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    The document provides 10 techniques for effective listening: 1) Decide to listen and stop talking, 2) Let go of your own agenda and focus on the speaker, 3) Be curious about other perspectives, 4) Listen with your eyes by maintaining eye contact, 5) Listen to the whole message before responding, 6) Be patient and allow time for the speaker to finish their point, 7) Listen with respect for differing opinions, 8) Feel empathy for the speaker's emotions, 9) Manage your own emotions to avoid getting defensive, and 10) Test your understanding by summarizing and asking clarifying questions.

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    The document provides 10 techniques for effective listening: 1) Decide to listen and stop talking, 2) Let go of your own agenda and focus on the speaker, 3) Be curious about other perspectives, 4) Listen with your eyes by maintaining eye contact, 5) Listen to the whole message before responding, 6) Be patient and allow time for the speaker to finish their point, 7) Listen with respect for differing opinions, 8) Feel empathy for the speaker's emotions, 9) Manage your own emotions to avoid getting defensive, and 10) Test your understanding by summarizing and asking clarifying questions.

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    10 Techniques for Effective Listening

    1. Decide to listen.
    Listening is a choice. So deciding to stop talking and start listening is an important first step.

    2. Let go of your own personal agenda.


    To truly hear someone, you need to let go of your own agenda, and prejudices. Focus your attention
    by clearing away all distractions and any preconceived notions, so that you can be fully present and
    create space in your mind for different views.

    3. Be curious.
    Effective listening requires you to be curious about how other people see the world. Seek to
    understand all you can, ask open questions and try to see the world through the other person’s
    perceptual lens.

    4. Listen with your eyes.


    Maintain eye contact with the speaker and pay attention to all the visual clues. People will appreciate
    your attention and be better able to communicate with you. With practice, you will become more able
    to read the signs and understand the meaning of what is being communicated.

    5. Listen for the whole message.


    Make sure you hear and understand the whole message before you respond. A common bad habit is
    to only hear what you expect to hear, and then begin rehearsing your response, ready to pitch in as
    soon as the dialog has stopped. (Or worse still, interrupting with a response to what you think you are
    likely to hear.)

    6. Be patient.
    Some people take longer to find the right words, to make a point or clarify an issue. Leave time for
    them to think and complete their message. Wait, and then wait some more.

    7. Listen with respect.


    Respecting the right to differ is a key concept that is especially important when you are listening.
    Differences may lie in the opinions being expressed, or in the communication style that is being
    used. Remember that even when you are not communicating verbally, your own non-verbal cues
    speak for you. Listen to understand, not to judge.

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    8. Feel empathy.
    This is particularly important when people communicate something personal or painful. Empathy
    is more then feeling sorry for someone. Empathy requires you to first understand and feel others’
    emotions and feelings so that you can then acknowledge the message and share your new
    understanding.

    9. Manage your own emotions and reactions.


    If what others are saying creates an emotional response in you, be attentive to listen for the intent
    and full meaning of their words. Don’t allow others to blow wind into your sails. Remember you have
    control of your reactions. You cannot stop the wind, but you can choose to let it spill off your sails!
    Maintaining your calm, even when you feel like your ‘buttons’ are being pushed, is a powerful skill
    that will help you achieve your goals in all aspects of your life. Getting defensive and angry makes it
    difficult to impossible to listen.

    10. Test for understanding.


    Periodically summarize what you have heard to test your understanding. Also, by asking questions to
    clarify your understanding, you will draw out a clearer picture of what is being said.

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