Somatic Interventions With Children
Somatic Interventions With Children
Somatic Interventions With Children
Abstract
In this article the authors briefly introduce the method of Pethö Sándor, MD, “Calatonia and Subtle
Touch”, which has been utilized in Brazil for over 40 years by a large community of body
psychotherapists. An introduction to the particularities of working with children and adolescents
within this method is discussed. Maria Irene Crespo Gonçalves and Maria Amélia Pereira report their
experience with Subtle Touch, Calatonia and other relaxation techniques, with minor offenders,
abandoned and abused children and pre-school children, in a school setting.
Keywords
Calatonia – Children – Jung – Body Psychotherapy – Petho Sandor
Introduction
Anita J Ribeiro and Ana G Rios
"If we are to reach real peace in this world...we shall have
to begin with children"
– Mahatma Gandhi
feet or scalp, telling stories at the same time, as well as work their hands while
helping to wash them. We can work hand tonus and make it conscious by
molding clay, making cakes, threading small beads, embroidering, among many
other activities, also asking them to pay attention to existing tensions in their
shoulders and other parts of the body.
Body limits are being tested all the time, when trying to achieve maximum
stretching, strength, and speed possible. Competitions — such as arm wrestling,
tug of war, track and outdoor games, swinging, activities involving tree or wall
climbing — where one experiences various kinds of body-space adjustments will
allow children to develop an understanding of their body outlines (the images we
have of our own bodies) improving their effectiveness. More important than
discovering the body's effectiveness as a tool is that children through pleasurable
experiences establish positive affectionate relations with their own bodies — also
known as body-esteem – the precursor of self-esteem in its most tender form.
During games using balls, darts, or bow and arrows, for example, children
will pay attention to their posture when we show them — by talking, touching,
imitating, or drawing — how it can be improved for greater success in the chosen
activity. Some children like dancing, others try learning to walk on stilts, or
imitating animal moves. Through the integration of the body in each session,
children will slowly become more receptive to specific bodywork techniques.
Particularly for adolescents, group routines are very well accepted, as they
‘normalize’ the use of bodywork and body awareness (instead of self-
consciousness) among peers as part of age appropriate routines. In addition,
individual techniques utilized in Subtle Touch such as Calatonia, fractional
decompression and movement with small and larger joints are instrumental to
dissolve tensions, to provide containment and mobilization of stagnant energy.
These interventions, which induce psychophysical reorganization, can help
prevent and treat adolescents’ maladaptive behaviors, such as eating disorders,
substance abuse, self-harming behaviors, etc. One of the functions of maladaptive
behaviors can be understood as faulty attempts to control anxiety, emotional pain
and discomfort.
Children and adolescents with a history of trauma, physical and/or sexual
abuses come to psychotherapy with negative feelings about the habitual repertoire
of physical affection. Many times, those who abused them or allowed abuse also
tucked them in, hugged, kissed and cuddled. Therefore, they need to recover the
freedom of experiencing their body without being pressured for displays of
affection, which many times occur in therapy, as part of a normal nurturing
attitude toward children. As normal affection has been contaminated by previous
experience of abuse, mixed feelings emerge even in positive and restorative
relationships with appropriate caretakers. Because Subtle Touch interventions,
while being soothing and nurturing, do not suggest a context of personal affection,
they give the children an opportunity to positively experience their body, to regain
control of interactions and to restore a sense of well-being without being
overwhelmed by mixed feelings. Then, from a regained sovereignty over their
sacred territory, the display of affection will reemerge spontaneously, as it
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becomes the child’s choice to initiate it from a body that now feels validated and
respected.
Here are presented the works of a body psychotherapist with
institutionalized children (orphanage) and of a psychopedagogue with pre-school
children in a school setting.
IN SEARCH OF HAPPINESS
Bodywork with Institutionalized Children and Children in Residential
Programs:
How Bodywork Can Contribute Toward the Transformation of
Residual Violence and Abandonment into Hope and Connectedness
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Fundação Estadual do Bem-Estar do Menor (FEBEM) – Foundation for the
Wellbeing of Minors
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educators as eliciting inappropriate sexual behaviors, and within the FEBEM the
“taboo of touch” prevailed. In the drawings (number 1 and 2) of one of the boys
we verified that in drawing number 2 - drawn after a month of bodywork - a better
distribution of psyche energy and sexual libido became evident. With bodywork
comes a general awareness of all the parts of the body, decreasing thereby the
fixation on the pelvic area and its sexual contents.
Drawing 1
Note in drawing number 2, the better definition of arms and legs, the
“appearance” of knees, and the new attitude of positive contact between male and
female figures, in comparison with previous lack of contact in drawing number 1,
where the male figure “stalks” behind the female figure, almost in a “predator”
attitude.
With the first group, a curious incident occurred, which highlighted some of
the implications of bodywork with children and adolescents.
Usually the boys were accompanied by a monitor when they walked from
their unit to the building where the activities took place. One day, the monitor did
not show up and the therapists were alone with the children. After finishing the
group activity, while chaperoning them back to their unit, one of the boys
attempted to escape. Due to the high security system, escaping would be
impossible. Nevertheless, the other boys of the group ran after the “fugitive” and
brought him back to the therapists. As we walked back to their unit, one of the
oldest boys said to the “fugitive”:
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Drawing 2
“You can’t do that; the “auntie” (therapist) will have problems because of
you. Have you thought about it? She can lose her job. How is she going to
support her family, then?”
The older child demonstrated an ability to empathize and relate to
somebody else’s life situation, which is only possible when there is attachment
and bonding. In addition, he was able to move to an age appropriate stage of
moral development, leaving behind a non-committal attitude. The incident was
considered a spontaneous validation of the work.
The project at FEBEM lasted three years, and during that period at FEBEM
there was an opportunity to run several ‘body awareness’ groups in different units.
The receptivity of the children and adolescents for bodywork always amazed us,
as did the strong energy that emanated from those institutionalized children. That
energy, if not made conscious and reoriented toward creativity and self-
realization, would certainly lead to self-destruction, as there was no traditional
outlet for their energy. Those children did not have a family, a neighborhood, a
school, friends, pets, etc., and their energy was emotionally ‘untamed’ and unlived
due to lack of stable relationships with others.
After the positive experience with children at FEBEM, I decided to find
other agencies that had a more stable commitment to children in foster care.
In 1996, I contacted the Casa Jesus Amor e Caridade (Jesus’ House of
Love and Charity), also known as Larzinho (Little Home), founded in 1995 by a
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group who adopted the structure of a residential program (group home), closer to a
family model.
The Larzinho housed fifteen children of both genders, referred by the court
system due to abuse or abandonment. The children were assigned to the program
prior to four years of age, remaining in the program until they were returned to
their families, adopted, or able to be independent (adults).
I volunteered time at the Larzinho and started by working with two girls
who presented emotional and psychomotor disturbances. They had been
previously hospitalized due to abuse by their biological mother. One girl was
eighteen months, and presented with convulsions, sleep disturbance, irritation and
crying spells. The other girl was two and a half years, and was hospitalized for
malnutrition, anemia, and eye problems due to malnutrition. Although she had
had two eye surgeries, she lost sight in her right eye. I applied several bodywork
techniques to the girls, including the Shantala (Leboyer, 1976), vibration of the
spine and movements to the joints. When they were asleep, I applied fractional
decompression - a subtle touch technique that covers the whole body - and sang
lullabies to them. After the first four sessions, there was a decrease in sleep
disturbance and improved mood; the two girls were noticeably happier and more
engaging.
After the marked improvement of the children in such a short time frame,
the bodywork gained interest and support from both caretakers and children. The
children sought and preferred the most delicate touch, those made with feathers or
water drops. They spread water gently, either by blowing air softly or using a
small paintbrush, usually around the bellybutton. There has never been any sexual
or inappropriate touching since the children learned the gentle contact through
bodywork.
Emerson, a four-year-old boy with a genetic skin disorder epidermolysis
bullosa, characterized by devastating blistering of the skin, displayed great interest
in bodywork with water drops, and he spread the drops on his body. Through this
simple technique, Emerson began to cry less during bathing time, a painful
moment for him, and started to bathe on his own. The bodywork and the
homeopathic treatment contributed immensely to Emerson’s recovery.
Consequently, he achieved an autonomy that the illness had taken, as Emerson
had had to depend heavily on adults.
Thus, through different modalities of touch (Delmanto, 1997) – such as
vibration on the spine, blowing or touching with feathers – the children integrated
the bodywork into their routine. The bodywork and a nurturing attitude dissolved
old residues of abandonment and helped to restore the positive mother archetype,
facilitating appropriate psycho-affective and motor developments.
In addition, the caretakers showed interest in learning the bodywork
techniques, and they have bi-weekly meetings for training, supervision, and case
discussion. They also receive and experience the bodywork in a group. This
approach has contributed to the integration and harmony of the staff with the
philosophy of the work done with the children.
grow up to there.” He was pointing to a level about half the height of the pine tree.
We were silent again.
After a while, almost towards the end of the touch session, he started to
speak again.
“Did you know that everybody thinks that God is bigger than everything?
But he isn’t,” he affirmed.
Intrigued, I asked, “Who is bigger than God?”
“Life! Life is bigger than God. Life is everything. Everything is life. I
think life is God.”
Once more, silence between us, this time as immense as his words.
I finished the movements with his feet. He calmly rose and made his way
toward more play with his peers.
Will To Live
“Now I am not scared. I only had it in my mom’s tummy. I did not want to
die inside my mom’s tummy. It would be bad. I think my mom knew I did not
want to die with her. I wanted to live. Now, I have two moms, one who lives in
heaven and one who lives on earth.”
She stood up from my lap and called the other children to play “dead/alive”,
a game she had been playing daily for the past two weeks. (This child was born
prematurely through C-section due to her biological mother’s terminal illness
during pregnancy. Her mother died shortly after the child’s birth.)
Stories like those reported above substantiate evidence that Subtle Touch
and Calatonia can be used in many settings, such as nurseries, daycare, hospitals,
and within the daily routine of families, as long as the appropriate training is
given, and the proper ethical attitude of respect and acknowledgment of the
child’s need is developed. *
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*
The pictures taken during the bodywork with children suggest the essence and meaning of the
touch. Those pictures belong to our collection of pictures about “Being a Child”.
Biography
Maria Irene Gonçalves, Psy, has been working with Subtle Touch Method since 1980. She is also a
teacher of circular and Derviche dances. She has pioneered bodywork with institutionalized children in
São Paulo, and supervises this work with psychology students and staff at institutions.
irenecgoncalves@bol.com.br
Maria Amelia Pereira, B.A.Ed., is a psychopedagogue who maintains a preschool for children aged 2
½ to 7, in Carapicuiba (periphery of São Paulo), Brazil. Peo, as she is known by the children, has
studied Subtle Touch with Dr. Pethö Sándor and has been using Dr. Sandor’s method with children for
23 years. She has documented it extensively, both in video and written work. Peo has presented her
work in Canada, Australia and Japan, and is an ambassador for UNICEF in Brazil.
casaredonda@terra.com.br
Anita Ribeiro, M.S., LMHC, a member of USABP since 2000, has been a body psychotherapist for 22
years, treating adults, adolescents and children with the non-invasive method Calatonia and Subtle
Touch, a merge of gentle interventions and Jungian theory. She has learned the method in Brazil with
Pethö Sándor, MD, who developed his work while treating poly-traumatized patients in the Red Cross
refugee camps, during WW II. anitaribeiro@calatonia.net
Ana Maria Galrão Rios, Psy, utilizes Subtle Touch and Calatonia in private practice with adults and
children, particularly children with psychosomatic disorders. She has successfully treated children with
asthma, heart problems, enuresis, obesity, speech problems, ADD, seizures, etc. She supervises
psychotherapists and trainees in the Subtle Touch method, at the Centro de Integração e
Desenvolvimento (CID, Center for Integration and Development) in São Paulo, Brazil.
anamariagrios@uol.com.br