Best You University

You are not behind in life.

There’s no timetable that we all must follow.

It’s made up.

7 billion people can’t do everything in the same order.

What’s early? What’s late? Compared to who?

Don’t beat yourself up for where you are. It’s YOUR schedule and everything is right on time.

Forgiveness does not require reconnection. Let them go and enjoy your peace.

You have to force yourself to get up early, you have to take care of your responsibilities, you have to be honest with yourself, and you have to evaluate your priorities. Nobody is going to do it for you. These are your goals and your dreams. Everything you want starts and ends with you.

Healing also means taking an honest look at the role you play in your own suffering.

You have to trust who you are becoming. You are not the same person you were a year ago. Allow yourself to continue to grow and evolve. Your strengths will become even stronger, your soul even more beautiful. You are magic.

Stop accepting what you’re really not okay with. You’re draining yourself.

Don’t rely on somebody else for your happiness. If they leave, you’ll be left with nothing.

Don’t ever give anybody enough power over you to bring back the triggered, unhealed version of you when you’ve worked so hard to become better than that.

There are people reading this who survived not just childhood, but large chunks of their lives by focusing almost exclusively on other peoples wants and needs.

And who now, are virtual strangers to their OWN wants and needs.

It’s time to get to know yourself.

Of course you aren’t going to fit in. You’re living from the heart in a world filled with people who have forgotten they even have one.

Nobody knows your worth more than you.

Just being you is the flex.

If they get you to the point where you consider destroying yourself to prove your love,

You run.

You run and you don’t ever look back.

Learn to say; that’s on you.

Your behavior is on you.

The way you move is on you.

The choices you make are all on you.

Stop absorbing the pain of other people,

Recognize what belongs to you and what doesn’t.

Please don’t spend the rest of your days punishing yourself just because someone who couldn’t see your value made you doubt your worth.

Never beg for a seat when you can build your own table.

Same ones doubting you will ask you how you did it.