17-Genderlect Styles

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Genderlect Styles

CMN 101Y
Dr. Cuihua (Cindy) Shen
Overview

 Deborah Tannen
 Prof of Linguistics
at Georgetown

Source:
Overview
 Focus: Differences between men
and women in conversation
styles
Overview
 Focus: Differences between men
and women in conversation styles
 Key assumptions
 There are feminine and masculine
styles of discourse—like two cultural
dialects
 Female and male styles of
conversation are equally valid
Why “Genderlect”?
 Sex
 Biological

 Gender
 Cultural
An Analogy

Source: Wikimedia
Sex and Gender
Sex
 Genetically determined
 A dichotomous variable
Gender
 Psychological and social
manifestations of what one believes
to be male and/or female
 A continuous variable
 Society’s conceptualization of
gender changes over time
 https://www.hfi-ivf.com/a-personal-plan/heterosexual-couples/
Sex vs Gender
 Sex differences
 Gender differences
Rapport vs Report Talk
Feminine Focus
 Women seek human connection
 Crucial to be liked by others,
especially peers
 Strive to build and maintain
symmetrical connections
Masculine Focus
 Men mainly concerned with
status
 Important to preserve
independence
 Work hard for position on a
hierarchy of competitive
accomplishment
Rapport vs Report

 Source: Rochester.edu
Aspects of Genderlect Styles
Public vs Private
 Women
 Converse
 Talk more in private conversations
than in public
 Men
 Lecture
 Speak more in public arena than in
private settings
Telling a Story
 Men
 Tell stories about themselves
 Tell more jokes than do women
 Are the heroes in their own stories

 Women
 Tell
stories about others
 Downplay themselves in their stories
Listening
 Women
 Show attentiveness through verbal and
nonverbal cues
 Interrupt to show agreement or support
(“cooperative overlap”)
 Men
 Avoid using nonverbal cues
 View interruption as a power move
Asking Questions
 Women
 Ask questions to establish a
connection with others
 Often use tag questions to soften
potential disagreement and invite
participation in dialogue
 Men
 Reluctant to ask questions
Conflict
 Women: conflict is a threat to
connection and thus should be
avoided
 Men: conflict is the necessary
means by which status is
negotiated, so it is to be
accepted
Style of Arguing
 Women: relate a specific problem
to other problems in the past; use
meta-messages
 Men: focus on only the problem in
question
Evaluation of the Theory
Evaluation of the Theory
 Validity of the theory’s claims
 Shall we use the “aha factor” to
test the truth of the theory’s
claims?
Evaluation of the Theory
 Scientific strength of Tannen’s
research
 Selective data or representative
random samples?
 Research evidence that goes
against the genderlect claims

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