What Is Marriage

What is
Marriage
What is marriage?
Marriage is both a personal relationship between a man and a woman, and the
protective institution for their children. This protective role for children is at the core
of marriage. From ancient philosophers to modern social scientists, the benefits for
children of parents being married have been recognised in all human societies.
When this protective role is lost or diminished, children suffer.
Mother, father and child
Marriage permanently links the male into the mother-child bond. The
obligations between husband and wife in part follow from those that
arise between parent and child. Mothers and fathers each bring unique
qualities to their relationship with their child. These distinct qualities help
a child grow to a resilient adult.
Marriage, family and society

The union of a man and woman is the natural reproductive
and protective environment for raising children. Marriage
forms the family unit that existed before political institutions
and apart from them. The foundation of this society lies in
the natural love and obligations of husbands and wives for
their biological children.
Marriage and the State
The State did not create marriage, but it has a role in recognising and
supporting marriage because of the need to protect children.
Society has an interest in ensuring that marriage – the relationship for the
creating and the rearing of children – is defined and protected. Otherwise,
it would have no interest in marriage. This is why other affectionate
relationships, such as friendships, are not regulated by the State; nor should
the State have anything to do with them, as these are private matters.
Marriage and religion

Religions recognise and bless marriage, but they did not invent it. Marriage
existed prior to Christianity. Christian views about marriage are based on the
Bible and enriched by theological reflections.
Redefining marriage
Some people wish to redefine marriage to
mean an affectionate relationship between
any two (or more) people. This would see
marriage reduced to just a committed,
affectionate sexual relationship.
Marriage is more than that.
Loving, affectionate relationships between
adults should be respected. But they are
not marriages. Redefining marriage like
this will weaken marriage by undermining
the unique role of husband and wife
in relation to the child. The law would
reinforce the idea that marriage is just
an emotional union, not a bodily union
directed towards creating and
protecting children.
This will increase marital instability

and undermine the role of marriage,
especially for children.
The power of the State
Redefining marriage also politicises it in a dangerous and novel way. Marriage, as it is, does not
require the State to do anything other than support it. However, legally redefining marriage can
only happen by State decree.
Marriage would no longer be a fundamental unit recognised by the State, but a right granted by
the State to those it chooses.
Once marriage becomes a creation of the State, it can redefine marriage to mean anything.
Instead of recognising and supporting the reality that a particular man and a particular woman
are committed to each other and are the parents of a particular child, the State usurps this reality.
Once the State can no longer insist that marriage

involves a commitment to a member of the opposite
sex, there is no ground for insisting that marriage be
limited to one person rather than several.
The consequences
A consequence will be a greater intrusion into
family life.
For example, the State will be called upon to create
the conditions that support the new definition. Terms
like ‘mother’ and ‘father’ will likely be replaced by
‘parent 1’ and ‘parent 2’ on birth certificates and other
documents, as has occurred in other countries.
Children will likely be taught in Primary School about
alternative forms of ‘marriage’ as has occurred in
other countries.
Freedoms, including religious freedoms, will come
under attack. The providers of goods and services –
for example, shopkeepers, photographers and holiday
venues - will be legally coerced into providing their
products and services against their conscience
and beliefs.
Overseas experience has shown that even to state the
traditional view about marriage as between a man
and a woman could become unlawful!

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