Volume 48, Issue 43, October 27, 2017
Volume 48, Issue 43, October 27, 2017
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Mayor Bowser joins Danica Roem condent Area bars and clubs ready
thousands of spectators of unseating Bob Marshall to celebrate Halloween
at annual High Heel Race. in next months election. with parties and more.
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smiling. We anticipate were not going to have any problems here tonight.
Joining Newsham at the event were Lt. Brett Parson, who oversees the departments
Special Liaison Division, including the LGBT Liaison Unit; and Sgt. Jessica Hawkins,
supervisor of the LGBT Liaison Unit.
The event was founded and continues to be organized by the 17th Street gay bars
JR.s and Cobalt. But Sheila Alexander-Reid, director of the Mayors LGBTQ Aairs Oce,
said that for the rst time the mayors oce this year became the ocial sponsor of the
High Heel Race. The Washington Blade served as media sponsor.
Organizers named Bowser for the second year in a row as one of three grand marshals
for the race. The other two named this year were Ruby Corado, founder and executive
director of the LGBT community services center Casa Ruby; and drag performer Banaka.
Thousands line
he would not defend Virginias same-sex marriage ban and Justin Fairfax, who
is running for lieutenant governor.
We need to welcome people to Virginia, said Northam. It shouldnt matter
your sexual orientation. It shouldnt matter the color of your skin, the country
17th Street for you come from or the religion that you practice. We are all in this together. Lets
welcome people to the commonwealth of Virginia.
Northam hugged Roem on stage as he spoke.
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Roem condent going Former Vice President Joe Biden endorsed Roem last week.
Roem on Monday spoke at an event at Freddies Beach Bar in Crystal City that featured
into campaigns nal stretch Lieutenant Gov. Ralph Northam who is running against former Republican National Committee
Chair Ed Gillespie to succeed Gov. Terry McAulie and other Democratic elected ocials who
included state Sen. Adam Ebbin (D-Alexandria) and Arlington County Board Chair Jay Fisette.
Equality Virginias Political Action Committee, the Human Rights Campaign, the Gay
Republican opponent continues and Lesbian Victory Fund, the Trans United Fund, the National Center for Transgender
to attack her gender identity Equality and the Pride Fund to End Gun Violence have backed Roem. LPAC on Wednesday
announced it has also endorsed Roem.
By MICHAEL K. LAVERS Roem told the Blade she expects the Victory Fund, the Trans United Fund and other
mlavers@washblade.com LGBT groups to once again help her with voter outreach eorts before Election Day. She
also acknowledged that students and other LGBT people who live in the 13th District
HAYMARKET, Va. There were fewer may see her as an inspiration.
than a dozen people eating lunch at Theyve never seen someone like me in their home community who is talking about
Giuseppes Ristorante Italiano in downtown x Route 28 and bringing high-paying jobs to Innovation Park and extending VRE out to
Haymarket on Oct. 13 when Danica Roem Gainesville in a cost-eective way and all the other really important public policy issues
arrived shortly before 1:30 p.m. not to mention water infrastructure that we deal with here whos also like them,
Roem, who was a reporter for the said Roem. Theyve never had that and I know that because when I was growing up
Gainesville Times from 2006-2015, told here and I realized I was trans and I realized that I was dierent from my classmates, I
the Washington Blade as she ate her lunch didnt have anyone to talk to about it and I didnt have any elected ocials to emulate or
that she used to interview local ocials at to look up to in Prince William County.
the restaurant. A framed copy of a prole Marshall did not return the Blades request for comment for this story.
that Roem wrote about Giuseppes hangs As for Roem, she said she is condent that she will defeat Marshall.
near the restaurants entrance. Yes, Im a 33-year-old stepmom, Im a life-long Manassas resident, Im a journalist, Im
I can be a really good advocate for a transgender woman, Roem told the Blade. Ive got a lot of inherent identiers and
our localities at the state level, Roem DANICA ROEM told the Washington Blade Im well qualied for oce.
told the Blade, noting she covered local during a sit-down interview in Haymarket, Robocalls like that that attack transgender children and Del. Marshalls legislative
Va., that she is condent going into the nal
government for more than a decade. I stretch of her campaign against state Del. record of leaving 3,700 of his constituents uninsured when hes supposed to be the
feel like my skill set is really geared toward Bob Marshall (R-Prince William County) family values candidate and hes leaving families in danger of dying, that just strengthens
serving extremely well as a state legislator. PHOTO COURTESY OF DANICA ROEM
my resolve to soundly defeat him on Nov. 7, she added.
Roem is running against state Del. Bob
Marshall (R-Prince William County), who
has represented the 13th District of the Virginia House of Delegates since 1992. Roem,
who would be the rst openly transgender person seated in any state legislature if she
were to defeat the Prince William County Republican, sat down with the Blade less than
Bowser, Grimm headline Best of Gay D.C. party
a month before Election Day on Nov. 7.
Roem, 33, lives in the Manassas section of Prince William County. She has also worked for the D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser and transgender rights advocate Gavin Grimm
Prince William Times, the National Journal and the Montgomery County Sentinel in Maryland. were greeted with tumultuous applause at the Washington Blades annual Best
Roem has made transportation, infrastructure, economic development and education of Gay D.C. Awards Party at Town Danceboutique nightclubon Oct. 19 when the
the cornerstones of her campaign. two appeared on stage to receive awards.
Marshall, who is one of the most vocal opponents of LGBT rights in the General Bowser, a strong advocate for LGBT rights, was selected by Blade readers for
Assembly, in 2011 sponsored a bill that sought to ban gays and lesbians from the the award of Best D.C. Public Ocial.
Virginia National Guard. Roem told the Blade the measure set the template for Donald Grimm, 18, who with the help of the American Civil Liberties Union led a federal
Trump attempting to ban transgender people from not just serving in the military, but lawsuit in 2015 against his school district in Gloucester County, Va., for the right to use
blocking health care coverage for their health care needs not wants, but needs. his schools boys restroom and locker room, has emerged as a nationally recognized
He did that to capable, ready, able members of the military who are actively champion for trans rights. Blade sta selected him for this years Local Hero Award.
contributing to the leadership and readiness of our military, including in Prince William In the 2017 Best of Gay D.C. Awards contest about 3,500 nominations were made
County, at Quantico, at the Marine Corps base, said Roem, referring to Trump. and 20,000 online votes were cast in 100 categories ranging from Most Committed
Marshall has also repeatedly attacked Roem and her gender identity during the campaign. Activist and Best Local Pro Sports Team to Best Real Estate Agent and Best Straight Ally.
Voters in the 13th District earlier this month received anti-trans robocalls from the American Im very proud to have been voted Best Public Ocial by the Washington Blade
Principles Project, an organization that says it supports public policy solutions that respect and readers, Bowser said after accepting the award. I secretly last year was hoping
arm: Human life from conception to natural death; the union of one man and one woman as that I would make it one day, and we did this year and Im very proud, she said.
the denition of marriage; the freedom to practice and proclaim religion; authentic economic One of the things Im proudest of is weve been able to recruit and appoint
progress for working Americans; education in service of the comprehensive development of the so many LGBTQ ocials in my cabinet. And what it reects is that the LGBTQ
person; and the legacy of immigrants in contributing to the American story. community knows that the D.C. government is welcoming and that they will
Marshall last week in an email he sent to his supporters included a link of a 2015 interview be recognized and rewarded for their talents, said Bowser, who recently
with American Principles Project Chair Sean Fieler in which he said society is wrestling announced she was running for election to a second term next year.
with the idea of whether or not we want to accept that people exist independently of their As Bowser stepped down from the stage the crowd began to chant, Four more years!
bodies as really the transgender community is claiming as we should. Fieler, who lives in Grimm said his selection for the Local Hero Award reected the eorts by him
New Jersey, donated $20,000 to Marshalls campaign on Sept. 11. and trans youth throughout the country to stand up for their rights.
Roem pointed out to the Blade that Marshall last month asked a Prince William Times I was incredibly honored, he said. I didnt expect it and it really is an incredibly deep
reporter why she uses female pronouns to refer to her and if Danicas DNA changed. honor and I was really humbled to be in the presence of so many fantastic people.
Roem said her response to Marshalls comments was to release a YouTube ad that Also drawing prolonged applause at the event was the announcement that the
shows her taking hormones and putting make up on. late Jim Vance, D.C.s longtime NBC4 News anchor, was posthumously selected
The ad also features a trans high school student from Manassas. by Blade readers for this years Best Local TV Personality Award.
My response was to take the high road, Roem told the Blade, while acknowledging Vance, 75, died in January following a prolonged battle with cancer. He worked at
some trans activists criticized the ad. Im communicating to an audience who by and NBC4 for more than 40 years, making him the citys longest serving TV news anchor.
large is extremely unfamiliar with the day-to-day life of a trans person. NBC4 meteorologist Chuck Bell appeared at the Best of Gay D.C. Party to
A second ad that highlights Roems experience as a reporter began airing on television accept the award for Vance. Bell, whos gay, won the Best Local TV Personality
earlier this month. Award in 2015 and was selected as runner-up for the award this year.
Roem raised $349,446.62 between July 1-Sept. 30, compared to $121,580.74 that Marshall LOU CHIBBARO JR.
raised during the same period. Roem has also received the backing of the Democratic
establishment and LGBT advocacy groups in Virginia and around the country.
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RICHARD GRENELL said in 1992: Only whores and very small children wear red shoes.
Lawyers advocating for the gay couple who insist they should be able to purchase
a wedding cake from a baker under Colorado law whether the baker has religious
SCREEN CAPTURE PUBLIC DOMAIN objections or not red their opening salvo before the U.S. Supreme Court on Monday.
In the Masterpiece Cakeshop case, a pair of opening briefs was submitted
Trumps gay nominee has history by Colorado Civil Rights Commission, which argues the court should uphold
lower court decisions for Colorados Anti-Discrimination Law, and the American
of derogatory comments about women Civil Liberties Union, which is representing the same-sex couple in the lawsuit,
Charlie Craig and David Mullins.
By CHRIS JOHNSON Both briefs argue the Supreme Court should reject the claim by Jack Phillips,
cjohnson@washblade.com the Christian baker who owns Masterpiece Cakeshop and says can he refuse a
wedding cake to same-sex couples because the making of the cake is inherently
President Trumps nominee for U.S. ambassador to Germany the rst major openly an act of expression protected under the First Amendment.
gay appointment of the administration came under re in the recent past for snide The 70-page brief from the ACLU makes the case Phillip cannot be free to
comments on Twitter about the physical appearance of several prominent women discriminate on the basis of his religious views because the Colorado non-
but a 1995 Washington Post prole story on him reveals he was making such comments discrimination law is generally applicable to all businesses.
long before the arrival of social media. The bakery is not the rst business to claim a First Amendment right to
The more than 20-year-old prole piece on Ric Grenell, sent to the Washington Blade violate an anti-discrimination law because of its sincerely held religious or moral
on Saturday, takes a look at his personality long before the Trump nominee served as beliefs, the brief says. This court has never accepted that premise, and has,
spokesperson for the U.S. mission to the United Nations during the George W. Bush instead, armed repeatedly the governments ability to prohibit discriminatory
administration or as a Fox News commentator. The piece was written during Grenells days conduct over the freedom of expression, association, and religion objections
as press secretary to Rep. Mark Sanford (R-S.C.) at the dawn of the Gingrich Revolution. of entities ranging from law rms, and labor unions; to private schools, and
A key portion of the prole quotes Laurie Blackford, then a producer for Chris universities; to membership organizations open to the public; to restaurants,
Matthews long before he came to MSNBC, recalling remarks Grenell allegedly made to and newspapers. Retail bakeries should fare no dierently.
a fellow campaign staer on the 1992 Bush-Quayle re-election campaign. The brief also argues a ruling in favor of Masterpiece Cakeshop would lead to
One of our sta people came in and had on a owery dress and red shoes and Ric a slippery slope of discrimination other than against same-sex couples and in
looked at her and said, Didnt your mother ever tell you only whores and very small capacities other than wedding cakes.
children wear red shoes? Blackford is quoting as saying. If the First Amendment bars a state from applying an anti-discrimination law to
At the time the prole piece was written three years later, the Post sought a response the sale of wedding cakes because they involve artistry, then bakeries could refuse
on the remarks from Grenell, who acknowledged them as a joke. to provide cakes for an interracial or interfaith couples wedding, a Jewish boys bar
You know that was a joke, Grenell is quoted as saying while chuckling. But come mitzvah,anAfrican-Americanchildsbirthday,orawomansbusinessschoolgraduation
on. Red shoes? party, the brief says.
The remarks are consistent with comments Grenell has made about women on Mark Silverstein, legal director for the ACLU of Colorado, said in a statement a
Twitter. One 2011 tweet directed at Rachel Maddow, the lesbian MSNBC host, said she ruling in upholding Colorados non-discrimination law is essential.
needs to take a breath and put on a necklace and another compared her look to that As a nation and as a state, we decided decades ago that businesses that are
of pop singer Justin Bieber. open to the public should be open to everyone on the same terms, Silverstein
One tweet directed at Callista Gingrich questioned whether she snaps on her hair. At around said. A ruling allowing discrimination in this case would have implications far
the same time, Grenell tweeted Hillary Clinton is starting to look like Madeleine Albright. beyond LGBT people. It would put in jeopardy longstanding protections against
Grenell, who also has a history of antagonizing reporters on Twitter, deleted and discrimination here in Colorado and across the country.
apologized for those tweets years ago during his brief tenure of several days with Mitt The other 75-page brief led by Colorado Civil Rights Commission, which
Romneys 2012 presidential campaign. Although some point to the tweets as the reason determined Phillips violated the state law, asserts state laws like Colorados have
he didnt last long with the campaign, others say the appointment of a gay person to the prohibited discrimination in the United States for more than 150 years.
GOP campaign was nixed after objections from anti-gay activists. Phillips demands respect for his religious beliefs, and that respect is secured
During Grenells conrmation hearing last week, Sen. Chris Murphy (D-Conn.) queried by the Constitution, the brief says. But under that same Constitution, a religious
him about his comments on Twitter about women, asking him if he regrets those words belief is no justication for a State or a business open to the general public
and can understand the concern about the impact theyll have on his role in Germany. to treat a class of people as inferior simply because of who they are.
Anybody who knows me knows that I am a very caring person and very sensitive Oral arguments will be held in the case on Dec. 5.
and I also appreciate good humor, Grenell said in response. Unfortunately, there are CHRIS JOHNSON
times where what was intended to be humorous turned out to be not so humorous,
and, again, that was never my intention and I regret that.
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LGBT people have frequently been shown in previous studies to have poorer
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NFLs embrace of Timberlake a racist, sexist joke concluded: The FCC found nothing to sug- erally from the Jackson playbook and from million copies worldwide, compared to Jack-
Super Bowl gig rightly gest they had planned the moment, as ESPN other black artists over the years. He once sons roughly 160 million records sold. Shes
outrages Janet Jackson fans reported. That nding is consistent with Jack- even wore his hair in cornrows, an uninten- won every music industry award there is
sons denials that it was planned. tionally hilarious and cringe-worthy choice. a total of 370, including ve Grammys, 33
Ten years after Powell pretended to be of- When Timberlake was the target of the Billboard Music Awards and 11 AMAs. She
fended by the split-second nipple ash in a MTV prank show Punkd, his true person- even holds nine Guinness World Records,
series of TV interviews, he nally admitted the ality was revealed. The gag involved IRS has an Oscar nomination and was named
truth to ESPN. I think weve been removed agents and a moving truck showing up at MTVs inaugural Icon award recipient.
from this long enough for me to tell you that I Timberlakes mansion as hes told he owes The next generation of pop stars have
had to put my best version of outrage on that $900,000 in unpaid taxes and his belong- unanimously cited Jackson as a primary inu-
I could put on, he said, while rolling his eyes. ings are being repossessed. He bursts into ence and her music has been covered by ev-
KEVIN NAFF is editor of the Washington Blade
Nevertheless, Jackson was immediately tears and again calls mommy for help. eryone from Whitney Houston and Prince to
and can be reached at kna@washblade.com. blacklisted by CBS, MTV Networks and main- When he realizes its a gag and that camer- Buckcherry and most recently Katy Perry.
stream corporate radio. She was disinvited as are rolling, he reverts to his phony bad And though Timberlake is much younger,
Conrmation this week that Justin Tim- from the Grammy Awards that year, despite boy persona, complete with yo yo yos. Jackson is proving her modern relevance
berlake will headline the 2018 Super Bowl being a 26-time nominee and ve-time win- Timberlake is a copycat, a cheap imitation of and staying power. While Timberlakes last
oers further evidence of the NFLs rac- ner. Timberlake was welcomed at the cer- talent. Hes an average-looking Mickey Mouse album was released in 2013, Jacksons last
ism, sexism and ageism. Its craven lunacy emony, accompanied by his mommy. He Club alumnus who rode a wave of 90s teeny- outing was 2015s Unbreakable, which de-
that NFL executives would ask Timberlake used the opportunity to apologize, dutifully bop cheese to undeserved fame and fortune. buted at No.1 on Billboards albums chart,
back while continuing to boycott all things carrying water for a network and a con- He is the embodiment of mediocrity. A saccha- her seventh compared to three solo No. 1
Janet Jackson in the wake of the duos in- servative Republican administration at rine, non-threatening, milquetoast pop star albums for Timberlake. Jackson is currently
famous 2004 nipple-baring performance. the expense of his one-time friend Jackson. for the white bread Orlando suburbs. on a 56-date State of the World tour selling
The black woman took the fall for the acci- It was a cruel stab in the back for Jackson, And yet, the NFL is giving him the head- out arenas across the country at age 51.
dent, while the white boy was celebrated and who did so much to advance Timberlakes liner slot at the Super Bowl at a time when But back to Timberlake. The NFLs em-
saw his career take o in the aftermath. Yes, I career. Before letting him share her Super the country is nally beginning to engage in brace of this cad, who so blithely tossed Jack-
said accident. Amid the endless speculation Bowl stage, Jackson hired Timberlake and a dialogue about systemic racism thanks to son under the bus, reinforces all the racist,
about whether it was planned or not, one his cheesy boyband mates from N*Sync to athletes taking a knee during the National An- sexist and ageist stereotypes about Ameri-
fact is always forgotten: the FCC under then- open for her on 1997s acclaimed Velvet them. Two steps forward and two steps back. can popular culture. The decision this week
Chair Michael Powell launched a thorough Rope world tour. Many had never heard Virtually no one seems to think Jackson sparked a new trending hashtag, Justice-
investigation into the incident, prodded by of Timberlake before that tour. stands a chance of being invited back to the 4Janet. Jackson gracefully endured years of
angry members of Congress. The senior MTV Timberlake would go on to appropriate Super Bowl, even though shes the much ridicule and boycotts, yet has proven herself
executive in charge of the show was forced Janet and Michael Jacksons style and moves; bigger star by any measure. Timberlakes the better person and the bigger star, de-
to turn over her laptop to investigators, who hes the appropriator-in-chief, stealing lib- four solo studio albums have sold about 27 spite the NFLs unfortunate decision.
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SOPHIE B. HAWKINS will sing hits and new songs at her Saturday evening concert in Vienna, Va.
Singer/songwriter Sophie B. Hawkins so many years in Los Angeles? out and do solo shows without one single that this should ever happen again, but
is at a place in her life where shes being SOPHIE B. HAWKINS: Well I was born musician, just me because Id never done they both gave me standing ovations and
highly deliberate about what she does. and raised in Manhattan so when I get that before until weekend before last. I did they all came back and it was a dierent
Shes sitting on a nished album but home to New York or anywhere near, I feel it in Massachusetts and Maine and I really conversation after the show. It really
wants to gure out a way to release it a certain accessibility to my soul. I feel like felt like this was the time for me to just could have gone terribly thats why I
strategically for maximum impact. A this is where I came into the world, where go on stage and really see if Im a good- didnt do it in New York. I could have walked
recurring theme in our lengthy phone Im coming back to and where Im allowed enough musician and good-enough artist o the stage and said, Im never doing that
chat last week is that there are lots of to be me. I can be my age here, I can be a and good-enough storyteller to get out again, and called my guitar player. But Im
great ideas, but several are just not high single woman, so exotic and excited to be there and be the person that I am (in my actually excited to do it more.
on her priority list right now. alive, just in the day, and its not weird. I home studio) working and writing songs.
Newly single after nearly two decades dont have to drive a fancy car, I dont have I loved the last two shows. They were BLADE: Youre working on a musical,
in a same-sex relationship, the 52-year- to wear makeup, I can just live and enjoy my favorites in a very long time because you have a new album in the can, you
old singer known for 90s radio staples everyones energy and creativity. Thats I just got up there with my instruments, did the Janis Joplin play a few years ago
Damn, I Wish I Was Your Lover and the dierence between L.A. and New my banjo, my drums, my guitar and my and said you even wrote some songs
As I Lay Me Down is back in New York York. In California, its harder to connect piano, and I sang the songs and it was as Janis. What all will you be singing?
focusing on her art and raising her two with people and harder to connect with so relaxed and emotional and, of course, Stu from your albums or some of that
young children, Dashiell, 8, and Esther, 2. peoples creativity. In New York, its very intimate, but it was something more. Sort stu as well?
She makes a rare D.C.-area appearance much coming up from the ground. of a heightened experience. I wouldnt HAWKINS: Well, OK, rst of all, Im always
this weekend at Jammin Java in Vienna, say its me being me because Im always going to do my hits. Theyre beautiful and
Va., on her fall mini-tour. Her comments BLADE: What can we expect at your me, but its really one on one. Its scary I just want people to know they wont get
have been edited for length. show this weekend and why are you but thats where I really like it the best. deprived of that. The second thing is Im
doing a mini-tour now? denitely doing some new songs. People
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feel to be back in New York again after for a very specic reason. I wanted to go HAWKINS: Both audiences, and not
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GREG NELSON
How long have you been out and who If science discovered a way to change
was the hardest person to tell? sexual orientation, what would you do?
Twenty-six years. My father. Read that news article in the
Washington Post and then head to the
Whos your LGBT hero? dog park for my morning walk. In other
Congressman Alan Lowenthal words, nothing at all.
(D-Calif.) the rst member of Congress
to permanently display the Pride ag What do you believe in beyond the
outside his oce in the Cannon House physical world?
Oce Building. That all dogs go to heaven.
Whats Washingtons best nightspot, Whats your advice for LGBT
past or present? movement leaders?
I am the wrong person to ask. I met Have an open mind about stopping the
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Cunningham, he says, is supportive and looks at it as Nelsons hobby while serial killer Andrew Cunanan. social custom?
he has his own. Presidential turkey pardons.
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Comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer
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Vernon Ave., Alexandria, Va.) tonight
at 7:30 p.m. Tickets are $45. For more
details, visit birchmere.com.
AGLA and the Imperial Court of
Washington hosts their annual USO Show
at Freddies Beach Bar and Restaurant
(555 23rd St., S Arlington, Va.) tonight
from 6-9 p.m. The social is from 6-7 p.m.
The show is from 7-8:45 p.m. There will
be rae prizes. For more information,
visit imperialcourtdc.org.
Gamma D.C., a support group for
men in mixed-orientation relationships,
meets at Luther Place Memorial Church
(1226 Vermont Ave., N.W.) tonight
from 7:30-9:30 p.m. The group is for
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WRABEL performs at U Street Music Hall Sunday night opening for Leon.
location, visit gammaindc.org.
Women in Their 20s, a social discussion
group for LBT and all women interested today from 10:30 a.m.-7:30 p.m. Check- priced items in store. Food and drink will available in cash prizes. Look for the club
in women, meets tonight at the D.C. in is at Tyber Creek (84 T St., N.W.) be provided from local restaurants. For on Facebook for details.
Center (2000 14th St., N.W.) from 8-9:30 from 10:30 a.m.-4 p.m. There will be more information, visit facebook.com/ The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of
p.m. All welcome to join. For details, visit lectures on the history of Bloomingdales anniesacehardwarebl. Baltimore (2530 N. Charles St., Baltimore,
thedccenter.org. architecture and workshops with Out singer Wrabel performs at U Street Md.) hosts a Halloween party on Tuesday,
SMYAL (410 Seventh St., S.E.) presents Bloomingdales designers and architects Music Hall (1115 U St., N.W.) tonight at Oct. 31 from 6-9 p.m. There will be
a haunted house today from 4-7 p.m. from 11 a.m.-3 p.m. Tours of the homes 7 p.m. He opens the show for singer/ performances by Chris Jay, Sapphire Bleu,
Admission is free. Email brandan. will be from 1-5 p.m. The Arts and Letters songwriter Len. Tickets are $20. For Ariel Von Quinn, Usagi, Bella La Blanc
persaud@smyal.org to RSVP. For more reception will take lace at Old Engine 12 more details, visit ustretmusichall.com. and Xander Lovecraft. All ages welcome.
information, visit smyal.org. (1626 North Capitol St., N.W.) from 4:30- Team LezLink will walk in Making Admission is free. For more information,
7:30 p.m. Tickets are $35. Reception only Strides Against Breast Cancer at RFK visitfacebook.com/glccb.
SATURDAY, OCT. 28 tickets are $10. For more details, visit Stadium (2400 E Capitol St., N.E.) today
bloomingdalecivicassociation.org. from 8:30 a.m.-noon. Join the team for WEDNESDAY, NOV. 1
The Walk and 5K to End HIV kicks o at The 21st annual HRC National Dinner the walk or donate. For more information,
Freedom Plaza (1455 Pennsylvania Ave., takes place at the Walter E. Washington visit facebook.com/lezlinkevents. Bisexual rapper Lil Peep performs at U
N.W.) today at 7 a.m. Check-in starts at 7 Convention Center (801 Mt Vernon Pl., Street Music Hall (1115 U St., N.W.) tonight
a.m. with a program of music, speakers N.W.) today at 5p.m. The sold-out event will MONDAY, OCT. 30 at 7 p.m. GBC, Bexey and Yawns open
and warm-up exercise starting at 8:15 feature special guests Sen. Kamala D. Harris the show. Tickets range from $17-25. For
a.m. The 5K begins at 9:15 a.m. and the and Orange is the New Black star Uzo Us Helping Us (3636 Georgia Ave., more details, visit ustreetmusichall.com.
walk starts at 9:20 a.m. At 10 a.m. there Aduba. For more information, visit hrc.org. N.W.) holds a support group for gay black Bookmen D.C., an informal gay mens
will be a post-walk celebration. General NSO Pops welcomes Pink Martinis lead men to discuss topics that aect them, literature group, discusses The Best
walk registration is $25. Student and singer China Forbes and special guest share perspectives and have meaningful Little Boy in the World by John Reid, at
senior walk registration is $15. General Ari Shapiro for a performance at the conversations. For details, visit uhupil.org. the Tenleytown Library (4450 Wisconsin
timed run registration is $35. Sleep walker Kennedy Center (2700 F St., N.W.) tonight Ave., N.W.) tonight at 7:30 p.m. All are
registration, for those who cannot attend, at 8 p.m. The show will be a blend of TUESDAY, OCT. 31 welcome. For more information, visit
is $40 and includes a commemorative genres including jazz, classical and retro bookmendc.blogspot.com.
Walk and 5K to End HIV T-shirt. For more pop. Tickets range from $24-115. For Queer Women Working Through The Tom Davoren Social Bridge Club
details, visit walktoendhiv.org. more details, visit kennedy-center.org. Trauma, a support group, meets this meets tonight at 7:30 p.m. at the Dignity
Taqueria Del Barrio (821 Upshur St., evening at the D.C. Center (2000 14th Center (721 Eighth St., S.E.) for social
N.W.) hosts a drag brunch today from SUNDAY, OCT. 29 St., N.W.) from 6-7 p.m. The group helps bridge. No partner needed. For more
10 a.m.-3 p.m. Sylvanna Duvel and Abbi individuals process trauma by learning information, call 301-345-1571.
Kadabra will perform. There will be shows Ladies Tea Dance will be at Annies Ace therapy techniques and behavioral
at 10 a.m. and 1 p.m. Tickets are $25 and Hardware (3405 Eighth St., N.E.) today processing activities such as art, deep THURSDAY, NOV. 2
include entry with one brunch entry or from 2-5 p.m. There will be prizes and breathing, stretching and meditation. For
three tacos and one brunch cocktail. activity stations where guests can learn more details, visit thedccenter.org. SMYAL (410 Seventh St., S.E.) hosts
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p.m. show. For more information, visit lamps, repair walls and more. The rst Grand Central Nightclub (1001 N. Charles 5-7 p.m. LGBT youth can come to learn
facebook.com/delbarriodc. 100 people will receive a swag bag. All St., Baltimore) from 9 p.m.-2 a.m. There about historical activist movements. For
The 2017 Bloomingdale House Tour is guests will receive 20 percent o regular will be a costume contest with $800 details, visit smyal.org.
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SAT, NOV 11 Brunch at Saint Yves (1220 Connecticut
NEWMYER FLYER PRESENTS Ave., N.W.) on Sunday, Nov. 5 from noon-
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Michaels will turn back time
SUN, NOV 12 celebrating Daylight Saving Time with a
DOYLE BRAMHALL II Cher impersonation. Gigi Holliday will join
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W/ SAMMY MILLER & THE CONGREGATION Tori Amos brings her Native Invader Tour to MGM National Harbor (101 D.C.s Dierent Drummers hosts its
MGM National Ave., Oxon Hill, Md.) on Friday, Nov. 3 at 8 p.m. Its her debut Capital Pride Symphonic Band Concert at
SAT, NOV 18 performance at the new venue. For years, she played DAR Constitution Hall on the Church of the Epiphany (1317 G St.,
BIG SAMS FUNKY NATION her D.C. tour stops. N.W.) on Saturday, Nov. 4 at 7 p.m.
The tour is in support of her 15th studio album, Native Invader, a mellow The shows theme will be Once Upon
and personal album that explores climate change and her mothers debilitating a Time, and will feature pieces from
stroke. It is the follow-up to her 2014 album Unrepentant Geraldines. Tickets dierent eras and styles. The focus will be
range from $45-281. on classic literature. Student and senior
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T H E A TE R OC T OB E R 27, 2017 33
Intriguing premise never fully about meeting Jack in high school while
mined for dramatic heft dissecting a frog or something. Shes not
sure about the details of that anecdote or
By PATRICK FOLLIARD a lot of things. Her feelings are revealed
with a furrowed brow.
Nora is an unsentimental 15-year-old Safe As Houses (the title comes
lesbian, or so it seems. When reunited from an old English phrase meaning
with her father after his mysterious completely safe) is made up of longish,
decade-long absence, shes reluctant to uneven scenes connected by some
show vulnerability. awkward transitions. The production,
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nale you have to experience for yourself. time periods with supple and charming
The rst story starts in Hoboken, N.J., in dexterity. The cuts are never predictable
October, 1927. A young deaf girl named and the stories illuminate each other in
Rose Kincaid (played by the magnicent surprising and unexpected ways. When
deaf actress Millicent Symonds) is bored both children are exploring the museum,
and lonely at home, stied by her over- the interplay between the two periods is
protective father. She runs away to New fascinating as Haynes and his colleagues
York City to see her favorite actress, explore how the museum has and hasnt
silent lm star Lillian Mayhew (a delicious changed over time.
Julianne Moore), who is rehearsing for a The acting is excellent. Julianne Moore
new Broadway play. joyously chews up scenery right and left,
The second story starts in Gunint whether appearing onscreen, onstage or
Lake, Minn., in June 1977. After the death as the towering diva in her dressing room.
of his mother (Michelle Williams), Ben Oakes Fegley is solid and sympathetic as
an act of God
Wilson (Oakes Fegley) is sent to live with Ben. But the real nd of the movie is Millicent
his relatives. In a book about the Cabinet Simmonds. Her winsome face is extremely
of Wonders left behind by his mother, expressive and she beautifully captures the
he nds a clue to his fathers identity: a rhythms of the classic silent cinema.
bookmark from Kincaids Books in New While the movie is excellent, there are [TOM] STORY IS A TRULY WITTY,
York City. With money from his mothers some noticeable aws. The role of Bens
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rainy-day fund, he heads to the city to friend Jamie (Jaden Michael) is sadly URBANE COMEDY
track him down. underwritten; its possible that the book THE WASHINGTON POST DCMETROTHEATERARTS
Both children end up at the wonderful rounds out the character more fully.
Museum of Natural History. Avoiding the More seriously, the pacing occasionally AN IRREVERENT COMEDY SUBLIMELY SATIRICAL AND
attention of watchful security guards and lags and the lm could use some cutting. BROADWAY WORLD UNSPEAKABLY FUNNY
each in their own era, they are entranced It loses some steam once the impressive THEATREBLOOM
by the lifelike dioramas, make wishes on novelty wears o and it goes on for a little NOW THROUGH NOVEMBER 26 PRIDE NIGHTS: NOVEMBER 3 & 17
the massive meteorite Ahnightito, and too long after the big reveal.
are awed by the amazing exhibits in the Nonetheless, Wonderstruck is a lm well- SigTheatre.org | 703 820 9771
Cabinet of Wonders. worth seeing especially on the big screen.
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