Skill With People

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SKILL WITH

PEOPLE
Les Giblin
Human Insights : Understanding and
Retention

#1 Telling Alone
• After 3 Hours : 70%
• Days Later : 10%

#2 Showing Alone
• After 3 Hours : 72%
• Days Later : 29%

#3 Telling & Showing


• After 3 Hours : 85%
• Days Later : 65%
 People are interested in THEMSELVES : Conversation topics of “You” and
“Your”

 Desire to feel IMPORTANT and RECOGNISED : Listen; pause before


answering. Acknowledge, Applaud and Compliment

 Find out what people WANT : Watch and Observe when they talk. Ask
Questions. Stick to Their subject and Don’t Interrupt.

Understanding Human Nature


The Art of Being
Agreeable

Tell people when you Do not tell them to their Admit when you’re
agree with them. face that you disagree wrong and refrain from
unless necessary arguing.
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Skillfully : Listen and Convince

Find Out What Relate Success Cite facts and Speak through third
People Want Stories! statistics! persons. Quote People!

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Skillfully : Help Make Up Their
Mind
 Ask Yes questions to prepare
 Give them a Reason to YES them

 A choice between Yes & Yes  Expect people to say Yes


Be generous. Be
sincere. Praise the
Act, not the
person.
Skillfully : Praise
People Develop the
habit. Say one
kind thing to
someone
everyday.

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Skillfully : Critique
People

THREE:
ONE: FOUR:
TWO: Make it
Criticism should Criticize just
Preface with a impersonal –
be made in once & then
kind word criticize the act,
absolute privacy supply a solution
not the person

FIVE: SIX:
Ask for Finish the
cooperation, criticism on a
don’t demand it friendly note

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Gratitude and Good Impressions

 Say your Thank You’s Clearly and Distinctly.


 Work at showing your thanks. Appreciate the not so obvious.
 Anybody worth talking to is worth looking at. Look at the person and use their Name often.
 Show Enthusiasm and Sincerity to make a good impression.
 Don’t pull people down to make yourself look good.

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“If you are not
using your smile,
you're like
someone with a
million dollars in
the bank and no
checkbook”.
- Les Giblin

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