Polite Questions

Polite questions
There are three types of questions in English: direct, indirect, and question tags. Direct and indirect questions
are used to ask for information you do not know, while question tags are generally used to clarify or confirm the
information you think you know.
Each of these three question types can be used politely, but certain indirect forms are more formal and polite
than other types of questions. One form to avoid when asking for things is the imperative form. Saying "Give
me that" (imperative) instead of "Could you give me that" (indirect) puts you at risk of sounding rude. To learn
more about how to ask polite questions, and use each form correctly, check out the overview below.
Asking Direct Questions
Direct questions are either yes/no questions such as "Are you married?" or information questions such as
"Where do you live?" Direct questions ask for information immediately without including extra language such
as "I wonder" or "Can you tell me."
Construction
Direct questions place the helping verb before the subject of the question:
(Question word) + Helping Verb + Subject + Verb + Objects ?
 Where do you work?

 Are they coming to the party?
 How long has she worked for this company?
 What are you doing here?
Making Direct Questions Polite
Direct questions can seem abrupt or even impolite at times, especially when asked by a stranger. For example, if
you come up to someone and ask:
 Does the tram stop here?

 What time is it?
 Can you move?
 Are you sad?
There is nothing wrong with asking questions in this manner, but to sound more polite, it's very common to add
"excuse me" or "pardon me" at the beginning of a question. For example:
 Excuse me, when does the bus leave?

 Excuse me, what time is it?
 Pardon me, which form do I need?
 Pardon me, may I sit here?
Key Words That Make Direct Questions More Polite
In informal situations, one could use the word "can" in a direct sentence. In the United States, "can" is
considered to be incorrect for written English in particular because, in the past, it was not a word used when
asking for something. Saying "May I have" instead of "Can I have" is preferred in the U.S. In the United
Kingdom, the word is not frowned upon. Cambridge University publishes English teaching materials with the
phrase "Can you lend me," "Can I have," etc.
In both countries, questions with "can" are made more polite by using "could:"
 Excuse me, could you help me pick this up?

 Pardon me, could you help me?
 Pardon me, could you give me a hand?
 Could you explain this to me?
"Would" can also be used to make questions more polite:
 Would you lend me a hand with the wash?

 Would you mind if I sat here?
 Would you let me borrow your pencil?
 Would you like something to eat?
Another way of making direct questions more polite is to add "please" at the end of the question. Please should
not appear at the beginning of the question:
 Could you fill in this form, please?

 Could you help me, please?
 Can I have more soup, please?
"May" is used as a formal means to ask for permission and is very polite. It is usually used with "I," and
sometimes "we."
 May I come in, please?

 May I use the telephone?
 May we help you this evening?
 May we make a suggestion?
Asking Indirect Questions to Be Especially Polite
Using indirect question forms is especially polite. Indirect questions request the same information as direct
questions, but they are considered more formal. Notice that indirect questions begin with a phrase ("I wonder,"
"Do you think," "Would you mind," etc.).
Construction
Indirect questions always begin with an introductory phrase and unlike direct questions, they do not invert the
subject. To form an indirect question, use an introductory phrase followed by question words for information
questions, and "if" or "whether" for yes/no questions.
Introductory Phrase + Question Word/"If"/"Whether" + Subject + Helping Verb + Main Verb?
 Can you tell me where he plays tennis?

 I wonder if you know what time it is.
 Do you think she will be able to come next week?
 Excuse me, do you know when the next bus leaves?
Introductory phrase + question word (or "if") + positive sentence
 I wonder if you could help me with this problem.

 Do you know when the next train leaves?
 Would you mind if I opened the window?
NOTE: If you are asking a "yes-no" question, use "if" to connect the introductory phrase with the actual
question statement.
 Do you know if she will come to the party?

 I wonder if you can answer a few questions.
 Can you tell me if he is married?
Otherwise, use a question word "where, when, why, or how" to connect the two phrases.
Using Question Tags for Clarification
Question tags turn statements into questions. Depending on the intonation of the voice, they are used to verify
information that we think is correct or to ask for more information. If the voice goes up at the end of the
sentence, the person is asking for more information. If the voice drops, someone is confirming information that
is known.
Construction
We can understand question tags as having two parts separated by a comma. The first part uses the subject
followed by a helping verb as used in direct questions ("Has she"). The second part uses the opposite form of
the helping verb followed by the same subject ("Hasn't she").
Subject + Helping verb + Objects + , + Opposite Helping Verb + Subject?
 You live in New York, don't you?

 She hasn't studied French, has she?
 We're good friends, aren't we?
 I've met you before, haven't I?
Polite Questions Quiz
First, identify which type of question is asked (i.e. direct, indirect, or question tag). Next, provide a missing
word to fill in the gap to complete the question.
1. Can you tell me ______ you live?

2. They won't attend this class, _____ they?
3. I wonder ______ you like chocolate or not.
4. ______ me, what time does the train leave?
5. Excuse me, _____ you help me with my homework?
6. Do you know how long Mark _____ been working for that company?
7. _____ I make a suggestion?
8. Excuse me, do you know _____ the next show begins?
Answers
1. where
2. will
3. if/whether
4. Excuse/Pardon
5. could/would
6. has
7. May
8. when / what time

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Asking Direct Questions

(Question word) + Helping Verb + Subject + Verb + Objects ?

 Where do you work?

Making Direct Questions Polite

 Does the tram stop here?

 Excuse me, when does the bus leave?

Key Words That Make Direct Questions More Polite

 Excuse me, could you help me pick this up?

"Would" can also be used to make questions more polite:

 Would you lend me a hand with the wash?

 Could you fill in this form, please?

 May I come in, please?

Asking Indirect Questions to Be Especially Polite

Introductory Phrase + Question Word/"If"/"Whether" + Subject + Helping Verb + Main Verb?

 Can you tell me where he plays tennis?

 I wonder if you could help me with this problem.

 Do you know if she will come to the party?

Using Question Tags for Clarification

Subject + Helping verb + Objects + , + Opposite Helping Verb + Subject?

 You live in New York, don't you?

Polite Questions Quiz

1. Can you tell me ______ you live?

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