Skill With People
Skill With People
Skill With People
PEOPLE
Les Giblin
Human Insights : Understanding and
Retention
#1 Telling Alone
• After 3 Hours : 70%
• Days Later : 10%
#2 Showing Alone
• After 3 Hours : 72%
• Days Later : 29%
Find out what people WANT : Watch and Observe when they talk. Ask
Questions. Stick to Their subject and Don’t Interrupt.
Tell people when you Do not tell them to their Admit when you’re
agree with them. face that you disagree wrong and refrain from
unless necessary arguing.
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Skillfully : Listen and Convince
Find Out What Relate Success Cite facts and Speak through third
People Want Stories! statistics! persons. Quote People!
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Skillfully : Help Make Up Their
Mind
Ask Yes questions to prepare
Give them a Reason to YES them
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Skillfully : Critique
People
THREE:
ONE: FOUR:
TWO: Make it
Criticism should Criticize just
Preface with a impersonal –
be made in once & then
kind word criticize the act,
absolute privacy supply a solution
not the person
FIVE: SIX:
Ask for Finish the
cooperation, criticism on a
don’t demand it friendly note
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Gratitude and Good Impressions
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“If you are not
using your smile,
you're like
someone with a
million dollars in
the bank and no
checkbook”.
- Les Giblin
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