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The Art of
Common Sense
and Critical Thinking
TRAINING GUIDE
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COURSE THE ART OF COMMON SENSE AND CRITICAL THINKING
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Instructions . . . . . . . . . 2
Introduction . . . . . . . . . 3
Part 1: Common Sense . . . . . . . 5
Part 2: Child Development . . . . . . . 16
Part 3: Tolerance / Diversity / Stereotypes . . . . 34
Part 4: Common Courtesy / Common Decency . . . 46
Part 5: Relationships . . . . . . . . 58
Part 6: Transportation . . . . . . . 71
Part 7: The Workplace . . . . . . . 84
Part 8: Mental Health / Physical Health . . . . 101
Part 9: Critical Thinking . . . . . . . 116
Part 10: Life Lessons . . . . . . . . 129
Course Quiz . . . . . . . . . 135
Conclusion . . . . . . . . . 139
Quiz Answers . . . . . . . . . 140
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Common Sense
INSTRUCTIONS
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An instructor will find a much healthier and robust discussion when the student or
employee has had ample opportunity to consider the facts as well as the questions.
It is recommended The Art of Common Sense and Critical Thinking (through the
lens of common courtesy) first be shown to an individual employee or student. It is
important for the individual to view, experience, and ponder without the influence
of differing reactions and opinions.

Part 1
Common Sense
INTRODUCTION
Critical Thinking
The ability to think and behave in a reasonable way and to make good decisions.
Disciplined thinking that is clear, rational, open-minded, and informed by evidence:
The questions are intended to develop your critical thinking.
Common Sense
The ability to think and behave in a reasonable way and to make good decisions.
Sound practical judgment that is independent of specialized knowledge, training,
or the like.
Common Courtesy: Etiquette and Manners

The rules indicating the proper and polite way to behave. The prevailing customs,
ways of living, and habits of people.
They may seem unrelated but together impact the quality of your life and the lives
around you.
Let’s start with the basics.
90% of the information we absorb is from our eye sight; though we don’t really see
with our eyes, we see with our brains.
The brain operates mostly in our limbic system, what Freud called the id, which is
part of our subconscious mind. Much of our irrationality comes from the instincts of
our limbic minds.
Seldom, when we face a situation, do we examine and evaluate the information or

even research important statistics. Instead, we make decisions based on a list of
mental shortcuts that skip the math and take the least effort.
Your opinions and desires are generally influenced by the questions you are asked;
and since our attention span maxes out around ten minutes, we put great limits on
engaging thoughtful thinking.
For those intimidated that an IQ score means a person is intelligent should know
an IQ test measures analytical intelligence, not creative or practical intelligence.

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Common Sense
INTRODUCTION
So you’re probably much smarter than you think – but don’t regularly exercise your
brain.
Which brings us to this course.
Here we will examine how critical thinking, common sense and common courtesy
▪ affected your development as a child
▪ how it shapes your views on tolerance, diversity, and stereotypes
▪ how it affects your relationships, daily travels, and your workplace
▪ how it impacts your physical and mental health
Most important, the course is interactive and requires your brain to absorb a wealth
of information that may well elevate the quality of your life and the lives around you.
Welcome to The Art of Common Sense and Critical Thinking (Through the Lens of
Common Decency).

Welcome to Part 1
Common Sense
● We will learn if common sense can be learned.
● We will learn the steps to making good decisions.
● We will learn the benefits of common sense.

Part 1
Common Sense
PRESENTATION
“It has been my observation that most people get ahead during the time that others
waste.”
- Henry Ford
Common sense is the ability to think and behave in a reasonable way … to make a
decision based on a simple perception of the situation or the facts.
Though common sense is a natural instinct, it is not genetic but can be learned
through self-awareness and logical thinking.
As children, we’re encouraged to use our common sense; our sense of sight,
sound, taste, smell, and feeling.
As we grow, with curiosity and an open mind, our common sense can be learned
and expanded through formal education or in the school of hard knocks.
8 out of 10 Americans claim that sharing common sense information with others
makes them smarter … and 68% believe it even makes them more successful. 40%
of them say common sense cannot be learned.
The key to learning what is true is to verify all information received. Beliefs you hold
deeply should always be questioned and challenged.
Three things can be said about common sense:

- Common sense can be learned.
- Common sense has a lot to do with our success and well-being.
- Common sense is like deodorant. Those that need it most, don’t use it.
When NASA started sending astronauts into space, they realized ballpoint pens
would not work in zero gravity. To remedy the problem, NASA scientists spent a
decade and 12 billion dollars to create a pen that writes not only in zero gravity, but
upside down, underwater, on almost every surface, and at temperatures from
below freezing to 300 degrees. The Russians used a pencil.

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Common Sense
PRESENTATION
Admit it. Isn’t it fun to learn? With a curious and open mind, you can easily learn
common sense facts, such as:
1. The cotton candy machine was invented by a dentist.
2. Your favorite song is usually associated with an emotional event.
3. Wearing headphones for 1 hour increases bacteria in your ear by 700 times.
4. We judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their behavior.
5. A 20 second hug releases chemicals in the body that help you trust the one
you’re hugging.
6. Losing something makes you twice as miserable as gaining the same thing
makes you happy.
Here are ways to develop and improve common sense:

1. Assess your personality, biases, and problem-solving skills.
2. Avoid making hasty, impulsive decisions.
3. Think before you speak.
4. Commit to reading and researching facts from a variety of sources.
5. Commit to being more aware of yourself, others, and the environment.
6. Commit to verifying information that is written and spoken.
7. Emulate the behavior of a role model.
Considering that making good decisions is a skill and that the decisions you make
steer much of your direction in life, here are ways to make good decisions:
1. Identify clearly what you want to decide.
2. Determine the outcome you want to receive.
3. Gather all of the facts and data promptly.
4. Explore your options and feelings using logic and common sense.
5. Seek opinions from a wise counsel.
6. Make the decision.
7. Monitor the results.
Ever notice that everything seems obvious once you know the answer?

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Common Sense
REVIEW
Ponder and Discuss #1

Common sense is the ability to think and behave in a reasonable
way.
Common sense can be learned two ways: through self-awareness
and thinking logically.
The key to learning what is true is to verify all information received.
Beliefs you hold deeply should always be questioned and
challenged.
It is important to take time to think and be informed.
There are simple, effective ways to make informed decisions.
The cotton candy machine was invented by a dentist.
Learning facts can be fun and interesting.

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COMMON SENSE HUMOR
Why do psychics have to ask you for your name?
If winning isn’t everything, why do they keep score?
If you keep your feet firmly on the ground, you’ll have trouble putting on
your pants.
Why does someone believe you when you say there are four billion stars,
but check when you say the paint is wet?

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COMMON SENSE RIDDLES
This test does not require a pen, paper, or calculator. All you need is common
sense and logic. With each question, look for clues and keywords to best analyze
what is being asked. The answers to the following four riddles are obvious, once
you find the key.
Riddle #1:
A rooster lays an egg on the south side of the barn roof with southwesterly winds.
Which way did it roll?
Roosters can’t lay eggs.
Riddle #2:
If a plane crashes on the border of the United States and Mexico, where would the
survivors be buried?
Nowhere. You don’t bury survivors.
Riddle #3:
A monkey, a squirrel, and a bird are racing to the top of a coconut tree. Who will
get the banana first – the monkey, the squirrel, or the bird?
None of them. You can’t get a banana from a coconut tree.
Riddle #4:
If you throw a red stone into a blue sea, what will it become?
Wet.
Riddle #5:
If you only had one match and entered a dark room containing an oil lamp, some
newspaper, and some kindling wood, which would you light first?
The match.
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QUOTES
Quotes are a wonderful way to inspire thinking.
Time given to thought is the greatest time saver of all.

Norman Cousins
Common sense is seeing things as they are; and doing things as they ought to be
done.
Harriet Beecher Stowe
Seek advice but use your own common sense.

Yiddish Proverb
Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I had said
it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.
Buddha
The truth, in the long run, is only common sense clarified.

Thomas H. Huxley
The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and
spirit of something your mind knows is a lie.
Shannon L. Adler
He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes; he who does not ask a question
remains a fool forever.
Chinese Proverb
Too often we enjoy the comfort of opinion without the discomfort of thought.
John F. Kennedy
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FACT OR FICTION
1. Today’s humans have larger brains than Neanderthals.

The brains of Neanderthals were probably slightly larger than ours.
2. The world is a dangerous place and children need protection 24/7.
As a parent, being over-protective could do more harm than good. Since tragedies are rare
and often preventable, it is best to teach children how to be aware and take care of
themselves.
3. In a relationship, love is enough.

While love is essential, it is only a component. Every long-term, successful relationship
benefits from open and effective communication as well as skillful conflict resolution.
4. If we’re upset about something, we should quickly put it out of our minds.
Thought suppression often increases the chance of its reoccurrence.
5. One human year equals seven dog years.

It depends on the size and breed of the dog.
6. Fortune cookies are a Chinese tradition.

They were invented in the United States by Japanese-Americans.
7. The capital of Australia is Sydney.

The capital of Australia is Canberra.
8. White people are a race.

There are no races or breeds. The only race is the species Homo sapiens.
9. Some people are just born with confidence.

No one is born confident. A person acquires confidence by putting themselves in challenging
situations, pushing their boundaries, and achieving things through persistence.
10. You have to be successful to be confident.

Actually, it’s the other way around. You have to be confident before you reach success.
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COMMON SENSE TRIVIA
Trivia Fact #1 -
The cotton candy machine was invented by a dentist.
Trivia Fact #2 –
Your favorite song is usually associated with an emotional event.
Trivia Fact #3 –
Music impacts your perspective, so listen to positive music for happiness.
Trivia Fact #4 –
Wearing headphones for just an hour will increase bacteria in your ear by 700
times.
Trivia Fact #5 –
We judge ourselves by our intentions and others by their behavior.
Trivia Fact #6 –
A 20 second hug releases chemicals in the body that help you trust the one
hugging.
Trivia Fact #7 –
In the English language, there are more than 400 words assigned to emotions and
sentiments.
Trivia Fact #8 –
Roughly speaking, losing something makes you twice as miserable as gaining the
same thing makes you happy.
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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT
Here’s a special reminder. Take a look.
In every waking moment, you choose to be aware, unaware, or don’t care.
Choose wisely – and your life will be more enjoyable, satisfying, and fulfilling.
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Note: It is suggested you allow time to digest, reflect, and process the information
in Part 1 before proceeding to Part 2. It may be useful to write down your thoughts.
If seen by a group, perhaps a healthy discussion should follow.
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Common Sense
BRIEF QUIZ
The quiz consists of 5 assorted multiple choice / true or false questions or

statements. You have 5 minutes to complete the quiz. Best of luck.
#1
Common sense is genetic.
□ True
□ False
#2
What can be said about common sense?
□ Common sense can be learned.
□ Common sense has a lot to do with our success and well-being.
□ Common sense is like deodorant. Those that need it most, don’t use it.
□ All of the above.
#3
Components of common sense include sense of sight, sound, taste, smell, and
feeling.
□ True
□ False
#4
As we grow, with curiosity and an open mind, our common sense can be learned
and expanded through formal education or in the school of hard knocks.
□ True
□ False
#5
The key to learning what is true is to verify all information received. Beliefs you hold
deeply should always be questioned and challenged.
□ True
□ False
Welcome to Part 2:
Child Development
● We will explore what children need to learn before becoming

adults.
● We will learn the importance of having manners.
● We will observe techniques to resolve conflicts.
Part 2
Child Development
PRESENTATION
“The eyes see what the mind is prepared to comprehend.”

- Henry Bergson
Chapter One
1: LOVE AND GUIDANCE

Children are people. Not things. They need love, roots and wings. They should be
taught how to think, not what to think.
Yes, part of their growth includes annoying behavior, but these are wonderful
human beings in need of love and guidance. They want to hear the words “I love
you.” They want to know you are listening and will teach them right from wrong.
They yearn for your pride and forgiveness. These newest of beings are ready to
explore the human experience.
Since parents were once children, it makes you wonder if they’ve taken time to
gain knowledge of what they didn’t learn as a child:
▪ Parents that give in to whining behavior when their child is misbehaving.
Common sense says you’re only encouraging the poor behavior.
▪ Parents that use fear, threats, or physical abuse as discipline tools.
Common sense makes you curious what goes on behind closed doors.
▪ Parents that let their children run loose with no regard for safety or respect.
Common sense says they must be taught the difference between a store and a playground.
▪ Parents that don’t use safety belts for their children while in a car.
Common sense says you don’t care about the safety of others.
▪ Parents that use profanity or hate-driven language in front of their children.
Common sense says the child may grow up emulating the disrespectful behavior.
Becoming a parent is a choice. Becoming knowledgeable about raising children

can be learned.
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PRESENTATION
2: BEHAVIOR AND MANNERS

Emily Post said “Manners are a sensitive awareness of the feeling of others. If you
have that awareness, you have good manners, no matter what fork you use.”
Ideally, good manners should be taught and modeled in the home. Behaving
politely is a way of life and meets a social expectation.
At eighteen months old, a child should know how their behavior affects others.
They must let good manners become a habit.
3: FRIENDSHIP
Friendship is a precious part of childhood and something a child gets to choose.
To ensure a healthy friendship, common sense rules apply:
1 Practice key social skills.

Demonstrate taking turns, sharing, starting games or polite conversations.
2 Practice social self-control skills.
Guide children to control their impulses of hitting or verbal attacks, and replace
with sitting still, listening, following directions, and cooperating.
3 Practice acceptance of cultural diversity.
Reinforce that kindness, helpfulness, sympathy, empathy, and respect is
valued everywhere.
4 Practice being an emotional coach.
Talk to children about their negative emotions and selfish feelings in a way that
problem solves instead of judging. It should be noted that children punished
harshly tend to display more hostility and aggression.
4: TRAUMA AND STRESS

The brain is influenced by the environment in which a child is raised. Childhood
stress can have a lingering effect on their mental health. Children exposed to
serious trauma are at risk of suffering depression, anger, hostility, drug abuse,
psychosis, or even contemplate suicide.
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PRESENTATION
A child’s environment also includes reality TV shows that depict domestic and
social interactions such as narcissism, selfishness, and disrespect. Authority often
ridicules others or speaks without facts. In essence, they have to deal with the
bully.
There always seem to be children that thrive on name-calling and belittling others.
This type of emotional abuse can harm the essence of the one attacked. Let’s take
a look from two points-of-view: The parents of the bully and the child being bullied.
If your child is a bully, ask yourself:

1 Do you have mostly negative interactions with your child?
Common sense asks what type of example do you want to set for your child.
2 Do you frequently hit or yell at your child?
Common sense encourages you to say “I’m angry” instead of yelling or hitting.
3 Do you monitor their exposure to violent TV shows or video games?
Common sense says you should distinguish behavior between entertainment and real
life; and that words and actions have consequences.
4 Do you discuss positive behavior?
a. Help your child improve social skills and appropriate behavior.
b. Discuss how mind games, threats, insults, and violence reflect poorly on the bully
and harms the one being bullied. Reinforce good behaviors.
c. Discuss who your child is playing with and what they do.
d. Ask teachers if the child has a pattern of harming others. If so, consider counseling.
e. Discover and handle the reason for the behavior.
f. Punish only by taking away a privilege or assigning extra chores. Children punished
harshly tend to show more hostility and aggression. Children learn from the natural
consequences of their actions.
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PRESENTATION
5: CONFLICT RESOLUTION
Children can learn tools to resolve most situations. Let’s start with bullying.
Step 1: Calm yourself in a way that works for you when feeling stressed.
Step 2: Be unemotional to show the bully they have no power over you.
Step 3: Maintain eye contact and put on your confident face.
Step 4: Use the bully’s name when speaking to him in a calm, even voice.
Step 5: Respond assertively (not aggressively) with honesty and kindness:
- Please stop bothering me.
- Please leave me alone.
- I’m not going to play with you if you’re mean.
- How would you feel if someone was doing this to you?
- Friends don’t do that to friends.
- I heard you and I don’t care.
- I can take a joke but that wasn’t funny.
- I don’t let someone like you get to me.
- Thanks for sharing with me.
- Not cool.
Step 6: Walk away at a moderate pace (no grunts, disdain, or expressions).
Step 7: Gain confidence as you resolved a situation peacefully.
However, if the bullying persists, it is imperative you report it to your parents and
teachers; doing so, is not tattling – rather, it is protecting yourself and possibly
others from a problem that can escalate. Lack of action only empowers the bully –
and everyone has the right to be safe.
We hope every child is taught we are all cut from the same cloth. It is our colors,
our markings, our contributions that create a tapestry, beautiful and bright.
Bullying is about fear, is immature, and gets in the way of fun for everyone.
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PRESENTATION
Chapter 2
6: SAFETY AND REST

Many rules, policies, and regulations are in place to protect children from harm.
Children also have a responsibility to exercise good judgment and be aware of their
environment.
1 Use the buddy system when walking about.
2 Look both ways before crossing a street.
3 Don’t open doors to strangers.
4 Don’t share private information or passwords.
5 Trust your feelings (but always verify information).
6 Never keep un-safe secrets.
To keep a clear mind, it is imperative you get plenty of sleep. Sleep deprivation has
a negative effect on your body’s production of cytokines which are proteins that
help keep illness at bay. To ensure plenty of rest, the following is recommended:
Newborns: 0-3 months 14 to 17 hours each day

Infants: 4-11 months 12 to 15 hours each day
Toddlers: 1 to 2 years 11 to 14 hours each day
Children: 3 to 5 years 10 to 13 hours each day
Children: 6 to 13 years 09 to 11 hours each day
Teens: 14 to 17 08 to 10 hours each day
Be mindful that hidden caffeine in food and drinks, heavy course load, too many
extra-curricular activities, and unmanaged stress could interfere with sleep.
7: LEAVING THE NEST

Here’s what every child should know before leaving the nest.
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PRESENTATION
Domestic Skills
■ How to communicate politely and effectively.
■ How to tie a shoelace.
■ How to wake yourself up on time.
■ How to make your bed.
■ How to have good table etiquette.
■ How to have good manners.
■ How to dress for an occasion.
■ How to give a firm handshake.
■ How to clean and tidy the house.
■ How to organize and prioritize your schedule.
■ How to handle an emergency and put out a fire.
■ How to read and develop good study habits.
■ How to use a dictionary.
■ How to write and proofread.
■ How to pack your own lunch or baggage.
■ How to run a load of laundry.
■ How to iron clothes.
■ How to cook basic dishes.
■ How to sew and mend.
■ How to wrap a present.
■ How to use a hammer and nails.
■ How to mow the lawn.
■ How to plant a vegetable garden.
■ How to maintain the basics of a vehicle.
■ How to read a user manual.
■ How to make appointments or resolve issues by phone.
■ How to know the difference between want and need.
■ How to be independent but also ask for help.
■ How to read before going to bed.
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PRESENTATION
Health Skills
■ How to eat healthy foods.
■ How to exercise and relax.
■ How to use basic first aid.
■ How to shower daily and use deodorant.
■ How to brush your teeth twice a day.
■ How to swim.
■ How to perform CPR.
■ How to donate blood.
■ How to keep yourself and others safe.
Behavioral and Emotional Skills
■ How to be honest and keep your word.
■ How to be a person with good ethics.
■ How to deal with disappointment, frustration, and tragedy.
■ How to think for yourself.
■ How to be present in the moment.
■ How to develop your talents and gifts.
■ How to be motivated and passionate.
■ How to develop social skills.
■ How to not take things personally.
■ How to talk politely to strangers but avoid ones with peculiar intent.
■ How to be a good judge of character.
■ How to appreciate diversity.
■ How to ask for what you want, negotiate what you get, and respect “no.”
■ How to firmly but politely say No.
■ How to develop healthy relationships.
■ How to be a good listener.
■ How to respect yourself and others.
■ How to comfort yourself and others.
■ How to take responsibility for your words and actions.
■ How to avoid name calling.
■ How to find something good in someone you don’t like.
■ How to admit fault and begin anew.
■ How to resolve a conflict without using violence.
■ How to problem-solve.
■ How to forgive and move on.
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PRESENTATION
■ How to discern between love and infatuation.

■ How to express gratitude daily.
■ How to look on the bright side.
■ How to improve your life skills.
External Skills
■ How to drive safely.
■ How to pump gas.
■ How to jump start a car.
■ How to change a tire.
■ How to read a map.
■ How to report an auto accident.
■ How to take public transportation.
■ How to plan an outing.
■ How to grocery shop.
■ How to order at restaurants and tip appropriately.
■ How to care for the environment.
Financial Skills
■ How to add, subtract, multiply and divide.
■ How to write a check.
■ How to balance a checkbook.
■ How to budget and spend money wisely.
■ How to use a credit or ATM card.
■ How to know your credit score.
■ How to save money and invest.
■ How to give or become involved with charity.
Work Skills
■ How to interview.
■ How to converse and negotiate respectfully.
■ How to develop good work skills.
■ How to send a professional email.
■ How to honor commitments.
■ How to honor a contract.
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Child Development
REVIEW

Children need love and guidance.
Children need to learn good behavior and manners.
Children need to learn how to be a good friend.
Children need to distinguish pretend from what is real.
Children need to learn how to peacefully resolve conflicts –
especially if bullied.
Children need to learn how to keep safe and get plenty of rest.
Children need to learn many things before leaving the nest.
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COMMON SENSE HUMOR
Six out of the seven dwarfs are not Happy.
Always remember you’re unique, just like everyone else.
Politicians and diapers both need to be changed, and for the same
reason.
Why do we press harder on a remote control when we know the batteries

are getting weak?
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you find the key.
Riddle #1:
Which is heavier – 100 pounds of rocks or 100 pounds of feathers?
They both weigh the same (100 pounds).
Riddle #2:
What looks like half an apple?
The other half of the apple.
Riddle #3:
Bob’s father has four children. Momo, Meme, and Mumu are three of them. Who’s
the fourth?
Bob.
Riddle #4:
What gets wetter and wetter the more it dries?
A towel.
Riddle #5:
Why is it against the law for a man living in North Carolina to be buried in South
Carolina?
Because he is still alive.
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QUOTES
A handful of common sense is worth a bushel of learning.

Proverb
Stupid is forever. Ignorance can be fixed.

Don Wood
Do not indoctrinate your children. Teach them how to think for themselves, how to
evaluate evidence, and how to disagree with you.
Richard Dawkins
Everybody gets so much information all day long that they lose their common
sense.
Gertrude Stein
Too often we give children the answers to remember rather than problems to solve.
Roger Lewin, Ph.D.
Success is more a function of consistent common sense than it is of genius.

An Wan
It is today we must create the world of the future.

Eleanor Roosevelt
Education is what remains after one has forgotten everything one learned in
school.
Albert Einstein
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FACT OR FICTION
1. New born babies are virtually blind and deaf.

Actually new born babies can both see and hear a lot of things.
2. Bats are blind.

Though bats have tiny eyes, none of the 1,100 bat species are blind.
3. You can spoil your baby if you pick them up every time they cry.
You cannot spoil a new born baby. After six months, you can hold back a little.
4. A mother will reject its baby bird once a human touches it.
A mother wouldn’t notice since most birds have a poor sense of smell.
5. If you play classical music to babies it will make them smarter.

No – but having a child learn to play a musical instrument will increase their IQ around three
points.
6. Overweight children are carrying baby fat that will go away as they get older.
Obesity in children is often a condition that will last for years.
7. Abusive parents do not love their children.

Most parents love their children and often feel guilty about their abusive behavior;
they just don’t know how to treat their children in a non-abusive manner.
8. Children are generally sexually abused by strangers.

Most children that are sexually abused know the abuser.
9. Living in a home where people speak more than one language often confuses
children.
Just days after birth, infants can distinguish the difference between many languages.
10. A child should wait one hour after eating before going swimming.
A child might experience discomfort after a big meal, but it won’t do any harm if they go right
into a pool.
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COMMON SENSE TRIVIA
Trivia Fact #1 -
A baby is able to make all of the sounds of every known language.
Trivia Fact #2 –
Happiness, anger, sadness, fear, disgust, and surprise are six universal emotions.
Trivia Fact #3 –
When people are watched, they behave better.
Trivia Fact #4 –
The ability to delay gratification or not starts young.
Trivia Fact #5 –
People with low self-esteem that “try” and humiliate others – are often bullies.
Trivia Fact #6 –
People with high levels of testosterone get pleasure from the anger of others.
Trivia Fact #7 –
Sleeping less than 7 hours a night lowers your life expectancy.
Trivia Fact #8 –
The longest record time anyone has ever gone without sleep is 11 days.
Part 2
Child Development
Choose wisely – and your life will be more enjoyable, satisfying, and fulfilling
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Part 2
Child Development
BRIEF QUIZ

#1
What techniques can children use to resolve most situations with a bully?
□ Calm yourself in a way that works for you when feeling stressed.
□ Be unemotional to show the bully they have no power over you.
□ Maintain eye contact and put on your confident face.
#2
To ensure a healthy friendship, what common sense rules apply?
□ Practice key social skills.
□ Practice social self-control skills.
□ Practice acceptance of cultural diversity.
#3
Becoming a parent is a choice. Becoming knowledgeable about raising children
can be learned.
□ True
□ False
#4
Ideally, good manners should be taught and modeled in the home. Behaving
politely is a way of life and meets a social expectation.
□ True
□ False
#5
Sleep deprivation has a negative effect on your body’s production of cytokines
which are proteins that help keep illness at bay.
□ True
□ False
Welcome to Part 3:
Tolerance, Diversity, and Stereotypes
● We will explore the dangers of stereotypes and prejudice.
● We will explore why people hate.
● We will learn the value of diversity.
Part 3
Tolerance / Diversity / Stereotypes
PRESENTATION
“Being happy doesn’t mean everything is perfect. It means that you’ve decided to
look beyond the imperfections.”
Gerard Way
The concept of race is basically a modern development. In ancient times, people

were sorted by religion, class, and language. Throughout the ages, some have
determined certain races superior by measuring the size of their brain. While
humans differ genetically by blood type and skin pigmentation, most
anthropologists and biologists say categories of race are not biologically grounded.
The U.S. Census Bureau defines race as a social category, not biologically or
genetically.
The Human Genome Project proved that race could not be identified in our genes.
We are all Homo sapiens (which is Latin for wise man). Indeed, there is one human
race.
History illustrates the importance of this fact. The Nazi state practiced ethnic
supremacism. The beliefs of racists have been used to persecute minority groups.
And discrimination, in short, has led to genocide.
The problem is that facts, conjecture, and myths are twisted or confused in the
mind of a racist.
We explore outer space but seldom explore how to live peacefully here at home.
Take a look.
[International voices speak common phrases]
The melody of language is beautiful. Our nation is created by immigrants. Each

person has a unique voice, therefore the word “all” doesn’t apply.
A stereotype is a belief or generalization about a person or a group of persons and

are often inaccurate leading to prejudice and bigotry that can result in personal and
social harm.
Part 3
PRESENTATION
Assuming that all people of a group are the same, bigots use slang and dog
whistles to denounce and dehumanize. They become so rigid in their short-cut
thinking that they allow stereotypes to become their truth and disregard the
uniqueness and full humanity of people. In short, we categorize people to make a
complex world simpler, but limited, intolerant, inaccurate thinking can develop an
US versus THEM mentality. Labels can be harmful and have a lasting impact on
those who experience the attack.
Why do people hate? Many children learned to hate from their parents, siblings,
relatives, and friends. People hate because tolerance takes effort. It involves
thinking, questioning, pondering, research, and verification. And sadly, we often
fear what we don’t understand. We minimize our fear by inflicting greater fear on
another. And so it goes.
Common sense suggests we are all human and probably harbor misinformation
about people. Perhaps we should leave the comfort zone of knee-jerk thinking,
become more aware of our thoughts and feelings, then gather and process factual
information. By doing so, we will gain opportunities to learn and thrive from our
similarities and differences.
Here are ways to stop stereotyping –
1 Acknowledge learned prejudices and biases without assigning blame.
2 List and examine irrational beliefs and prejudices.
3 Cleanse your thinking by replacing lies with truth, that which can be verified.
4 Increase exposure and empathy towards people in groups often stereotyped.
5 Study regularly a group’s history and cultural background.
6 Engage in honest dialogue with others about race.
7 Treat and respect each person as an individual rather than part of a group.
8 Accept the complexities of relationships with greater understanding.
9 Interrupt and process any thoughts that express stereotypes.
10 Feel secure with your own identity and heritage.
Here are two perspectives which will serve you well. First, when you answer a
question with ‘I don’t know’ – take the opportunity to find out. Second, once you
realize external experiences are there to educate the internal being, you will
cherish the value of expanding self-awareness. In essence, you will be in touch
with the core of your being; through which you will provide a positive experience in
the external that will help others educate their internal being.
Part 3
PRESENTATION
Remember, everyone has trials and tribulations – and lessons to learn. Avoid
blaming others for errors you once committed. We are all here to learn, to give, and
to share.
Attend plays, movies, concerts, workshops and seminars that celebrate diversity.
Visit your local library, museum, or even take on-line courses or visit ancestry
websites.
See yourself in others. We have common emotions, desires, and concerns.
Hate Crime Statistics (Bias Breakdown):

48.5% - Racial
20 - Sexual Orientation
17.4 - Religious
11.1 - Ethnicity
1.4 - Disability
0.5 - Gender Identity
0.3 - Gender
Part 3
REVIEW

There is only one race, the human race.
We often fear that which we don’t understand.
We need to leave the comfort zone of knee-jerk thinking.
Create opportunities to learn and thrive from our similarities and
differences.
Treat and respect each person as an individual rather than part of
a group.
Interrupt and process any thoughts that express stereotypes.
Feel secure with your own identity and heritage.
Part 3
COMMON SENSE HUMOR
Change is inevitable, except from a vending machine.
Some of us learn from the mistakes of others; the rest of us have to be

the others.
Some drink at the fountain of knowledge, others just gargle.
Those are my principles. If you don’t like them, I have others.

- Groucho Marx
Part 3
you find the key.
Riddle #1:
Does England have a fourth of July?
Every country using a calendar has a fourth of July (not the celebration).
Riddle #2:
Some months have 31 days, how many have 28?
All of them.
Riddle #3:
What word in the English language is always spelled incorrectly?
Incorrectly.
Riddle #4:
In British Columbia, you cannot take a picture with a wooden leg. Why not?
You can’t take a picture using a wooden leg; you need to use a camera.
Riddle #5:
You’re a bus driver. At the first stop 4 people get on. At the second stop 8 people
get on. At the third stop, 2 people get off. What color are the bus driver’s eyes?
The same as yours because you’re the bus driver.
Part 3
QUOTES
It is the obvious which is so difficult to see most of the time. People say “it’s as plain
as the nose on your face.” But how much of the nose on your face can you see,
unless someone holds a mirror up to you?
Isaac Asimov
Things do not change, we change.

Henry David Thoreau
It is a thousand times better to have common sense without education than to have
education without common sense.
Robert Green Ingersoll
The whole purpose of education is to turn mirrors into windows.

Sydney J. Harris
Whenever we hear an opinion and believe it, we make an agreement, and it

becomes part of our belief system.
Miguel Ruiz
With age comes common sense and wisdom.

Nas
You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people
than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.
Dale Carnegie
Who are you to judge the life I live? I know I’m not perfect – and I don’t live to be –
but before you start pointing fingers … make sure your hands are clean.
Bob Marley
Part 3
FACT OR FICTION
1. The first thing we must do to reduce prejudice is to change people’s attitudes.

The best way to change prejudiced attitudes is to change people’s behaviors.
2. You can easily put a person in a racial group just by looking at them.
One’s appearance is an ineffective way to group people.
3. My forefathers learned English, but not the immigrants today.

Half of those older than five, speak their first language as well as English very well.
4. People with a disability only associate with those disabled.

As with everyone, relationships are a matter of choice.
5. The historical Buddha was obese.

Not true. It is often confused with Budai, the Laughing Buddha who was a 10th century
Chinese hero.
6. Familiarity breeds contempt.

Research shows we prefer stimuli we’ve seen many times before.
7. It’s always the fault of a teenager if they’re kicked out of their home.
Teenagers have been disowned, possibly homeless, for horrendous reasons.
One quarter of gay teens will be discarded because of their orientation.
8. All homeless people are mentally ill.

25% of all homeless are severely mentally ill.
9. All homeless people are lazy and don’t want to work.

Almost half of all homeless people are unemployed due to injury, illness, disability, or
corporate downsizing.
10. Most psychopaths are violent.

Most psychopaths are non-violent, rational, and aware their actions are wrong, but just don’t
care.
Part 3
COMMON SENSE TRIVIA
Trivia Fact #1 -
Muhammad is the world’s most common first name.
Trivia Fact #2 –
You’re more logical when you think in another language.
Trivia Fact #3 –
Ten percent of the world’s population is illiterate. That’s 700 million people.
Trivia Fact #4 –
Two percent of all people on Earth have red hair.
Trivia Fact #5 –
People with a lack of self-confidence or low self-esteem often humiliate others.
Trivia Fact #6 –
When you sleep you’re basically blind.
Trivia Fact #7 –
We have no sense of smell when we’re sleeping.
Trivia Fact #8 –
The more uncertain you are, the more you dig in and defend your ideas.
Part 3
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Part 3
BRIEF QUIZ

#1
A stereotype is a belief or generalization about a person or a group of persons and
are often inaccurate leading to prejudice and bigotry that can result in personal and
social harm.
□ True
□ False
#2
Which of these are ways to stop stereotyping?
□ Acknowledge and list learned prejudices and biases without assigning blame.
□ Cleanse your thinking by replacing lies with truth, that which can be verified.
□ Increase exposure and empathy towards people in groups often stereotyped.
#3
The U.S. Census Bureau defines race as a social category, not biologically or
genetically.
□ True
□ False
#4
Whenever you answer a question with ‘I don’t know’ – you should take the
opportunity to find out.
□ True
□ False
#5
Everyone has trials and tribulations – and lessons to learn; we should avoid blaming
others for errors we once committed.
□ True
□ False
Welcome to Part 4:
Common Courtesy, Common Decency
● We will learn the benefits of common courtesy.
● We will learn the benefits of common decency.
● We will learn why manners are important.
Part 4
Common Courtesy / Common Decency
PRESENTATION
“Morals are private. Decency is public.”

- Rita Mae Brown
The root of courtesy is kindness, consideration, and a genuine respect for the
human spirit. Treating other people with courtesy and politeness is the definition
of good manners; in fact, part of first impressions are whether you are considerate
and care about the feelings of others.
Good manners make daily interactions much easier and more pleasant. Let’s take
a look:
■ Basic Manners:
- Thank You.
- No Thank You.
- Please.
- Excuse me.
- Pardon me.
- Cover your mouth when you cough.
- Cover your mouth when you yawn.
- Put your face in your arm when you sneeze.
- Do not pick nose.
- Do not stare.
- Flush the toilet after use.
- If you use the last roll of toilet paper, replace the roll.
- Wash your hands after using the restroom.
- Maintain good posture.
- Abide by the rules.
- Do not physically harm another
- Do not belittle or threatened another.
- Do not lie, steal, or vandalize.
- Keep your area clean and tidy.
- Do not litter.
- Clean up your own messes.
- Pick up after your pets.
Part 4
PRESENTATION
■ Conversation Manners:
- Use firm handshake looking directly in the eyes.
- If someone says hello, say hello back.
- Introduce yourself when you meet someone.
- Repeat the person’s name correctly when introduced to you.
- Speak politely and positively without using slang or swearing.
- Avoid mumbling and overusing the word ‘like’.
- Keep a safe distance so as not to spray or spit on another person.
- Give your full attention to the person you are interacting with.
- Ask insightful questions.
- Ensure you are not just talking about yourself.
- Answer questions with positivity.
- Show happiness for the accomplishments of others.
- Avoid gossip or slander.
- Avoid commenting on people’s age or weight.
- Avoid giving unsolicited advice.
- If you must interrupt someone, say excuse me.
- Respect the decisions and opinions of others.
■ Social Manners:
- Be kind and helpful without expecting anything in return.
- Never assume anything about anyone.
- Hold the door open for people.
- Don’t lend a book or item to someone unless they ask for it.
- Return a borrowed item in a reasonable amount of time.
- Don’t discuss sensitive issues on social medias.
- Don’t intentionally embarrass someone.
- Don’t laugh at someone when other people do.
- Give praise in public, criticize in private.
- You’ll make more friends if you’re a good playmate and a good sport.
- Apologize when you are wrong.
- Be on time (or call to say ‘hey, I’m running 20 minutes late’).
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PRESENTATION
- If someone send you an invitation, either confirm or decline.

- Laugh, smile, giggle, and cry without histrionics.
- Write “Thank-You” notes.
■ Dining Manners:
- Keep your elbows off the table.
- Eat quietly.
- Keep your mouth closed when chewing.
- Don’t talk with your mouth full – or belch.
- Be silent and listen; talk when you really have something to say.
- Ask someone to pass you a dish or a seasoning.
- Don’t take the last piece of food without asking.
- Avoid blowing your nose in front of people when eating.
- Don’t pick your teeth.
- Say “excuse me” whenever you need to leave the table.
Learning manners is a lifelong education – and don’t worry, good manners will
never go out of style.
Part 4
REVIEW

The root of courtesy is kindness, consideration, and a genuine
respect for the human spirit.
Treating other people with courtesy and politeness is the definition
of good manners.
Part of first impressions are whether you are considerate and care
about the feelings of others.
Good manners make daily interactions much easier and more
pleasant.
People generally appreciate acknowledgment and concern.
Learning manners is a lifelong education.
Good manners will never go out of style.
Part 4
COMMON SENSE HUMOR
Support bacteria, they’re the only culture some people have.
A closed door gathers no foot.
I used to be indecisive. Now, I’m not sure.
The probability of someone watching you is proportional to the stupidity

of your action.
Part 4
you find the key.
Riddle #1:
A little girl kicks a soccer ball that goes 10 feet and comes back to her. How is that
possible?
She kicks the ball straight up in the air.
Riddle #2:
Before Mt. Everest was discovered, what was the highest mountain in the world?
Mt. Everest, it just wasn’t discovered yet.
Riddle #3:
How long did the Thirty Years War last?
Thirty years (from 1618 to 1648).
Riddle #4:
Who is buried in Grant’s tomb?
Grant.
Riddle #5:
If it took eight men 10 hours to build a wall, how long would it take four men to build
it?
No time at all because it’s already built.
Part 4
QUOTES
Men are from Earth, Women are from Earth. Deal with it.
George Carlin
Don’t find fault, find a remedy; anybody can complain.

Henry Ford
It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without

accepting it.
Aristotle
The best test of courage comes when we are in the minority. The test of tolerance
comes when we are in the majority.
Ralph W. Sockman
The problem with today’s world is that everyone believes they have the right to
express their opinion AND have others listen to it.
Brian Cox
Isn’t it a pleasure to study and practice what you’ve learned?

Confucius
Cutting people out of your life is easy, keeping them in is hard.

Walter Dean Myers
Courtesy is a much a mark of a gentleman as courage.

Theodore Roosevelt
Part 4
FACT OR FICTION
1. You cannot say you created success if you had help along the way.
We are influenced by everyone and everything. It is your attitude, skill, and perseverance that
creates your own success.
2. There is no gravity in deep space.

Without gravity, the moon would float away from the Earth, and the solar system would drift
apart.
3. Only one of the gas planets in our solar system has rings: Saturn.
Though Saturn’s rings are the most visible, Jupiter, Uranus and Neptune have rings.
4. The first planet to be discovered using a telescope was Mars in 1825.

It was Uranus in 1781.
5. Two U.S. states border the Gulf of Mexico.

Actually, it is five states.
6. Palm trees really are trees.

Palm trees are really grasses – members of the monocots and are not true trees.
7. Mushrooms are part of the plant kingdom.

Mushrooms are part of the kingdom Fungi.
8. Many types of cactus grow in the Sahara Desert.

Cacti are native only to North America.
9. Peanuts grow on peanut trees.

Peanuts grow underground on bushy plants.
10. The word “maverick” comes from the 1950’s show starring James Garner.
The word “maverick” came into use after Samuel Maverick from Texas refused to brand his
cattle. Eventually any unbranded calf became known as a maverick.
Part 4
COMMON SENSE TRIVIA
Trivia Fact #1 -
Over the span of your life, you will produce enough saliva to fill two swimming
pools.
Trivia Fact #2 –
The strongest muscle in the human body is the tongue.
Trivia Fact #3 –
Your mind wanders about 30% of the time.
Trivia Fact #4 –
People who volunteer are more satisfied with their lives.
Trivia Fact #5 –
Don’t write or say “I think” or “I believe” – it’s implied anyway, and it sounds like you
lack confidence.
Trivia Fact #6 –
It is physically impossible to lick your elbow.
Trivia Fact #7 –
When leaving a cave, bats always turn left.
Trivia Fact #8 –
No word in the English language rhymes with month, orange, silver, and purple.
Part 4
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Part 4
BRIEF QUIZ

#1
The root of courtesy is kindness, consideration, and a genuine respect for the
human spirit.
□ True
□ False
#2
What is a good example(s) of conversation manners?
□ Speak politely and positively without using slang or swearing.
□ Give your full attention to the person you are interacting with.
□ Ask insightful questions.
#3
Treating other people with courtesy and politeness is a definition of good manners;
in fact, part of first impressions are whether you are considerate and care about
the feelings of others.
□ True
□ False
#4
Learning manners is a lifelong education.
□ True
□ False
#5
Good social manners include apologizing when you are wrong.
□ True
□ False
Welcome to Part 5:
Relationships
● We will learn the characteristics of long-lasting relationships.
● We will learn how common courtesy impacts a relationship.
● We will learn how to solve common relationship problems.
Part 5
Relationships
PRESENTATION
“People don’t care how much you know until you show them how much you care.”
- Cavett Robert
Everyone wants to be loved. Of course, it helps if you begin by loving yourself.
In seeking friendships and relationships, it is important to be your genuine self;

never comparing who you are to others. Understand who you are and what you
want in return. Be sincere and avoid using force or manipulating people’s affections
as it rarely works. Your true friends will like you as you are.
Before embarking on this journey, ask if you’re willing to trust and share, listen and
be there? Here are common sense tips.
If you want to make new friends:

1 Invest in personal hygiene.
2 Make a conscious effort to smile.
3 Show you are confident and approachable.
4 Make eye contact with someone new.
5 Introduce yourself to someone new.
6 Ask open-ended questions to learn their preferences.
7 Tell the truth and avoid complaining or talking negatively.
8 Laughter is bonding.
Ah, you have found a friend and start seeing more of each other, perhaps even
move in. Did I mention getting along takes cooperation and understanding?
Common Pet Peeves:

- Repeatedly hitting the snooze button.
- Not removing hair on the bar of soap.
- Leaving wet towels on the bathroom floor.
- Toilet seat is not ready for landing, droplets on the floor.
- Not flushing the toilet.
- Not washing hands after using the restroom.
- Poor hygiene.
- Biting or clipping nails.
- Forgetting to replace a toilet roll, soap, or shampoo.
Part 5
Relationships
PRESENTATION
- Toothpaste squeezing from the middle of the tube not the end.
- Not putting the cap back on the toothpaste tube after use.
- Leaving the water running while you brush your teeth.
- Brushing teeth before eating.
- Clothing all over the bedroom floor.
- Wearing shirts backwards with the tag showing.
- Eating in bed and leaving the crumbs.
- Putting dishes in the sink without rinsing.
- Drinking directly out of the milk/orange juice container.
- Empty cartons left in the refrigerator.
- Hearing them eat.
- Cracking knuckles.
- Distracted by electronic devices.
- Not sharing or misplacing the remote control.
- Talking loudly on the phone when you’re trying to watch TV.
- Whistling incessantly.
- Revealing plots in movies and books when I haven’t seen or read.
- Always looking for things when they’re so disorganized in the first place.
- Neglecting basic duties they committed to do.
- Chronic lateness.
- Hogging space in a two car garage.
- Refusing to ask questions or use the GPS or map.
- Rely only on feelings instead of facts.
- Hiding sarcasm and disdain through supposed humor.
- Taking it out on others when something goes wrong.
- Being rude to waiters.
- Hypochondriac.
Getting along takes cooperation and understanding.
Part 5
Relationships
PRESENTATION
Common Sense in 11 Steps

How to discuss Relationship Pet Peeves:
1 Select an issue and prioritize the three most highly annoying pet peeves.
2 Frame the issue(s) as something minor but important to you.
3 Discuss only the specific issue(s) and not their personality in a calm voice.
4 Communicate what you want and need. It bothers me when…
5 Use “I” statements to explain why this issue annoys you.
6 Ask if they’re willing to work on the issue (never demand).
7 Listen, take a breath as they’ll either agree, ask questions, or be defensive.
8 Take the high road by steering away from unfairness, judgment, or negativity.
9 Confirm the deal. I’ll do this and you’ll do that.
10 Thank them for listening and for their willingness to make efforts.
11 If and when they improve, thank them and let them know you appreciate it.
Letting someone speak freely is vital. Actively listening without emotion is

essential.
Characteristics of Long-Lasting Friendships:

1 THE REAL YOU.
- Know yourself.
- Be genuine.
- Share yourself completely.
2 THE VALUES.
- Keep your standards and be true to your values.
- Never change yourself to appease another.
- Be kind, honest, and dependable.
3 THE COMMUNICATION.
- Listen to learn. Listen to understand.
- Listen to show respect and caring for another.
- Use uplifting language that is succinct, clear and truthful.
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Relationships
PRESENTATION
4 THE SUPPORT.
- Be there for the ups and downs.
- Be there with your physical or emotional presence.
- Look for the best in each other.
5 THE FUN.
- Find humor in as much as you can.
- Share activities, discoveries, and adventures.
- Celebrate each other’s successes.
6 THE BOND.
- Change is the first constant thing in a relationship; be a team.
- Physical distance does not diminish the strength or bond.
- Relationships take effort and do not run on auto-pilot.
7 THE RESOLVE.
- Include conflict as part of healthy intimacy, but don’t argue to argue.
- Ask for what you want, but don’t demand it – and negotiate what you get.
- Be willing to admit wrongdoings and offer apologies.
8 THE GRACE.
- Every relationship needs boundaries to flourish.
- Forgive.
- Let things go and move on.
9 THE LIMIT.
- A healthy relationship should never leave someone feeling unlovable,
insecure or worthless.
- Friendships can become stagnant and unhealthy, and even grow apart.
- Know when love is not enough and you have done all you can do.
In closing, if you find people are always pushing your buttons, get rid of the buttons.
Never be a door mat. And if you must let people walk all over you, wear a linoleum
shirt.
Part 5
Relationships
REVIEW

Everyone wants to be loved. It helps if you begin by loving yourself.
In seeking friendships and relationships, it is important to be your
genuine self.
Understand who you are and what you want in return.
Be sincere and avoid using force or manipulating people’s
affections as it rarely works.
Ask if you’re willing to trust and share, listen and be there?
Are you aware of your own habits that could be annoying to others?
Use conflict resolution techniques to properly remedy a problem.
Part 5
Relationships
COMMON SENSE HUMOR
I’m an anti-social psychic. I can see ahead of time that I won’t want to
talk to you.
I’m not a Facebook status, you don’t have to like me.
Marriage is the chief cause of divorce.

- Groucho Marx
Money will not buy happiness, but it will let you be unhappy in nice places.
- W.C. Fields
Part 5
Relationships
you find the key.
Riddle #1:
How many books can you put in an empty backpack?
One. After that, it’s not empty.
Riddle #2:
A man makes a claim that he can predict the exact score of every football game
before it begins. And he’s always right. How is that possible?
He says the score before every football game begins is 0-0.
Riddle #3:
What is Rupert the Bear’s middle name?
The.
Riddle #4:
How do you walk on water?
Freeze it first.
Riddle #5:
Ten copycats were sitting in a boat. One jumped out. How many were left?
None. They were copycats so they jumped out too.
Part 5
Relationships
QUOTES
Stay away from conflictive, negative people that pull you down, because they
contaminate your energy and impede your progress. Search for people who look
at the world with optimism – that inspire you, make you happy and provide peace
of mind.
Pablo
Invest a few minutes in thinking. It will pay good interest.

Anon
No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies you the right to grow.
Alice Walker
Just because you’re not sick doesn’t mean you’re healthy.

Anon
I read, I study, I examine, I listen, I think, and out of all that I try to form an idea into
which I put as much common sense as I can.
Marquis de Lafayette
It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.
Friedrich Nietzsche
Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.

Dr. Seuss
A friend is someone who knows you and still loves you.

Elbert Hubbard
Part 5
Relationships
FACT OR FICTION
1. Attractive people can easily find a relationship.

Though one’s appearance can get attention, healthy relationships are based on compatibility,
interests, and values.
2. Opposites attract and often have long-lasting relationships.

Though you may have different tastes, research shows that similarities and life values keep
people in a long term relationship.
3. The right person will satisfy my every need.

One person cannot satisfy every need every day. Aside from you being responsible for your
own happiness, it is healthy to have differing interests and supportive friends.
4. I can change another person to be more the way I want them to be.
Considering everyone has faults, they should only change that which will improve them.
5. Not getting butterfly feelings when I see my partner means I may not love them.
Infatuation is often the first step in a relationship but longing is not true love. Components of
love include compatibility, honesty, and values.
6. If I have doubts about my relationship, I’m probably with the wrong person.
There is no complete certainty about anything. Doubt is inevitable and, in most cases, is
healthy. It provides internal thinking and outward communication.
7. Waking a person who is sleep walking may harm them.

Waking a sleepwalker will not cause them physical danger but they may be startled or
disoriented. Danger could occur if they bump into an object or trip.
8. People cannot lie if they are hypnotized.

Studies reveal they can lie when hypnotized.
9. Taking sleeping pills over a long period is a great treatment for insomnia.
Taking sleeping pills over a long period may, in fact, cause rebound insomnia.
10. All people with anorexia are female.

About 10% of people with anorexia is male.
Part 5
Relationships
COMMON SENSE TRIVIA
Trivia Fact #1 -
Relationships are more important for your health than exercise.
Trivia Fact #2 –
The more you spend on others, the happier you are.
Trivia Fact #3 –
Spending money on experience instead of stuff makes you happier.
Trivia Fact #4 –
Seeing others positively reveals our positive traits (same as negativity).
Trivia Fact #5 –
When a group of people laughs, people instinctively look toward group members
they feel closest too.
Trivia Fact #6 –
If someone is angry with you and you stay calm, they’ll probably get angrier but
they’ll be ashamed at themselves later.
Trivia Fact #7 –
If you ask someone a question and they only give you a partial answer, maintain
eye contact and stay silent. The person answering will usually assume that the
original answer wasn’t good enough, and they’ll keep talking.
Trivia Fact #8 –
We seem to ignore the ones who adore us and pay more attention to those that
ignore us.
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Relationships
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Relationships
BRIEF QUIZ

#1
In seeking friendships and relationships, it is important to be your genuine self.
□ True
□ False
#2
What is a good quality when wanting to make a new friend?
□ Make a conscious effort to smile and make eye contact.
□ Show you are confident and approachable.
□ Ask open-ended questions to learn their preferences.
#3
Getting along with others takes cooperation and understanding.
□ True
□ False
#4
Letting someone speak freely is vital to any friendship.
□ True
□ False
#5
If you find people are always pushing your buttons, you should consider getting rid
of the buttons.
□ True
□ False
Welcome to Part 6:
Transportation
● We will learn the pet peeves of pedestrians and drivers.
● We will learn how cell phone users impact their environment.
● We will learn common sense ways to be aware and safe.
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PRESENTATION
Chapter 1
“Never underestimate the power of very stupid people in large groups.”

John Kenneth Galbraith
Hopefully, we learned the importance of common sense, manners, and rules when
we’re children. Hopefully, in our teens we learned the value of respect and
consideration for all people. Never is all this more important than when behind the
wheel of a two-ton vehicle.
Having a driver’s license is a privilege, not a right.
On the road, drivers and pedestrians will expect you to abide by the law and
exercise good judgment. Unchecked stress and biases can be a recipe for disaster.
Life is precious and surprisingly short. Avoid taking unnecessary risks and follow
the rules of the road.
A vehicle is designed for safe travel. Your mind must be programmed for safe
travel.
Common sense says it is wise to review the Department of Motor Vehicle

Handbook at least once a year.
But for all the rules and regulations and signs and training, many people display
their contempt for others through erratic behavior and reckless driving – often
leading to accidents and, in some cases, fatalities.
Looking at the pet peeves of drivers, passengers, and bikers … we will see where
everyone would benefit from common sense.
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PRESENTATION
PET PEEVES ABOUT DRIVERS

1 Drivers not adjusting or using mirrors properly (especially for blind spots).
2 Drivers not checking all car lights and oil before leaving home.
3 Drivers not stopping, merging, or yielding at respective sign.
4 Drivers not slowing down in a school zone.
5 Drivers not abiding the right-of-way rules at four-way stops.
6 Drivers not using turn signals.
7 Drivers not going when the light turns green.
8 Drivers tapping brakes too often for no reason.
9 Drivers passing left of a stopped bus on the right with passengers crossing.
10 Drivers texting, tweeting, applying make-up, eating while driving.
11 Drivers slowing down if indecisive about when to turn.
12 Drivers slowing down to rubberneck at accidents.
13 Slow drivers on a two lane road won’t pull over (holding up more than 5 cars).
14 Slow drivers dawdling in the passing lane (fast lane).
15 Drivers who excessively honk.
16 Drivers who excessively flash high beams.
17 Drivers not dimming high beams when a car is approaching.
18 Drivers not turning on headlights when it’s raining or at dusk.
19 Drivers that tailgate – especially in unsafe weather conditions.
20 Drivers who quickly pass you, then drive slowly in front of you.
21 Drivers who cut you off, speed in the merge lane, and swerve in traffic.
22 Drivers waiting till the last minute to pull way over to the right lane to exit.
23 Drivers slamming on the brakes when they see a cop.
24 Drivers giving a finger instead of a wave.
25 Passengers who wave their arms or stick their feet out the window.
26 Drivers taking up two parking spaces.
27 Drivers that double-park (especially when a bus is approaching).
28 Drivers holding up a long line of cars waiting for a parking space to open up.
29 Drivers parking in a handicap zone and they’re not handicapped.
30 Drivers who speed through a crosswalk as a pedestrian is crossing midway.
And please, ensure regular maintenance.
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PRESENTATION
RAPID TRANSIT COMMON COURTESY

1 Line-up outside bus door on the right side.
Allow passengers to exit before you enter.
2 Please have your change or pass ready when boarding.
3 Always stay on the right side when entering the bus in case of a late exit.
4 Do not force your way through the aisle. Say ‘excuse me’ as you move around
passengers.
5 Observe and abide by all posted signs, maps, notices, and directions.
6 Do not swing your umbrella around and get everyone wet. Be mindful.
7 Do not sit in an area marked for senior citizens or those with disabilities (unless
it applies).
8 Do not squeeze into a seat that is too small for you. Find comfortable seating.
9 Do not take up two seats for one person with a gym bag, shopping bags, etc.
10 Do not put your feet on a seat.
11 Do not lean on someone or continually bump them.
12 Do not wear obstructive clothes or giant backpacks.
13 Do not drink or eat on a bus for safety and sanitation reasons.
14 Do not groom yourself on public transportation. You are not in a bathroom.
15 Do not ask the driver unnecessary questions (read the posters or map).
16 Do not linger around driver causing distraction, obstructing the door, or
blocking an aisle.
17 Do not complain to the bus driver about not being on time. Contact customer
service.
18 Do not ask a driver for directions. Look it up. He’s a driver, not google.
19 Do not talk over an announcement so the message can be heard.
20 Do not sing or talk loudly on your cell phone or talk loudly to another passenger.
21 Do not chew gum loudly and attempt to blow bubbles in confined quarters.
22 Do not scream at your children nor expect others to babysit.
23 Do not stand by the exit/entrance if you’re stop is miles away.
24 Please cover your mouth when you cough and your nose when sneeze.
25 Be considerate and pleasant by using deodorant and mints.
Courtesy makes a difference!
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PRESENTATION
Chapter 2
PEDESTRIAN COMMON COURTESY

1 Walk on the right, pass on the left (keep middle area clear).
2 Be aware when walking in a group not to take up the whole sidewalk.
3 Be cautious if you are wheeling luggage or carriages.
4 Stand still on the side of the sidewalk if you have to text.
5 Do not block building entrances or stairs.
6 Do not throw cigarettes or trash on the sidewalk or in the street,
7 Do not skateboard or bicycle on the sidewalk when there is heavy foot traffic.
8 Do not spit on public property especially in front of others.
9 Do not write on dirty windshields or vehicles in general.
10 Keep dogs on a leash, in check, and clean up after their messes.
11 Be considerate when smoking electronic cigarettes around non-smokers.
12 Do not jaywalk and interfere with oncoming traffic. Adhere to signs, crosswalk
lights, and traffic lights.
13 At crosswalk, don’t walk in a way that pushes others out of the painted lines
and possibly into traffic.
14 Please put garbage cans in an area that doesn’t block the sidewalk.
Rules are in place for your safety. Manners make rules more pleasant. We are part
of the flow.
BIKING COMMON COURTESY

1 Ride, in single file, as near to the right as possible and never against traffic.
2 Follow lane markings.
3 Stop at all stop signs and red lights.
4 Use hand signals.
5 Be predictable and steady, do not weave.
6 Honor others right of way and don’t block the road.
7 Don’t obstruct a pedestrian’s ability to get onto the sidewalk.
8 Use lights and reflectors at dusk and early dawn.
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PRESENTATION
AIR TRAVEL STATISTICS

What are common customer complaints?
- 77% body odor
- 66% delays
- 62% crying babies or small children (pack earplugs)
- 59% inconsiderate parents of small children
- 56% lack of leg room
- 52% unclean bathrooms
- 49% loud passengers
- 46% passengers reclining their seats
- 43% paying for checked luggage
- 40% long lines
Chapter 3
LIFE IS LIKE A JOURNEY ON A TRAIN
Life is like a journey on a train.
Our parents and guardians taught us the rules of the tracks.
Up and down and over the bend choices abound as we pass the many stops.
Some won’t care how the train works or see the possibility of each stop.
Wish them well for poor choices will steer their life.
Interesting people will teach you about yourself.
Your reactions will benefit or derail you from your true purpose.
Worry is worthless.
Fear is mostly an illusion.
Pain can be useful but not suffering.
No matter how good or bad a situation or feeling, it will change.
Travel can expand and enlighten you.
The longer the ride the more the memories.
They will bring comfort when the ride is slow.
Make your peace with the past so you can enjoy the present.
And remember, many things are up to you.
If you see the journey as hopeless, it will be.
If you see the journey as hopeful, it will be.
Up and down and over the bend choices abound as we pass the many stops.
We are all on different paths.
And if, throughout your travels, you want to extend a hand to peace:
choose to acknowledge and be considerate to all passengers.
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Transportation
REVIEW

Hopefully, we learned the importance of common sense, manners,
and rules when we’re children.
Hopefully, in our teens we learned the value of respect and
consideration for all people.
On the road, drivers, passengers, and pedestrians will expect you
to abide by the law and exercise good judgment.
A vehicle is designed for safe travel. Your mind must be
programmed for safe travel.
But for all the rules and regulations and signs and training, many
people display their contempt for others through erratic behavior.
Reckless driving often leads to accidents and, in some cases,
murder.
Avoid taking unnecessary risks and follow the rules of the road.
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Transportation
COMMON SENSE HUMOR
The early bird might get the worm, but the second mouse gets the
cheese.
When everything’s coming your way, you’re in the wrong lane and going
the wrong way.
If an athlete gets athlete’s feet, does an astronaut get missile-toe?
You can lead a horse to water, but a pencil must be led.
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Transportation
you find the key.
Riddle #1:
An electric train is moving is moving north at 100mph and a wind is blowing to the
west at 10mph. Which way does the smoke blow?
There is no smoke with an electric train.
Riddle #2:
If a train leaves Los Angeles at 5pm headed for Honolulu whose time zone is 3
hours behind and it takes 5 hours to arrive – what time will the train arrive?
At this time, a train cannot cross the ocean between these two locations.
Riddle #3:
If 1=5, 2=5, 3=125, 4=625, what does 5 equal?
1=5.
Riddle #4:
When does four plus five equal ten?
It doesn’t.
Riddle #5:
Spell “silk” out loud 3 times in a row. What do cows drink?
Water.
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QUOTES
If people use common sense and their own guiding moral compass, I think they’ll
generally stay out of trouble.
Steve Chabot
You don’t get anything clean without getting something else dirty.
Cecil Baxter
Those who think they have no time for exercise will sooner or later have to find
time for illness.
Edward Stanley
Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.
Jim Rohn
He who learns without thinking will be bewildered; he who thinks without learning
will be in danger.
Confucius
The pain of parting is nothing to the joy of meeting again.

Charles Dickens
I may not have gone where I intended to go, but I think I have ended up where I
needed to be.
Douglas Adams
Life isn’t about finding yourself, Life is about creating yourself.

George Bernard Shaw
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Transportation
FACT OR FICTION
1. Women are definitely worse drivers than men.

Men get into 70% more accidents than women.
2. Ostriches bury their head in the sand when they are scared.
To grind up food in their stomachs, they will swallow sand and pebbles by bending down and
sticking their heads in the sand to gather the pebbles.
3. Houseflies only live for 24 hours.

An adult housefly can live up to one month in the wild.
4. Microwave oven radiation can cause cancer.

Microwaves don’t exude enough energy to damage genetic material in cells.
5. The monster’s name was Frankenstein in Mary Shelly’s book.

Frankenstein was the name of the monster’s creator.
6. Bulls are enraged by the color red.

Bulls are actually color blind and react to the motion of the bull fighter’s cloth.
7. Speed reading courses are ineffective.

They diminish comprehension.
8. Tomatoes are a vegetable.

Tomatoes are a fruit.
9. Dreams generally last a couple of seconds.

Many dreams last a half-hour or even longer.
10. Eating cheese before going to bed will guarantee nightmares.

It is believed that cheese will give you emotionally charged dreams but not necessarily
nightmares.
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Part 6
Transportation
BRIEF QUIZ

#1
Having a driver’s license is a privilege, not a right.
□ True
□ False
#2
What is an example(s) of pedestrian common courtesy?
□ Walk on the right, pass on the left (keep middle area clear).
□ Stand still on the side of the sidewalk if you have to text.
□ Do not block building entrances or stairs.
#3
It is important for drivers and pedestrians to abide by the law and exercise good
judgment.
□ True
□ False
#4
But for all the rules and regulations and signs and training, many people display
their contempt for others through erratic behavior and reckless driving – often
leading to accidents and, in some cases, fatalities.
□ True
□ False
#5
Would you agree that rules are in place for your safety and that manners make
rules more pleasant?
□ True
□ False

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The Art of

Part 1: Common Sense . . . . . . . 5

Part 2: Child Development . . . . . . . 16

Part 3: Tolerance / Diversity / Stereotypes . . . . 34

Part 4: Common Courtesy / Common Decency . . . 46

Part 7: The Workplace . . . . . . . 84

Part 8: Mental Health / Physical Health . . . . 101

Part 9: Critical Thinking . . . . . . . 116

Part 10: Life Lessons . . . . . . . . 129

Course Quiz . . . . . . . . . 135

Quiz Answers . . . . . . . . . 140

POWERSPLASH PROJECT -1-

Please select a plan that is appropriate to your needs:

POWERSPLASH PROJECT -2-

Common Courtesy: Etiquette and Manners

Let’s start with the basics.

Seldom, when we face a situation, do we examine and evaluate the information or

POWERSPLASH PROJECT -3-

Which brings us to this course.

POWERSPLASH PROJECT -4-

● We will learn if common sense can be learned.

● We will learn the steps to making good decisions.

● We will learn the benefits of common sense.

POWERSPLASH PROJECT -5-

Three things can be said about common sense:

POWERSPLASH PROJECT -6-

Here are ways to develop and improve common sense:

POWERSPLASH PROJECT -7-

Ponder and Discuss #1

POWERSPLASH PROJECT -8-

COMMON SENSE HUMOR

Why do psychics have to ask you for your name?

If winning isn’t everything, why do they keep score?

POWERSPLASH PROJECT -9-

COMMON SENSE RIDDLES

Quotes are a wonderful way to inspire thinking.

Time given to thought is the greatest time saver of all.

Seek advice but use your own common sense.

The truth, in the long run, is only common sense clarified.

1. Today’s humans have larger brains than Neanderthals.

2. The world is a dangerous place and children need protection 24/7.

3. In a relationship, love is enough.

5. One human year equals seven dog years.

6. Fortune cookies are a Chinese tradition.

7. The capital of Australia is Sydney.

8. White people are a race.

9. Some people are just born with confidence.

10. You have to be successful to be confident.

COMMON SENSE TRIVIA

Here’s a special reminder. Take a look.

In every waking moment, you choose to be aware, unaware, or don’t care.

The quiz consists of 5 assorted multiple choice / true or false questions or

● We will explore what children need to learn before becoming

● We will learn the importance of having manners.

● We will observe techniques to resolve conflicts.

“The eyes see what the mind is prepared to comprehend.”

1: LOVE AND GUIDANCE

Becoming a parent is a choice. Becoming knowledgeable about raising children

2: BEHAVIOR AND MANNERS

1 Practice key social skills.