17-Genderlect Styles
17-Genderlect Styles
17-Genderlect Styles
CMN 101Y
Dr. Cuihua (Cindy) Shen
Overview
Deborah Tannen
Prof of Linguistics
at Georgetown
Source:
Overview
Focus: Differences between men
and women in conversation
styles
Overview
Focus: Differences between men
and women in conversation styles
Key assumptions
There are feminine and masculine
styles of discourse—like two cultural
dialects
Female and male styles of
conversation are equally valid
Why “Genderlect”?
Sex
Biological
Gender
Cultural
An Analogy
Source: Wikimedia
Sex and Gender
Sex
Genetically determined
A dichotomous variable
Gender
Psychological and social
manifestations of what one believes
to be male and/or female
A continuous variable
Society’s conceptualization of
gender changes over time
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Sex vs Gender
Sex differences
Gender differences
Rapport vs Report Talk
Feminine Focus
Women seek human connection
Crucial to be liked by others,
especially peers
Strive to build and maintain
symmetrical connections
Masculine Focus
Men mainly concerned with
status
Important to preserve
independence
Work hard for position on a
hierarchy of competitive
accomplishment
Rapport vs Report
Source: Rochester.edu
Aspects of Genderlect Styles
Public vs Private
Women
Converse
Talk more in private conversations
than in public
Men
Lecture
Speak more in public arena than in
private settings
Telling a Story
Men
Tell stories about themselves
Tell more jokes than do women
Are the heroes in their own stories
Women
Tell
stories about others
Downplay themselves in their stories
Listening
Women
Show attentiveness through verbal and
nonverbal cues
Interrupt to show agreement or support
(“cooperative overlap”)
Men
Avoid using nonverbal cues
View interruption as a power move
Asking Questions
Women
Ask questions to establish a
connection with others
Often use tag questions to soften
potential disagreement and invite
participation in dialogue
Men
Reluctant to ask questions
Conflict
Women: conflict is a threat to
connection and thus should be
avoided
Men: conflict is the necessary
means by which status is
negotiated, so it is to be
accepted
Style of Arguing
Women: relate a specific problem
to other problems in the past; use
meta-messages
Men: focus on only the problem in
question
Evaluation of the Theory
Evaluation of the Theory
Validity of the theory’s claims
Shall we use the “aha factor” to
test the truth of the theory’s
claims?
Evaluation of the Theory
Scientific strength of Tannen’s
research
Selective data or representative
random samples?
Research evidence that goes
against the genderlect claims