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4. It combines sight and sound, thus enabling participants to benefit from both
verbal and non-verbal stimulus.
5. It allows for instantaneous exchange of ideas, information, opinions,
feelings and attitudes.
2. Use lower level abstraction when clarity is necessary Any object or idea can
be described at various levels, some very general and others quite specific
low-level abstraction are specific concrete statements that refer directly to object or
events that can be observed. On the other hand, high-level abstrac- tions cover a
broader range of possible objects or events without describing them in much detail.
High- level abstractions can create problems because they are often subject to a mode
variety of interpretations. For example, if you tell your boss the job will take a little
longer, you need to clarify how much longer, hours, days, weeks?
Another type of ambiguous language that causes problems is the use of relative words
such as soon, often, large and short that have meaning only in relation to other
(unspecified terms). Telling your supervisor you will do the memo soon can cause
problems.
3. Use slang with caution Casual slang-laden speech may be fine when
convers- ing with friends, family or other informal communication
situations. But it can create the wrong impression with bosses, teachers etc.
some slang may simply not be understandable to some people.
4. Use jargon judiciously Every profession has its own specialized vocabulary
called jargon. In many cases, jargon serves a useful purpose. First, it can
save time. It’s quicker to use a short term in place of the longer definition
of a complex idea. Second, jargon can be used to evaluate people’s
expertise on a subject. If your goal is to explain yourself, the ideal mixture
may be a combination of clear language sprinkled with a bit of professional
jargon.
1. What do you want to say? When you are involved in one-on-one communi-
cation, you often have a chance to clear up misunderstandings. You can tell if the
other person is confused, annoyed and so on from their facial expression,
body movement or other one-verbal cues. When you are talking with a big
group, it may not be so easy to clear up misunderstandings. In order to clear
up any confusion, especially in public speaking, you must consider what it is
you want to say. Speakers who do not know exactly what they want to say end up
confusing their audience.
2. How do you want to say it? Once you have figured out what you want to say,
you must choose the language you are going to use. It’s also important for you
to determine to what extent you have to define the terms you have used. If you
are giving a speech about justice, for example, you have to consider the
language you use very carefully. This is because justice is an abstract word as
well as an emotional one. When you use the language of abstraction and
emotion, you must be careful to define your language from your point of view
as it relates to the subject you are talking about.
3. To whom are you talking When you seek a specific response from a listener,
your words have to have meaning within the person’s identity. For example, if
you are talking about the beach to a person from Northern Kenya, he is likely
to have little idea of how it feels to be on the beach even though he may
understand the concept intellectually. Some knowledge of the listeners’
interests, experiences and expectations will help a speaker to choose words
and arrange ideas in the way that will be most effective.
4. Metamessages Metamessage is the meaning a part from what the actual word
expresses. Sometimes, you might have had a conversation that made you feel
uneasy – the words all sounded right, but there was something also going on.
Metamesages take many forms. For example, at a meeting of branch managers
countrywide held in Mombasa, the CEO introduces all the man- agers except,
the Kitale branch manager. The manager assumes that this was a simple
oversight. He was wrong because he was fired the following month. Language
is filled with metamessages and you have to listen for the kind of talk and
understand its meaning if you are going to have accurate communi- cation.
2. Powerful talk. Powerful talk is the talk that comes directly to the point- talk
that does not use hesitation. People who engage in powerful talk are found to
be more credible, more attractive and more persuasive. To achieve powerful
talk, you should avoid hedges and qualifiers (such as ‘I guess’ and ‘kind of’)
eliminate hesitation forms (such as ‘um’ and ‘you know’). You also need to
stay away from tag questions (such as isn’t it? Wouldn’t it?).
2. Adapting your oral language As you talk to people, become conscious of them
as particular individuals for whom you need to adapt your message. Note the
language environment in which your conversation is taking place and make
the adjustments that are saying as this will increase your sensitivity to other
people as well as your awareness of language choice and use.
3. Breaking bad habits Although someone may tell you that you are making
languages mistakes such as poor grammar, you will probably find it hard to
correct yourself because you are so accustomed to talking this way. If you are
also in an environment where mistakes are constantly being mad it is even
more difficult. The only way to correct such mistakes is to have someone
constantly point them out.