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Building Trust through Honest

Connections: Nurturing Integrity


in Interpersonal Relationships
VE: Purity in Words and Actions in Interpersonal Relations
CL: Morality: Conscience, truth, and moral law; Discussing
contemporary moral issues
Values to be Developed: Honesty
AT THE END OF THE LESSON,
STUDENTS SHOULD BE ABLE TO SAY
“I CAN.”
Recognize examples of honesty in daily interactions.
Value the importance of honesty in building trust.
Show honesty in personal and school activities.
Recognize the role of conscience in making honest decisions.
Understand the importance of truth and moral law in daily life.
Apply moral reasoning to contemporary issues.
ESSENTIAL QUESTIONS:

How can I remain honest despite the many


challenging situations around me?
TWO TRUTHS AND A LIE

This game encourages participants to be honest while also testing


their ability to detect honesty in others.
Instructions:
1. Students will take turns sharing three statements about
themselves, two of which are true and one of which is false.
2. The rest of the students must guess which statement is a lie.
3. You may use the space provided below to write your statements.
4. Answer the reflection questions that follow.
TWO TRUTHS AND A LIE

2 Truths about Me:


1.
2.
1 Lie about Me:
1.
TWO TRUTHS AND A LIE

Reflection Questions:
1. How did you feel while formulating a lie about
yourself?
2. Which do you find easier? Telling the truth or
formulating a lie? Why?
HONESTY CIRCLE

Every day of our lives, we make decisions, big and


small. From the moment we wake up, we will decide
whether we get up immediately or spend a few more
minutes in bed. During recess time, we deliberate over
our food choices. As the day progresses, we are faced
with more and more opportunities for decision-making.
HONESTY CIRCLE

It is said that we make thousands of decisions each day;


some are easy, and some are challenging to make. For
your next activity, you are going to recall an instance
wherein you find decision-making difficult. You may also
share with your groupmates how you came up with your
decision. You may use the guide questions below to
facilitate your group sharing.
HONESTY CIRCLE

1. Was there ever a time when you had to make a


difficult decision? When was it?
2. What factors contributed to your decision-
making process? Are there specific guidelines
that you followed?
Honesty is a fundamental value that we must live out. It
involves telling the truth always and, in all ways, without
exaggerating or omitting details. When you practice
honesty in all your actions, people will trust you. Trust is an
essential ingredient in building a healthy relationship, both
personally and professionally. Being perceived as someone
trustworthy will lead people to have confidence in you and
your commitments and promises. This will establish your
integrity. Being known as a person with integrity will help
nurture your relationship with the people around you.
Benjamin Franklin said, “Honesty is the best Policy.”,
we are always being encouraged to be truthful in both
our words and deeds. However, there may be
situations where we find it hard to tell the truth. There
may be times when we say lies to save ourselves from
suffering and punishment. Are these actions
acceptable? What does the bible have to say about
honesty?
The eighth commandment says: “You shall not bear
false witness against your neighbors.” The eighth
commandment forbids misrepresenting the truth in our
relations with others. This moral prescription flows from
the vocation of the holy people to bear witness to their
God, who is the truth and wills the truth. Offenses
against the truth express by word or deed a refusal to
commit oneself to moral uprightness: they are
fundamental infidelities to God, and, in this sense, they
undermine the foundations of the covenant.
The Old Testament attests that God is the source of all
truth. His Word is truth. His Law is truth. His
“faithfulness endures to all generations.” Since God
is “true,” the members of his people are called to live in
the truth.
The bible is keen on reminding us to always be truthful in our
dealings. But how do we make sure that we are siding with the
truth and that we are making an ‘honest’ decision? This is where
a significant factor plays its part: conscience – our moral
compass. “Deep within his conscience man discovers a law
which he has not laid upon himself but which he must obey. Its
voice, ever calling him to love and to do what is good and to
avoid evil, sounds in his heart at the right moment... For man has
in his heart a law inscribed by God... His conscience is man’s
most secret core and his sanctuary. There he is alone with God
whose voice echoes in his depths.” Conscience is often
considered the source of moral authority within individuals.
According to the Catechism of the Catholic Church, the
morality of human acts depends on the following:
• the object chosen;
• the end in view or the intention;
• the circumstances of the action.

The object, the intention, and the circumstances make


up the “sources,” or constitutive elements, of the
morality of human acts.
The object chosen is a good toward which the will
deliberately directs itself. It is a matter of a human act.
The object chosen morally specifies the act of the will
insofar as reason recognizes and judges it to be or not
to be in conformity with the true good. Objective norms
of morality express the rational order of good and evil,
attested to by conscience.
The intention is a movement of the will toward the
end: it is concerned with the goal of the activity. It aims
to anticipate the good outcomes of the action
undertaken. The intention is not limited to directing
individual actions but can guide several actions toward
the same purpose; it can orient one’s whole life toward
its ultimate end.
A good intention does not make behavior that is
intrinsically disordered, such as lying and calumny,
good or just the end doesn’t justify the means.
The circumstances, including the consequences, are
secondary elements of a moral act. They contribute to
increasing or diminishing the moral goodness or evil of
human acts. They can also reduce or increase the
agent’s responsibility. Circumstances of themselves
cannot change the moral quality of acts themselves;
they can make neither good nor right an action that is
in itself evil.
By listening to our conscience and aligning our
decisions with honesty and integrity, we can navigate
life’s challenges with clarity, authenticity, and moral
responsibility.
HOW CAN I REMAIN HONEST DESPITE THE
MANY CHALLENGING SITUATIONS AROUND ME?

You can exhibit honesty in the midst of the many challenging situations
around you by being mindful, examining your conscience, and keeping in
mind the Lord’s Commandments.
Being honest may not always be easy, but it sure does make our lives
easier. We do not have to make up stories, and we do not have to be afraid
of building relationships with other people because we have nothing to
hide. No skeleton in the closet needs to be constantly protected. We will be
able to live more confidently and authentically without worrying, and we will
be at peace knowing that we are not hiding anything.
EXPLORING INTEGRITY: A
REFLECTIVE JOURNEY ON HONESTY”
Create a reflective journal entry discussing a
personal experience where honesty was
challenged and how moral reasoning guided your
decision-making process.
PRAYER:

“God our Father, guide us to live with honesty and


integrity, following Your truth and moral law in our
words and actions. May we embrace honesty in our
relationships and decisions, reflecting Your love and
justice. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.”

St. Thomas More, Pray for us.

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