vai tomar no cu elon musk
honestly some of y’all want a significant other so badly and can’t understand why you can’t find one, but have no sense of boundaries or healthy expectations of what a relationship is like. in a committed long-term partnership you get left on read, you wait for texts back, and you can forget about each other when you’re busy. sometimes you fall asleep without saying goodnight and sometimes you’re too caught up to text each other before 6pm. that’s how it is. thinking that you can’t be deeply, beautifully in love and still wait more than “1.75 hours” for a text back is such an unhealthy and unreasonable expectation of what love is, and you shouldn’t be in a relationship if you can’t allow the other person to exist on their own apart from you. if you’re projecting your anxieties and insecurities onto a partner who doesn’t even exist yet, then you aren’t ready for one.
Quando diz que parou de escrever e aprendeu a enfrentar seus sentimentos como adulta. Esquece que o papel que te compreende não tem idade. Escrever é assinar com a alma teu sentimento no papel. Vc é adulta agora e infelizmente não aprendeu nada.
essa ask faz mto tempo mas vc certo (a)
not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you. not to me. not if it’s you.
look: the right people will get it. the right people will see you and appreciate you for the person that you are. the right people won’t require you to dilute, censor, or edit yourself in order to be worthy of their time and affection. you don’t need to waste your time on people who are committed to misunderstanding you
A lot of people ask me what my biggest fear is, or what scares me most. And I know they expect an answer like heights, or closed spaces, or people dressed like animals, but how do I tell them that when I was 17 I took a class called Relationships For Life and I learned that most people fall out of love for the same reasons they fell in it. That their lover’s once endearing stubbornness has now become refusal to compromise and their one track mind is now immaturity and their bad habits that you once adored is now money down the drain. Their spontaneity becomes reckless and irresponsible and their feet up on your dash is no longer sexy, just another distraction in your busy life. Nothing saddens and scares me like the thought that I can become ugly to someone who once thought all the stars were in my eyes.
Everytime I read this it fucks me up more.