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5 Life Lessons From Cain and Abel:

Giving, Envy, Decisions


July 9, 2021 By Moses Pierre-Paul 14 Commentson 5 Life Lessons From Cain and Abel:
Giving, Envy, Decisions

After the story of Adam and Eve is the story of Cain and Abel. It’s found in
Genesis chapter 4 and as you likely know Cain killed Abel after God
accepted Abel’s gift but not his. Their story has 5 life lessons we can learn.

The life lessons from Cain and Abel are:

 What We Give Makes A Difference


 Don’t Envy Others
 There Is A Right Way To Do Things
 There Are Consequences To Our Actions
 You Have The Power To Do The Right Thing

What We Give Makes A Difference


Cain and Abel both gave a gift to the Lord. The Lord accepted Abel’s gift
but didn’t accept Cain’s. If we take a closer at how The Bible describes
each of their gifts, we can see the potential reason why God accepted one
and rejected the other.

That reason brings us to the first lesson the story of Cain and Abel teaches
us. That lesson is what we give makes a difference.

In Genesis 4:3, it says “When it was time for the harvest, Cain presented
some of his crops as a gift to the Lord” (NLT). At first, it doesn’t seem like
anything was wrong with what Cain presented but after reading the
description of Abel’s gift we see a difference. In verse 4, it says “Abel also
brought a gift—the best portions of the firstborn lambs from his flock.”
(NLT).

Notice the difference in how Abel’s gift was described. Abel’s gift was the
“best portions” of the “firstborn” lambs. On the other hand, Cain presented
“some” of his crops.

Give Like Abel, Not Like Cain

Following Abel’s example, we should strive to give our best in every area of
life. This applies to giving to both God and people. As for God, He doesn’t
need anything from us. So when we give anything to him it’s more about
our hearts toward him than the thing itself.

What Cain gave reflected a heart that doesn’t highly honor God. When we
take what we offer God lightly we have a heart similar to Cain’s.

Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with
all your mind and with all your strength

Mark 12:30 NIV

As for giving to people, The Bible says the second greatest command is to
love our neighbors as ourselves (Mark 12:31). If we wouldn’t want anything
from someone because they showed a lack of care, we shouldn’t do it to
others.

Everyone’s Best Is Different

Before going into the next lesson, an important point to note about this Cain
and Abel lesson is that your best is different from other people’s best.
Using money as an example, if someone gave $50 dollars, but you gave
$10. On the surface, it appears that the person gave more than you.

But if that person had $500, but you only had $20 then you actually gave
more in terms of percentage. Each person’s circumstance is different, but
God knows everything. Like he saw Cain and Abel’s hearts, he sees ours
and knows what we’re truly giving.

You can learn more about how everyone’s best is different in my article 3
Lessons To Learn From The Widow’s Offering.

Don’t Envy Others


The next lesson Cain and Abel teach us is don’t envy others. Although Abel
had nothing to do with Cain’s gift and God’s rejection of it, Cain got angry
and killed him. Cain incorrectly saw Abel as the issue. In Genesis 4:7 God
told him that if he did what was right he would be accepted. It wasn’t that
only his or Abel’s gift could be accepted. Both gifts could have.

Despite him being told he didn’t do the right thing, Cain still envied Abel.
But it wasn’t that God thought Abel was better than Cain. Given the reason
that God rejected Cain, it tells us that Abel simply did the right thing.

Cain’s envious reaction towards Abel seems to be human nature. We tend


to envy people rather than consider what they had to do to get the results
they got. We see a person with a nice home, but we don’t see their years of
sacrifices saving for it. Similarly, we see someone get promoted on the job,
but instead of reasoning that it’s because of their hard work, we think they
are lucky or get special treatment.

Envying Others Leads Us To Do The Wrong Things

The natural human reaction to envy others isn’t based on logic and as it did
to Cain it can lead us to do the wrong things. First Cain got angry. Then,
apparently not getting over it, Genesis 4:8 says ‘One day Cain suggested
to his brother, “Let’s go out into the fields.” And while they were in the field,
Cain attacked his brother, Abel, and killed him’ (NLT). His anger led to
murder.

So we must be careful when we start to become envious of others. It can


lead us to do the wrong things. Remember that a person having what they
have doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t have it. Being made aware of
what they had to do to get what they got may cause you not to envy them
at all.

There Is A Right Way To Do Things


When God told Cain that he will be accepted if did what was right (Genesis
4:7), it teaches us that there is such a thing as the right way to do things.
This may seem obvious, but in life, we can find ourselves angry like Cain
over problems that occur thinking it’s a mysterious reason why we aren’t
getting the results others seem to be getting.

The Different Response To Cain and Abel Wasn’t Discrimination

God created laws that govern the planet. Like the law of gravity doesn’t
discriminate, all of God’s other laws don’t discriminate. God told Cain that
he “will” be accepted if he did the right thing. Like Abel, Cain’s success was
guaranteed if he met the criteria.

Instead of finding out what the right thing is, in life, we often experiment.
And like I highlighted in the last lesson, we end up envying others,
considering them a rival because we think they are somehow lucky when it
is just that they are going about things in the right way.

If Cain was wise, he could have asked Abel how to bring an acceptable
offering to God. Instead, he allowed his human nature to take control of
him.
So when you aren’t getting the same results in life as someone else, don’t
respond like Cain. Trust God’s word that there is a right way to do things
and find out what you need to do to get the results you desire.

Read my article 3 Things You Should About God’s Laws to learn more
about how God’s laws don’t discriminate.

There Are Consequences To Our Actions


After Cain killed Abel, God punished him. In Genesis 4:11-12, he told him:

Now you are cursed and banished from the ground, which has swallowed
your brother’s blood. No longer will the ground yield good crops for you, no
matter how hard you work! From now on you will be a homeless wanderer
on the earth. 

Genesis 4:11-12 NLT

God’s response to Cain killing Abel reminds us of a lesson we all know but
often need a reminder of. The lesson is that there are consequences to our
actions. In the case of Cain and Abel, we see the immediate consequence.
But in life, since the consequences of our actions aren’t always immediate,
it may appear that there aren’t any consequences at all.

The law of cause and effect guarantees that there are always
consequences to our actions. In The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy, he
explains how even the seemingly insignificant habits add up over the years
and then shock us. For example, eating unhealthy doesn’t hurt us right
after a meal, but in time we find ourselves sick and/or overweight.

As you go about your life, remember the immediate punishment Cain


received for killing Abel. Some of the wrongs we do have immediate
consequences but some don’t. Just because we don’t see consequences
immediately doesn’t mean we won’t.

You Have The Power To Do The Right Thing


The last lesson we’ll look at from Cain and Abel comes from God’s
response to Cain’s anger. In addition to telling him he will be accepted if he
does what’s right, God said “if you refuse to do what is right, then watch
out! Sin is crouching at the door, eager to control you. But you must subdue
it and be its master” (Genesis 4:7 NLT). 

God told Cain that he had the power to master sin. In other words, he didn’t
have to do the wrong thing. This teaches us that we have the power to do
the right thing because we can master sin. In life, we can find ourselves
reasoning that we will fall short eventually and so it doesn’t make sense to
resist the urge. As a result, we give way without any real fight when we’re
tempted. 

God telling Cain that he could subdue and master sin isn’t the only place in
the Bible that hints at our power to do the right thing. 1 John 2:1 says:

My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin. But if anybody
does sin, we have an advocate with the Father—Jesus Christ, the
Righteous One.

1 John 2:1 NIV

John said his purpose for writing was so that they do not sin. Then he says
“if” anyone does sin they have an advocate. John’s choice of words points
out the same lesson.

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Although Cain was angry, it didn’t mean he couldn’t resist killing Abel.
Likewise, when you find yourself in tempting situations, remember you
have the power to do the right thing. You can master sin!

If you want to learn more about how to resist temptation. Check out my
article 5 Lessons We Can Learn From The Temptation of Jesus.

Conclusion
As one of the most popular stories in The Bible, the story of Cain and Abel
is filled with lessons. In this article, we looked at 5 of them. To recap, the
lessons were that what we give makes a difference, don’t envy others,
there is a right way to do things, there are consequences to our actions,
and you have the power to do the right thing.

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