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heartthrobsuicide-remade-deacti

Okay, but I’m being 1,000% serious now. Survivors and victims don’t give a fuck if their abuser changed. They really don’t care. It does not change what the abuser did. No matter what you think, survivors and victims are still allowed to hate their abusers, whether or not the abuser has “changed”. Even if the abuser has mental illnesses. 

do you ever just get mad bc you’re spending your only teenage years feeling like you want to jump off a cliff while others are having the time of their lives, being in love, being good at things and you’re just kind of there

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iswearimnotnaked-deactivated201

see honestly i am the easiest person to impress because literally no one has ever really bought me flowers or taken me dancing or on a picnic or any of that romantic junk and i would just melt at any of it

A little girl and her mom were looking at me at the coffee shop this morning and I heard her mom say “go on, it’s ok!” and the little girl shuffled up to me and said “ex-cuse me please, do you have to put on your tattoos by yourself every DAY or does your mom help you?” I am d y i n g

I genuinely don’t understand the idea that how outsiders feel about someone’s wrongdoing should be entirely determined by how the person they wronged feels.

Like. If someone fucked with my best friend, and my friends says it’s cool, they forgive that person, that does not mean I’m cool with that person. I won’t mention it if that bothers my friend, but please, I’ll still be holding that grudge when some necromancer reanimates my bones.

If someone committed a literal, horrible crime, the victims or victims’ families saying “I forgive x” does not mean other people aren’t rightly going to think that person is a fucking monster. “Why do you still have a problem with them, when the victim wants everyone to give them a second chance?” Yeah, victims often do, but that does not negate what that person did. It doesn’t mean most people are going to forget or ignore the information they have about someone’s past and character, or that they should

There are ways to respect the feelings of wronged parties without going to “nobody is allowed to think or feel anything if they’re not personally involved.”

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