Spirit filled
all the disciples at Pentecost, it was Peter who rose to speak boldly before the
multitudes (Acts 2). Just because you have failed in a situation does not mean
you are a failure as a person. This personality type does not usually do well at
detail, and note that Peter even dictated one of the two short letters that we have
in the New Testament. (1 Peter 5:12)

Note: These Biblical character insights have been adapted from Positive
Personality Profiles by Dr. Robert Rohm. The letter designations were
a special adaptation for this study.

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GROUP DISCUSSION

1. Huddle Time:
Get into groups of three and each one share the results of your
observations and assessments about your abilities. Be prepared to
give feedback to your fellow group members based on your growing
relationship with them.

2. Still in groups of three, two of you share with the third group member
your impressions of his/her predominant personality. Is there
agreement? Manage your time so everyone gets to share in the exercise.

You are really beginning to get into S.H.A.P.E. Keep

up the good work. Next session we will wrap up
your S.H.A.P.E. by evaluating your
experiences.

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And to one (Jesus) gave five talents, to another,

two, and to another, one, each according
to his own ability. . . . Mt. 25:15

Turn to the back (p. 60) and on My SHAPE Profile make a concise
statement concerning what personality and abilities you have that
equip you for a special ministry.

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 SESSION 8
Who me? Experienced in Ministry ?
Now I want you to know, brothers, that what has happened
to me has really served to advance the gospel.
Philippians 1: 12

A recent advertisement says, No one does it better than you! And when it
comes to ministry you can hear a hearty Amen from God in heaven.
Perhaps you draw back and say, but Im not qualified. But, in fact, you
are qualified. You have been prepared in the school of hard knocks and
His grace. Lets check out the Scriptures

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STUDY
1. Read Hebrews 4:15-16. What was Gods purpose in having Jesus
experience all the kinds of temptations we face?



2. How is Christ a model in preparing us to minister to others?



3. Read 2 Corinthians 1:3, 4. How does God involve Himself in our trials
and bring comfort to us?



4. What is the relationship between our ability to comfort others in their
time of need and Gods comfort of us during trials?



God Doesnt Waste Pain or Experiences

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PERSONAL APPLICATION
1. To get a grip on how your EXPERIENCES have S.H.A.P.E.D. you, pray
for discernment and record your reflections under the following categories.
a. My Spiritual Experiences (Memorable decisions and time with God)

b. My Painful Experiences (Memorable hurts, trials and lessons learned)

c. My Educational Experiences (Favorite subjects, seminars, etc.)

d. My Ministry Experiences (How I have served in the past)

2. When you have been stretched to the limit, what kind of things would
bring you comfort?

3. How do you respond to others who are experiencing situations that you
have experienced previously? Are you drawn to them or do you want to
avoid them? Explain.



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GROUP DISCUSSION

Huddle Time

1. Share insights from your experiences as to how God was present and
comforted you enabling you to comfort someone else.

2. How does this reflection on past experiences prepare you for future
challenges in life?

3. Make a concise statement on your Profile of the major relevant

experiences that helped SHAPE you for ministry. Consider writing
experiences you would like to have.

Let us not lose heart in doing good,

for in due time we shall reap if we do
not grow weary.
Galatians 6:9

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WHO ME . . . ? YES ME!
I HAVE A S.H.A.P.E. FOR MINISTRY
For what is our hope, our joy, or the crown in which we will glory
in the presence of our Lord Jesus when he comes?
Is it not you? Indeed, you are our glory and joy.
1 Thessalonians 2:19-20

Well, our goal to discover our S.H.A.P.E. for ministry is almost complete but
we cant stop yet. Lets drop in on one of Jesus last conversations with Peter.

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STUDY

Read John 21:15-25

1. What basic question did Jesus ask Peter three times? (15,16,17)

2. Do you see any significance in Jesus asking Peter three times?

(Matt. 26:75)

3. What basic charge did Jesus give Peter three times? (15,16,17)

4. In light of John 10:14-15 how might Peter have understood Jesus

charge, Take care of my sheep?

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 5. Peter (for once) apparently felt uncomfortable being the center of
attention and wanted to shift the attention to John. What lessons can
we learn from Jesus response to him? (21:20-22)

I G H T
The record of final conversations is important and powerful. Here Jesus wants

INS
to communicate to you and me (using Peter) that He will never give up on us.
Even if we deny Him, He will call us back to love and service. He also wants
us to assume responsibility for the unique ministry He has SHAPED us for ...
YOU FOLLOW ME.

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PERSONAL APPLICATION

1. If Jesus asked you the same question He asked Peter three times (do
you love me) how would you respond? (some, lots, at times, what
about him, etc)




2. Knowing that the Lord forgives past failures in service, what in your past
do you need to give up to Him so you can move on?

3. How might the fear of competition or comparison keep you from

effectively using your gifts for ministry?

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 4. If we are responsible to the Lord alone for the ministry He gave each of
us, how does Jesus charge, You Follow Me, apply to you and the
ministry He gave you?

5. Reflecting on the opening passage from 1 Thess. 2, who will be part of

your glory and joy when He returns? What fruit of your ministry brings
you joy now?

6. Over the course of this SHAPE study where have you been most en-
lightened? Where have you seen the most progress?

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GROUP DISCUSSION
1. Discuss the implications of the statement:
Its easier to discover your gifts through ministry than to discover your
ministry through your gifts.

2. As we come and prepare to share in the Lords Supper, meditate on this

very relevant quote from J.I. Packer in his book, Knowing God.
Knowing God is a relationship calculated to thrill a mans heart. What
happens is that the Almighty Creator, the Lord of Hosts, the great God before
whom the nations are as a drop in the bucket, comes to him and begins to talk
to him, through the words of scripture... He comes to realize as he listens that
God is actually opening His heart to him, making friends with him, and enlisting
him a colleague ... It is a staggering thing, but it is true the relationship in
which sinful human beings know God is one in which God, so to speak, takes
them on His staff, to be henceforth His fellow-workers (1 Cor 3:9) and personal
friends.

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 A CELEBRATION OF COMMUNION
Suggested Order of Service
Session Ten

I. The Bread
1. Select Scriptures to be read.

2. Prayer of gratitude for the broken body of our Lord.

3. Break bread and pass the elements.

4. Read 1 Corinthians 11:24

... and when he had given thanks, he broke

it and said, This is my body, which is given for you;
do this in remembrance of me. (NIV)

II. The Wine

1. Select Scriptures to be read.

2. Prayer of gratitude for the shed blood of our Savior.

3. Pass the cup.

4. Read 1 Corinthians 11:25

In the same way, after supper he took the cup, saying, This cup is the new
covenant in my blood; do this, whenever you drink it, in remembrance of me. (NIV)

III. The Affirmation (optional: select from these or others)

1. Benediction

2. Group Conversational Prayer

3. Responsive Reading

4. Hymn or chorus

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 SCRIPTURES APPROPRIATE FOR READING
AT THE LORDS TABLE
He was despised and forsaken of men, JESUS THE KING OF THE JEWS. At that time
A man of sorrows, and acquainted with two robbers were crucified with Him, one
grief; And like one from whom men hide on the right and one on the left. And those
their face, He was despised, and we did not passing by were hurling abuse at Him, wag-
esteem Him. Surely our griefs He Himself ging their heads, and saying, You who are
bore,and our sorrows He carried; Yet we going to destroy the temple and rebuild it in
ourselves esteemed Him stricken, smitten three days, save Yourself! If You are the Son
of God, and afflicted. But He was pierced of God, come down from the cross. In the
through for out transgressions, He was same way the chief priests also, along with
crushed for our iniquities; The chastening the scribes and elders, were mocking Him,
for our well-being fell upon Him, And by his and saying, He saved others; He cannot
scourging we are healed. All of us like sheep save Himself (Matthew 27:33-42).
have gone astray, Each of us has turned to
his own way; But the Lord has caused the And while they were eating, Jesus took
iniquity of us all to fall on Him (Is. 53:3-6). some bread, and after blessing, He broke it
and gave it to the disciples, and said, Take,
Jesus therefore said to them, Truly, eat; this is My body. And when He had
truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh taken a cup and given thanks, He gave it to
of the Son of Man and drink His blood, you them saying, Drink from it, all of you; for this
have no life in yourselves. He who eats is My blood of the covenant, which is poured
My flesh and drinks My blood has eternal out for many for forgiveness of sins. But I say
life, and I will raise him up on the last day to you, I will not drink of this fruit of the vine
(John 6:53, 54). from now on until that day when I drink it
new with you in My Fathers kingdom (Mat-
And when they had come to a place thew 26:26-29).
called Golgotha, which means Place of a
Skull, they gave Him wine to drink mingled And when the sixth hour had come,
with gall; and after tasting it, He was darkness fell over the whole land until the
unwilling to drink. And when they had ninth hour. And at the ninth hour Jesus cried
crucified Him, they divided up His garments out with a loud voice, ELOI, ELOI, LAMA SA-
among themselves, casting lots; and sitting BACHTHANI? Which is translated, MY GOD,
down, they began to keep watch over Him MY GOD, WHY HAS THOU FORSAKEN ME?
there. And they put up above His head the And when some of the bystanders heard
charge against Him which read, THIS IS
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it, they began saying, Behold, He is calling for For I received from the Lord that which I
Elijah. And someone ran and filled a sponge also delivered to you, that the Lord Jesus in the
with sour wine, put it on a reed, and gave Him night in which He was betrayed took bread; and
a drink, saying, Let us see whether Elijah will when He had given thanks, He broke it, and
come to take Him down. And Jesus uttered a said, This is My body, which is for you; do this in
loud cry, and breathed His last. And the veil of remembrance of Me. In the same way He took
the temple was torn in two from top to bottom. the cup also, after supper, saying, This cup is
And when the centurion, who was standing the new covenant in My blood; do this, as often
right in front of Him, saw the way He breathed as you drink it, in remembrance of Me. For as
His last, he said, Truly this man was the Son of often as you eat this bread and drink the cup,
God! (Mark 15:33-39). you proclaim the Lords death until He comes (1
Corinthians 11:23-26).
And when the hour had come, He reclined
at the table, and the apostles with Him. And And when they came to the place called The
He said to them, I have earnestly desired to eat Skull, there they crucified Him and the criminals,
this Passover with you before I suffer, for I say to one on the right and the other on the left. But
you, I shall never again eat it until it is fulfilled in Jesus was saying, Father, forgive them; for they do
the kingdom of God. And when He had taken not know what they are doing (Luke 23:33, 34).
a cup and given thanks, He said, Take this and
share it among yourselves; for I say to you, I will Therefore whoever eats the bread and drinks
not drink of the fruit of the vine from now on the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner, shall
until the kingdom of God comes. And when be guilty of the body and the blood of the Lord.
He had taken some bread and given thanks, He But let a man examine himself, and so let him
broke it, and gave it to them saying, This is My eat of the bread and drink of the cup. For he who
body which is given for you; do this in remem- eats and drinks, eats and drinks judgment to
brance of Me. And in the same way He took himself, if he does not judge the body rightly. For
the cup after they had eaten, saying, This cup this reason many among you are weak and sick,
which is poured out for you is the new covenant and a number sleep. But if we judged ourselves
in My blood (Luke 22:14-20). rightly, we should not be judged. But when we
are judged, we are disciplined by the Lord in order
Is not the cup of blessing which we bless a that we may not be condemned along with the
sharing in the blood of Christ? Is not the bread world (1 Corinthians 11:27-32).
which we break a sharing in the body of Christ?
Since there is one bread, we who are many are
one body; for we all partake of the one bread (1
Cor. 10:16, 17).

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1. Lets pull it all together. God has invested His life in you, what SHAPE
for ministry are you beginning to see in yourself?

SPIRITUAL GIFTS
My top three spiritual gifts are . . .

1.

2.

3.

HEART

My hearts desires are . . .

1.

2.

3.

ABILITIES
My most valuable personal assets are . . .

1.

2.

3.

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 PERSONALITY
I see my style in ministry being . . .

1.

2.

3.

EXPERIENCES
I believe my most helpful experiences for ministry are . . .

1.

2.

3.

For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began

a good work in you will perfect it until the day
of Christ Jesus. Philippians 1:6

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