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An Attitude of Gratitude
By President Thomas S. Monson
Second Counselor in the First Presidency

On this Sabbath day our thoughts turn to Him who atoned for our sins, who showed us the way to live and
how to pray, and who demonstrated by His own actions the blessings of service. Born in a stable, cradled in
a manger, this Son of God, even Jesus Christ the Lord, yet beckons to each of us to follow Him.

In the book of Luke, chapter 17, we read:

“And it came to pass, as he went to Jerusalem, that he passed through the midst of Samaria and Galilee.

“And as he entered into a certain village, there met him ten men that were lepers, which stood afar off:

“And they lifted up their voices, and said, Jesus, Master, have mercy on us.

“And when he saw them, he said unto them, Go shew yourselves unto the priests. And it came to pass, that,
as they went, they were cleansed.

“And one of them, when he saw that he was healed, turned back, and with a loud voice glorified God,

“And fell down on his face at his feet, giving him thanks: and he was a Samaritan.

“And Jesus answering said, Were there not ten cleansed? but where are the nine?

“There are not found that returned to give glory to God, save this stranger.

“And he said unto him, Arise, go thy way: thy faith hath made thee whole.” (Luke 17:11–19.)

Through divine intervention, those who were lepers were spared from a cruel, lingering death and given a
new lease on life. The expressed gratitude by one merited the Master’s blessing, the ingratitude shown by
the nine, His disappointment.

Like the leprosy of yesteryear are the plagues of today. They linger; they debilitate; they destroy. They are to
be found everywhere. Their pervasiveness knows no boundaries. We know them as selfishness, greed,
indulgence, cruelty, and crime, to identify but a few. Surfeited with their poison, we tend to criticize, to
complain, to blame, and, slowly but surely, to abandon the positives and adopt the negatives of life.

A popular refrain from the 1940s captured the thought:

Accentuate the positive;

Eliminate the negative.
Latch on to the affirmative;
Don’t mess with Mr. In-between. 1

Good advice then. Good advice now.

This is a wonderful time to be living here on earth. Our opportunities are limitless. While there are some
things wrong in the world today, there are many things right, such as teachers who teach, ministers who
minister, marriages that make it, parents who sacrifice, and friends who help.

We can lift ourselves, and others as well, when we refuse to remain in the realm of negative thought and
cultivate within our hearts an attitude of gratitude. If ingratitude be numbered among the serious sins, then

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gratitude takes its place among the noblest of virtues.

A favorite hymn always lifts our spirits, kindles our faith, and inspires our thoughts:

When upon life’s billows you are tempest tossed,

When you are discouraged, thinking all is lost,
Count your many blessings; name them one by one,
And it will surprise you what the Lord has done. …

So amid the conflict, whether great or small,

Do not be discouraged; God is over all.
Count your many blessings; angels will attend,
Help and comfort give you to your journey’s end.

(Hymns, 1985, no. 241.)

Well could we reflect upon our lives as individuals. We will soon discover much to prompt our personal
gratitude.

First, there is gratitude for our mothers.

Mother, who willingly made that personal journey into the valley of the shadow of death to take us by the
hand and introduce us to birth—even to mortal life—deserves our undying gratitude. One writer summed
up our love for mother when he declared, “God could not be everywhere, and so He gave us mothers.”

While on the cruel cross of Calvary, suffering intense pain and anguish, Jesus “saw his mother, and the
disciple standing by, whom he loved, he saith unto his mother, Woman, behold thy son! Then saith he to the
disciple, Behold thy mother!” (John 19:26–27.) What a divine example of gratitude and love!

My own mother may not have read to me from the scriptures; rather, she taught me by her life and actions
what the “Good Book” contains. Care for the poor, the sick, the needy were everyday dramas never to be
forgotten.

Second, let us reflect gratitude for our fathers.

Father, like Mother, is ever willing to sacrifice his own comfort for that of his children. Daily he toils to
provide the necessities of life, never complaining, ever concerned for the well-being of his family. This love
for children, this desire to see them well and happy, is a constant in a time of change.

On occasion I have observed parents shopping to clothe a son about to enter missionary service. The new
suits are fitted, the new shoes are laced, and shirts, socks, and ties are bought in quantity. I met one father
who said to me, “Brother Monson, I want you to meet my son.” Pride popped his buttons; the cost of the
clothing emptied his wallet; love filled his heart. Tears filled my eyes when I noticed that his suit was old, his
shoes well worn; but he felt no deprivation. The glow on his face was a memory to cherish.

As I reflect on my own father, I remember he yielded his minuscule discretionary time to caring for a
crippled uncle, aged aunts, and his family. He served in the ward Sunday School presidency, always
preferring to work with the children. He, like the Master, loved children. I never heard from his lips one
word of criticism of another. He personified in his life the work ethic. I join you in an expression of
gratitude for our fathers.

Third, all of us remember with gratitude our teachers.

The teacher not only shapes the expectations and ambitions of pupils; the teacher also influences their
attitudes toward their future and themselves. If the teacher loves the students and has high expectations of
them, their self-confidence will grow, their capabilities will develop, and their future will be assured. A
citation to such a teacher could well read: “She created in her room an atmosphere where warmth and

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acceptance weave their magic spell; where growth and learning, the soaring of the imagination, and the
spirit of the young are assured.”

May I express public gratitude for three of my own teachers. I thank G. Homer Durham, my history
professor. He taught the truth, “The past is behind; learn from it.” He loved his subject; he loved his
students. The love in his classroom opened the windows of my mind, that learning might enter.

O. Preston Robinson, my professor of marketing, instilled in his students that the future is ahead and we are
to prepare for it. When he entered the classroom, his presence was like a welcome breath of fresh air. He
instilled a spirit of “You can do it.” His life reflected his teaching—that of friendly persuasion. He taught
truth. He inspired effort. He prompted love.

Then there was a Sunday School teacher—never to be forgotten, ever to be remembered. We met for the first
time on a Sunday morning. She accompanied the Sunday School president into the classroom and was
presented to us as a teacher who actually requested the opportunity to teach us. We learned that she had
been a missionary and loved young people. Her name was Lucy Gertsch. She was beautiful, soft-spoken,
and interested in us. She asked each class member to introduce himself or herself, and then she asked
questions that gave her an understanding and an insight into the background of each boy, each girl. She told
us of her childhood in Midway, Utah; and as she described that beautiful valley, she made its beauty live,
and we desired to visit the green fields she loved so much. She never raised her voice. Somehow rudeness
and boisterousness were incompatible with the beauty of her lessons. She taught us that the present is here
and that we must live in it. She made the scriptures actually come to life. We became personally acquainted
with Samuel, David, Jacob, Nephi, and the Lord Jesus Christ. Our gospel scholarship grew. Our deportment
improved. Our love for Lucy Gertsch knew no bounds.

We undertook a project to save nickels and dimes for what was to be a gigantic party. Sister Gertsch kept a
careful record of our progress. As boys and girls with typical appetites, we converted in our minds the
monetary totals to cakes, cookies, pies, and ice cream. This was to be a glorious occasion—the biggest party
ever. Never before had any of our teachers even suggested a social event like this one was going to be.

The summer months faded into autumn; autumn turned to winter. Our party goal had been achieved. The
class had grown. A good spirit prevailed.

None of us will forget that gray morning in January when our beloved teacher announced to us that the
mother of one of our classmates had passed away. We thought of our own mothers and how much they
meant to us. We felt sorrow for Billy Devenport in his great loss.

The lesson that Sunday was from the book of Acts, chapter 20, verse 35: “Remember the words of the Lord
Jesus, how he said, It is more blessed to give than to receive.” [Acts 20:35] At the conclusion of the
presentation of a well-prepared lesson, Lucy Gertsch commented on the economic situation of Billy’s family.
These were depression times; money was scarce. With a twinkle in her eyes, she asked, “How would you
like to follow this teaching of the Lord? How would you feel about taking your party fund and, as a class,
giving it to the Devenports as an expression of our love?” The decision was unanimous. We counted very
carefully each penny and placed the total sum in a large envelope.

Ever shall I remember the tiny band walking those three city blocks, entering Billy’s home, greeting him, his
brother, sisters, and father. Noticeably absent was his mother. Always I shall treasure the tears which
glistened in the eyes of each one present as the white envelope containing our precious party fund passed
from the delicate hand of our teacher to the needy hand of a grief-stricken father. We fairly skipped our way
back to the chapel. Our hearts were lighter than they had ever been, our joy more full, our understanding
more profound. This simple act of kindness welded us together as one. We learned through our own
experience that indeed it is more blessed to give than to receive.

The years have flown. The old chapel is gone, a victim of industrialization. The boys and girls who learned,
who laughed, who grew under the direction of that inspired teacher of truth have never forgotten her love
or her lessons.

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Even today when we sing that old favorite—

Thanks for the Sabbath School. Hail to the day

When evil and error are fleeing away.
Thanks for our teachers who labor with care
That we in the light of the gospel may share.

(Hymns, 1985, no. 278.)

—we think of Lucy Gertsch, our Sunday School teacher, for we loved Lucy, and Lucy loved us.

Let us ever have an attitude of gratitude for our teachers.

Fourth, let us have gratitude for our friends. Our most cherished friend is our partner in marriage. This old
world would be so much better off today if kindness and deference were daily a reflection of our gratitude
for wife, for husband.

The Lord spoke the word friend almost with a reverence. He said, “Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I
command you.” (John 15:14.)

True friends put up with our idiosyncrasies. They have a profound influence in our lives.

Oscar Benson, a Scouter of renown, had a hobby of interviewing men on death row in various prisons
throughout the country. He once reported that 125 of these men had said they had never known a decent
man.

In the depths of World War II, I experienced an expression of true friendship. Jack Hepworth and I were
teenagers. We had grown up in the same neighborhood. One afternoon I saw Jack running down the
sidewalk toward me. When we met, I saw that there were tears in his eyes. In a voice choked with emotion,
he blurted out the words, “Tom, my brother Joe, who is in the Navy Air Corps, has been killed in a fiery
plane crash!” We embraced. We wept. We sorrowed. I felt highly complimented that instinctively Jack, my
friend, felt the urgency to share with me his grief. We can all be grateful for such friends.

Fifth, may we acknowledge gratitude for our country—the land of our birth.

When we ponder that vast throng who have died honorably defending home and hearth, we contemplate
those immortal words, “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends”
(John 15:13). The feelings of heartfelt gratitude for the supreme sacrifice made by so many cannot be
confined to a Memorial Day, a military parade, or a decorated grave.

At the famed Theatre Royal, situated on Drury Lane in London, England, is a beautifully framed plaque
containing words which touch my very soul and prompt feelings of deep gratitude:

1914–1918
Actors, musicians, writers and workers for the stage who have given their lives for their country. Honour to the
immortal dead, that great … company of shining souls who gave their youth that the world might grow old in
peace. Their name liveth forever more. These nobly played their parts, these heard the call for God and King
and home. They gave their all.
Since ye who pass in quest of happy hours
Behold the price at which those hours were bought,
Strew here the fragrance of memorial flowers,
The silent tribute of a grateful thought. 2

Sixth and finally—even supremely—let us reflect gratitude for our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. His glorious
gospel provides answers to life’s greatest questions: Where did we come from? Why are we here? Where
does my spirit go when I die? His called missionaries bring to those who live in darkness the light of divine
truth:

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Go, ye messengers of glory;

Run, ye legates of the skies.
Go and tell the pleasing story
That a glorious angel flies,
Great and mighty, great and mighty,
With a message from the skies.

(Hymns, 1985, no. 262.)

He taught us how to pray. He taught us how to live. He taught us how to die. His life is a legacy of love. The
sick He healed; the downtrodden He lifted; the sinner He saved.

Only He stood alone. Some Apostles doubted; one betrayed Him. The Roman soldiers pierced His side. The
angry mob took His life. There yet rings from Golgotha’s hill His compassionate words, “Father, forgive
them; for they know not what they do.” (Luke 23:34.)

Earlier, perhaps perceiving the culmination of His earthly mission, He spoke the lament, “Foxes have holes,
and birds of the air have nests; but the Son of man hath not where to lay his head.” (Luke 9:58.) “No room in
the inn” was not a singular expression of rejection—just the first. Yet He invites you and me to host Him.
“Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him,
and will sup with him, and he with me.” (Rev. 3:20.)

Who was this Man of sorrows, acquainted with grief? Who is this King of glory, this Lord of hosts? He is
our Master. He is our Savior. He is the Son of God. He is the author of our salvation. He beckons, “Follow
me.” (Matt. 4:19.) He instructs, “Go, and do thou likewise.” (Luke 10:37.) He pleads, “Keep my
commandments.” (John 14:15.)

Let us follow Him. Let us emulate His example. Let us obey His word. By so doing, we give to Him the
divine gift of gratitude.

My sincere prayer is that we may, in our individual lives, reflect that marvelous virtue: an attitude of
gratitude. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
Notes
1. “Ac-cen-tu-ate the Positive,” lyrics by Johnny Mercer, ASCAP, 1945.

2. Louise N. Parter.

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