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Anonymous asked:
Any advice for dealing with the passive agressive energy that comes with being mysterious and bougie? I've been on a level up journey for a year and a half now and I'm starting to notice people treat me differently. I locked in and saved money to afford my dream car and other things as well. I didn't tell anyone because it's no ones business. One day, my friends scheduled a get together and when one of them saw my car the first thing she said was "You get to keep that?". At first I just brushed it off as her being...her. Then we met up another time and I had a function to attend afterward. That same friend asked "Do the people you hang out with dress like that too?". All I had on was a fitted jean jacket, fitted top, and black jeans with baby heels! She has known me for a long time so it caught me off guard when she said that to me. Being well put together is second nature to me. I just never paid attention to it until now where it's something my close friends point out in a passive aggressive way. Whether it's my hair, the things I obtain, maintaining a healthy body, or my choice to be private about things... that weird energy comes out everytime. I'm frustrated and don't know how to deal with this since we've been friends for so long. It makes me dread our monthly girl's day because I know one of them is going to have something unnecessary to say. Sorry for the rant.
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Anonymous asked:
Could you talk about aging anxiety on your podcast? I’m only 25 but I feel like there’s so much I should have done by now. I’ve only had one boyfriend in my life but I feel like I should be married or have my own place or something! I’m still at home barely finishing up school.
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Anonymous asked:
What are your glow up tips? Any websites to help?
great question! I’d say organisation & planning is key. to reach your full potential you need to detail what particular parts of your life you want a glow up in.
As a starting point I’d recommend getting a journal and writing down your goals.
In terms of appearance I like to sechedule a day in my week dedicated to self care. e.g skincare, nails, hair, bodycare.
I’m more of a YouTube girl however when I think of glow up websites/blogs @babyphat05 ‘s sheissobougie comes to mind. ✨
hope that helps
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would ya'll be interested in a Discord group chat where we speak on all things leveling up (beauty treatments, career advice, changing your life around, etc., etc.,)? I find myself not being interested in Tumblr as much as I was and think having a public group chat would be a good way to stay connected since I don't intend on using any other social media platforms. Lmk!
Anonymous asked:
what are some hobbies you have lined up for the summer? I need inspo
I'm curating my summer to be as eventful as possible lol.
- I'm training for a 5k race. In preparation, I'm setting running goals every week. I'm a super beginner so I'm looking into joining a running group this summer to keep me motivated.
- I'm taking my ballet hobby up a notch. I've been back into ballet for a year now and want to start challenging myself now that I've familiarized myself with everything. There are some masterclasses at Alvin Ailey that I really want to take.
- I'm challenging myself to read 10 books by the end of August/beginning of September. I curated a summer reading list so we'll see if I get through it all to keep me on track with my yearly reading goals lol
- I'm taking in-person French classes. I can not for the life of me learn French by myself. These classes are only once a week, but I highly believe that physically going to these classes, and having a set module that I have to follow on top of being consistent with Duolingo will help me get the basics down pact by August.
- I'm pushing myself to be outside this summer. Not in a 'clubs and bars' sense but outside in a 'day parties, networking events, Sunday farmers market, live music, trying new restaurants' way. I think everyone should take advantage of the nice weather and not be in the house 24/7 this summer. I do a lot of activities solo, and it's so much fun to keep this momentum going by planning activities that I can have fun doing by myself.
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would ya'll be interested in a Discord group chat where we speak on all things leveling up (beauty treatments, career advice, changing your life around, etc., etc.,)? I find myself not being interested in Tumblr as much as I was and think having a public group chat would be a good way to stay connected since I don't intend on using any other social media platforms. Lmk!
would ya'll be interested in a Discord group chat where we speak on all things leveling up (beauty treatments, career advice, changing your life around, etc., etc.,)? I find myself not being interested in Tumblr as much as I was and think having a public group chat would be a good way to stay connected since I don't intend on using any other social media platforms. Lmk!