Gender and Society Lecture
Gender and Society Lecture
Gender and Society Lecture
Transgender describes a number of non-normative gender identities and expressions that share a
gender experience that does not conform to societal expectations of gender as binary and
unchangeable and dictated by one’s assigned sex at birth. Transgender as a term is often contrasted
with the term cisgender, which describes an individual whose gender identity is fixed and aligned
conventionally with their assigned sex at birth. In other words, people who identify as a boy and man
(gender) and as male (sex at birth) or as a girl or woman (gender) and female (sex at birth) are
cisgender. Truly understanding Trans identity requires a thorough understanding of related but
different concepts: biological sex, assigned sex at birth, gender essentialism, and the Western
model’s gender binary.
Passing
Passing is used to describe the successful categorization during interpersonal interaction of a trans
individual into a normative gender group, usually accomplished through intentionally shaping a
gender expression conducive to the desired sex categorization. A trans person who passes as a
cisgender woman would be perceived as a woman on the basis of characteristics like voice, hair,
clothing, verbal and behavioral mannerisms, and accessories. Passing often draws not only on
societal ideas about what it means to be a man or a woman, but also intersects with societal ideas
about race and age. For example, passing as a young black man involves a different set of
categorical rules compared to passing as an older, white man. In many trans communities, passing is
a goal: being perceived and treated as a cisgender man or woman is for many people the primary
motivation to modify gender expression, and for some the primary motivation to transition. Passing is
an either/or designation; an individual either passes or doesn’t. Trans communities, particularly
communities of trans women and trans femmes, have developed an extensive lexicon to describe the
many outcomes associated with passing. Trans people who do not pass are said to be read or
clocked as trans and are often mis-gendered, or referred to with the incorrect language or gender
pronouns. Calling a trans woman a “man,” referring to her as “manly,” and using the pronoun “he” are
all examples of mis-gendering. Perhaps in recognition of the difficulties that non-passing trans people
experience, many trans communities that utilize the language of passing, reading, and clocking also
engage in community efforts to critique, comment on, or offer tips to trans people who do not pass,
with the intent of helping them do so. While many trans people make significant efforts to pass to
lower their discomfort with their appearances, bodies, or gender presentations, there is also
significant motivation from society to pass. Being perceived as gender-nonconforming may negatively
affect interpersonal relations, intimate pursuits, and workplace experiences. For this reason, some
trans people who are able to pass as cisgender often choose to hide their trans identities and history
—go stealth—in order to avoid the discrimination and prejudice experienced by non-passing trans
people. Stealth often refers to intentional efforts on the part of a trans person to pass as cisgender,
and be perceived, treated, and interacted with accordingly. While stealth tends to refer to a specific
environment or situation in which a trans identity is hidden or not made salient, deep stealth describes
a situation in which an individual is stealth to virtually every person they know within all conceivable
domains in their life. Often, these individuals have taken significant social and medical efforts to pass
successfully and seek to blend back into society, no longer seen as trans. While going stealth or deep
stealth may lead to significant improvements in quality of life, trans people, especially those in deep
stealth, often experience fatigue from constantly working to maintain their stealth status (Meyer
2003). Hiding a past trans identity requires significant amounts of physical work, including dealing
with the governmental bureaucracy in an effort to modify all identifying documents as well as the
cognitive energy expended in the careful monitoring of gendered behaviors, actions, and activities.
Concealing a stigmatized identity causes notable psychological distress, and is linked with worse
health outcomes in the long term (Quinn and Chaudoir 2009). Up to this point, we have explained
concepts in relation to communities trans men and trans women. However, trans experiences are
often far more complicated than AMAB people identifying as women and AFAB people identifying as
men. While many people who identify as trans do choose to identify as a man or a woman, others
identify with a variety of non-binary gender identities.
Non-binary
Nonbinary people face a set of problems at once both similar and strikingly different from those faced
by binary-identifying trans people. While binary-identifying trans people often describe themselves as
simply moving from one end of the gender binary to the other, non-binary trans people instead
choose to situate themselves in between or outside of the binary all together. Because society is so
invested in the gender binary, those who defy binary conceptions of gender can face societal
exclusion due to their rejection of what is thought of as a fundamental and unquestionable identity.
The difficulties that come from simultaneously existing as a social actor in the world and rejecting the
basic social framework of gender are immense. Some non-binary people today identify as gender
queer, a word that Heather Love describes as “the refusal of all categories of sexual and gender
identity” (2014: 173). Used as early as 1995, in Riki Anne Wilchins’s “In Your Face,” published in the
spring newsletter of Transsexual Menace, the term “genderqueer” as an identity has since
proliferated widely through communities of alternative sexual and gender identities (Stryker 2008). In
the 2002 anthology Gender Queer, Riki Wilchins describes the adoption of the term “Gender Queer”
in response to a perceived failure of the intended umbrella term of “transgender” to include narratives
outside the experiences of trans men and women or otherwise binary-identified, medically
transitioning identities (Nestle, Howell, and Wilchins 2002). Today, the term “genderqueer” continues
to function both as an umbrella identity encompassing non-binary gender identities and as a stand-
alone identity. In both contexts, it has become a unifying term that has been adopted by many
gender-diverse people and communities. While we have described gender up to this point as
intersecting along the axes of identity, expression, and perception, gender also varies for many
people as a function of time. Our society readily accepts the idea that for all individuals their
perception of their gender identity changes across the life course. A young boy’s understanding of his
gender identity is not the same as his understanding of it as a teenager, nor is it the same when he
grows to be an elderly man. We have complicated this narrative so far by suggesting that perhaps an
AFAB infant may later grow to identify as a woman or as a non-binary individual. However, implying
that this is the extent to which gender may change is drastically oversimplifying the concept. Gender
identity, like all identities, can change multiple times over the course of an individual’s life. The
adoption of a new identity does not negate the legitimacy of previous ones, despite the popular
saying that past identities were “just a phase.” When these changes occur on a short timescale, say,
weeks, days, or even hours, individuals may identify as gender fluid. Gender fluid individuals may
experience their gender identity as fluid, in flux, or varying over time. Their gender identities may vary
between any combinations of binary or non-binary identities. Some gender fluid people feel that their
identities shift for no discernible reason, while others find that their gender identities are influenced by
their environment, situation, or personal desires. Gender fluid identity often intersects with
genderqueer identity in a number of ways. Some gender fluid people may view their genderfluidity
itself as a form of subversive gender queerness, while others may fluctuate into a genderqueer
identity as one of the various gender identities that comprise their gender fluid experience. Others
may fluctuate only between binary genders and not identify their gender fluidity as genderqueer at all.
Given this broad overview of gender diversity within the “trans” umbrella, is there a parsimonious way
to define what it means to be “trans”? We choose to define “trans” in its simplest form as: Self-
identified deviation from normative gendered identities, bodies, or experiences.
Trans cannot be boiled down to a stable identity or set of identities, nor can it be understood as a
group defined easily by a simple set of characteristics. While some trans people identify as outside
the gender binary, many do not. While some trans people’s bodies differ from the binary norm, man’s
do not. And clearly, while many trans people’s stories share similarities, just as many have
experiences and narratives unlike those of any others. Understanding the spectrum of trans people’s
identities and experiences requires reevaluating commonly held ideas about the gender binary,
gender essentialism, and identity politics. Judith Butler, in Bodies That Matter (1993), writes that “if
the term ‘queer’ is to be a site of collective contestation . . . it will have to remain that which is, in the
present, never fully owned, but always and only redeployed, twisted, queered from a prior usage and
in the direction of urgent and expanding political purposes.” Just as the queering of identity defies
definition, so too does the constantly evolving cornucopia of trans identities, bodies, and experiences
defy boundaries. Among our interviewees, we could see this immediately in how definitions of the
same term varied immensely. It rings true that the boundaries of being “trans” lie only in the
boundaries of our imaginations, and in the possibilities of human experience.