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ambrose :^)
mid twenties | they | uk

sorry if this is controversial but if youโ€™re rude to cashiers i think you should. idk. Explode

the lack of patience and overwhelming sense of entitlementโ€ฆ.. Start pointing at fellow customers and loudly asking โ€œwhy are you acting like that?โ€ letโ€™s all hold hands and do this. together

character playlist that has directors commentary between songs where i take time to explain the significance of each song before it plays to the characters' story/personality or whether i just added the song bases on vague vibes

writetothem.com

i know you won't do this without a script so here's a couple of suggestions to include in your email:

Dear [Name],

I'm writing to you about the recent Supreme Court Ruling which declares that trans women do not meet the legal definition of woman, and that "woman" is legally a "biological woman", but which does not explain what "biological woman" entails.

As a [cis woman, this ruling leaves me less safe, emboldens violent bigots to potentially assault me because of physical features which do not meet their definition of womanhood, and places my transgender friends/family at even higher risk]/ [cis man, this ruling leaves my female friends both cis and trans less safe than they were previously]/ [trans person, this now leaves me at risk of assault every time I attempt to partake in normal public life such as shopping, eating in a restaurant, or going to work].

It is not based in science, and it is noteworthy to me that no transgender people were allowed to give evidence in support of their own legal identities. It aligns the UK not with the forerunners in human rights but with regressive regimes which our Governments, past and present, have rightfully denounced.

I am writing to you today to say that this ruling is politically motivated, prejudiced, and liable to fall in the European Court of Human Rights where it is almost certainly to be taken next, and to ask you to consider refusing to support any further attempts to exclude trans women from public life and basic human rights.

Regards

[NAME]

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iโ€™m okay with change and iโ€™m fine if things are no longer the same i embrace change

โ€œTo try to not be more interesting but be more interestedโ€ literally changed my life perspective btw

To do things not for the sake of coming off a certain way or fitting a certain aesthetic or to grab pplโ€™s attention more โ€ฆ. But to simply do them bc youโ€™re curious and invested and would do them regardless of whether anyone was perceiving you or not โ€ฆ. That is literally the point

Iโ€™m genuinely understating how important this lesson has been for me bc we literally live in a world thatโ€™s all about aesthetics and branding and how to package urself even if youโ€™re not even an influencerโ€ฆ dating tips that advise you to โ€œfocus on yourselfโ€ โ€œtake on more hobbies to have something to talk about and be interestingโ€ like what if you just did those things bc you want to โ€ฆ. for the whimsy โ€ฆ.. bc we have one life โ€ฆ.. and then the rest just naturally follows . What if being interesting does not presuppose the interest. What if that sabotages it actually . What if the only actual way to be interesting and to evoke something in ppl and to capture their interest is by doing things bc you truly love them and for no other purpose

hey! donate to uk trans charities today because itโ€™s gonna be a rough one

Folks in the UK, could we have some trusted links to charities?

There's Mermaids which is always a great option, and then Scotland-specific there's LGBT Youth Scotland, to give you just a couple. There will absolutely be more that other people can suggest though!

switchboard.lgbt and akt.org.uk are two i regularly support, and thereโ€™s always stonewall !

trans aid cymru is a mutual aid group rather than a charity but ill always shout them out for wales specific trans community support! they have a donation page here

OCs are so fun and I think its awesome that even people who don't plan to publish a story or draw that well will have them. Its just good for you to have toys in your brain to play with.

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