Chapter 1
Chapter 1
Chapter 1
Addiction, in my formative years, was a bad word. Most likely, even now,
the word has its negative shades; thanks to the tireless campaigning by
philanthropists against drug addiction, substance addiction, and their
likes. However, as I grew up, and even now, when I sit to write this book,
I realize that addiction can be actually good and it can bring you fortunes.
Therefore, when my friends and family called me an “Orkut addict” way
back in 2004, it did not bother me; in fact, I had this secret pride in being
someone who mastered something that was becoming popular amongst
the people.
Hi5 did enter the country first; however, among us, Orkut was a runaway
hit. Primarily, Orkut (or any other social media) started as a leisure media;
however, later it became a part of our lives. During my college days, social
media was a new and exciting thing to do. Back then, not everyone knew
about it; therefore the one who introduced it had a small pride. Orkut with
its own scrapbook and testimonial features attracted me and made me
spend time with it. It became virtually and literally my “second home”, a
“kingdom come” after college hours. Quite excited about the possibility of
socializing with people from around the world and playing around with
real-time friends, it made me befriend about 2000 people and to have around
60 testimonials. The testimonials feature was so addictive; I wrote testi-monials
on request, in favor, for a return testimonial (lot of transactions you see!) or
as a surprise—it was one feature that made lot of us say things about each
other that you would not share otherwise. By uploading crazy pictures and
checking scrapbooks and testimonials of others, I was actively using Orkut for
more than three years.
Social media, then again, was a part of my life. Of course, you learn, unlearn,
and relearn many things while you are still on the journey. Fortunately, d
uring
my Orkut years, I had stumbled and later learned the wise use of social media
for fun, friendship, serious networking, career, etc.
One valuable lesson I learned as early as the Orkut days was to never
publicly use social media to express anger against close friends or relatives.
Throughout my second year of college, I used to vent anger, express my
feelings, and share all my thoughts through my virtual avatar. I never knew
that a simple status message could make a small m isunderstanding into
a huge rivalry, which I am still unhappy about. How else would you feel
when your genuine thoughts are bullied upon? I laugh about it now, but a
valuable lesson was learned.
Even though some of the Orkut users were using the platform for other
purposes, I was glad that I was able to pull this out for the most important
decision in my life—a game-changer.
Four months after completing my graduation, I was in the United Kingdom
with friends from across the globe. Most of them were not aware of Orkut,
the period when I realized that Orkut was not the only virtual social world;
it was popular only in India and Brazil. It was informed among us that all
official information at our university will be shared through e-mail/internet
and all informal communications—the ones apart from a cademics—will be
shared through Facebook.
Facebook. Now what on earth is that?! That was the first time I was hearing of
it. A ‘closed group’ was created on Facebook and I was in.
I soon realized that all my friends from different countries were also part of
this community and this helped me boost my networking abilities. I was still
active on Orkut as my 2000+ friends were still in India and wanted to know
my stories from the United Kingdom. In 2008, Facebook was very simple to
use. It’s pages never existed as it is now. The groups ruled the Facebook world
and so did the community-centric networking. It became very popular among
the Indian students in the United Kingdom as it gave us lot more opportuni-
ties of entertainment, engagement, and networking.
However, how did Facebook attract me so strongly? A simple but very
effective tool called “Gaming” can make your audience stay put with you
throughout.
Texas Poker was the first game that I joined on Facebook. I liked the social
feature of this game more, which allowed us to play with other users at the
same time sitting on table (especially with people from all over the world).
There used be a chat box where global players could chat, discuss, share poker
chips, and literally discuss about anything under the roof giving a complete
club experience.
Poker became a fascinating part of my life in the United Kingdom as I used
to compete with my roommates who were sitting in different hostels. Virtual
chips were almost conversed enough, begged enough, and were the talk of
pride in my friends group.
The magnetic nature of gaming is infectious. When I took a one-month
break from my regular UK lifestyle and was back to my country, I intro-
duced Facebook to my siblings and friends, teaching them the global
poker with virtual chips, which made my younger brother addicted to it.