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READ BIO! Good Morning, lovely! ๐Ÿ’›

@bear-momma

This blog is for anyone looking for a positive motherly figure. This blog is safe for age regressors, dreamers, and system Littles. I DO NOT CONSENT TO K!NK INTERACTION. Please DNI if you participate in or reblog dd/lg or variants, age/play, ab/dl or variants ๐Ÿ’› Hello! I'm bear. I'm 25 years old. I created this blog to hopefully bring comfort to those around me. You're welcome to call me whatever you like, from mom to dad to brother to sister, I won't mind ๐Ÿ’› I am not interested in being a carer on a one-on-one basis.
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Woah, this is an impressive fort you've put together. Are those the cushions from the couch...? Oh, it's not a fort? What is it, then?

Ohhh, this is your nest! I see, you've got lots of comfy blankets all scrunched up to make the walls higher. How clever! I know a couple different animals that make nests, which one are you tonight?

I'll stay nearby in case you need anything, but I know you built a nest for safety, so I'll only check in when I have to. That way you'll still feel safe behind those walls ^-^ If you need anything at all, I'll be sitting right over here, okay?

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I know you've been really struggling lately, so I wanted to let you know that I'm very, very proud of you. You're doing a great job, sweetie ๐Ÿ’›

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You're up early, what's the matter? Another nightmare? Poor thing, come here.

You're okay hun, you're awake now, it can't hurt you. I know it was scary, I'm so sorry you keep having these bad dreams. Is there anything I can do to help you feel better?

You don't have to go back to bed if you don't want to, sweetheart. Let's get you set up with some cartoons while I get ready for work.

Anonymous asked:

HI one of our system littles has a HUGE special interest in bears and I can't wait to show him this blog :((( /pos

Aww, that's so super sweet!!

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You don't need to fit into anyone's aesthetic. You don't have to pick between one color or another. You are allowed to enjoy things for what they are without worrying that it makes you "less than" anyone else. You are allowed to love things ๐Ÿ’›

On days when you're overwhelmed and everything feels like it's too much,ย  it's okay to take a step back and take care of yourself. Here's how I do it!

โ–ช๏ธŽBreak down your to-do list into smaller tasks. If you have ten things to do, split the list in half, then pick one or two that will be easy to complete. Sometimes when I feel stressed about everything I need to do, it helps to start small! Even if you only get half a task done before you need a break, it will make the list shorter overall!

โ–ช๏ธŽTake a shower/bath. Getting clean and dressing in clean clothes after helps reset our brain, which can help us calm down when our brains are too loud.

โ–ช๏ธŽ Turn off social media for a day. I cheat sometimes and still watch YouTube during the break, but if your feeds are stressing you out there is no shame in turning them off for a day! I promise you'll feel better without the constant negative posts.

โ–ช๏ธŽ Talk to someone you trust. If you need a distraction, text a friend or loved one. It's easy to feel isolated when overwhelmed, but you are never alone ๐Ÿ’›

โ–ช๏ธŽ Take a deep breath and sit outside for five minutes. It's easy to spiral when our circumstances are out of our control. During these times, it helps me to take one, deep breath, then sit outside in nature for a bit. It's almost like meditation, watching the grass move in the wind, or following an insect in flight. Sitting and remembering that the nature around us, what we see and feel, is real.

We're going to be okay ๐Ÿ’›

Sometimes we feel ourselves slipping when can't help it, and that's okay! But if you ever need to ground yourself to stop regressing, try this!

Count your fingers one by one. Start with a closed fist and slowly add each finger until you have all ten showing. Repeat to yourself (out loud or in your head) details about your location. For example, "my name is ______, I am in a small room with gray walls, the air is cold." Try to mention all of your senses, what can you smell? Is there any noise? Take a sip of a drink if you have one, what does it taste like?

There are lots of grounding techniques you can utilize when you feel disassociated or on the brink of unwanted regression, but this one has worked best for me so far!

There are some scary things happening here in America right now, and it's okay to feel afraid of what's to come. It feels isolating seeing the numbers. But you will not be alone through this, you will not have to fight by yourself. Find your friends and stay close to them. Find the people you feel safe with. Take some time off of social media to care for yourself if you need to. Please remember that you are not alone ๐Ÿ’›

Anonymous asked:

Hello!! I self ship with a bear character and more often than not the characters I self ship with end up also being my mom cgs, I find it a lil difficult for me to imagine her as a cg. Ypur blog really really helps me ease into it!! :3

Awwww! I'm so happy to hear that! ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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I know you've been really struggling lately, so I wanted to let you know that I'm very, very proud of you. You're doing a great job, sweetie ๐Ÿ’›

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if you did make a caregiver guide it would be really helpful! ive just found a caregiver but theyre new and i havent been able to find many good posts about it to send to them :(

I'll definitely start working on one, then!! ^-^

Hey. I'm sorry for venting, After receiving a hate message about my age regression blog from a (now ex) friend's friend, Iโ€™ve been trying to avoid regressing emotionally and Iโ€™ve ended up returning to my unhealthy coping mechanisms. it's very sad because all I wanted was a healthy coping mechanism for myself, I didn't know that it would affect them so badly.

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I'm so sorry that's happened, it can be so disheartening to recieve those messages, especially from someone you know. It's not your fault. You are not responsible for their response, and you shouldn't feel responsible for the way a healthy coping mechanism affected them. I hope you're able to regress again soon ๐Ÿ’›

I need advice please!!! From a cg point of view/a more adult adult please and thank you!!!

So I more regularly use twitter and the app called tellonym for agere stuff, and they are linked together. Well!! On tellonym, you can ask people questions anonymously like on here! But, I need advice because Iโ€™ve had someone, out of the blue, start asking questions and using cg talk with me, and at first I was like โ€œis someone trying to babysit me rn?โ€ Which has happened before, but now they have told me they want to be my cg and then some, but I still donโ€™t know who they are, anything about them, nothing. Not even a dm? And I didnโ€™t say yes! Because I was confused and kinda flustered? But now Iโ€™m anxious because idk who they are or anything and idk if it was smart to not say yesโ€ฆ (preface, I donโ€™t have any personal info on either account so I donโ€™t think they actually know who I am fr fr like irl so I donโ€™t feel thaaaat unsafeโ€ฆ but my anxiety isnโ€™t niceโ€ฆ)

Was that the smart answer? In your opinion?? Sorry!

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It is always better to be safe. If your gut said something wasn't right, that's the only justification you need to turn them down! It's possible the person did not have any ill intent, but if you were uncomfortable with the interaction then it doesn't matter. A stranger pushing to be your cg "and more" on an anonymous platform does not sound like a safe way to find a cg. You made the right choice /gen

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