Idk how to break it to @originalitysquared but we are all gonna end up dead one day? This isn’t the serve you think it is….

Also, I’m talking about risk aware consensual kink where if practiced correctly by two individuals with trust in one another nobody ends up dead? Like???? That’s what a safeword is for? That’s what hand signals and such are for?

Also have you considered my fiance is the most loving person you’ll ever meet in your entire life and I am the one asking him to spank me, slap me, flog me, etc

This wasn’t his idea it was mine! I’m the one who wanted it….

I’m the one who actually controls things when we do stuff like the second I become uncomfortable I speak up and we stop. I like it that’s what I like. I’m trying to teach people the safe way to do this so that nobody gets dragged into a partnership where they have no control. You think I just go into this Willy Nilly with no limits or boundaries?

The point is that I’m trying to tell people who enjoy this stuff that for one your dom should never cross a line and that if they do and don’t apologize that’s wrong and you need to drop them. I’m trying to teach bodily autonomy for subs as we often forget we have a voice. I’m trying to teach doms that it’s ok to be into certain kinks it doesn’t make them a bad person.

And then you come on here and tell me what? That my loving husband is gonna kill me because I like roughed up a bit? Tell me you’re scared of your partner without telling me! To me that tells me you’re afraid of men and rightfully so, but at some point you have to let other people live their lives.

People like you think that because I’m into what I’m into that I support rape, abuse, etc but the truth is I don’t. If someone is doing something that you don’t want that’s wrong and that’s what I’m trying to convey. You can troll all you want but I am trying to setup a space where people can engage in kink safely without the risk of meeting someone genuinely abusive. Also bold of you to assume that when I said dom I was talking about a man??? Like????? Plenty of women are dominant in the bedroom and into stuff like rapeplay and cnc. You just read my post and assumed it was about men because you equate dominance and power with masculinity.

There’s a lot to unpack here but honestly I’m so fed up I basically abandoned this blog because people give me blanket statements like “you’re gonna die one day” and expect me to be terrified or appalled

Maybe if you did some research on the topic and didn’t just read fifty shades you’d know better. Kink isn’t scary and it should be more accepted, I’m not trying to normalize it and make it so it’s out and about everywhere I am just trying to make it less stigmatized. I enjoy being submissive and I enjoy being not only a bottom but a feminine bottom too. That doesn’t mean I think everyone who’s feminine has to bottom and everyone who’s masculine has to top. Just because I enjoy kinky sex doesn’t mean I’m going to make everyone I get with have kinky sex that’s the whole point! If it’s not consensual I won’t do it…

I’ve had sex with vanilla people and I’ve had sex with really kinky people and you know who took advantage of me more? You know who crossed my boundaries and touched me when I didn’t want it? The vanilla people. You know who convinced me to have sex when I didn’t want it? Vanilla people! You know who always asked if I was ok and made sure I was still enjoying things or hadn’t changed my mind? Kinky people! So yeah maybe being choked and slapped around doesn’t sound loving and caring but frankly I’ve been hurt more trying to have vanilla sex than I ever have trying to have kinky sex. Plus I can’t overstate this enough I LIKE PAIN AND I AM A MASOCHIST

PAIN AND PLEASURE RECEPTORS IN THE BRAIN ARE CLOSELY CONNECTED AND MY BRAIN HAPPENS TO GET THEM CONFUSED

I have a nap to take. I'll respond to this later.

When I was stranded in New York and my parents were assholes and refused to leave at a reasonable time and refused to get me food after I’d starved all day long after being up for 32 hours straight….

My fiance ordered a pizza for me all the way from Brazil at five times the cost due to the exchange rate. A ridiculously expensive pizza considering I had essentially called off the engagement and claimed I’d never get on a plane again. You act like you fucking know me calling me a “vulnerable youth” in your tags but you don’t. You don’t know I was in a very abusive relationship before that I ended. Yeah that’s right I fucking ended it. After I was with them I refused to date but my fiance and I fell for each other.

Neither of us wanted a relationship we just fell in love and if you try to tell me I was manipulated or something then you’re beyond reasoning with. This man recently upon me being stressed about making it back to him with no money and no prospects offered me the opportunity to seek someone else. He loves me and knows I love him, he just wants what’s best for me even if it’s not him. He’s gone above and beyond and I’ve NEVER felt this loved before.

Also he’s autistic and doesn’t have the ability to be manipulative. Genuinely when we first chatted he basically told me to fuck off if I was gonna try and small talk with him because he finds it fake. He doesn’t make promises he can’t keep and he doesn’t sugar coat anything ever. Sometimes I wish he would but my point is he doesn’t have a dishonest bone in his body.

You enjoy your nap and when you wake up let’s see if you can butt out of my fucking life unless you’re gonna PayPal me $1000

mgrippin54school@yahoo.com if you wanna do that for me or if any of your deranged followers want to send me money to “save me” from loyal doting fiance

It's an open notes test and some dense motherfuckers still can't figure out the answers.

reminders for today:

we can survive this. we’ve survived before, and we’ll survive again.

It’s in moments like these I’m glad my very specific day to day aesthetic features “pure” looking whites, pinks, and tans as well as pretty cross necklaces and chokers! Very glad to be a person who loves the Bible as a book and owns several bibles for my own safety!

Glad for once that I don’t pass as well as a man as I do a woman and very glad that aligns with my birth sex. Very glad for once I haven’t got any surgery scars to out me, glad I’m semi closeted and only a few people know I’m trans at all irl. What was once sad and seen as paranoid is now becoming an asset.

I told people years ago this is where it was headed and nobody listened but maybe I should have screamed louder. Nonetheless I hope it doesn’t become as bad as it’s sounding, but if it does we have to fight back. We have to do whatever we can and I suggest you start going to libraries or researching online.

Writing shit down in a notebook and keep a physical copy on how to do things. Shit could get really scary but I’m hoping it doesn’t. Remind yourself the world isn’t ending…it just feels that way

For some reason the versions of this where he gives two salutes is being deleted and replaced with a version with a quick cut to a cheering crowd so I’ll just share it here 🙃

Just in case

i watched the livestream of trump signing executive orders and answering questions from the press. here are some of the big ones + other things mentioned today:

sources on what executive orders were signed: one two three

and lastly, some things that happened during the inauguration:

Chubby, Subby, Kinky, and Owned 🔒

⚠️RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) Only⚠️

Hard Limits: Scat, Vomit, and Raceplay

Favorite Kinks: CNC, Cock/Clit/Ball Torture (the more extreme the better), Petplay (Kitten/Puppy/Bunny), Praise/Degradation (No weight shaming), Corruption, Orgasm Control/Denial, Overstimulation, Fauxcest, and Monsterfucking

Preferred Kinks: Breeding, Bondage, DDLG/B, Feminization, Femdom, Maledom, Slavery/Servitude, Spanking/Whipping/Flogging, Painplay, Choking, Piss (Pissing self or being pissed on/in no drinking), Anal, Medical Play, Boots/Domme in high heels, etc

I enjoy chatting but prefer asks please use an emoji or number sequence to identify yourself if you want me to know who you are! Also I can and will answer questions from Subs and discuss my own experience! I like anonymous and deeply personal questions about my Sex Life/Sexuality.

I have a Reddit, Onlyfans (linked), and a Fetlife all under the same name!! However, I’d like my tumblr to be the place I engage with people since it’s easier for me than any other platform!

My nsfw blog tumblr has restricted and won’t let me @ or let anyone search for

Comments about people’s weight are icky 😞

Here’s how to be better!

1. Don’t compare other people’s bodies! Don’t point out differences in size, shape, or skin tone unless you KNOW that person on a much deeper level and you are doing so in a positive light! “WOW look how much bigger your arm is than mine! Bracelets must stay on easier for you!” Or “Your hair is so different from mine I bet you can do some interesting styles with it!”

2. Remember that people who are overweight are aware they are overweight! They own a mirror, they see themselves. I guarantee you there isn’t a single fat person on the planet who is delusional enough to think they are skinny! So STOP REMINDING FAT PEOPLE THEY ARE FAT!!!

3. Do not make jokes about someone’s appearance or habits unless you know them personally and know they themselves make these jokes! Actually it’s best not to joke on a personal level with anyone you don’t know as that’s rude! Joke about something else! If you can’t…maybe you aren’t that funny 🤷🏼

4. Remember! If someone isn’t asking for advice or feedback…don’t give it to them!! Unless someone asks you how to lose weight, clear skin, or improve their looks DONT GIVE THEM ADVICE

5. The most important thing to remember is to NEVER judge a book or a person by its cover! That fat person has actually worked really hard to overcome an eating disorder, that other fat person has a medical condition that makes it hard for them to lose weight! That girl with the pale skin that’s overly thin, she just got diagnosed with cancer! That person that looks different than you or shows support for things you don’t like…isn’t a threat. That guy with the green Mohawk just thinks it’s looks cool, he’s not gonna hold you down and do your hair the same! That girl carrying a plushie around is minding her business, she’s not gonna beat you to death with it! If someone isn’t doing something you don’t like irl on online you can take a moment and go “that’s not for me” or “that’s gross” and simply go on with the rest of your day!

It costs nothing to be kind. It costs nothing to keep your judgements to yourself. Someone who looks different knows they look different, please just respect their space and their working eyes! If they don’t have working eyes respect that too! The point is…you never know someone until they open up to you. Also, not everyone deserves your kindness! Just be kind to everyone until they give you a valid reason not to be! Ask yourself “Is this person invading my personal space?” If they aren’t…leave them alone! “Is this person actively hurting someone?” If the answer is no…move on!

Watch me get hate for telling people to be kind smh

a knotted strap can be so useful. for example:

when you've got me digging my nails into your back, panting and whining and stretched around your knot. when i'm totally exhausted and full of your cum. when i give you that blissed out smile which means thank you, thank you so much that was amazing—

that's when you start to move again, grinding the knot against everywhere that's so so sensitive, making my breath hitch & my brain go blank. that's when i see the syringe is full again, and i realise what you've done.

"you can take just a liiiittle bit more, baby. yes you can, that's right. good girl."

✨Knot Me✨

I need him to stop giving me earth shattering orgasms while he's literally in another state. It defies physics. I can feel him holding my hips down and using his hands on me. I can feel him biting my neck and whispering in my ear. How does he do that.

Wait? You do this too???

@behindthunders

My Alpha and I have this bond which is VERY long distance! They are in Brazil and I’m in the US! They can bond touch me and do exactly that!!

The idea that trans women are just like, cosplaying women or something for some ulterior motive is so utterly absurd to me, especially when I consider what I and so many other trans women value most in our transitions, which really is the mundane. I don’t just “pretend” to be a woman in public, I am a woman always, and it’s at home when I am just doing the same things I have always done that I feel most fulfilled in my transition, like cooking dinner or lounging in my pyjamas or doing homework. I did not transition for some supposed social advantage but because my coffee tastes sweeter through the lips of the woman I am than the man I tried to be.

If a “”man”” wanted to rape a woman in a woman’s space he wouldn’t need a dress to do it