Person Centered
Person Centered
Person Centered
BreAnn Denson
Providing quality services for clients is essential to make sure there are quality results. It
can sometimes take trying different approaches to find the best approach for the client and their
and build rapport with clients to feel comfortable. It can be challenging to remain genuine during
the therapeutic process with clients that cross certain boundaries that a provider is not willing to
deal with. Providers must remain objective and know their boundaries to be able to provide
quality services without disrupting the therapeutic process. Counselors are aware of and avoid
imposing their own values, attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors. (ACA Ethics Code 2014) Person-
centered counseling may be challenging for some providers to remain empathic or genuine
Person-center therapy focuses on talk therapy where the client does most of the talking
and the counselor listens, only giving directive when necessary. Therapists are not supposed to
judge the client but to always show empathy and genuineness to avoid causing harm. Person-
centered therapy is beneficial to clients with a wide range of presenting issues because it allows
clients to be vocal. Clients have the opportunity to express how they are currently feeling and
what stressors are more prominent without being judged by their provider. If a client is feeling
depressed, anxiety or even substance abuse, having the opportunity to talk about these issues
may be a huge relief to be heard. Some clients may feel they are unheard or are accustomed to
getting told how to conduct themselves without getting their true feelings heard. Also, the feeling
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of not being judged can make clients feel more comfortable during their therapeutic process and
open up more which can be extremely helpful to the client. Opening up can be hard and client
being honest about their journey can challenging, so having a provider who is supportive is
important. This journey of becoming, is private yet sympathetic with the journey of all human
beings, involves recognizing the best within oneself and using our best qualities virtuously in the
Genuineness
Counselors must build rapport with their clients and create an environment where the
client can feel comfortable. Therapy possibly will not work at its full potential if those involved
are holding back during the process due to feeling their therapist may not care. Allowing the
client to be in a judge free environment and not control the therapeutic process can allow the
client to take big steps forward. “In facilitating this natural tendency, Rogers (1978) describes the
attitudes held by the therapist as promoting equality in the relationship and as a commitment to
not control the client..” (Cook & Monk 2020) Counselors showing a genuine care for the client’s
process will help the client continue to make progress. As humans, support from another can
contribute to the process of moving forward at a faster pace. If a counselor continues to be self-
aware of their limits and know their boundaries, they can remain genuine in the work they are
providing. Remaining objective is important when a provider does not agree with clients and
their actions. If a provider cannot handle a client’s barriers, then knowing when to refer the client
to another provider is essential to avoid doing any harm and lose that genuineness.
Empathy
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When clients feel they are heard and understood, it aids in the therapeutic process.
Showing empathy to clients can help build trust and an understanding environment for clients.
Empathy shows that the provider is not judging the client and allowing the client to understand
the provider can see their point of view. When counselors are empathetic, they open up
opportunities to connect better with their clients and share similar feelings. “Such commonalities
included heightened feelings of empathy, acceptance and receptivity toward clients; powerful
feelings of immersion in therapeutic work; being real; increased perceptual clarity; and greater
levels of awareness, aliveness, openness and satisfaction..” (Kim, Joseph & Price 2020)
Counselors can be empathetic and still hold their clients accountable for their actions. Having an
open discussion about the barriers and how the client thinks reducing some of those barriers can
be helpful, is directly related to why clients come to therapy to begin with. Counselors can still
allow the client to lead, while asking important questions that will challenge the client. Just
because a counselor is holding a client accountable does not limit the empathy they may have for
that client.
Unconditional positive regard is showing support and acceptance to clients regardless of what
the individual has said or done. An article also describes it as “It involves as much feeling of
acceptance for the client’s expression of negative, “bad,” painful, fearful, defensive, abnormal
feelings as for his expression of “good,” positive, mature, confident, social feelings, as much
200) This is important during the therapeutic process so the client can feel safe and comfortable
enough to fully open up. This allows the client to be their true self and not hold back during
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therapy. Clients being aware they are coming into a safe and understanding environment can aid
in the progression of the client. Counselors can make sure they remain objective during sessions,
know their limits as well as practice self-awareness. Making clients feel understood during their
process is just as important to the provider, while remaining genuine to the client and providing
small directives when needed. Allowing the client to come to their own realization may be more
meaningful to the client and lead to them accepting themselves more. Therapeutic empathy in the
context of unconditional positive regard necessarily provides a novel context for self-criticism.
Person centered therapy has helped create many key principles in the ACA ethics code. A
counselor’s job is to do no harm and provide the best services possible without harming the
therapeutic process. Person centered therapy helps put guidelines in place for therapist to keep
the client the center focus at all times. The ethics code states, “Counselors are aware of and avoid
imposing their own values, attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors..” This keeps client’s needs top
priority and reduces counselors need to impose their views. The ethics code also states
“Counselors respect the diversity of clients, trainees, and research participants and seek training
in areas in which they are at risk of imposing their values onto clients, especially when the
counselor’s values are inconsistent with the client’s goals or are discriminatory in nature..”
Counselors may not agree with the client but allowing the client to go through their own process
respecting them and their process is needed and a responsibility of counselors. Counselors must
genuinely care for the welfare of their client and make their clients feel heard. The primary
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responsibility of counselors is to respect the dignity and promote the welfare of clients. (ACA
Counseling can be difficult for some and even and even harder when presented with
barriers from clients. But remaining objective and seeking the proper training can always be
helpful. Keeping the client first and allowing them to see their barriers and how they want to
approach those barriers can be immensely helpful. Remaining genuine, empathic, and
References
American Counseling Association. (2014). 2014 ACA code of ethics. 2014 code of ethics -
code-of-ethics.pdf.
Cook, D., & Monk, L. (2020). ‘Being able to take that mask off’: Adolescent clients’ experiences
Frankel, M., Rachlin, H., & Yip-Bannicq, M. (2012). How nondirective therapy directs: The
power of empathy in the context of unconditional positive regard. Person-Centered &
Experiential Psychotherapies, 11(3), 205–214.
https://doi.org/10.1080/14779757.2012.695292
Kim, J., Joseph, S., & Price, S. (2020). The positive psychology of relational depth and its
https://doi.org/10.1080/14779757.2020.1717983
Proctor, C., Tweed, R. G., & Morris, D. B. (2020). Unconditional positive self-regard: The role
of perceived parental conditional regard. The Humanistic Psychologist.
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Wilkins, P. (2000). Unconditional positive regard reconsidered. British Journal of Guidance &
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