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Your Friendly Neighbourhood Playful Sadist Tickler

@aussietummytickler

Ahoy-hoy. 30, he/him/his, single, Melbourne/Aus, Demi/Grey ace, soft dom & playful sadist, midriff/hips/bellybutton fan, 110% Ler, massive cuddlebug, teasy tormentor, sassy back-talker, brat enthusiast. 90% SFW but sometimes NSFW, so minors/no age in bio DNI or follow please.
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About time I made one of these.

So a bit about me/my blog for clarification.

I used to be solely SFW, but I'd say about 5-10% of the stuff I'll be posting will have some NSFW elements to it. So if you're a solely SFW blog and prefer to follow solely SFW blogs, I understand if you choose to unfollow, as I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable. Just that as I've gotten more and more comfortable in my own sexuality, I'm learning more and more about what I love, especially within the tickling/kink community in general. My orientation is definitely reflective of that. Grey ace for me personally means that I am not sex repulsed, and there are certain things that flirt with the edge of my ace side that make me come out of that shell a little bit. Demi is self-explanatory, nothing to elaborate on that.

I used to go by the name affectionatetickler on here before I deleted that roughly around the first half of 2020.

Alongside tickling, midriffs in general are a kink of mine, hence 3 of the 4 tickle spots I love being that area. Though recently I definitely discovered I do also have a bit of a weakness for the feet too.

Whilst general messages and tickle messages are open to anyone, please do not message me straight off the bat talking about tickling. I am a human first and foremost, please treat me as such, as I am not a vessel for your pleasure. Please do not ask me where I'd tickle you or if I would tickle you as the first thing messaging me. Again, please take the time to get to know me first. I want to make friends here, I don't want me as a Ler to be fetishised in favour of becoming friends first and foremost. Doesn't matter what I post, that does not give you the right to be thirsty in my DMs. Keep it respectful please.

I am solely a Ler. Please do not ask me to switch for you. That is not who I am, and I am not comfortable with that. The most I could assuade to any sort of switchness is enjoying tickle fights, but that's more out of a sense of playfulness and wanting the other person to enjoy that experience too, not so much that I'm a switch. Please keep that in mind. Do not push about it.

When it comes to tickle asks/DMs and teases, I will say in advance, because of bad experiences in the past, I will come off as a broken record in always wanting to make sure the other person is comfortable or consenting in regards to tickling related/tease related things. I've had my boundaries crossed multiple times, and when I was younger my awareness/self-awareness wasn't as acute as it is now, which led to misunderstandings that caused discomfort. So that I do not allow such uncomfortabilities to happen to myself or others, I will often emphasize consent even in regards to written teases. It may seem odd or overly compensating, but I would rather that than make anyone feel uncomfortable, even accidentally. Never hurts to play it safe, and to be respectful of others.

All of this said, I'm always open to making new friends in the community, just please be respectful and remember I'm a human first, Ler second. If you would not want to be treated as an object or vessel for ticklish desires first thing in your DMs, then I ask that you respect me enough to do the same. That said, my inbox is open to anyone who would like to start a conversation. I look forward to getting to know you all more 💙

Edit: Am 30, not 28, also, for any newcomers who want to message, to prove you've read this all the way through, just message "Hi Cal" so I can tell you've read to the bottom of this post :P

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Vale, The Prince of Darkness, Ozzy Osbourne.

He gave everything in that final performance in Birmingham, and died less than 3 weeks later.

He gave us everything. He had such a troubled history with drugs I'm amazed he even survived to this point.

The music he's given us will remain forever etched in the annals of heavy metal history.

Vale, Ozzy Osbourne.

Vale, The Prince of Darkness.

Gonna spin some Sabbath today to mourn the greatest musical loss in the history of heavy metal.

Up the horns. \m/

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Shoutout to the spread out

Making a shoutout post for those in the tk community who are spread far and wide.

Who haven't been able to have a session, whether because they're too shy or nervous to, or because they don't have the luxury or luck to be born in a place populated with people in the community.

Who don't get tagged in posts because they're not in a place where they get to interact regularly with the community, especially in IRL situations.

Who are too shy to even interact and are happy to just browse posts and content made/shared in the community.

Who aren't "popular" creators/users (honestly the fact that there's even a popularity contest in this community where people feel this narcissistic need to climb the social ladder is just bloody ridiculous).

Who love and appreciate this community from afar and the people they've met, even when those people are countries or even continents away.

You are seen, you are important, you are loved.

Don't let all these posts with people getting involved in all these activities and tagged in all these posts make you feel left out.

You are just as important and integral to this community, and don't let anyone ever make you feel otherwise.

On a more personal note too, so many friends I've made here are so far away, so spread out, but not situated in areas populated with people in the community, but the love I have for them is not defined by whether they are in a place that has a decent population of the tk community, or how popular they are, but because they are *good people*. They are my friends. People I care about and love. It wouldn't matter to me if they were in the same country or not. It wouldn't matter to me if we even interacted much or not. Every single friend I have made here is important to me, and important to the community, because *they are part of the community*.

All the love to all my friends in the community, far and wide, whether in populated areas of the community or not, this goes out to those who feel a little more isolated or far away, those who are shy to interact, those who are just happy to admire and adore the good things within this community from afar. I'm so happy you exist, as many others are too. ❤️

#tickle community#tickling community#tk community#tickle kink#tickling#tickles
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Current view from my hostel in Bergen.

Norway. You have my heart.

Feel like if Binary Sunset started playing I'd cry.

The most beautiful country I've ever visited. 💙

#personal
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Wholesome little moments.

If you're the type of person:

- Who loves pointing out pretty birds to people

- Who waves at trains as they pass by

- Who texts "Message me when you get home safe!"

- Who squeezes someone's hand tighter when they're going through difficult moments

- Who takes a little longer on walks because they love looking at pretty flowers or takes a little more time admiring the view

- Who isn't afraid to stop and smell the flowers.

- Who gets unabashedly excited and enthusiastic in their expressions for their passions

- Whose eyes light up when your favourite topic/subject/hobby/passion comes up and you become jubilant and barely able to hold back smiling in conversation over it

- Who exhibits golden retriever energy in general, over absolutely anything at all, no matter how big or small.

- Who isn't afraid to cry happy tears over things that being them joy, no matter how big or small.

- Who gets excited when they find a cool rock, shell, bird feather, just lying on the ground, but considers it a lil trinket.

- Who also gets happy whenever a friend or partner gives them said lil trinkets.

- Who has a lil memory box for such trinkets.

- Who gets sentimental over trinkets, small gestures, like when someone gives you your favourite snack, or got you something because "This made me think of you."

- Who do exactly the same as above on the giving end.

- Who just points and says "cows" when passing a field of cows just cos they're excited to see cows for absolutely no reason at all.

If you embody any of those, I love you, I see you, and you're the kind of person I wanna connect with more. 💙

#personal#wholesome#positive masculinity#healthy masculinity
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a not gentle at all reminder that if you make fun of people's bodies for any reasons i want you out of my blog and far away from me xx

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Yep. No matter how much of a cunt someone is, if you refer to making fun of their bodies, then I do not trust you. There are so many other ways to call out someone on shitty behaviour and so many other things you can call them, but if you make fun of their bodies, then you're also telling your friends who may have their own body issues that it's perfectly okay to make fun of that.

If you're one of those people. Fuck you, get the fuck off of my blog, and get the fuck out of my life.

Nothing but support your way Soup. 💙

#personal
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Okay so like, a problem I have in this community is backstabbing and lying. I see it more and more every single day. For example! I was tagged in a post with someone. I clicked their profile and boom. Nothing came up. Asked a friend to see if they blocked me and sure enough they did. Female too. I’ve never interacted with this person in my life. I asked around for people to see why this happened because I never want to make bad with anyone and if someone has a problem with me, I like to address it and either apologize if I indirectly hurt them, or explain my side of a situation. Call it the people pleaser in me, but honestly? I just don’t want anyone to think I hurt them on purpose if they were that mad to block me. I don’t start trouble here. So after proving they had blocked me to someone defending them, she finally unblocked me and admitted that she had. She lied about the reason, but I knew what it was about. It was incredibly obvious. She said she thought I was a bot, but anyone who knows me on here knows I’m very much not bot like in any way. None of my content is. It was about her not liking an interaction between me and someone else here. She didn’t like that I called bullshit on her reasoning. So I told her I don’t associate with people who lie right to my face and blocked her. I won’t hesitate to rid myself of people who go out of their way to be nasty to me or vindictive. It’s not right. So. From this point on, if I catch a vibe from you that you’re only out to be nasty, you’re done. And I will call shitty behavior out. There are two sides to every story, and I will not hesitate to share mine because I have the literal receipts. So if you wanna message me and get knowledge on a known problem in the community, let me know because I’m not afraid to call them out. After that interaction and the lies fed to me and others, I will not hesitate to clear my name. Because I don’t play like that. If I block you, there’s a strong reason because my blocked list is 3 people from this community and blank bios. Be a good person, it doesn’t fucking cost a thing 👍🏻

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Right on. Had someone in the community block me with whom I've had no personal interaction with, I've had reblogs of theirs shared with me but when I go to view it I'm unable to. Asked a friend to check if I have indeed been blocked and they can see their profile, sure enough they could, and I had been. Props to Lux for asking around about why this happened, but for me if people are only going to see one side of a story without hearing the other side out, and without even knowing the context or reasoning behind said blocking, then to me they're just not worth the effort, because they've already made up their minds over something involving me that... I don't even know about? Because I've literally never interacted with them before? Sure I'd like to be able to address if I've indirectly hurt them or explain my side of a situation but people who just block based off... Other people's opinions? Rather than try and get the full context and only just hearing one side and not even bothering to hear the other side out? Like nah mate, I'm done with people pleasing. If people want answers or context, ask. Of course if I've indirectly hurt someone I'll want to apologise, of course I'd like to rectify a situation with someone if they've seen one side of said situation but missed it from the context of the other. People are too quick to judge based off of barely anything at all, and it's very much becoming a growing problem in this community. Talk it out like adults, if you have a problem where I've caused unintentional hurt, point it out to me! I *want* to rectify situations like that, I *want* to resolve things peacefully and with the understanding of context that's needed. But if you're going to go off of baseless assumptions and lies, I ain't hesitant to clear the air and clear my name. Do not lie to me or I will call your bullshit out and block you.

Power to you Lux. Keep fighting the good fight.

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CHECK. IN. ON. YOUR. PEOPLE.

i’m serious. send a text. send a voice note. pop in with a little “thinking of you” or “you crossed my mind.” be the person who stays. a friend. that cares. that is kind. that shows up even when it’s hard. it matters to them. i promise.

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This is why, even if it might annoy people sometimes, I check in on peeps. You *never* know what someone's going through. If you think you do, you don't. Some people will *never* speak a word to *anyone* about what they're going through. Doesn't matter how good of a friend you are to them, doesn't matter how close you are to them, there will always be stuff they keep to themselves. The Japanese have a saying for this I think. Paraphrasing here.

"People have three masks. The first they show to the world. The second they show to their closest friends. The third they only show to themselves. It is the truest reflection of who they are."

No one knows what is etched on that third mask.

No one knows what level of mental suffering one is going through at any point in time.

Be kind. Check up on your friends.

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Short little notice! This guy and I had one full conversation, and I wasn’t able to respond over the past couple of days because I’ve had some personal things go on. Anyway, that lead to an absolutely meltdown on his behalf.

I absolutely continued to ragebait him for a bit after the cut with job applications just to get it out of my system. Anyway, he went on to make remarks about how my dad and uncle must have molested me as a child and all of the regular incel stuff. Just want y’all to be aware of his face and username.

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He dm’d me once and i just blocked him for having an ageless and empty bio at the time

man’s clearly insanely delusional. doesn’t deserve the time of day from anyone.

I can’t imagine even most conservative women would find him cute.

Sorry to anyone this man spoke too.

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Good god not THIS guy again 🙃

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Breaking news, this guy’s a pedophile. He goes by Jared Genesis or Jared Juggernaut on both YT and Tik Tok, and was involved in quite the predicament because he gave a lengthy speech- which can still be found on YT (and I’m more than happy to provide the link should anyone have any trouble finding it)- about how he’s more than okay with “connecting” with 12-14 year olds on a “spiritual level”.

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Since this post has traction, I’m using it to signal boost and let you all know I have uploaded the video to my account. It is disturbing, but I want as much personal information publicly available about this guy as I possibly can find. This man does not deserve privacy, he does not deserve respect. I am not telling you to engage with him or harass him as that will probably only fuel him in some way. I’m also not here to discourage you from practicing your constitutional right to the 1st amendment on the weekend of July 4th. Celebrate your freedom. Tell a pedophile to die.

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Sharing because filthy cunts like this need to be named and shamed out of the community. Typical basement-dwelling incel type. Worse yet, a pedo.

Doing my part and sharing around to help make sure others avoid this twatwaffle like the plague.

Be safe out there everyone.

Edit: To the surprise of ABSOLUTELY NO ONE, this guy is a Trump voter and racist/xenophobe/conspiracy theorist nutjob.

Just another Trumptard getting exactly what he deserves. Hope he doesn't need healthcare.

The Pedocon theory continues to prove itself.

Trump voters and pedos go hand in hand.

🎶Every conservative accusation is a confession🎶

Way to "oWn thEm LiBtArDs~!"

What a moron.

#signal boost
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