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did you ever hear about the girl who got frozen

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lizzie, they/she?/ queer | 24 | i've had the same blog since 2013 so don't scroll too far | I made a spn sideblog it's @brothersandcardinals

its so scary to put yourself out there but a SINGLE message saying "hi i loved what you made it touched me in some way" makes it all worth it 10000%

daily reminder that if you like something someone made tell! them! tell them tell them tell them TELL THEM

Either we finish them or they'll ย  ย  ย  ย  ย finish us! It's the only way we'll ย  ย  ย  ย  ย be rid of them! If we find the ย  ย  ย  ย  ย nest and destroy it, the dragons ย  ย  ย  ย  ย  will leave. They'll find another ย  ย  ย  ย  ย home.

Itโ€™s crazy and fucked up that being yourself is actually the solution.

Itโ€™s like. When I was told to โ€œjust be yourselfโ€ as a kid I thought it was a passive thing. Like oh easy I just have to sit here and be myself. but the reason so many people think that โ€œbeing yourselfโ€ is bullshit advice is because you actually have to make active choices to do this and it WILL make your life way more fun. You have to wear t-shirts of bands that were popular ten years ago because you like them. You have to do your hair in a way that you find cute or comfortable even if itโ€™s โ€œso ninetiesโ€. If your friend says a food you enjoy is gross to them, you canโ€™t be afraid to admit you casually disagree. You have to do hobbies that youโ€™re interested in even if youโ€™re bad at them and you cant feel like you have to get good at something before you tell people itโ€™s an activity you do. You have to read manga and comic books in public and get piercings your relatives think are unattractive. You donโ€™t have to tell people you dislike that you dislike them, but you donโ€™t have to give them your time and attention either. You have to rewatch that kids show youโ€™re nostalgic for even if youโ€™re in your 30s. You have to change your name if you hate it, even if only a few close friends can know. You have to get fun girly drinks at the bar. You have to order hot chocolate when you donโ€™t like coffee and black coffee when you donโ€™t like sweet things. I am still bad at practicing this but it is the only way to make it all tolerable.

First you have to realize that "yourself" is a construct built by the decisions you make. Then it becomes clear that being yourself is a deliberate and intentional practice, not a passive state of existence.

As a former librarian I'm actually required to remind you that many libraries that subscribe to Libby are opted into a program that lets you subscribe and access magazines for free with no wait

And that this is actually a really fun, low cost way to not only access news and larger cultural magazines, but also to get free patterns for many different crafts that you can screenshot if need be and that lower the financial barriers to entry for trying new things

From my experience working in both academic and public libraries, many libraries are use it or lose it funding-- I have to say this because a lot of patrons feel guilty for how much they use the library and how often they're using it funny enough, but the worst thing you can do for libraries is not try out new features and not use what's already given to you as much as possible.

The numbers that come as a result of your patronage are how most libraries justify their continued existence in times of financial hardship, which sucks but, go check out some magazines on Libby!

can you believe it's been fifteen years since the original httyd movie came out? I can't. whuhhh...

well. decided to draw something for it, as well as trying out some new brushes

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