Build A Consistency Habit
Build A Consistency Habit
But there can be a lot of information out there and most of it isn’t very
simple to digest. To solve this problem and break things down in a
very simple manner, I have created this strategy guide for how to build
new habits that actually stick.
Solve this problem by picking a new habit that is easy enough that you
don’t need motivation to do it. Rather than starting with 50 pushups
per day, start with 5 pushups per day. Rather than trying to meditate
for 10 minutes per day, start by meditating for one minute per day.
Make it easy enough that you can get it done without motivation.
Further reading: Identity-Based Habits: How to Actually Stick to
Your Goals
If you continue adding one percent each day, then you’ll find yourself
increasing very quickly within two or three months. It is important to
keep each habit reasonable, so that you can maintain momentum and
make the behavior as easy as possible to accomplish.
Building up to 20 minutes of meditation? Split it into two segments of
10 minutes at first.
The best way to improve your self-control is to see how and why you
lose control.
—Kelly McGonigal
Top performers make mistakes, commit errors, and get off track just
like everyone else. The difference is that they get back on track as
quickly as possible.
Research has shown that missing your habit once, no matter when it
occurs, has no measurable impact on your long-term progress. Rather
than trying to be perfect, abandon your all-or-nothing mentality.
You shouldn’t expect to fail, but you should plan for failure. Take
some time to consider what will prevent your habit from happening.
What are some things that are likely to get in your way? What are
some daily emergencies that are likely to pull you off course? How
can you plan to work around these issues? Or, at least, how you can
bounce back quickly from them and get back on track?
If you are adding weight in the gym, you should probably go slower
than you think. If you are adding daily sales calls to your business
strategy, you should probably start with fewer than you expect to
handle. Patience is everything. Do things you can sustain.
New habits should feel easy, especially in the beginning. If you stay
consistent and continue increasing your habit it will get hard enough,
fast enough. It always does.
If you want more practical ideas for how to build new habits (and
break bad ones), check out my book Atomic Habits, which will show
you how small changes in habits can lead to remarkable results.
FOOTNOTES
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