Help Amber (me) & Her (my) Daughter Keep Their Home and Rebuild Their Future
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A Difficult Year, A Plea for Support
Thank you for taking the time to read my story. The fact that you’re here means you care, and for that, I am truly grateful. Any help—whether it’s a donation or simply sharing this campaign—will bring me and my daughter one step closer to stability.
2024 has been the hardest year of my life. It has been filled with unexpected health struggles, financial hardship, and an overwhelming sense of uncertainty. I have always been strong and independent, but today, I find myself in a situation where I have no choice but to ask for help.
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At the start of the year, I developed a painful hernia, making it difficult to work. This came right after my divorce, forcing me to rent a house that, while expensive, was manageable with my salary at the time.
In December 2023, I was relieved when my employment contract was extended—but only for six months. I knew this wasn’t a stable situation, but I remained hopeful. Then, on June 25, 2024, I received devastating news: my contract would not be renewed. Not because of my performance, but because the previous manager, who had held my role for 18 years, decided to return.
I was suddenly unemployed, with no income and rising expenses. The stress of this uncertainty was unbearable.
Health Setbacks & Financial Crisis
Just three days later, on June 28, my body gave in to the stress. I suffered a cerebral infarction (a type of stroke) that left me physically weakened and unable to function properly. The anxiety about my financial future only made things worse.
I had some savings, which helped cover my expenses until October. But every month, my living costs exceeded my welfare benefits by €858. As my savings disappeared, my stress grew.
Then, on September 6, another disaster struck—I was in a severe car accident. I blacked out due to extreme stress, causing me to lose my car and my driver’s license.
I knew I needed a cheaper home, but the Netherlands’ housing market is extremely competitive. I contacted every government agency I could think of, but no one could offer assistance.
Since July, I have applied for 358 jobs. Out of all those applications, only a few employers even responded, and all were rejection letters. I landed one interview, but it also ended in rejection—with no feedback.
With 35 years of experience in management and coaching, I know I am qualified. But I fear my age is working against me in an industry where younger professionals dominate the hiring process.
The Urgent Reality—Losing Everything
By December, my situation became critical. If I don’t act fast, I will lose my home and everything in it.
I am terrified. The thought of my daughter and me becoming homeless just as the new year begins is unbearable. That is why I am reaching out now—I have no other option but to ask for help.
How Your Support Will Help
I need €5,807 to cover my outstanding bills and ensure my daughter and I can keep our home.
Here’s how the funds (7k) will be used:
€2,557 – Rent (to prevent eviction)
€250 – Internet (essential for job searching and remote work)
€420 – Other Insurance Costs
€1,200 – Loans from Friends & Family (who have helped me stay alive)
With the remaining €1,900, I plan to start fresh by launching a coaching platform, using my decades of experience to create a sustainable future where I no longer have to rely on outside help.
Will You Help Me Weather This Storm?
I have fought so hard to turn things around—applying for jobs, searching for a cheaper home, and seeking government assistance—but nothing has worked.
I don’t want to lose our home. I don’t want my daughter to experience homelessness. I just need one chance to get back on my feet.
If you can donate, even a small amount, it will make a world of difference. If you can’t donate, please share this campaign to help us reach the support we need.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you for taking the time to read my story. I will be forever grateful for any help you can provide.
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