The document discusses grooming, which is a process by which a person prepares a child for abuse. It describes the stages of grooming including friendship forming, relationship forming, risk assessment, exclusivity, and sexual enactment. It provides details about each stage and also discusses how to identify cyber grooming and potential solutions.
The document discusses grooming, which is a process by which a person prepares a child for abuse. It describes the stages of grooming including friendship forming, relationship forming, risk assessment, exclusivity, and sexual enactment. It provides details about each stage and also discusses how to identify cyber grooming and potential solutions.
The document discusses grooming, which is a process by which a person prepares a child for abuse. It describes the stages of grooming including friendship forming, relationship forming, risk assessment, exclusivity, and sexual enactment. It provides details about each stage and also discusses how to identify cyber grooming and potential solutions.
The document discusses grooming, which is a process by which a person prepares a child for abuse. It describes the stages of grooming including friendship forming, relationship forming, risk assessment, exclusivity, and sexual enactment. It provides details about each stage and also discusses how to identify cyber grooming and potential solutions.
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Grooming
What is grooming? Craven, Brown , Gilchrist [2006]
“A process by which a person prepares a child, significant
adults and the environment for the abuse of this child. Specific goals include gaining access to the child, getting their compliance and maintaining the child’s secrecy to avoid disclosure.” What is grooming? Craven, Brown , Gilchrist [2006]
• 1 in 5 victims of online grooming are aged 11 and under
• More than 70 percent of reported grooming took place on the main social media networks • Facebook, • Instagram, • WhatsApp and • Snapchat. Stages of Grooming • Friendship Forming • Relationship Forming • Risk Assessment (Whereby The Offender Attempts To Assess The Likelihood Of Detection) • Exclusivity (Through Intensified Conversation, A Sense Of Mutual Respect Is Established, With An Emphasis On Trust And Secrecy), • Sexual And Fantasy Enactment. Friendship Forming Stage
How does it happen?
• Starts with one harmless message on social media • Older person identifies minor’s: a. Weaknesses b. Neediness c. Lack of supervision What Happens?
• Going to places you know people like and pick someone.
• Mutual friend to clue in on, for instant trust. • Clue in on listed interests Relationship Forming Stage • Prey on teen’s desire for romance, adventure, and sexual information • Develop trust and secrecy: manipulate child by listening to and sympathizing with child’s problems and insecurities • Affirm feelings and choices of child Risk Assessment • Drive a wedge between the child and his or her parents and friends • Flatter and compliment the child excessively, sends gifts, and invests time, money, and energy to groom child • Develop an online relationship that is romantic, controlling, and upon which the child becomes dependent Exclusivity • Exploit natural sexual curiosities of child • Ease inhibitions by gradually introducing sex into conversations or exposing them to pornography Sexual And Fantasy Enactment • Make promises of an exciting, stress-free life, tailored to the youth’s desire • Make threats, and often will use child pornography featuring their victims to blackmail them into silence How to Identify Cyber Grooming. The NSPCC list some of the things that should ring alarm bells include:
• Secretive behaviour about what they are doing online
• Having older boyfriends or girlfriends • Going to unusual places to meet up with friends • They suddenly have new things like clothes or phones which they can’t explain • They have access to drugs and alcohol • Inappropriate sexual behaviour for their age • They may become more withdrawn, anxious, depressed or aggressive • Alternatively they can become more clingy, have problems sleeping and eating or can wet the bed Solutions to Cyber grooming 1. Sexual Grooming Legislation 2. As soon as your child starts using social media make sure that they understand who they should be contacting and who they shouldn’t 3. Make sure they understand that social media is for connecting with people they already know in the real world 4. Teach your children that people they speak to online may not be honest 5. Make sure you know which social media sites your child has a profile on and join them yourself so you understand how they work 6. Try not to be overly strict as a total ban may push them to hide their online profiles from you 7. Make sure you know who your child is speaking to and if you have any concerns ask to see the messages they are sending, always explain why you are doing this so as to maintain trust between you 8. Show your child that they can come to you if they have any concerns 9. calls grow for social media companies verify users identities
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