Chapter One
Chapter One
CREATE
BUILDING YOUR
OWN
SUCCESSFUL
FUTURE
“The greatest
reward of an
education is to be
able to face the
world with an
open mind, a
PA R T O N E C H A N G I N G Y O U R T H O U G H T S
caring heart, and
a willing soul.”
—R. M. Sherfield
WHY
WHY is it important to know
READ THIS how to create success? WHY is it
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How my
COMMUNITY
COLLEGE
changed my life
ROBERT M. SHERFIELD
I
am the son of textile workers. Both of my parents worked in a cotton
Spartanburg Methodist
College, Spartanburg, mill for over 30 years. My mom graduated high school but my father
South Carolina only went to the third grade. My hometown is in the rural South
about 35 miles from the nearest metropolitan area. I attended a small
high school and had never been a good student. Because of my poor performance through the years,
working full time, and family commitments, I decided to attend a community college and then trans-
fer to a four-year college. I never imagined how my high school performance would affect my appli-
cation to college—and indeed the rest of my life. It took me years to overcome the effects of self-
defeating behaviors, a horrible academic background, a negative attitude, and terrible study skills. I
quickly learned that my success depended on becoming an open-minded person who knew how to set
goals, work to achieve them, develop self-motivation, and study effectively. These were not easy
steps for me after 12 years of failure and disappointment.
I barely finished high school with a D– average and my are to do your homework assignments. If you do what I ask
SAT scores and class rank were so bad, I was denied entrance you to do, read what I’ve assigned to you, and do your home-
to the community college. The college granted me provisional work activities, you will learn more about Western civilization
acceptance only if I enrolled in, and successfully completed, than you ever thought possible. If you don’t keep up with me,
a summer preparatory program. I graduated high school on a you won’t know if you are in Egypt, Mesopotamia, or pure hell!
Friday night and began my college studies the very next Mon- Now get out!”
day morning enrolled in the prep program. I never realized On the 30-mile trip home, my mind was filled with new
what lay ahead. I never realized how my life was about to thoughts . . . Lord Byron, Mesopotamia, professors who talked
change forever. too fast, professors who did not talk at all, tuition, parking,
My first class that semester was English. Professor Bran- and the size of the library. I knew that something was differ-
non walked in, handed out the syllabus, called the roll, and ent, something had changed in me. In one day at my commu-
began to lecture. Lord Byron was the topic for the day. My nity college, I had tasted something intoxicating, something
second class was Professor Wilkerson. She entered with a dust that was addictive. I had tasted a new world. My community
storm behind her, went over the syllabus, and before we had college experience changed my life in so many ways, but the
a chance to blink, she was involved in the first lecture. “The number one thing that happened to me was that I learned
cradle of civilization,” she began, “was Mesopotamia.” We all how to be more comfortable in more places. Because of my
scurried to find notebooks and pens to begin taking notes. I experiences at SMC, I began to be as comfortable in New York
could not believe I was already behind on the first day. “Who City at a Broadway play as I was at my job in the cotton mill.
teaches on the first day?” I thought. I learned to be as comfortable sailing the River Thames past
One minute before class ended, she closed her book, Big Ben and Parliament as I was working at the Buffalo Sewer
looked directly at us, and said, “You are in history now. You District. My community college experience taught me to ap-
elected to take this class and you will follow my rules. You are preciate the joys and wonders of travel, learning, and meeting
not to be late, you are to come to this class prepared, and you new people. I had never known this before. This community
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How my COMMUNITY COLLEGE changed my life (continued)
college experience changed my life, and I will be forever THINK ABOUT IT
grateful to those professors who opened the door to the world
1. What adversities in your past will you have to work
for me.
to overcome to persist in your community college
Over 30 years later as I coauthor your Cornerstones text,
studies?
I am still addicted to that new world I first experienced at my
2. What changes and adjustments do you think you are
community college. Community college changed my life, and I
going to have to make in your personal and aca-
am still changing—with every day I live, every new book I
demic life to reach your goals, graduate, and enter
read, every new class I teach, every new person I meet, and
the career you want?
every new place to which I travel, I am changing. I wish the
same for you.
SCAN &
QUESTION
In the preface of this book (page xiv), you read about the SQ3R study method. Right now,
take a few moments, scan this chapter, and on the SQ3R Mastery Study Sheet on page 25,
write five of your own questions that you think will be important to your mastery of this
material. In addition to the two questions below, you will find five questions from your
authors on that study sheet. Use one of your “Study for Quiz” stickers to flag this page for
easy reference.
EXAMPLES:
3 What are the steps to creating a successful future? (from page 4)
3 What are the basic truths about the culture of community colleges? (from page 12)
1. The willingness to set clear, realistic goals and the ability to visualize the results of those
goals
2. The ability to recognize your strengths and build on them
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Simple? The first three are rather simple. Number four is the kicker.
Truthfully, most people have little trouble with the first three; it is the
work and passion involved with number four that causes most people to
give up and never reach their fullest potential—and to be handed a fu-
ture over which they had little say in creating. You can create your own
future, your own success, and your own alternatives.
Coming to the realization that there is no “easy street” and no
“roads paved with good intentions” is also important to creating your
success. In his landmark book, Good to Great, Jim Collins suggests that
once you decide to be great, your life will never be easy again. Rid your-
self of the notion that there is some easy way out—that college will be a
breeze or that college will make your professional life easier. Success re-
quires hard, passionate work on a daily basis. This passionate work may
require you to change some of your thoughts, actions, and beliefs. That
is what this chapter and indeed this entire course is about—creating suc-
cess through positive change.
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1. Change is a skill. Change is a LEARNED SKILL that any willing person can accomplish.
Period. Public speaking is a skill. Learning how to drive a car is a skill, and just like those
activities, learning to change is a skill, too. You’ll need to familiarize yourself with the tools
to learn this skill.
2. Change takes time. Change does not happen immediately at the snap of your fingers. If
you’ve ever taken piano, guitar, or drum lessons, you know it took time to learn how to
play because it is a skill—just like change. You did not learn to play overnight just as you
won’t learn everything about math or history or nursing in one semester. Often, change is
a slow, systematic series of events that eventually leads you to your desired end.
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one of five finalists. She now performs in a major show in
Las Vegas, Nevada.
How can surrounding
4. Change demands action. Although circumstances and desire may drive the need for change yourself with positive,
in your life, don’t lose sight of the fact that ultimately, change is an action. It is something
you must do—mentally, physically, spiritually, and intellectually, just as Queen Emily in upbeat, optimistic people
the previous example knew that without action by her, her life was not going to change. help you with personal
5. Change is about working toward something, not running away from something. If you want change?
true, lasting, meaningful change in your life, you have to think about it as working toward
good, positive, useful results, not as running away from bad, negative, unpleasant circum-
stances. “Working toward” is positive and internal. “Running away from” is negative
and external. Try to work toward a goal and not run from a problem.
6. Change is about letting go and holding on. As with any new endeavor, you will DID YOU KNOW
have to decide what is working in your life and what is not. By doing so, you
can decide what you need to hold onto and what you finally need to let go of.
You will want to hold onto the positive strengths and talents you have while let- ABRAHAM LINCOLN
ting go of the negative, destructive attitudes that you may have held in the past. was born on February
12, 1809, in Hardin,
Kentucky, to unedu-
What Is the Relationship Between Your father moved the family to Illinois.
He was raised in great poverty and only
Education and the New World Economy? had 18 months of formal schooling. He
Composer, singer, and activist Bob Dylan once wrote, “The times, they are studied very hard on his own and learned to
a-changin’.” Truer words have never been spoken—especially for anyone living at read, write, and do mathematical problems.
this moment. This is not your daddy’s economy. It is not your mama’s workplace, He went on to become a lawyer. One of his
and it certainly is not your grandfather’s job market. To glide over this simple truth law partners once said of him, “His ambition
could be the most costly decision of your life. was a great engine that knew no rest.”
“New world economy,” you might say. “Who cares about a world economy?” He lost the love of his life when he was
“China? Who cares about the fluctuating economy in China, Russia, Dubai, or 26, suffered a nervous breakdown at age 27,
India? I live in Kansas and I’m worried about America’s future.” failed in business twice, lost eight elec-
“An iPhone? A BlackBerry? An iPad? Facebooking? Twittering? I can’t even afford tions, and suffered the deaths of three chil-
my bus ticket this month,” you may be thinking. dren all BEFORE he became president and
While you may not be alone in thinking “this does not matter to me,” you changed the course of our nation. On Good
would be very wrong and exceptionally foolish to think that today’s world affairs do Friday, April 14, 1865, Lincoln was assassi-
not concern you, your education, and your future. Yes, it may be true that you are nated at Ford’s Theatre in Washington, D.C.,
simply trying to get a degree in medical assisting to work in a small doctor’s office in by John Wilkes Booth. (White House, n.d.)
Spokane, Washington—or to obtain a degree in criminal justice to work at the local
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Whether we like it or not, a massive transformation is going on all around us in this coun-
try, as well as all over the world. Thriving in the coming years is going to be more difficult than
in the past and will require certain new and different abilities and attitudes to be successful. You
will need to learn and acquire the skills that will make you competitive, give you an edge, and
help you master a life filled with changes and challenges. Many of these skills are outlined in the
Ten Essential Cornerstones for Success in a Changing World (Figure 1.1). These skills will
be needed for your success, personal independence, and growth in the new millennium. Study
PASSION—The ability to show a passion about one’s mission and a willingness to align personal goals with education,
talents, experiences, and skills. An ability to demonstrate concern not only about personal success, but also about the
world and one’s surroundings—a commitment to civic literacy and seeing oneself as “a citizen of the world.”
MOTIVATION—The ability to find the inner strength and personal drive to get up each day and face the world with
an “I can, I will” attitude. The ability to develop a strong personal value and belief system that motivates you when
the going gets tough. The ability to know who you are and never let anyone steal your identity or erode your personal
ethics.
KNOWLEDGE—The ability to become highly skilled in a profession or craft that will enable you to make a good liv-
ing for yourself and your family in a rapidly changing workplace and to use lifelong learning to maintain your market-
able skill sets. The ability to master important academic information beyond your major field in areas such as math,
science, psychology, history, technology, economics, and communication and to practically apply that information in
an evolving and highly technical work environment.
RESOURCEFULNESS—The ability to apply information literacy—to know WHERE to find information and the resources
that will help you be successful in your academic studies and your chosen profession, and HOW to evaluate that infor-
mation to determine if it is useful and accurate. The ability to look for and to seek new opportunities, options, and
outcomes. The ability to imagine, integrate, and implement new ways of solving old problems.
CREATIVITY—The ability to use creativity and innovation in solving problems that will enable you to anticipate new
and emerging issues, to communicate and use what you know and what you have learned and discovered to answer
critical questions and solve complex and demanding problems.
ADAPTABILITY—The ability to make good choices based on future opportunities and a changing workplace and to
constantly reinvent yourself as change brings about necessity and opportunity. The ability to work effectively in a
climate of changing priorities and uncertainty.
OPENMINDEDNESS—The ability to accept and appreciate a highly diverse workplace and the inherent differences
and cultures that will be commonplace. The ability to listen to others with whom you disagree or with whom you may
have little in common and learn from them and their experiences. The ability to learn a new language, even if your
mastery is only at a primitive, broken, conversational level. The ability to conduct yourself in a respectable and pro-
fessional manner.
COMMUNICATION—The ability to develop and maintain healthy, supportive personal and professional relationships
and to build a solid network of well-connected professionals who can help you and whom YOU can help in return.
ACCOUNTABILITY—The ability to accept responsibility and be accountable for all aspects of your future including your
psychological well-being, your spiritual well-being, your relationships, your health, your finances, and your overall sur-
vival skills. Basically, you must develop a plan for the future that states, “If this fails, I’ll do this,” or “If this job is
phased out, I’ll do this,” or “If this resource is gone, I’ll use this,” or “If this person won’t help me, this one will.”
VISION—The ability to guide your career path in a new global economy and to understand and take advantage of the
inherent impact of worldwide competition—even if you live in a small town and work for a small “mom and pop”
company. The ability to “see” what is coming and prepare for the changes, adapt to circumstances, and grow with
grace and style.
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them carefully as each one will help you create a positive transition to the university setting
or the world of work.
By learning to develop these enduring skills, you will be able to carry them with you on
your first job, your tenth job, and well into your future. By learning how to change and rein-
vent yourself with the times and demands of the world, you will position yourself to be-
come—AND remain competitive.
Source: U.S. Bureau of the Census/U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, Education and Training Pay, 2009.
earn huge salaries each year. However, as the data suggest, traditionally, those with college de-
grees earn MORE money and experience LESS unemployment. Basically, college should make
the road to financial security easier, but college should also be a place where you learn to make
decisions about your values, your character, and your future. The college environment can in-
spire you to make decisions about the changes that need to occur in your life so that you can
effectively manage and prosper in an ever-changing world. College can also be a place where
you learn the skills to change and continue to grow long after you graduate.
COMMUNITY COLLEGE
VERSUS UNIVERSITY STUDIES
Is There Really a Difference Between the Two?
At first glance, a community college and university may look very similar except that you at-
tend one for an associate’s degree and the other for a bachelor’s, master’s, or doctorate degree.
However, on further inspection, there are vast differences. Community colleges focus on
teaching whereas many universities focus on research, publishing, and grant writing. This is not
to say that there are not many, many fine universities that have a teaching focus and that
community college faculty do not do research and writing. However, the primary focus of
a community college is teaching and learning.
Some other major differences include the following:
3 Cost. Community colleges are most often much less expensive than universities, some-
times by as much as 50 to 75 percent.
3 Class size. Community college classes usually have fewer people enrolled in them. For in-
stance, your community college biology class may have 25 to 30 students whereas a univer-
sity biology class may have over 200.
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3 Class make-up. You will certainly find nontraditional students at a university, but statisti-
cally, many more attend community colleges. Over 45 percent of community college stu-
dents are over 25, 33 percent are female, nearly 90 percent work full or part time, and over
40 percent are the first in their families to attend college.
3 Student focus. Graduation rates are somewhat low at community college, relatively speak-
ing, because many students attend community colleges as “transfer students” with the ex-
press intention of moving to a university after a few courses or a year. On the other hand,
many students who attend universities do so with the intention of graduating from that
institution.
3 Degrees. Community colleges offer a variety of programs, including diplomas, certificates,
and associate’s degrees. However, some community colleges do offer bachelor’s degrees and
some universities offer associate degrees.
1. Thus far, I think the most rewarding class and instructor this term are going to be ______
________________________________________________________________________
criminal justice system is yours. That B+ you got on your first math test is yours. This is about
YOU! Your life. Your future. Your attitude is going to greatly affect your possibility of success.
Consider Figure 1.3’s description of the differences between a victim and a winner.
1. Name one person available to you (personally or professionally) who can offer you sup-
port, encourage you, and to whom you can turn when things get tough.
2. Why do you respect or admire this person enough to ask for help?
3. Generate a list of three questions you would like to ask about this person’s life and how he
or she “made it” and overcame adversity.
1.
2.
3.
week for most people! Not I, you may say, and you may be right. It all
depends on how wisely you use your time, how difficult the work is,
and the strength of your academic background. We will discuss time
management and study techniques later in this text.
By embracing these truths about college life, learning, self-motivation, and education in
general, you will have taken some very important steps toward your success.
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SUCCESSFUL
DECISIONS: An Activity for Critical Reflection
After the first week of classes, Devon was very disheart- never make him a better, more prepared person. Drop-
ened about the difficulty of the classes for which he was ping out would never afford him the opportunity to pro-
registered. He did not think that he was going to have vide a better life for his family. However, Devon felt that
so much reading or homework and he never thought the he was just too far behind to catch up. He was at a loss
instructors would be so demanding. He had never been as to what to do.
strong in math, but he was just floored at how difficult
In your own words, what would you suggest that Devon
his beginning math course had become. He failed his
do at this point? Pretend that Devon is enrolled at your
first test. He passed his first essay in English, but only
institution. List at least two additional approaches that
with a grade of C. He seriously considered dropping out.
he could take to ensure his success and not drop out.
It was just too much. It was more than he expected.
Think about services that are offered and which people
Devon knew, however, that he had to succeed. He
might be of assistance to him.
looked at his current financial situation, his dead-end
job, and his desire to work in a health profession. Drop- 1.
ping out would never get him there. Dropping out would 2.
19.6%
of Caucasian
Ph.D.s
26.0%
of Multiracial
Ph.D.s
23.6%
of Hispanic
Ph.D.s
Source: Adapted from “From Community College to Ph.D.” Chronicle of Higher Education. (January
29, 2010). Retrieved from http://chronicle.com/article/Chart-From-Community-Colle/63712.
“I was . . .” Those are powerful words. meth. It was my life. I hung around I had been in a life-threatening mo-
For example, I was the manager of the people who used with me and they be- torcycle accident years earlier and re-
gardening department of a major retail came my family. I met Kathy, the membered the great care I received from
chain. I was an employee in a shop that woman I would eventually marry, while my physical therapist. So, I began to look
prints and mails inserts and flyers. I was a performing with my band. She and I hit at PT programs and that is when I found
rock band drummer for several bands. I it off even though she knew of my ad- the Personal Trainer Program at our local
was a crystal meth addict. Yes . . . I was! diction. One evening after we were mar- college. Something about this was very
It seems strange to write that now, ried, Kathy and I were talking and she attractive to me. Again, I was lucky. I
but the term “I was . . .” is impossible mentioned that she would like to have happened to find my passion and my
to erase. My friends and clients often children one day. I wanted children, life’s vocation without much struggle.
ask me how I man- too. At that mo- Today, after working through my
aged to go from the ment, the strangest addiction, surviving a divorce, and
life of a meth addict My friends and clients thing came to my mourning the death of my mom, I can
to a personal mind. I thought, “If say without a doubt that I am one of
often ask me how I
trainer. The journey she gets pregnant, the luckiest people on earth. Because I
was a strange one managed to go from the I’ll stop doing was willing to change and stay commit-
and often difficult. life of a meth addict to a meth.” How could ted to finding a better life, I own my
I began playing I be so messed up own gym, hold certifications from every
the drums when I personal trainer. that I would work major fitness and rehabilitation organi-
was six years old to abolish my ad- zation in America, and count each day
and by the time I diction for a child as a true gift.
was eight, I had my first “garage band.” not yet born, BUT I would not consider
Writing and playing music were my trying to stop just for ME ? That was my EXTRAORDINARY
only passions. They were my life. After wake-up call. I knew I had to change REFLECTION
high school, I worked many odd jobs, my life. I was 29 years old. Read the following
but my love of performing never waned. I was one of the lucky ones. I was statement and respond in
In my 20s, I had a band that steadily able to stop “cold turkey” on my own. I your online journal or class
played gigs and I was living the life of a know that others are not so lucky. I be- notebook.
rocker. We traveled. We sang. We par- gan to look at my life and tried to deter- Mr. Clayton mentions that he was one
tied. We traveled some more and we mine what I wanted to do. I had to seri- of the “lucky ones.” What role do you
partied some more . . . and more. Before ously evaluate every aspect of who and think luck plays in one’s success? Is
I really realized what was happening what I was. I knew that I had to set goals there a difference between luck, readi-
with me, I had become addicted to to get my life back on track. ness, and action? If so, what is it?
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3 Measurable. Your goal needs to be concrete and measurable in some way. Avoid such terms
as “earn a lot” or “lose some weight.”
3 Adaptable. Your goals may need to be adapted to changing circumstances that may be hap-
pening in your life.
3 Controllable. Your goals should be within your own control; they should not depend on
the whims and opinions of anyone else.
3 Desirable. To attain a difficult goal, you must want it passionately. You should never work
toward something just because someone else wants it.
My Personal Goal
To help you get started, use this goal-setting sheet as a template for this and future goals.
Name
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
Narrative Statement (how your life will look when you reach your goal)
1.
2.
My Signature Date
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Finally, sign your goal statement. This is an imperative step in that your signature shows
that you are making a personal commitment to see this goal to fruition. This is your name. Use
it with pride. The goal sheet in Figure 1.6 shows how to build your goals.
REFLECTIONS ON CHANGE
AND GOAL SETTING
The transition from one place to another is seldom easy, even when the
change is what you want. Entering college has given you the opportunity to
assume new roles, develop new friendships, meet new people, work under
different circumstances, and create a bountiful future. It is an opportunity to improve on who
you are at this moment or to build an entirely new person if you choose to do so. Going to col-
lege gives you the opportunity to reflect on your strengths and consider areas where you might
need to change. These changes form the very essence of the college experience; they create won-
derful new experiences and help you discover who you really are and what you have to offer the
world.
As you reflect on this chapter, keep the following pointers in mind:
3 Evaluate your reason(s) for attending college and what it means to your life.
3 Understand and use the Ten Essential Cornerstones for Success.
3 Work hard to be a winner, not a victim.
3 Use goal setting to help you direct changes in your life.
3 Don’t just let change happen; get involved in your own life and learning.
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C ONNECTING
Think about the people on your college campus. With whom
can you make a connection to learn more about the power
of goal setting? (Example: counselor, advisor, retention
specialist, etc.) Why and how will this connection be
important?
R EADING
Find one brief, relevant article (in print or online) relating
to community college success. After you have read the
article, write a brief summary of the additional facts you
have learned.
E -LEARNING
Using any search engine, find one piece of valid, reliable
information about how to bring positive change into your
life. Briefly explain what you learned and why you think it
is important.
A NALYZING
Choose one main idea or topic from this chapter. After
exploring and researching this idea further, determine how
this information can help you succeed in other classes.
T RANSITIONING
How will you use the content found in this chapter to help
you create a successful transition plan to your next
semester and beyond?
E MPOWERING
Thinking about the entire spectrum of your life (college,
family, friends, finances, career, etc.), how can you
empower yourself to be more successful through the
information found in this chapter?
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Finally, after answering these questions, recite this chapter’s major points in your mind. Consider the following general questions to help
you master this material:
3 What was it about?
3 What does it mean?
3 What was the most important thing I learned? Why?
3 What were the key points to remember?